Alex Kelly Alex Kelly Ltd Speech and Language Therapist 23 years in NHS 13 years in Hampshire 8 years managing SLT services Set up Alex Kelly Ltd in 2007 Alex Kelly Ltd Training and consultancy in social skills around the UK and abroad Schools - provider of SLT into 10 local special schools and 17 mainstream schools Speaking Space – Day Service for adults with LD or autism Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd What do we see?... Alex Kelly Ltd Non verbal behaviour Verbal behaviour Body Language The way we talk Conversational skills Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd What are the keys to a successful approach? Alex Kelly Ltd 1. 2. Assessment… knowing where to start Intervention… knowing how to teach social skills 3. Evaluation… being able to assess whether you have been effective Alex Kelly Ltd 1. 2. Assessment… knowing where to start Intervention… knowing how to teach social skills 3. Evaluation… being able to assess whether you have been effective Alex Kelly Ltd The hierarchical approach Alex Kelly Ltd 1. Self awareness & self esteem 2. Nonverbal communication 3. Verbal communication 4. Friendship skills 5. Assertiveness Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd 1. BEHAVIOUR… what is it? 2. RULES… what are they? 3. MOTIVATION… what is it? 4. STRATEGY… which is the best to use? Alex Kelly Ltd Step 1 Alex Kelly Ltd “Behaviour is not the issue” or “Tell me that if I hit people, I can’t go trampolining, because I value trampolining more so I won’t hit them” Roz Blackburn Alex Kelly Ltd Step 2 Alex Kelly Ltd Step 3 Alex Kelly Ltd Step 4 Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Alex Kelly Ltd Some children will need help to learn social skills Alex Kelly Ltd “I can only know what I am told or taught or shown” and “I can play the social game but only when I have been taught” and “social skills are rules and we thrive on rules!” Alex Kelly Ltd Developing social skills will also help children to develop healthy peer relationships Alex Kelly Ltd Use a hierarchical approach to teaching social skills Alex Kelly Ltd Use the environment and other people to back up what is being taught Alex Kelly Ltd Have fun! Alex Kelly Ltd alex@alexkelly.biz www.alexkelly.biz 02380 987134 Alex Kelly Ltd