1|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA Unit 2: Unpacking the Self Physical self Sexual self Material/economic self Spiritual self Political self Digital self Physical Self Self as impacted by the body. How does our physical self impact the way we view and handle ourselves? Leonardo da Vinci o "learn how to see. Realize that everything connects to everything else" Is the concrete dimension, the tangible aspect of the person that can be directly observed and examined. o Can you tell in the first meeting if a person has self confidence? Know how to do selfcare? How they handle themselves? William James o "Physical self/body is an initial source of sensation and necessary for the origin and maintenance of personality." Initial source of sensation: how can we feel if we are loved by someone emotionally? We first hear this through what they say Feel first through their hugs Taste their love through the food they cook All that we feel emotionally, it all starts with physical sensation Same thing goes with emotional sensation Before we feel emotionally hurt, we first feel the pain through someone's slap Saying "i love you" coldly - hear first before feeling the pain necessary for the origin and maintenance of personality Is personality tangible or intangible? It is intangible, you cannot touch, but you can see The process of personality starts inside Personality could be inherited The following generations tend to have 10% higher IQ than the previous generations, according to studies. Physical features = inherited The uniqueness of your personality reflects on the uniqueness of your appearance Whatever is on the outside is a manifestation of the inside FACEPTION - Israeli company established on 2004 or 2014 Helps multinational companies all over the world to hire best people who will be the assets of the company Through facial profiling: applicants' photos are sent to this company and they will get a background if this person will become an asset or liability to the company There are studies that facial profiling can also determine if the person will have the tendency to be a criminal/terrorist, loyal in a relationship HOW: According to some studies, you have to look for a guy who is baby faced, circular face, no prominent bony features if you want to have a loyal partner If a guy has developed prominent features, they have high levels of androgen higher testosterone = pleasure seeking behavior, leaning towards activities which cause adrenaline rush (cheating: thrill that you could be caught) Correlation with the study Psychosexual Theory of Development (Sigmund Freud) o In the Psychoanalytical school, Sigmund Freud's construction of self and personality makes the physical body the core of human experience. Oral, anal, phallic, latency, and genital stage Revolve where pleasure or satisfaction of the individual generates in the bod I 2|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA o Psychosexual Stages of Personality Development 1. Oral Stage (Birth-1.5 years) fixation Sucking (mom's nipples or feeding bottles) Weaning in kinds of Have to be satisfied enough so the child will Foods grow without any psychological hang-ups such as oral fixation when overly or undersatistfied Chan smoking, gum-chewing, nailbiting, talkative or anything that keeps the mouth active 2. Anal Stage (1.5-3 years) potty 1-rainy Toilet training stage If child did not experience harmonious relationship with the caregiver during toilet training: tight/strict: too much Overly retentive Too strict analcharacteristics orderliness, cleanliness, OCD or ¥ anal expulsive OCPD, rigid personality, very characteristics Too lenient obsessive about thoughts or things Penis envy µ father ElectImp 3. Phallic Stage (4-5 years) daughter Phallic fixation, if not satisfied son to mother Oedipus complex Problems with exhibitionism, pride, cutoff dilution CASTRATION! ANXIETY ¥I vanity 1. family identification of role Always wanting to flaunt something resolution 4. Latent Stage (5 years – puberty) 5. Genital Stage (puberty) c orally Fixated) - o * - ' - o hey - to Whatever skill that we want to be developed, it's important that we have a healthy mind to acquire this. Our brain is a physical aspect, a mass of cells Swimming: complete set of upper and lower extremities Our physical appearance have a big effect on creating our personality - " = = in = Somatic Society (Bryan Turner) o The sociology of the body become an established discipline in the 1990’s. o Bryan Turner, coined the term “somatic society” which means the new found importance of the body in contemporary society. o o o o Psychosocial Theory of Development (Erik Erikson) o The role of bodily organs is especially important in early developmental stages of a persons life. o Later in life, the development of physical as well as intellectual skills help determine