These resources are available as part of the Relationship Ministry Resource Library. They can be checked out for individual use of use by a group as study materials. Please contact Stu or Marnie Boyd (801-479-7638) or email us at stuboyd@webpipe.net with questions or to receive materials. LIFE ENRICH SERIES. These DVDs are from the American Association of Christian Counselor (AACC) and are produced by experts who are part of the AACC network. Each DVD has three subjects, so please return promptly so others may use the materials. # TITLE 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 37A 38 A Woman and her God A Man After God’s Own Heart The Power of “truth” in Your Life Freedom in Christ/Abba’s Arms Using Your Spiritual Gifts Moving Out of Disappointment with God and Life and Recovery of the Heart What Does the Bible Say About the Future? How Should We Live Now? Making Every Day Count Spirit Controlled Living for Eternity Biblical Foundations for Marriage God’s Way Secrets of a Deeper Love Good Marital Communication LUV Talk Spiritual Intimacy: Becoming Soul Mates What’s God Got To Do With It?: The Ways We Love Sexual Intimacy Great Sex: A Biblical perspective An Angry Spirit: Seeing Red In Marriage Past Hurts and Marital Satisfaction Overcoming Marital Drift The Affair: Getting Past Marital Betrayal Sexual Problem Solving, Healing the Pain, Restoring the Sexual Intimacy Forgiveness and Reconciliation Before a Bad Goodbye: How to Turn Your Marriage Around Surviving Divorce and Living Again Children Caught in the Middle Separation and Boundaries Preparing for Remarriage Family Systems/Bad Patterns Facing ADD/Helping the Child Embracing Kids: Love Through the parenting Years Living With an Unbelieving Spouse Overcoming Anxiety Stress Management for Women Escaping the Guilt Trap Obsessive-Compulsive Disorders Battling Bi-Polar Disorders PRESENTER Beth Moore Ed Hindson Chris Thurman Sandy Wilson Ed Hindson Tim Clinton Ed Hindson Tim LaHaye Ed Hindson Tim LaHaye Ed Hindson Gary Smalley H Norman Wright Michael Smalley Dan Allender Gary Chapman Catherine Hart, Debra Taylor Doug Roseneau Gary Oliver Sandy Wilson Don Harvey David Carder Doug Rosenau David Stoop Tim Clinton Tom Whiteman Tom Whiteman Ron Hawkins Tom Whiteman David Stoop Grant Martin Mark Crawford Ed Hindson Archibald Hart David and Linda Hager Les Parrott Michael Lyles Michael Lyles 39 40 42 42 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 Women and Depression Psychiatric Medication and the Christian Anger Management Confronting Domestic Violence Living Beyond Your Circumstances Broken Trust: Surviving Sexual Abuse Hope and Healing from Sexual Abuse Redeeming Sexuality Sexuality: A Biblical Perspective Sexual Biology and Good Health Passionate Intimacy Prepare-Enrich Training Materials Michael Lyles Michael Lyles Timothy Clinton Leslie Vernick Joni Erickson Tada Dan Allender Diane Langberg Archibald Hart Tommy Nelson David Hager Doug Rosenau Life Innovations DVD CONFERENCES – All are on DVD – great for small groups. Speakers are listed with each event. You can use the entire set or just selected speakers. LOVE 4 LIFE – 2007 O Les and Leslie Parrot O Wellington Boone O Tim LeHaye O Tony Perkins O Tim Clinton O Gary Smalley FOCUS ON THE MARRIAGE -- 2008 O Gary Smalley O Erwin and Kim McManus O Les Parrot O Henry Cloud FOCUS ON MARRIAGE – 2009 O Gary Thomas O Beth Moore O Del Tackett O Gary Smalley O John Trent MARK GUNGOR – LAUGH YOUR WAY TO A BETTER MARRIAGE (SIX HOURS) O The Tale of Two Brains (gender differences); Why Does He/She Do That?; The #1 Key to Incredible Sex; How to Stay Married and Not Kill Anybody MARK GUNGOR—SEX AND DATING O A four DVD session from a conference with teens in his church in Green Bay, Wisconsin. One of the sessions is an especially powerful discussion of pre-marital sex, the danger of STDs and how these can change your life forever. They are endemic in America. We have used this in our living room with teens and it has opened some very productive discussion. MARK GUNGOR—Strong, Confident, Respectful Women O Through this powerful set of messages you will learn what it means to be a strong, confident, yet respectful woman. For too many years, women have received unbiblical and even dangerous teachings from churches about these matters. This DVD series will address these issues focusing on the whole truth of the Scripture. THE ART OF MARRIAGE – GETTING TO THE HEART OF GOD’S DESIGN – (Family Life.com) O DVD Set – Six Sessions…LOVE Happens (God’s Purpose and Plan); LOVE Fades (Overcoming Isolation); LOVE Dances (Fulfilling Our Responsibilities); LOVE Interrupted (Communication and Conflict); LOVE Sizzles (Experiencing Real Intimacy); LOVE Always (Leaving a Lasting Legacy) O Comes with Written