Paragon Place, 17 Commonwealth Ave, Quezon City, 1126 Metro Manila Tel. No.: 253-0452 STUDENT’S EDUCATIONAL PACKET Personal Development (Level: Grade11) Week 1 Knowing and Understanding Oneself during Middle and Late Adolescence CONTENT STANDARD The learners demonstrate an understanding of himself/herself during middle and late adolescence LEARNING COMPETENCY ain The presented activities or exercises and texts are developed in order to meet the following objectives: 1. Define oneself and middle and late adolescence. 2. Enumerate or list down your unique characteristics, habits and experiences during your middle and late adolescent period. 3. Create a simple timeline that show the highlight of your middle and late adolescent period. PRE-TEST Read the following items carefully. Write the letter of your answer. 1. Every individual undergo physical development that leads to different stages of human life. In what transition between childhood to adulthood occur? A. Adolescents B. Adolescence C. Middle adolescents D. Early Adulthood 2. Adolescence is divided into three stages. In what stage wherein a person becomes a young adult? Personal Development 1 A. B. C. D. Late Adolescents Early Adolescents Middle Adolescents Early and Middle Adolescents 3. Physical changes in middle adolescent is very crucial. They may start questioning and exploring themselves. Which of the physical change in middle adolescent does not belong? A. Females have almost complete regular period. B. Most males may have a cracking voice. C. Some develop acne. D. Building muscles. 4. Middle adolescent changes an individual physical, emotional, mental, and social aspects continuously, what is one of the reasons why middle adolescence stage is crucial? A. They are able to think abstractly but do not have enough ability to apply in the moment. B. They begin questioning so many things. C. Their physical development is not yet complete. D. They need good people to guide them. 5. An individual continues to develop to become a young adult. In what phase wherein adolescence have a stronger sense of their own identity and can identify their own value? A. Early adolescence B. Middle adolescence C. Late adolescence D. Both middle and late adolescence 6. Physical change in late adolescent is the hardest of the three periods because of the significant changes that a young adult experience. Which change is not included during the late adolescence? A. They become more impulsive. B. They become more focused on the future C. Their relationships become more stable. D. They become more emotionally and physically separated from their family. 7. Knowing and understanding oneself pave the way to self-acceptance. Why is knowing and understanding oneself important? A. To live productively B. To make better decisions C. To maintain good relationship with others D. It will lead you to discover interesting skills. 8. Discovering oneself is a journey that everyone must to go through. In what stage do this happen? Personal Development 2 A. Early adolescence B. Middle adolescence C. Late adolescence to adulthood D. All of the above 9. Success is measure through different standards in life. By knowing and understanding oneself, what is the key to success? A. Develop your personality B. Discover your talents and skills C. Know yourself D. Develop self-control 10. Stages in life eventually change drastically. In what stage where we embrace subtlety, spend the rest of their life and start a family? A. Early adolescence B. Late adolescence C. Middle adolescence D. Adulthood LET’S SEE WHAT YOU ALREADY KNOW 1. It is a transition between childhood to adulthood. Answer: Adolescence 2. Adolescence is divided into three stages as follow: Answer: A. Early (12-14), middle (15-17), late (18-20) 3. Below are the common physical change of middle adolescence except, Answer: Building muscles. 4. One of the reasons why middle adolescence stage is crucial because Answer: They are able to think abstractly but do not have enough 5. It is a stage in adolescence where teens have a stronger sense of their own identity and can identify their own value. Answer: Late adolescence 6. Which change is not included during the late adolescence? Answer: They become more impulsive. 7. Why is knowing and understanding oneself important? Answer: To make better decisions Personal Development 3 8. Discovering oneself happens during: Answer: All of the above 9. The key to success is: Answer: Know yourself 10. The stage where we embrace subtlety. Answer: Late adolescence YOUR INITIAL ACTIVITY Activity 1: “Self- Concept” and “Self-Understanding” Complete the concept map by supplying it with the information than can be taken from the video clip. Write the key concepts about the topic in the circles and the details about these key concepts in the rectangles. Source: https://study.com/academy/lesson/self-understanding-and-self-concept.html Processing Questions Personal Development 4 1.After watching the video, can you now answer the question “Who am I”? 2. What new word can you relate to the word oneself from the video? LET’S TRY THIS AND SELF-CHECK Activity 2: Self-Concept Inventory Take a look at your own self- concept and answer the following self-concept inventory in your journal. Give yourself a rating using the scale: 0= very weak 1= weak 2= somewhat weak or somewhat strong 3= strong 4= very strong __1. I have a strong sex appeal. __2. I am proud of my physical figure. __3. I am physically attractive and beautiful/handsome. __4. I exude with charm and poise. __5. I am easy to get along with. __6. I can adjust to different people and different situations. __7. I am approachable; other people are at ease and comfortable with me. __8. I am lovable and easy to love. __9. I am a fast learner, can understand with one instruction. __10. I am intelligent. __11. I have special talents and abilities. __12. I can easily analyze situations and make right judgements. __13. I can be trusted in any transaction. __14. I have a clean conscience and carry no guilty feeling. __15. I have integrity and good reputation. __16. My friend and classmates can look up to me as a model worth emulating. __17. I can express my ideas without difficulty. Personal Development 5 __18. I talk in a persuasive manner and can easily get people to accept me what I want to say. __19. I can express my ideas in writing without difficulty. __20. I am a good listener. __21. I am emotionally stable and not easily rattled when faced with trouble. __22. I am logical and rational in my outlook and decisions. __23. I feel and act with confidence. __24. I am a mature person. Scoring: Copy this table in your journal. Write your score opposite each number and get the subtotal. Physical appeal Human Relations Intelligence 1.