whether the individual will achieve a sense of competence and ability to choose demanding roles in a complex society. o Each stage, we have a certain task The obsession to have a beautiful face & body The demand for Cosmetic Surgery and Skin Whiteners The highest consumer of skin whiteners are coming from Philippines According to studies/surveys, morena skin tone is the most liked skin color Body Shaming Since the society created what is accepted today, we are put under societal pressure to fit into this standard, though ideally, we have different standards Criticizing your own appearance, through a judgment or comparison to another person. Criticizing another’s appearance in front of them Criticizing another’s appearance without their knowledge. 3|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA Physical Self Issues and Conflicts o The pressure is high to maintain an individual's physical aspect. o People may have different causes o Eating Disorders (DSM-5) Anorexia Nervosa characterized by loss of body weight and refusal to eat. Appetite is usually intact. Restrictive when it comes to eating Example: through the bones/ bones (movie from netflix) Bulimia Nervosa characterized by recurrent and frequent binge eating with or without vomiting. They have this pattern of binging and purging Uses laxative to immediately let out what they eat Some of them are overweight or normal BMI Chipmunk or puffy cheeks due to the salivary glands are swollen The dorsal part of their hands are injured since most of them use their fists to purge and the skin surface is scratched by the teeth Teeth enamel have patches of white corroded because of acid Some loses gag reflex o Body Dysmorphic Disorder (DSM-5) characterized by a distressing and impairing preoccupation with an imagined or slight defect in appearance. Anxiety related disorder Slight or no defect at all but when they see a certain part of their body, they may think that they are defective An individual finds it hard to face other people, loses confidence in showing themselves wherein it affects their daily activities Wanting to have plastic surgery Severe level: they go to great lengths, when a person does not have the means to have plastic surgery, they do it themselves Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder o Society states the standard but beauty is definitely in the eyes of the beholder o Ex: in tribes, the person with the most tattoos is the most beautiful We are NOT our bodies. We live in our bodies, but our bodies do not make up WHO we are. o We are not just our bodies, we live in our bodies, but our bodies do not makeup everything about who we are o Our bodies is just a part of who we are; it does not say everything about our personalities and characteristics o There are other parts of ourselves, not just our bodies. SEXUAL SELF Understanding one’s identity and sexuality Biological Perspective of One’s Sex o At conception, egg and sperm unite to create a new organism that incorporates some characteristics of each parent. o The first 22 pairs are called AUTOSOMES. The last pair is known as the SEX CHROMOSOMES. o Genetic basis for Sex Determination: X Chromosome Y Chromosome 4|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA Secondary Sex Characteristics o o Outside manifestations Guys: more facial hair, broader shoulders, built of muscles Girls: broader hips, more fat cells around our breast Erogenous Zones o where the libido is centered (according to Freud) o parts of the body that experience heightened sensitivity and/or signal sexual arousal of some kind o Needs stimulation by engaging the person in gratifying activities Both men and women describe the experience of orgasm in similar and positive terms The vast majority of men experience one intense orgasm. But many women are capable of experiencing multiple orgasms Males ejaculate while females experience vaginal contractions Release of tension that was built up during plateau stage STAGE 4: RESOLUTION Arousal slowly subsides and returns to normal levels Males experience a refractory period during where they are incapable of having another erection or orgasm Refractory stage Body functioning goes back to normal Time when you'll feel guilt if you did not really think about it l The Sexual Response Cycle o model that describes the physiological responses, that occur during sexual activity. o STAGE 1: EXCITEMENT The beginning of sexual arousal; preparation for intercourse o STAGE 2: PLATEAU Physical arousal builds Tension builds up especially around the genital area, higher heart rate, deeper breaths o STAGE 3: ORGASM Third and shortest phase of the sexual response cycle Chemistry of Lust, Attraction and Attachment Lust Attraction Attachment o o o Testosterone Dopamine Oxytocin Estrogen Norepinephrine Vasopressin Serotonin Lust and attraction shut off the prefrontal