Materials for Each Lesson OTHER DVD RESOURCES MARK GUNGOR -- LOVE MARRIAGE AND STINKING THINKING O Twelve Episodes on Four DVDs in question and answer format – some of the topics covered include: Divorce Myths After an Affair How Pornography Impacts Marriage Importance of Fathers When Christians Behave Badly And more…. PREPARE-ENRICH O Training materials to use with the Prepare-Enrich pre-marital and after marriage inventories for those desiring to use these tools to assist them in working with couples. COVER ME O DVD material produced by the Marine Corps to introduce the subject of PTSD. It does not train related how to diagnose or treat – just to recognize. (We have written materials dealing with those issues.) LOVE AND RESPECT—Dr Emerson Eggerichs O A small group study of about 12 weeks based on their seven hour seminar. The thesis is based on Ephesians 5:33, husbands love your wives and wives respect your husbands. Humorous and well presented, strongly supported by Scripture. MARRIAGE MENTORING CERIFICATION PROGRAM – AMERICAN ASSOCAITION OF CHRISTIAN COUNSELORS O Prepares couples to deal with marriage relationship issues from both a practical and Scriptural perspective. Couples completing this course can be “assigned” a newly marriage couple to walk with them through the first few years of their marriage or in a post counseling situation. The subjects include marriage basics such as communication and intimacy, but also problem areas such as forgiveness, parenting and infidelity. (Offered for credit if desired) EMOTIONAL FOCUSED THERAPY—AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF CHRISTIAN COUNSELORS O Therapy aims to help couples and families grow closer and healthier and to help couples grow emotionally close by helping them understand their fight cycle—the emotions and wounds that help them stuck and disconnected. (Offered for credit if desired) EFFECTIVE THERAPY FOR PERSONALITY DISORDERS – AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF CHRISTIAN COUNSELORS O Provides information on the diagnosis and treatment for disorders, especially Narcissistic and Borderline. These are sometimes encountered in counseling situations and this is used for background on the nature of the disorder and how to become a more effective counselor when you encounter these issues. NOT to be used for treating the disorder. Leave that to the professionals. (Offered for credit it desired) TREATMENT PLANNER—AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF CHRISTIAN COUNSELORS O Provides information on major psychological dysfunctions, their symptoms and treatment overview. Links to the single DVDs at the first of this list. If these dysfunctions are encountered, this resource can provide you a better understanding of the issues involved and whether to seek a professional. NOT to be used for treating the disorder. Leave that to the professionals. (Offered for credit it desired) THE NECESSARY NINE (DAN SEABORN—POPULAR PROMISE KEEPERS SPEAKER) O The nine things that are required for a successful marriage. He is a very humorous speaker with a creative way to discuss this topic. Great for both men and women. STAY MARRIED FOR LIFE (DAN SEABORN) O A nine lesson DVD series produced by the American Association for Christian Counselors that is designed for small groups to enhance the quality of the marriage relationship. It is based on Dan’s popular, and humorous, DVD called The Necessary Nine ATTACHMENTS – “WHY YOU LOVE, FEEL AND ACT THE WAY YOU DO” O A three DVD series that speaks to the issue of helping us to face the truth about ourselves and to modify our relationship style to enjoy a deeper, more fulfilling life with others and with God. TALE OF TWO BRAINS (MARK GUNGOR) O First session of his conference addressing why men and women communicate differently and have difficulty understanding each other. It is very funny and God centered. PEACE – THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT (BETH MOORE) DON’T LET YOUR RELATIONSHIPS BECOME A CASUALTY OF WAR (GARY CHAPMAN) O A conference with military Chaplains where Gary talks about separation and how to help folks deal with it. The DVD addresses his Five Love Languages and well as Understanding and Processing Anger LDS/EVANGENICAL CONVERSTION (GREG JOHNSON--BOB MILLET) O Greg, an ordained evangelical minister (Baptist) and Bob, former head of the Department of Theology at BYU, dialog about the major faith beliefs of the two religions. It is not a debate, it is a dialogue. If you want to understand the differences, and the similarities, this is a good place to start. It is an excellent resource to gain a better understanding of the LDS religion and what it really believes. GROUPS THAT GROW – COACHING LIFE CHANGING LEADERS (DR HENRY