concept
psych
disturbance
wellbeing
disturbance
authentic
disturbance
health
get
disturbance
ontological
security
perception
disturbance
disturbance and health two sides of same coin
wellbeing = transparent = open to good and bad of life
evade negative side - stuck and cannot see positive
move ahead = face positive and negative
not naive enjoyment of total balance
being well negogtiated daily - life world and oneself
not clear record of childhood
not devotion to cult body and bmind
requires openness to being and to increase understanding of what the business of
living is all about
wisdom
avoidance of truth
inability to cope with it
discontent is generated for many people through self deception - blind following of
popular opinions habit beliefs rules and reason
true to yourself and possibilites and limitations
create comfortable space inside and around yourself
no matter what the circumstance
being true to life : duties of human condition not disregard others
people avoid authentic living - scary to face relaity of constant challenge
wellbeing = face disturbance of life
problems not impediment to well being
problems = challenge to learn from / occur at any stage
one thing sure of = new challenges
cant avoid negative side of human paradox
shocked out of their ordinary routine into sudden awareness
relative concept
even if well adjusted people e.g. good childhood
a negative situation can cause despair or anxiety
vulnerability = behind guarded self deception of social adaptation
disturbance come from external but also daily routine e.g. boredom
healthy = take challenge difficulty and learn
search for truth conscience and anxiety we experience when we avoid reality
courage and possibility found by stopping dialogue with internal voice of other
people laws and expectations
we hide from difficulties and truth
paradox - we create new problems in this process
trouble = false security living in illusion - time exposes cracks
also trouble = no security - no ontological security
firm sense of own and others reality / identity
genetic predisposition = more sensitive / vulnerable others
people with this sensitivity = easy entagled in conflicts
expose to intense contradiction (family) = state confusion / despair
withdraw into illusory security
unable to make sense = ontological secure + crisis and ontological insecure + human
existence