Characteristics of Adolescents & Spiritual Applications Developmental Transitions – Biological (9 -14 Years of Age) Growth occurs and body composition begins to change. Higher hormone levels during puberty lead to greater moodiness. Anger and irritability for males Anger and depression for females. Biological Characteristics Increased interest in the physical aspects of the body. Generally girls grow to be more mature than boys of the same age. Awkward and clumsy movements due to bone growth preceding muscle growth. Considerable attention to body image. Extreme restlessness with great need to release physical energy. Talkativeness. Cognitive Characteristics (9 -14 Years of Age) Developing curiosity and preferring active over passive learning activities. Relate intellectual activities with immediate and short-range goals. Also immediate gratification. Interaction with peers during learning activities. Interest in both concrete and abstract learning. Cognitive Characteristics – Continued. (9 -14 Years of Age) Show interest in races and cultures other than their own. Challenge "idealistic" teaching. Evaluate personal capabilities, both attributes and limitations. Show strong intense interests, not always sustained, in various pursuits. Developmental Transitions – Social (9 -14 Years of Age) Begin to take interest in opposite sex and dating Gender roles are influenced through Media School (Peers, teachers, etc…) Parents Shift in parental/peer influence roles Increase in personal autonomy Social Characteristics (9 -14 Years of Age) Considerable peer consciousness: strong need for a feeling of belonging to a group. A desire to be "different," yet , within the overall limits of peer conformity. Frequent changes in "close" friendships. A concern for "right", "wrong", and "social justice". A concern for less fortunate "others" . Attempts to identify with adults other than parents. General Characteristics (9 -14 Years of Age) Be frequently impulsive with words and actions; impatient to get things done in a hurry. Have ambivalent desires: want freedom, but fear the loss of certain securities. Become more independent, yet still feel the need for direction and regulation. A desire to make their own evaluation of suggestions from others. Exhibit a ,wide range of overt behaviors and mood instability: quiet-loud, shy-boisterous, fearful-confident, anxious-assured. General Characteristics - Continued (9 -14 Years of Age) Need experience with frequent success and desire attention and recognition for personal efforts and achievements. Seek approval of and acceptance by adults. Be sensitive to criticism of personal shortcomings and often easily offended. Be anxious, doubtful, and confused about their physical and intellectual development, social relationships, and adult authority. Spiritual applications Tips for the servant The servant of this age group needs to be: Humble Patient Respectable Able to absorb the following criticism: Criticism about the servant him/herself The church, the faith, and everything that you believe in. Good listener with the intention to understand “Let everyman be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath” James 1:19 Tips for the servant Christ and the Samaritan woman How did Christ act to criticism ? “Are You greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well, and drank from it himself, as well as his sons and his livestock” Questions: What do you think of the questions/attitude of the Samaritan woman What do you think of Christ’s answers to her in comparison to His answers to the Jews and Pharisees for the same question? Tips for the servant Then the Jews said to Him, “Now we know that You have a demon! Abraham is dead, and the prophets; and You say, ‘If anyone keeps My word he shall never taste death.’ 53 Are You greater than our father Abraham, who is dead? And the prophets are dead. Who do You make Yourself out to be?” John 8:52-53 Jesus said to them, “Most assuredly, I say to you, before Abraham was, I AM.” John 8:58 Tips for the servant “The men of Nineveh will rise up in the judgment with this generation and condemn it, because they repented at the preaching of Jonah; and indeed a greater than Jonah is here. 42 The queen of the South will rise up in the judgment with this generation and condemn it, for she came from the ends of the earth to hear the wisdom of Solomon; and indeed a greater than Solomon is here” Matthew 12:41-42 Introduction to lesson preparation Do(s): Prepare the lesson ahead of time, live it, and pray about it before you give it. What comes from the heart goes to the heart. Prepare for questions to ask during the class along these ideas: Raising curiosity Did the character in the story act correctly How would you act if you are in the same situation What are the consequences of the person’s Introduction to lesson preparation Don’t(s): Revealing the lesson’s goal early Try not to reveal the goal of the lesson directly at the beginning of the lesson . Ex: lesson’s goal: Persistence in prayer Story: Midnight friend Luke 11:5-8 Direct instructions to practice the virtue Try to lead the kids to come up with the practical application Solicit their opinions and feedback to lead them to discover/arrive at the goal of the How to prepare a lesson Present the lesson/story in two parts: Concrete Avoid long lectures More visual aids Abstract. Lead them to discover the character of God. This is the stage of opinion formation. It is crucial that at this transitional stage they form the correct picture of God. How to present abstract concepts? How to prepare a lesson - Abstract Highlight traits of Christ through differentiation. What do people say about Him What do you say about Him Pick a specific incident(s) from the story to focus on (prepare it ahead of time) Solicit their opinion to see how they viewed that specific incident. Lead them to correctly understand that specific action/trait (Love, mercy, forgiveness, patience, justice,…) through the eyes of God. How to prepare a lesson Focus Points “Why does the way of the wicked prosper? Why are those happy who deal so treacherously?” Jeremiah 12:1 Concepts to focus on: Morality – Is it right what happened? Justice – Was justice served? Rewards and Consequences Immediate gratification How are other people affected? Case studies Story of Joseph Story of Nabot Story of Herod – book of acts Parables of Christ (11th hour, talents, etc…) Hananiah and Saphira Achan son of Karmi Christ on the cross References 1. Adolescence by John W. Santrock. ISBN: 0-07-290015- 6 2. Preparing for Adolescence by Dr. James Dobson. ISBN 0-88449-111-0 3. The Wounded Healer by Henri J. M. Nouwen ISBN: 0-385-14803-8