R is for Respect #einsteinpride What is Bullying? What can WE do to prevent it? Einstein “RESPECT” Tigers Take the Lead… Bullying happens everywhere… and doesn’t discriminate. - watch - read - reflect - pledge Let’s take a stand and become somebody’s HERO! What is Bullying? Bullying is unfair and one-sided! Bullying happens when someone keeps…hurting, frightening, embarrassing, threatening, making fun of or leaving someone out on purpose, either on-line or in person. Bullying Can be physical, verbal, emotional or psychological and causes harm. Watch… • We Are All Daniel Cui Reflect… • What does this mean: “We are ALL Daniel Cui?” •Write a response to this statement on your worksheet •Share responses with the class Words to know… Harrass: to bother/upset someone repeatedly through words/actions Humiliate: to deeply embarrass or ridicule someone to make him one feel lower as a person. Words to know… Bystander: a person who sees the bullying or knows it is happening to someone else. The Assistants (Active Bystander): people who join in with name calling and bullying behavior. The Reinforcers (Passive Bystander): people who point and laugh. They encourage the bullying to continue and/or show support of the bullying by doing nothing. Words to know… Ally: a person who uses actions (telling an adult, standing by the victim) or words to defend someone being bullied and helps stop the bullying behavior. Hero (the Upstander): a person who does something to stop what is going on. Read… • “Meet the New Sheriff” by Suzanne McCabe (have volunteers read out loud to the class) • Reflect: o Complete worksheet o Review and discuss with class Watch… • Stand Up Against Bullying Watch and Take A Stand http://nobystanders.me video from Robert Land Academy for Boys You can make a difference in people’s lives by taking a pledge and making a plan to act. More to come today in PRIDE… PRIDE Watch… Stand By...Stand Up! Einstein Students… HERE IS YOUR CHALLENGE: Be Heroes Be Leaders Be Upstanders As a PRIDE team, you will create a PRIDE Pledge Poster to commit to taking a stand against bullying at Einstein. Choose a title Illustrate the title on the poster provided Choose a quote written on the bottom of your poster Everyone sign your class pledge Your commitment to Einstein will be posted in the SAC. PRIDE Pledge Title Ideas • • • • • • • • • • • • • ”Stand Up – Speak Out!” “Take a Stand – Lend a Hand!” “Stand By, Stand Up, Stand Strong, Stand Together!” “Stand up Against Bullying – Recognize It, Refuse It, Report It!” “Peace Is Popular – Bullying Is Not!” “Courage – Confidence – Character” “It’s Cool to be Kind – Kindness Starts with Me” “Be an 8th grade Ally!” “Choose Kind” “Start Something – Change Everything!” “Building Heroes” “Heroes Help, not hurt!” “Make A Change, Make A Difference” Choose one of the above or create your own poster title, as a class. PRIDE Pledge Quote Ideas • • • • • • • • • • • “Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.” Dalai Lama “With great power comes great responsibility” Spider Man “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” Aesop “Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” Mother Teresa “Always be a little kinder than necessary.” JM Barrie “It is nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice.” “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle.” “It is higher and nobler to be kind.” Mark Twain “One person can make a difference and everyone should try.” “The time is always right to do what is right.” “A hero can be anyone.” Batman Choose one of the above or find your own quote for the poster footer Einstein Needs More Heroes! WE PLEDGE… I will not be a bystander. I will not look away and pretend it’s not happening. I will speak up when I see someone being bullied. I will encourage others to speak up too. We will make the bully the outsider and invite them to change. If it is something I cannot handle on my own, I will tell someone. I will get help if I need it because I know I’m not alone. Bullying may start with someone else, BUT IT STOPS WITH ME! I