Ready 4 Learning – (Bowness/Montgomery/Greenwood Village Early Childhood Coalition) Meeting Thursday, Oct 12, 2012 Bowcroft Elementary School “Getting the word out” Working Group The following coalition members chose to join the conversation for this working group: Josee (Society for the Treatment of Autism), Lynette (Bowness resident and Healthy Families), Aaron (2nd year MRU Nursing student), Susan (teacher, Belvedere Parkway School), Meesha (teacher, Bowcroft School), Dana (MRU student, Renfrew Educational Services), Marlene (Renfrew Educational Services), Susan (Renfrew Educational Services), Christa (CAFÉ Institute). Josee offered to take on the facilitator role for the group. The conversation began with an acknowledgement of the importance of the Public Health Nurse. Families in Bowness are now seen in the Ranchlands area. Drop in times are available weekly. Lynette informed the group about her work with the Calgary Healthy Families Collaborative. of the screening process done by the Public Health Nurses, indentifying risk factors such as depression and addictions. This screening then determines referrals to the Healthy Families Program. Referrals are also received from the AVIRT team. Ages and Stages tools are used in this program. Skills are taught to moms to promote healthy development of their children. Pathways and Hull are two of the agencies providing the Healthy Families home visitation program. Considerable conversation around the existing resources in the community and how to access them took place. Families Matter / Parent Link is the resource that Meesha most often refers to. Their kindergarten readiness, preschool and speech language pathology services were noted. Many in the group would like to have a better understanding of what the resources in the Bowness/Montgomery/Greenwood Village area are. All felt that they needed to understand what was already happening in the community. Meesha offered to speak to the Boys and Girls Club as well as Families Matter to invite a member of these organizations to join the group. Priorities for moving the group forward…. A good understanding of what resources are already being offered was thought to be a good place to start the work of this group. Meesha brought up the needs around quality childcare in the community. She sees transportation as an issue for many parents, which then complicates the childcare issue. Safe, professional and inviting childcare right in the community could relieve a lot of parental stress. She stated that statistics are the means to influence policy makers. The idea of the school as the community base for children and the potential to have preschool and child care in the school was raised. The issue of licensing and insurance were apparent deterrents in the past. The need to share information about quality before and after school options was also noted. How to “get the word out” in a meaningful way was discussed. All agreed that many information resources already exist, but to empower parents to step forward, especially those that are stressed, conversation and the ability to direct to resources were important. Ideas about where such conversations could take place were shared. Parent teacher interviews were suggested as an opportunity for this type of communication. Meesha related that it takes time to understand what a family might really need, as parents are often uncomfortable to express their needs. A relationship with trust is the first step. Limited conversation time between parents and teachers is an issue. Susan added that parents are often very relieved to have their parenting struggles normalized. They may feel very reluctant to share their struggles but experience real relief when they learn that others are having the same struggles. Iris noted a recent study suggesting that parents prefer support over information and when parents are given information without support, it can shut them down. This further reinforced the importance of sharing information in the right kind of context. If we try to act in too fast and efficient manner might we only shut parents down? The idea of how we might welcome parents with an opportunity to begin a conversation, providing them with information and resources was explored. Bowcroft offers a Kindergarten orientation. Attendance has been poor in the past and childcare is an issue. Renfrew has also hosted family support nights with food and childcare. Their enrollment has also been low. The discussion turned to how we might make “inadvertent” connections with families, how families might feel more welcome if things were not set up to look like interventions but more like they happen at Families Matter drop in times. The question of evening drop in hours at Families Matter was raised. Action items: Josee will speak to get a list of sites, programs and agencies from Iris. All will brainstorm about resources that they are aware of. How are these people and organizations connecting with and reaching out to families? How can people and organizations find out about these programs? Can there be a bulk email send out with a list of upcoming events? Meesha will confirm with Iris the availability of space for the next meeting. Meesha will also speak with Families Matter and the Boys and Girls Club to extend an invitation to join the group conversation. Next meeting: Wednesday, November 8th, 2012, 5:30 PM Bowcroft School library