____________ 5.____________ 9.____________ 2.____________ 6.____________ 10.____________ 3.____________ 7.____________ 11.____________ 4.____________ 8.____________ 12.____________ Subtotal: Subtotal: Subtotal: Character Communications Maturity 13.____________ 17.____________ 21.____________ 14.____________ 18.____________ 22.____________ 15.____________ 19.____________ 23.____________ 16.____________ 20.____________ 24.____________ Subtotal: Subtotal: Subtotal: How do you perceive yourself? Look at the results of your self-concept inventory and answer the following questions. 1. In what areas do you consider yourself strong (with score 14-16 or somewhat weak (score of 10-13) and very weak (below 10). 2. Are there qualities you consider as your weakness but other people consider as your strength? What are these? Check with a partner. Example: A lady can say “I`m ugly” yet other consider her very charming. Or conversely, one can have the illusion of saying “I am very intelligent or Personal Development 6 competent” when most of his ideas sound unreasonable or illogical to most of the people. There is indeed a big difference between what you see in yourself (real self-image) and what is projected in the eyes of the others (your social image). 3. How realistic is your self- image? 4. To what extent does it reflect your real self? Source: Roldan, Amelia S. (2003). On Becoming a Winner: A Workbook on Personality Development and Character Building. AR Skills Development and Management Services (SDMS), Paranaque City, Metro Manila. LET’S LEARN Introduction Adolescence is the period of transition between childhood and adulthood. Children who are entering adolescence are going through many changes (physical, intellectual, personality and social developmental). Adolescence begins at puberty, which now occurs earlier, on average, than in the past. The end of adolescence is tied to social and emotional factors and can be somewhat ambiguous (Cleveland Clinic, 2018). Adolescence is divided into three stages: early (12-14 years), middle (15-17 years), and late (18-20years). Module 1 will focus on knowing and understanding oneself during middle and late adolescence stages. Middle Adolescent The physical changes from puberty continue during the middle stage. Most male may have some voice cracking. Some develop acne. For females, physical change is almost complete and girls have regular period. This stage is crucial for the middle adolescents for the following reasons: 1. They may start questioning and exploring their sexual identity which is stressful if they do not get support from peers, family, or community. At the same time many teens become interested in romantic and sexual relationships. Personal Development 7 2. Many middle adolescents have more arguments with their parents as they struggle for more independence.They may spend less time with their family and more time with friends. Peer pressure is at peak during this time and they are concerned about their looks. 3. The brain continues to change and mature in this stage, but there are still many differences in how a normal middle adolescent thinks compare to an adult. This is due to frontal lobes, the last area of the brain to mature. The frontal lobes are responsible in coordinating complex decision making, impulse control, and being able to consider multiple options and consequences. The development of a person will be complete until a person reaches into his/her 20s. Middle adolescents are able to think abstractly and consider the “big picture,” but they do not have enough ability to apply it in the moment. A student may think that there is no problem skipping in a class since s/he can learn easily. Middle adolescents may be able to apply the logic in avoiding risks in this situation, but strong emotions often continue to drive their decisions due to impulses. Late Adolescents Late adolescence is the period of development in a person’s life from ages 18-24 wherein person becomes a young adult. This is the hardest of the three periods of adolescence because of the significant changes that a young adult experience. A high school student may say goodbye to some of his/her friends who will go to another school, or entering a career. In college the environment is totally different. Young adult may have to learn how to live on their own for the first time, in a dorm with the same age of people. After graduating college some may have found some person they want to spend the rest of their life and start a family. All of this can happen in late adolescence. Young adults usually have more impulse control and able to see risks and reward accurately. They reasoned logically for they already knew the reward of their actions. Instead of watching their favourite you tube channel, they would choose to study for their finals. Teens entering early adulthood have a stronger sense of their own identity now and can identify their own values. They may become more focused on the future and base decisions on their hopes and ideals. Friendships and romantic relationships become more stable. They become more emotionally and physically separated from their family. Personal Development 8 The Course Of Late Adolescence Development Just like the other stages of adolescence, some changes are going on in a person's development during late adolescence. Everything on your physical, social, emotional and intellectual levels is in flux. No wonder young adults tend to be so stressed out! Physical Changes By the time a person has reached late adolescence, physical changes for the most part, have finally settled down. By this time, the reproductive system of a young adult has fully matured, and capable of having a family. Social Changes Adolescence is tough on the family for some reasons, mainly because the child's life no longer revolves around his family and is instead widening to include friendships with their peers and even other adults, like a teacher or coach. Eventually, friendships turn to romances, as the teen's emotions mature and he or she can fall in love with another person. Emotional