WHAT IS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE? “The ability to manage yourself and your relationships” Daniel Goleman Emotional Intelligence Model Personal Competence Self Awareness SelfManagement Social Awareness Relationship Management Social Competence The ability to accurately assess oneself and others is an essential interpersonal and leadership skill. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) is an internationally recognized instrument that identifies preferences and personality types and provides insights into workplace behaviors. The MBTI has been used as the definitive tool to explore the relationship between personality type and workplace behaviors. It’s a Matter of Perspective “We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.” Anais Nin What is the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator®? An instrument (not a test) that sorts information related to the natural ways we: generate and sustain energy acquire information make decisions set goals and order our lives So what is “natural” for you and how does it feel to act in an “unnatural” way? Developed over a 40 year Isabel Briggs Myers period by two American 1897 – 1980 women, Isabel Briggs Myers and her mother Katherine Cook Briggs. Their goal, to create a tool to validate and put to practical use Swiss psychologist, C. G. Jung’s work on psychological types. MBTI® The most widely used personality indicator instrument in the world Over 2 million administered annuallytranslated into over 24 languages -used on every continent Rigorously validated over decades of refinement Administrator must be “qualified/certified” Source: Center for the Applications of Psychological Type www.CAPT.org Does everyone have a “Type?” Jung believed: We were born with a predisposition for one true “type.” “Environmental” factors can foster or impede “type” development. www.CAPT.org Jung believed behaviors changetrue type doesn't www.CAPT.org Does “Type” = Personality? According to MBTI theory, Personality results from: Genetics NO! Family life Experiences outside the family Society's expectations/requirements Other learned characteristics Diversity factors/issues “Type” Some words of caution- Knowing someone’s type is like knowing someone’s zip code. It may give you a general idea of a section of the country/state/city/even neighborhood, but it won’t tell you the person’s street … house address … or the person’s living room décor. On Taking the MBTI Please remember, it is not a test. There are no right or wrong answers. Interpreting Your Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Results MBTI’s 4 Preference Scales Extraversion _____________________ Introversion Energy Source Sensing ______________________ iNtuition Acquiring Information Thinking ______________________ Feeling Making Decisions Judging ______________________ Lifestyle Perceiving E-I Scale What energizes you? Where do you like to focus your attention? Extraversion _____________ Introversion Extraverts Verbally expressive Energized by people and activities Prefer to be in the company of others- like working collaboratively Outwardly directed-outgoing approachable-open with strangers- like meeting new people-accessible-interactive Action oriented Extensive interests and relationships Speak in order to think- develop ideas through discussion-think out loud Share thoughts easily OK with background noise and interruptions May talk too much and be poor listeners May get caught up in a moment/indiscriminate/ impulsive May appear superficial/ ”unreal,” too nice,” “too much,” dependent or needy to others Introverts Think before they speak Reflect then act Would rather work alone Can concentrate well Need few relationships Enjoy peace and quietdislike interruptions Generally good listeners Prefer written communication Socially reserved-prefer a small group of people they already know Independent Keep to themselves, may appear unapproachable, could be misunderstood Develop ideas from thinking alone Energized by taking serious “me” time- can be exhausted by too much interaction Need privacy Reluctant to share personal information/guard thoughts carefully/could appear secretive Could be too slow to act- miss opportunities If you don’t know what an Extravert is thinking, you haven’t been listening. If you don’t know what an Introvert is thinking, you haven’t asked. Isabel Briggs Myers E-I Activity “My Ideal Work Setting S-N SCALE How do you perceive/acquire information? What do you pay attention to? Sensing ______________ iNtuition Note N not I Sensors Concrete Interested in "what is" Realistic Practical Understand details, particulars Prefer facts, the tried and true Present focus Sequential Like clear directions Down to earth Use words literally Need evidence & facts Like patterns & repetition Value hard work perspirationPreservers/keepers of traditions Solution oriented Observe & remember facts iNtuitives