CHURCH of the GOOD SHEPHERD COX GREEN NEWSLETTER November 2012 Pastoral Office: Tel: 01628 632567 www.chogs.org.uk email: goodshepherd@chogs.plus. com Vicar: The Revd Joan Hicks Tel 622139 Churchwardens: Rob Winlo 22 Culley Way Tel 822513 Our grateful thanks to Barbara Barker for contributing this piece for our newsletter this month. A SOLDIER’S TALE Edward Irving was working at Lord Astor’s racehorse breeding stud at Cliveden when war was declared in 1914. He promptly enlisted in the Royal Berkshire Regiment but was sent home as he was too young. He tried again and was accepted, trained and sent to France. He and his comrades rode into an ambush and the Officer who was leading them was cut down. Some of the men survived but Trooper Irving rode back under fire and brought his officer back to safety. He was awarded the Military Medal for this. Joan Black 40 Loosen Drive Tel 823573 He also later volunteered to take some much needed supplies up to the front line, and with his horse carrying them set off up the communications trench to the men. He duly arrived, but with a piece of shrapnel in the back of his neck and the horse with only half a mane, caused by a shell whizzing too close over the trench. ‘Bit too near’, he said afterwards. PCC Secretary Kath Winlo 22 Culley Way Tel 822513 He was also sent to England to pick up some horses for his Captain in 1916. There was a terrible blizzard and the railway wagon with the horses and, of course, Trooper Irving, was shunted into a siding at High Wycombe railway yard. Treasurer: Fred Hopper 50 Loosen Drive Tel 823259 Three days later when traffic on rail was moving again the wagon was opened. The horses were alright but Trooper Irving was frozen, pronounced dead and taken to Cliveden Hospital Mortuary. Some while later one of the staff realised that they had not moved his identification and duly went to get it. He thought that perhaps life was not entirely extinct and Trooper Irving was taken to a ward and thawed out. He later discharged himself, collected his horses, and was back in France three weeks later. He was awarded two Mentions in Dispatches before the end of the war in spite of being gassed and was discharged in 1919. Lay Chairman: Roger Crick 19 Mercia Road cont’d He returned to Cliveden, helping to deliver all the foals before retiring at the age of 70, having been there for 53 years. He died at the age of 81 respected and loved by his wife and family. As a footnote, he was one of six brothers who all served in different regiments; all saw heavy fighting and all came home again. A very unusual event. Queen Mary sent their mother a Certificate of Congratulations for the safe return of them all. (Edward Irving was Barbara’s father). REMEMBRANCE SUNDAY – 11th November Please join us for our 10 am Eucharist on Remembrance Sunday. There will be a special Act of Remembrance at 11 o’clock. Christian Aid Representative. Unfortunately we have had no response to the item in September’s newsletter so the following is printed again in the hope that someone will consider taking on the role. If no one comes forward, it will be the first time our Church has not had a representative in Maidenhead and also mean there would be no house to house collection in Cox Green. Kath Winlo has been our representative on the Maidenhead Christian Aid Committee for longer than she cares to remember. Due to other Church and family commitments, she is no longer able to continue and a replacement is urgently needed. There are no meetings to attend but you will receive regular magazines and letters from Christian Aid to keep our congregation informed. The main work takes place during the annual Christian Aid Week, usually in the second or third week of May, when the house to house collection is arranged. A list of “rounds “ for collection is kept in a file in the Pastoral Office and it is the representative’s job, with the help of the Charities Group, to co-ordinate the collection and then, again with a number of helpers, count the cash after the Week is over. Please let Kath or the vicar know if you can fulfil this role. GENERAL SYNOD MEETING Please keep all members of General Synod in your prayers as they meet later this month to vote on the legislation for women bishops. The debate and vote will be on 20th November. Faithful God, give us faith in you, the one who answers prayers beyond our wildest dreams; give us faith in you, the one for whom nothing is impossible; give us faith in you, the one who brings life out of death; give us faith in you, the one whose kingdom will come. Amen (Kat Campion-Spall) The young man behind the counter at Boots handed over my films. I opened the first packet to check the photos were mine, and a smile of recognition crossed my