cortex of the brain, which includes rational behavior. Responsible for decision making and logical thinking Influence on emotional regulation Last to develop to maturity The hypothalamus regulates the function of the pituitary gland to secrete hormones. The hypothalamus of the brain plays a big role in stimulating the production of the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen from the testes and ovaries 5|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA o When we are lusting over someone, the production of hormones comes from the sex organs Attraction involves the brain pathways that control “reward” behavior, which partly explains why the first few weeks or months of a relationship can be so exhilarating and even allconsuming. High levels of dopamine and norepinephrine, are released during attraction. These chemicals make us giddy, energetic, and euphoric, even leading to decreased appetite and insomnia. DOPAMINE: Reward or pleasure hormone when you are experiencing pleasure or does something that makes you happy When you see that person and you had an interaction, dopamine surges, norepinephrine also surges which makes you feel happy and euphoric The feelings involved in this cannot be considered love, it may just be a starting point of developing real feelings, but is not considered falling in love Nature's way of luring us to reproduce Not love until attachment is present Attraction and lust are pleasurable and does not require any effort o Neurotransmitter of addiction: higher surge of dopamine Surge of dopamine when eating: 100 Surge of dopamine during sex: 300 Surge of dopamine during drugs: 800-1000 - that's why its hard to recover from addiction When they come down from their high, they need to immediately use the drugs again as there would a crash in the amount of dopamine in the body; if not followed, depression can follow Twice the sadness when it is not followed Attachment is the predominant factor in longterm relationships. While lust and attraction are pretty much exclusive to romantic entanglements, attachment mediates friendships, parent-infant bonding, social cordiality, and many other intimacies as well. Not just any funny feelings; a feeling when you're in a steady relationship Primary hormones: oxytocin and vasopressin Oxytocin (cuddle hormone) is produced by the hypothalamus and released in large quantities during sex, breastfeeding, and childbirth. Despite not being pleasurable all the time, we stay because there is love in each relationship Falling out love is not true, it's not love in the first place Falling out of attraction could happen but not falling out of love Love is actually boring and mundane, but is consistent, it remains as it comes from a person's conscious efforts and decision every single day. Sex vs. Gender o SEX Sex (sometimes called biological sex, anatomical sex, or physical sex) A person’s identity based on their physical characteristics, genes and hormones. Male: Penis Female: Vagina Intersex: chromosomes and hormones of a female/male but external genital is like that of a male/female (defect; hormonal imbalance during the mother's pregnancy; Klinefelter's syndrome) Also refers to sexual acts, as in ‘having sex’ Primary and Secondary Sex characteristics What can be seen or what you are born with o GENDER Gender is the structure of social relations that centers on the reproductive arena, and the set of practices that bring reproductive distinctions into social processes. A term that refers to social or cultural distinctions associated with a given sex; it is generally considered to be a socially constructed concept. Gender underlies assumptions regarding ‘Masculine’ or ‘Feminine’ behavior Refers to the attitudes, feelings and behaviors that a given culture associates with a person's biological sex. Behavior that is compatible with cultural expectations is referred to as gendernormative 6|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA Men wearing makeup, haircut or voice Women can have bob cut, men can Behaviors that are viewed as incompatible with these expectations constitute gender non-conformity (APA, 2012). Gender normative: males wear pants, provides for the family Gender normative: females wear skirts, take care of children, stay at home Gender non-conformity: does not conform to the labels made by the society Cultural, societal Sexual Diversity o Sex and gender are often thought of as binary categories; that is, we can be either male or female, or feminine or masculine. However, this is a FALSE assumption. Sex and gender are in the same continua No one can be 100% female, 100% male; thus we still crave for a characteristic in which the other sex has If we are 100% of our sex, we cannot relate with the persons of the opposite sex o Although sex can be quantified by DNA and genetic testing, sometimes the results