CLOUD) O One hour session on how to be a better small group leader CARING FOR PEOPLE GOD’S WAY (AMERICAN ASSOICATION OF CHRISTIAN COUNSELORS--AACC) O These are the DVDs from a “for-credit” course offered by Life University to train individuals to become counselors. The DVDs cover the basics of counseling from a Biblical perspective as well as an overview of many of the areas that can be encountered such as depression, stress, grief and addictions. It also covers the ethical and legal aspects of counseling other individuals. The total series involves thirty lessons. For those interested in this ministry, it is a good place to start. MARRIAGE WORKS (AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF CHRISTIAN COUNSELORS--AACC) O These are the VCR tapes from a thirty unit, for credit, course to certify an individual as a marriage counselor with AACC. It is not a professional certification. The subjects provide a framework for a lay person to become an effective resource to help couples develop successful marriage relationships. SACRED MARRIAGE (GARY THOMAS) O A six lesson small group series that speaks to the issue of, “What if God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make us Happy?” It is “eye-opening.” WHY IS THERE, THERE? -- A POWERFUL CONVENTION PRESENTATION OF THE JOUNEY OF A FOURSQUARE PASTOR WHO STRUGGLED WITH THE ISSUE OF “WHY” AFTER HIS WIFE COMMITED SUICIDE. UNLEASH THE MIRACULOUS (RALPH MOORE) – THE THEME OF THE 2004 FOURSQUARE CONVENTION RAISING AN EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT CHILD—THE HEART OF PARENTING O Every parent wants to equip their child with social and emotional skills necessary to succeed in school and life. In this 90 minute talk to parents; Dr John Gottman reveals how successful parents use “emotion coaching” with their children. TOWNSEND AND CLOUD RESOURCES. Dr Henry Cloud and Dr John Townsend are Christian psychologists who have focused on developing healthy relationships. They deal with relationship issues from psychological research, their clinical experiences and the Bible. They have published a number of books as well as conducted a number of seminars and conferences. These DVDs are drawn from their conference materials. Individuals wishing to use these materials can purchase a student study guide from their website. The following subjects are available: O BOUNDARIES: This nine-session DVD helps participants learn the secrets and cultivate the habit of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries that provide the framework for rich, productive relationships. O BEYOND BOUNDARIES: This six session study takes participants through the process of trusting and opening up to relationships again. The course offers practical tools and a simple path to experiencing the fulfilling closeness every human needs. Start over is never easy, but with this study participants can rediscover the intimacy they were created to enjoy. O BOUNDARIES IN DATING: Between singleness and marriage lies the journey of dating. Want to make your road as smooth as possible? Set and maintain healthy boundaries—boundaries that will help you grow in freedom, honesty, and self-control. If many of your dating experiences have been difficult, this study could revolutionize the way you handle relationships. O BOUNDARIES IN MARRIAGE: Only when a husband and wife know and respect each other’s needs, choices and freedom can they give themselves freely and lovingly to one another. This study provides the tools they need. By applying the powerful Biblical and relational principles presented, couples can make a good marriage better and even save one that is headed for disaster. O BOUNDARIES WITH KIDS: This eight session study will help bring order to problematic family circumstances and guide even the most stable families into better ways of relating. The presenters take parents through the ins and outs of instilling character in their children—the kind that will help them lead balanced , productive, and fulfilling adult lives. O SAFE PEOPLE: If you have even been in a relationship where you were used, abused, or abandoned, then this study is one you should consider. It will help you make wise choices in relationships from friendship to romance. You’ll discover why good people can get tangled in bad relationships. And you’ll learn how to avoid repeating your own mistakes and how to pick safe, healthy people for the friends you make and the company you keep. O HIDING FROM LOVE: This study will help the participants to change the withdrawal patterns that isolate and imprison them. It helps explore the hiding patterns that we develop and guides us toward the healing grace and truth that God has built into safe, connected relationships with Himself and others.