face. There were my friends Keith and Jeremy and Sue and Meg and Sally and Eric and Richard and Larry, all against Rachel’s amazing backdrop of flags. Exactly a week later, Christians from all over town, and from at least ten different churches, gathered outside Sainsbury’s. Keith and his team invited us to reflect on nations gathering together in peace, harmony and goodwill. The middle Sunday of the Paralympic Games was perfect timing. ‘It was something we did for the Paralympics’, I said. The young man’s response totally floored me - ‘They were way better than the Olympics! Anyone can run fast, but they had to do so much more’. Wow! I was thrilled to have so many of the same elements as the middle Sunday of the Olympic Games – the same venue, the same flags, the same ‘signing’, the same mix of passers-by and ‘stayers’, a similar wonderful mix of hymns and worship songs, this time to a music trio. I especially enjoyed ‘O Happy Day’ and ‘How Great Thou Art’. Right from the start, the More Than Gold planning group was anxious that we treated both Games equally; what we wanted to do for one, we tried to do for the other. Thus events for both Games had equal billing on the ‘Come to Church in Maidenhead’ leaflet, and we created two openair services outside Sainsbury’s. Mike and his team from All Saints Church got our Paralympic celebrations off to a wonderful start on Bank Holiday Sunday, with their ‘Light a Lantern’ evening at the SportsAble clubhouse in Braywick. Joyce came with me, and other ChoGS friends were there too. We were treated to amazing stories from past Paralympians, of their achievements and their struggles, together with their special choices of music. We sang along to ‘We are the Champions’ by Queen (Jeanette’s choice, a swimmer) as well as raising the roof to ‘Jerusalem’ (Rebecca’s choice, an archer). I was privileged to read from ‘The Message’ version of the Bible, exactly the same text which Father Jeremy had used at the open air service at Boyne Hill Cricket Club on 5th August. St Paul wrote to the church at Corinth – ‘Everyone runs; run to win. All good athletes train hard. They do it for a gold medal that tarnishes and fades. You’re after one that’s gold eternally.’ You can read the full text about salvation in 1 Cor 9 vv 19–27. To honour the Paralympian Torch Relay, shortly to begin in earnest, everyone headed out around the clubhouse, with homemade lanterns and torches, to the strains of ‘Chariots of Fire’. It was a brilliant way to get ready for the Paralympic Games. Some Sunday shoppers stopped to chat; others paused and joined in, whilst others hurried on by, anxious not to ‘get caught’. Two teenagers I knew, with a young niece, said ‘Hello Miss!’ and happily took the songsheet home. What a fabulous opportunity for spreading Jesus’s message of love and salvation! When it was all over, I didn’t want to pack up and go home. I lingered over taking down the flags; I chatted with Larry; I helped Keith with the tables. I had made so many new friends through our events, and I have been thrilled at so many chances to witness my faith to my fellow townspeople, that I didn’t want it to end. I thank God for His blessings on all that we set out to do, through More Than Gold, and all that we achieved for His glory. I pray that you also feel blessed and loved, and will look back with fondness on the Games of 2012, this once-in-alifetime summer. Written by Gill Chivas DIARY NOVEMBER Thurs 1st: 10am Holy Communion at the Vicarage 8pm Bible Study Sunday 4th November – 4th Sunday before Advent 10am Family Eucharist 4pm Memorial Service at the Good Shepherd 5pm Memorial Service at St Luke’s 6pm All Souls’ Eucharist at All Saints’ Tues 6th: Weds 7th: Thurs 8th: 12noon Luncheon Club 9.30am Little Fishes 10am Holy Communion at the Good Shepherd 2.30 - 4pm Bereavement Support Group (Conference Room) 8pm GIFT Group (Vicarage) 9.15am – 2.30pm Marriage Preparation at St Luke’s 7.30pm for 8pm Musical Evening Sat 10th: Sunday 11th November – Remembrance Sunday 10am Parish Eucharist, Sunday a.m! & CHOGS2gether Youth Group 6pm Evening Eucharist at St Luke’s “re-membering” Tues 13th: Weds 14th: Thurs 15th: Sat 17th: 12noon Luncheon Club 12.30pm Community Praise (deadline for Dec 2012/Jan 2013 Church Newsletter) 7.30pm Children’s Ministry Meeting 9.30am Little Fishes 10am Holy Communion at the Good Shepherd 12noon – 3pm Community Centre Christmas Bazaar New Parish Administrator Following Hippie’s retirement on 31st October after 22 years serving our church, Bridget Tracy has been appointed as our new Administrator. Bridget starts on 6th November and will normally be working Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday mornings. Welcome Bridget! Sunday 18th – Second Sunday before Advent 