are difficult to make sense of with regard to their social implications o GENDER IDENTITY Who you think you are One's innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves which can be the same or different from their sex assigned at birth. Regardless of biological sex that you are born with Gender identity, in nearly all instances, is selfidentified, as a result of a combination of inherent and extrinsic or environmental factors. CISGENDER – A person whose gender identity matches his or her assigned sex TRANSGENDER – A person whose lived experiences do not match their assigned sex Transwoman - person whose assigned sex is male and identifies as a woman Transman - person whose assigned sex is female and identifies as a man o GENDER EXPRESSION How you demonstrate who you are Refers to the ways that humans choose to display their gender identity to the world usually expressed through: Behavior Clothing o prefer long hairs and which may/may not conform to socially defined behaviors and characteristics typically associated with being either masculine or feminine. SEXUAL ORIENTATION/ATTRACTION Who you are romantically and sexually into Sexual orientation is all about who you are physically, spiritually, and emotionally attracted to (specifically into sexual and romantic attraction), and the labels tend to describe the relationships between your gender and the gender types you’re attracted to. Straight (Heterosexual) - Attracted to people of the opposite gender (Homosexual) Gay/Lesbian Attracted to people of the same gender Bisexual - Can be attracted to both men and women Romantic or sexual preference Can be defined as: A female who is a female biologically, sees herself as a female, can also say that she is attracted to the same sex or different genders; can apply to men The Church and Sexuality o Sexual Intercourse the two primary purposes of sexual intercourse are: “UNITIVE” (unite the couple) and “PROCREATIVE” (create more people) Manifestation of God's love to the Church could be seen in different families o Pope Francis on Sexuality Pope Francis has repeatedly spoken about the need for the Catholic Church to welcome and love all people regardless of sexual orientation. He radicalizes; embodies Jesus : Sexually Transmitted Infections o 1 million STI cases everyday worldwide (WHO, 2016) o Estimated 357 million each year are infected by 1 of 4 STIs: Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Trichomoniasis (WHO, 2016) o Drug resistance is a challenge esp. For Gonorrhea (WHO, 2018) 7|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA o o Poor young females more vulnerable than welloff counterparts (Abrigo, n.a.) Have no access to education and no money to buy contraceptives; no means to protect themselves Most people are not sex workers; just people who loved their partner who did not become true to them o o The most reliable way to avoid infection is to not have sex (i.e., anal, vaginal or oral). VACCINATION Vaccines are safe, effective, and recommended ways to prevent hepatitis B and HPV. Active or not, it is best to be vaccinated HPV: one of the most common HIV Not 100% protection, just raises your immunity against the disease MUTUAL MONOGAMY Mutual monogamy means that you agree to be sexually active with only one person, who has agreed to be sexually active only with you. Since lately, open relationships are becoming common MATERIAL/ECONOMIC SELF The Self in association to his/her possessions o HIV and AIDS o TRANSMITTED THROUGH: ▪ Unprotected sex ▪ Drug addicts ▪ Blood transfusion ▪ Pregnancy ▪ Non-sterile instruments o NOT TRANSMITTED THROUGH: ▪ Touching ▪ Food ▪ Kissing (have to drink at least 1 gallon of saliva of a person with HIV to contract it) ▪ Insect bites ▪ Swimming in pools o Viral; could be self-limiting HIV: Could be active or not Medicines are available, though they do not cure HIV, they prolong a person's life by strengthening a person's immune system How to avoid STIs and AIDS o ABSTINENCE William James on the “Self” from his book The Principles of Psychology (1890) “A man’s self is the sum total of all that he can call his, not only his body and his psychic powers, but his clothes and his house, his wife and children, his ancestors and friends, his reputation and works, his lands and horses, and yacht and bank-account. All these things give him the same emotions. If they wax and prosper, he feels triumphant; if they dwindle and die away, he feels cast down,—not necessarily in the same degree for each thing, but in much the same way for all.” Material Self Refers to tangible objects, people, or places that carry the designation my or mine. BODILY SELF o refers to any part of our body. These entities are clearly an intimate part of who we are EXTENDED SELF o refers to anything that is beyond our body (Psychological ownership) Functions of Possessions