Welcome to Family doctors’ English talking club! 01.03.2018 Department of Family Medicine, KSMA Active listening • It is a skill that everybody needs!!! • MOST of people don’t have it! • Most of those who practices active listening can do a better job!!! When someone is talking • Make eye contact • Nod your head…. • Demonstrate your engagements: “ahh..”, “hmmm….”, “oh, yeah….”; • Don’t distract yourself with other things (phone, computer) • Laugh when it’s a funny story Only after expressing clear understanding, you can contribute new content When he she stopped talking • You can take a pause • Start your response with a summary of what has been told: – “So, what you are saying is…” – “In other words…” • Ask a clarifying question – so, are you saying that…..??? Don’t do this! • • • • Don’t interrupt Don’t make judgments Don’t hurry with conclusions and advices Don’t • Exercise 1: how we understand each other • Exercise 2: seeing, thinking, feeling