3 most crucial things we learn as we read this book: Complaining that you’re not getting something ……you THINK you deserve is a waste of your energy. STOPPPPPPP the comparison madness – eradicate your facebook newsfeed and stop comparing yourself with others. FINALLY ……… learn to be ALONE! Learning 1: it is futile to complain about things you are not getting Complaining that you’re not getting something you think you deserve is a waste of your energy Never waste your energy on things that are OUTSIDE your control NOT trying to change the weather, other people behavior or the fact that you just got fired!!!! And NEVER EVER WASTE your energy COMPLAINING about it. Every complaint is a SERIOUS waste of your breath Even if you think you really deserve (and you might) THE WORLD DOESN’T OWE YOU ANYTHING The minute you believe that the world owes you something you are setting yourself up for anger , frustration and bitterness.