Possessions can go beyond their functional value. o Influence o Power o Sympathy o Social status o Emotions 8|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA Materialism The importance a consumer attaches to worldly possessions. The extent to which consumption becomes the primary source of satisfaction, as well as the dominant mode of motivations Symbolic Communication Model: Possessions as Symbolic Expressions of Identity There’s an observation that one’s possessions are considered a part of oneself. They are symbols and extensions of the personal and social aspects of her identity/personhood. Possession help people define themselves. Possessions can enhance one’s image and develop a positive sense of self. It can be a reassurance that one is the person one’s wishes to be. Goods and possessions are used to fill in or to compensate for the person lacks Possessions as Unstable Meanings Meaning is in a constant state of flux. Cultural categories of person that help shape identity are subject to constant manipulation by individuals, social groups, and marketing agents. Meanings of objects that are used to make visible and stabilize the categories of culture are also subject to frequent change through their appropriation in advertising, in television programming, and among social subgroups. Pets as Extensions of the Self Pets have become parts of the extended self. Pets belong to the top 5 possessions. Positive relationship between self esteem and owning pets (Covert et al, 1985) The dog as “co-therapist” (Levinson, 1962) Material Self-care Possessions and Self-Identity For example: A recent Ph.D., for example, may prominently display his diploma in an attempt to convince himself (and others) that he is the erudite scholar he aspires to be. Even though you are not too smart or not qualified, so long as you wear an expensive watch, an high-class pair of shoes and you have the latest model of cellphone. Conspicuous Consumption Consumers own high-priced, status-oriented goods to impress others and to convince them of their high social status. “It is the preoccupation with possessions, more than anything else, that prevents us from living freely and nobly.” ― Bertrand Russell Loss of Possessions SPIRITUAL SELF The practice of religion: belief in supernatural being and power Religion and Spirituality Religion o an organized system of ideas about the spiritual or supernatural realm, that is accompanied by rituals. Through rituals, people attempt to influence things that they think are beyond their control. Spirituality o also concerns an aspect of the divine and supernatural but is often times limited to the individual, with no need for any formal organization. This is the search for meaning and direction in life and the ways 9|UTS Unit 2 Merida, MVC 1PTA The two are related: Although not separate from one another, spirituality is much more profound than religion. Religion: Rituals Religions have rituals/ritu. What ever is done repeatedly. 2 types of ritual o According to the Calendar (Calendric) o Based on crisis Examples of Catholic Rituals o Fasting (Pag-aayuno) o Healing (Panggagamot) o Offering (Pag-aalay) o “Panalanging walang patid” o Attending mass (Pagmimisa) o Praying a novena (Pagnonobena) o Praying the rosary (Pagrorosaryo) o Senakulo The Meaning of Spirituality (Yabut, 2013) It is phenomenological experience. This has to do with the human being. Stages of Faith Development for Adolescence (Fowler, 1981) SYNTHETIC CONVENTIONAL STAGE (age 12 and up) o conformity to authority and the religious development of a personal identity. Any conflicts with one's beliefs are ignored at this stage due to the fear of threat from inconsistencies. INDIVIDUATIVE-REFLECTIVE STAGE (age 21 and up) o stage of angst and struggle. The individual takes personal responsibility for his or her beliefs and feelings. As one is able to reflect on one's own beliefs, there is an openness to a new complexity of faith, but this also increases the awareness of conflicts in one's belief Logotherapy (Victor Frankl) aids individuals to find personal meaning of life, whatever life situation they may be. 1. Someone – special someone, friend, children, and family 2. Deed, Act or Work – finding fulfilment and/or being passionate about one’s work/deed 3. Suffering – through rumination/contemplation, we get to have a deeper sense of our self and experiences. POLITICAL SELF Developing a Filipino Identity an increasing awareness of the deeply dysfunctional and divisive nature of many of our traditional political and economic institutions Politics, Citizenship and the Self Politics o refers to the actions or activities concerned with achieving and using power in a nation or society. o Politics as imbibed by man implies several things: Concerned with power Functions based on a particular social economic and cultural context Based on