Did I ever hurt someone else because of my anger ? How did it feel afterward? Cain “A quick-tempered man acts foolishly” (Proverbs 14:17) gets angry easily Do we notice that the more we get angry, THE MORE THE OTHER PERSON GETS ANGRY? control “let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath;” (James 1:19) “The heart of the righteous studies how to answer, But the mouth of the wicked pours forth evil.” (Proverbs 15:28) “Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.” (James 4:7-8) • Renew our mind • Be filled with patience and humility, – How can someone fall if they’re lying on the ground? – Putting others first, we last – Don’t have to get what I want when I want it “pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, gentleness.” (1 Timothy 6:11) -Ask Him to help us forgive. “do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil.” (Ephesians 4:26-27) “And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4: 32) Sign of the Cross The Jesus Prayer A psalm Prayers/Bible • Don’t get angry back. Don’t yell • Speak with a gentle tone, and use gentle words. “A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1) • Pray that God fills them with peace. “put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, …” (Colossians 3:12) • Whenever I get angry this week, remember that my reaction could lead to many sins; hurting others, and God, so before I say something mean or yell, I should remember that. • God doesn’t want us to sin when we get angry, so I should try my best not to, and ask Him for help. • When someone else is angry, don’t yell or get angry. Just keep speaking gently and say soft words. This will help calm their anger. • Don’t make anyone else angry! • Pray that God give fill us with patience and humility and help us overcome our anger.