A fulfilling and successful married
life is more of preparing for it than
a chance in choosing the partner.
Marriage being a lifelong contract,
its success has the biggest impact
on the success and happiness of
your personal life.
MEN ARE FROM
MARS
&
WOMEN ARE FROM
VENUS
VISION
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Men have tunnel vision
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Women have lateral
vision
Sound
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Men hear far off
sounds
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Women are attentive to
nearby sounds
Know the emotional needs of men and
women are different.
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A man’s sense
of self is
defined through
his ability to
achieve results
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a woman’s
sense of self is
defined through
her feelings and
the quality of
her
relationships.
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Many a times a woman
just wants to share her
feelings about her day
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her husband thinking
that he is helping
interrupts her by
offering a steady flow
of solutions to her
problems which she
doesn’t want.
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women give advice and
directions to men
thinking that they are
helping
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men take it as an insult
to their capability and
feel controlled.
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Women engage in
indirect speech
Women use words like
“every time”, and
“always” and other
exaggerations but don’t
mean them
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men (who do direct
speech) find it difficult
to understand.
men should not take it
literally.
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Men are more focused
and do one thing at a
time
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women are multi task
oriented and as such
tend to blame men for
not listening.
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To get a man to listen to you, make a
time, give him an agenda, announce a
time limit and tell that you don’t need
solutions.
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Men listen like statues without much
variation in expressions. ( they wear
this mask to show they are in
control);don’t blame them for this
Ask “will you” or “would you”
questions to men to get yes or no
answers and actions rather than
can or could questions.
When faced with problems
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men withdraw
the husband should do
exactly the opposite i.e.
when the woman is
tensed or worried talk
to her without offering
solutions.
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women prefer to talk it
out
a woman should not try
to help her husband
who is tense by asking
questions
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If a woman is talking to you a
lot, it is a sign that she likes you
but if she doesn’t talk remember
you are in trouble!
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If a woman is unhappy
in her relationship she
can’t concentrate on
her work
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If a man is unhappy at
work he can’t focus on
his relationship.
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Women give
unconditional love and
don’t keep a score
board and assume that
men will do the same
and so insist on
unconditional love.
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men would like to
keep a scoreboard and
wants to equalize
points.
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Men assign more
points to big things and
less point to small
things
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women give equal
points even for small
acts of love. ( IN A
RELATIONSHIP
SMALL THINGS ARE
BIG THINGS).
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Men feel self sufficient
and will not help unless
asked for
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women instinctively do
not ask for support but
expects men to do it.
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Men give penalty
points when they feel
unloved or unsupported
or unappreciated.
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Women should know
that men give penalty
points so give him the t
love and appreciation
he deserves.
A woman leaves a man not because
she is unhappy with what he can
provide, but because she is
emotionally unfulfilled
LOVE
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For some people love means
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Quality Time
Gifts
Help
Appreciation
God’s Purpose of family
To have companionship
 To procreate
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To have a happy married life
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Let love be your goal and so let love be your
decision than a feeling
Have a deep trust in God
Good communication
Periodical sexual relationships
Be freed from the past painful memories,
attachments in relationships
Be freed from CE4 (parents)
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