one’s personality Goes hand in hand with the society Active Citizenship Structured forms of engagement with political processes and everyday forms of participation in a society. Engaging in such activities can also enhance efficacy and competence of the younger generation, as they are considered to be the “future leaders of the society” Political Self among Filipinos in the Present The SWS survey was conducted through face-to-face interviews with 1,440 adults 18 years old and above. One out of 4 Filipinos looks for senatorial candidates who "will not be corrupt" 10 | U T S U n i t 2 M e r i d a , M V C 1 P T A o Political Preferences and Socio-economic Status COVID-19 Pandemic and Implications of Government’s Response “In fact, this is an acid test of every single country’s quality of healthcare, standard of governance and social capital. If any one of this tripod is weak, it will be exposed, and exposed quite unmercifully by this epidemic.” -Dr. Vivian Balakrishnan (Singapore Foreign Minister) how our psychological states can be affected by technologies Mainly focused in the world wide web specifically Social Media Other technologies involved: o Online and offline gaming such as video games o Mobile computing o Artificial intelligence o Virtual reality o Augmented reality Self and identity in the cyberspace Identity o development of one’s self-concept, including one’s thought and feelings about oneself DIGITAL SELF Self and identity in the cyberspace Cyberpsychology New field within applied psychology Branch of psychology that examines: o how we interact with others using technology o how our behaviour is influenced by technology o how technology can be developed to best suit our needs Environments affecting the online behavior Identifiable Offline world o any deviance from established social norms may be punished or ridiculed. o A person’s true self is often inhibited Anonymous Online World o the masks people wear offline are often discarded and their ‘true’ selves allowed to emerge. o E.g. negative rants in Twitter, Facebook freedom walls Identifiable Online world o People may tend to express their “hoped-for possible selves” (socially pleasing identities) o e.g. Edited and filtered photos in Facebook, posting of achievements The role of anonymity in impression management Impression management o selectively-self presenting or editing messages to reveal socially desirable attitudes and dimensions of the self Positive effect in the role of privacy or the amount of contact that someone has with others 11 | U T S U n i t 2 M e r i d a , M V C 1 P T A o Negative effect o increased aggression and antisocial behaviour Autonomy o where people can try out new behaviors without fear of social consequences Responsible use of social media Setting Boundaries to your online self: Smart Sharing o Guide Questions to consider before posting: Is this post/story necessary? Is there a real benefit to this post – is it funny, warmhearted, teachable – or am I just making noise online without purpose? Netiquette The ABCs of Online School Etiquette (Reiner, 2020) A is for Avoid Acronyms B is for Brevity C is for Courtesy D is for Ditching Distractions E is for Early F is for Focus and Friendships G is for Good Intentions Digital Citizenship (Council of Europe, 2019) Being Online o Information related to how we engage and exist online, it comprises three digital domains: access and inclusion, learning and creativity and media and information literacy. Well-being Online o Information related to how we feel online, comprising another three digital domains: ethics and empathy, health and well-being, and epresence and communications Rights Online o Information related to being accountable online, comprising the final four digital domains: active participation, rights and responsibilities, privacy and security and consumer awareness. Digital World issues and conflicts Fear of missing out (FoMO) o exists when an individual is anxious of being left out and feels the constant need to know what the others are doing o It is an anxiety that emanates from the feeling that you are not up to date because of the phase social media and news pass very quickly Screen Dependency Disorder o Emerging problem (not yet included in DSM-5 and/or ICD-10) dependent, problematic behavior, including withdrawal symptoms, increasing tolerance (for screen use), o failure to reduce or stop screen activities, lying about the extent of use, loss of outside interests, and continuation of screen use despite adverse consequences. Internet gaming disorder o is a pattern of excessive and prolonged Internet gaming that results in a cluster of cognitive and behavioral symptoms, including progressive loss of control over gaming, tolerance, and withdrawal symptoms, analogous to the symptoms of substance use disorders. o Conditions for further study (DSM-5)