10am Parish Eucharist & Sunday a.m! 12.15pm Baptism of Harvey Wroot 6pm Service of Wholeness and Healing (deadline for December’s hymns being chosen by Kath Winlo) th Tues 20 : 12noon Luncheon Club 8pm PCC Meeting st Weds 21 : 9.30am Little Fishes Thurs 22nd: 10am Holy Communion at the Good Shepherd 2.30 – 4pm Bereavement Support Group (Conference Room) 8pm Deanery Synod at St Mary’s, Maidenhead Sunday 25th November – CHRIST THE KING 10am Parish Eucharist, Sunday a.m! & CHOGS2gether Youth Group 3pm Deaf Church Service 6pm Taizé Evening Worship in preparation for Advent The Good Shepherd Tues 27th: Weds 28th: Thurs 29th: 12noon Luncheon Club 9.30am Little Fishes 10am Holy Communion All Saints No 10 am Holy Communion at the Good Shepherd G.I.F.T. (Growing In Faith Together) – The GIFT group is now meeting once a month on Thursday evenings. Although the group has been set up with the needs and interests of those confirmed in recent years particularly in mind, anyone is welcome to come along. Next meeting: Thursday 8th November at The Vicarage (9 Warwick Close) at 8pm. Calling all singers! The church choir will begin rehearsals in November for the Carol Service. We would welcome anyone who would like to join us. Rehearsals are on a Sunday evening from 7p.m. to 8p.m. in the Pastoral Room and will begin on Sunday 11th November. The Carol Service will be on Sunday 16th December at 4p.m. Bible Readings for November: Sunday 4th November –All Saints’ Sunday To be advised Sunday 11th November – Remembrance Sunday Jonah ch 3, vv 1 – 5, 10 Hebrews ch 9, vv 24 - end The Gospel: Mark ch 1, vv 14 - 20 Sunday 18th November – Second Sunday before Advent Daniel ch 12, vv 1 – 3 Hebrews ch 10, vv 1 - 25 The Gospel: Mark ch 13, vv 1 - 8 Sunday 25th November – Christ the King Daniel ch 7, vv 9 – 10, 13 – 14 Revelation ch 1, vv 4b - 8 The Gospel: John ch 18, vv 33 - 37 MUSICAL EVENING Bel Canto Singers Cox Green Clangers and Tammie Lee (star of the last pantomime) SATURDAY 10th NOVEMBER 8pm at the Community Centre Bar opens at 7.30pm Tickets £8 available after Sunday 10 am service or from the Pastoral Office 01628 632567 email:goodshepherd@chogs.plus.com Thank you to all who helped at the Jumble Sale on 29th September. £165 was raised for Church funds. Christmas Fair MEMORIAL SERVICE Sunday, 4th November at 4pm Service of Remembrance and Thanksgiving for loved ones who have died. All welcome. The Community Centre Christmas Fair will be on Saturday 17th November. The Church will be organising three stalls and we would welcome contributions for them. The Charities Group is running a cake stall and we need large and small cakes to sell. Doris Cutler and Jean Cooper are running a gift stall and need contributions of toiletries and other fancy goods. If you would like a loved one remembered by name at the service, please contact the Church Office on 632567, or give their name/s to Joan H. or one of the churchwardens. Alternatively, email us at: goodshepherd@chogs.plus.com Mick Cooper, Rob Winlo and Karen Higgins will be running the bottle stall and need contributions of alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks. Refreshments will be available after the service. Tuesday 13th November Please email to Julie Small: julie.small2@btinternet.com or hand in at the Church Office. DEADLINE FOR CONTRIBUTIONS FOR DECEMBER/JANUARY NEWSLETTER FORTHCOMING EVENTS 31st Amersham Millennium Lecture ‘TEN THINGS THEY NEVER TOLD ME ABOUT JESUS’ Wednesday 28th November 2012 at 8pm Presented by the Revd John Bell (of the Iona Community) At St Michael and All Angels 70 Sycamore Road, Amersham on the Hill Tickets £10 adults, £7 concessions (to include wine/juice in the interval) Contact St Michael’s Office on 01494-726680 or office@stmichaelamersham.org.uk to book tickets. John Bell is an excellent and thought-provoking speaker. ADVENT RETREAT DAY Led by the Rt Revd John Pritchard, Bishop of Oxford Saturday 8th December 2012 10am – 4pm at Pelagos Church Cottage, 134 Wycombe Road, Prestwood HP16 0HJ This day offers the opportunity to peacefully focus on the season of Advent as we wait and prepare for Christmas. Please bring a packed lunch, drinks provided. Cost £25. Early booking advised. Pelagos does not exclude anyone based upon their ability to pay. If you would like to participate and need help with costs, please call Revd Joanna Gallant: 01494 580077. All calls will be treated confidentially. Please let us know of any access requirements when booking. Pelagos welcomes all people whatever their belief, background or understanding. CHRISTINGLE SERVICE Sunday 2nd December at 4pm Come and make your own Christingle from 3.30pm and enjoy some light refreshments. A collection will be taken in aid of the Children’s Society.