Use a "sixth sense," "hunches," or "gut feelings" Seekers of unique patterns, abstract, theoretical, new and “different” Interested in “what can be”- future focused Idealistic Imaginative/Innovative/Verbally creative Speculative, look beyond the surface Use metaphors, analogies, hidden meanings Like random events/ activities Value “ah-hahs”- trust inspiration Welcome change Problems are opportunities Value non-rational approaches to information gathering S-N Activity What words come to mind when you look at this picture? T- F SCALE How do you make decisions? Thinking __________________ Feeling Thinkers Value truth Logical/analytical/ objective “Detached” when making decisions Driven by rational thinking Honest in speaking their mind Firm with people Use justice in dealing with others/fair Might argue both sides for stimulation Can be labeled “cool”“cold”-“hard”heartless" Impersonal with others Critical Thick-skinned Thinkers feel! Feelers Might hide the truth so the other person won't be hurt Gentle with people Could be perceived of as a "bleeding heart, softy, push-over" Take things personally Prefer a warm, friendly atmosphere Thin-skinned Feelers think! Value harmony Might agree to preserve harmony Use personal feelings in making decisions Decisions are value-based and subjective Affirming Notice when people need support Caring/Empathetic Compassionate T-F Activity Are you more likely to describe yourself as… “Easy to Love” “Tough Love” or J-P SCALES How do you organize your time and your life? This preference tells us how we share the middle two preferences with the world. Judgers Scheduled Decisive, and makes decisions quickly Seek control of their time Prefer to finish projects Organized More serious Routinized and predictable Use schedules and timetables as a guide Make lists - use them Organization - filers Systematic Dislike surprises and need advanced warnings Need issues settled Hard-working Get things done as soon as possible Can be overly responsible "Go down with the ship“ Want things to be settled and ordered Time oriented/deadlines Like goals and results Commit to plans Perceivers Spontaneous and unpredictable Prefer to start projectsothers can finish them More carefree Want things to be flexible and open Experience time as fluid Wait and see Change plans/decisions easily Make lists - lose them Organization - pilers Prefer to go with the flow Do whatever works in the moment Enjoy surprises Don't like anything unalterable Leisurely Adapt to situations, gathering information as things unfold Seek flexibility J-P Activity Which of the following statements is more you? “I can’t play until the work is completed.” “I can play almost anytime.” MBTI’s 4 Preference Scales X Extraversion _____________________ Introversion Energy X Sensing ______________________ iNtuition Acquiring Information X Thinking ______________________ Feeling Making Decisions X Judging ______________________ Perceiving Lifestyle Putting It All Together TorF EorI How do you What make energizes you? decisions? Where do you Does your head like to focus or your heart or your attention? lead in your How do you decision making or perceive or process? acquire How do you live information? and work? What do you How do you pay attention to? “plan” your S N J P MBTI’s FOUR SCALES: US Population Distribution Extraversion (50-60%) __ Introversion (40-50%) Sensing (65-70%) __ iNtuition (30-35%) Thinking (50%) __ Feeling (50%) Judging (55-60%) __ Perceiving (40-45%) Type Percentages in US Population ISTJ ISFJ INFJ INTJ 12-16% 10-13% 2-3% 3-4% ISTP ISFP INFP INTP 5-7% 5-7% 4-6% 5-6% ESTP ESFP ENFP ENTP 5-7% 6-9% 6-8% 4-7% ESTJ ESFJ ENFJ ENTJ 10-12% 10-12% 3-5% 3-5% “Famous” MBTI TYPES For Entertainment Purposes Only ISTJ ISFJ INFJ INTJ Colin Powell Denzel Washington Jerry Seinfeld Mother Teresa Nelson Mandela Lady Gaga Dwight D. Eisenhower Michelle Obama ISTP ISFP INFP INTP Clint Eastwood Princess Diana John Travolta Cher Mr. Rodgers Isabelle Briggs Myers Einstein Carl Jung ESTP ESFP ENFP ENTP Donald Trump Madonna Dolly Parton Pablo Picasso Bill Cosby “Dr.”Seuss Barack Obama Marie Amey-Taylor ESTJ ESFJ ENFJ ENTJ Bette Davis Sarah Palin Bill Clinton Danny Glover Oprah Winfrey Muhammad Ali Whoopi Goldberg Margaret Thatcher MBTI Concept of “Best Fit” How To Remember Your Type Create a word or phrase for each alphabet. ENTP Enjoys Not To Plan INFP I’m Not For People Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. ~ Carl Jung Additional Resources Introduction to Type by Isabel Briggs Myers (1998) Gifts Differing by Isabel Briggs Myers with Peter B Myers (1995) Looking At Types:The Fundamentals by Charles Martin, Ph.D. People Types and Tiger Stripes by Gordon Lawrence Higgs, Malcom (1996), A comparison of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator and Belbin Team Roles, Henley Management College "http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newLDR_84.htm"> Leadership