Changes While young adults, just like a young teen, may not be overly affectionate toward their parents and will probably spend more time with friends, it's less of an act of rebellion and more an evolution of the natural state of things. More so in early adolescence, but also present in late adolescence, is the constant struggle to balance the safety and security of home with the unyielding desire to get out there into the wide open world and discover life for themselves. Intellectual Changes Young adults have come to understand and embrace subtlety. In being able to see things from a different perspective, they are better equipped to solve more complex problems, and get better at perceiving what others may be thinking. However, because these tools are fairly new, they don't get good at practicing them. This is why teens in late adolescence tend to act seemingly without thinking in certain situations. Personal Development 9 Late Adolescence Milestones Once the adolescents entered to being young adults, there are certain milestones that they should be able to check. Emotional Milestones By now, young adults should be able to take pride in their work. They should be more emotionally stable, care more about those around them, and have an improved sense of self. Social Milestones By now, people from this stage should be able to trust themselves to make the right decision when called upon in a particular situation. The rebellious phase should have outgrown and can now enjoy time with parents again. Mental Milestones By now, young adults should be able to set reasonable goals for themselves and plan a strategy that will help them reach those goals. They should have a good idea, and a deeper connection to the issues that they will become passionate about (e.g., pro-choice vs. pro-life, environmental activism, etc.). As for physical changes, by this point, a girl, should have fully developed. A boy will continue to gain both height and weight, as well as body hair and muscle mass. Sometimes girls beat the boys when it comes to how fast they develop. Of course, it is important to understand that no two people are the same. So while these may be the average age ranges for these milestones and developments to occur, what happens to one person at 18 years old may not happen for another until much later. Personal Development 10 LET’S STUDY AND ANALYZE THESE Activity 2: Groupings Group the class at least equally. Have a leader in each group to guide the discussion. After the discussion choose one or two to report what they have talked. Guide Questions: 1. In what areas do you consider yourself strong (with score 14-16) or somewhat weak (score of 10-13) and very weak (below 10). 2. Are there qualities you consider as your weakness but other people consider as your strength? What are these? Discuss in your group. 3. How realistic is your self-image? 4. To what extent does it reflect your real self? LET’S LEARN BY SUSHANT Does it not happen all the time that we happen to underestimate ourselves? Don’t we just almost all the time give others the credit they deserve but not us? It is very important to know ourselves. We tend to neglect our own values, strengths each and every time we are judged. The true mantra for success is knowing yourself. Personal Development 11 It’s necessary to know yourself. But how do you go about it, right? You must be aware of your strengths, weaknesses, likes and dislikes. Observe and be aware of your moods, reactions and responses to what is happening around you because then you will be able to react in the right manner. Then, become aware of how these moods and emotions affect your state of mind. Also examine how you interact with others and observe how your environment affects you. Why is knowing yourself so important? Well, it is so because the knowing and understanding yourself part would help you to make much better decisions, it will improve your decision making habits, in setting and reaching appropriate goals and altogether living more productively and more. You can play many interesting personality tests and evaluations for self-discovery that can help you become more in tune to yourself. You must question yourself on aspects like how well do you really know yourself? What unique gifts, talents and skills do you bring to this world? What specific issues represent your life challenges? How much of your life is controlled by your personality? Are you really inspired by your soul? What underlying motives run your life? What gives you meaning and purpose? These questions will lead you to a beautiful understanding of your own self. You must be confident about your answers while answering these. Interestingly there are many people who hardly know themselves. But how do you expect to grow in life and become better if you don’t? It’s perfectly okay to explore what the heart wants and to tune out the rest of the world long enough to build a relationship with your soul. In fact the moment you start interacting with yourself you will discover that you know so little about your own self. Knowing yourself will make you meet the world. Knowing yourself is definitely beyond knowing your favorite color or your ideal mate. It is about discovering yourself which will take you days, months or years. But once you do you will either love yourself or hate yourself, either ways it will be a cherishing experience Personal Development 12 LET’S SEE WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED Activity 3: Forum Guidelines: Create a close group on FB or Tweeter for the class interaction. Group the class into a maximum of 10 members. Each student is required to post their reflection and insights on the activities and reading in this module to their respective close group and respond at least two to the posts of their peers. The participation grade will depend on the engagement and quality of the responses to the posts. In responding the posts, it is important to focus on the ideas being shared and not on the person behind the ideas. Remember to use appropriate words and be courteous in your responses. Be guided with the following question in answering your reflections and insights. 1. Why do you think knowing yourself is important? 2. What significant changes you have discovered about yourself? How did you deal with it? Personal Development 13 POST TEST Read the following items carefully. Write the letter of your answer. 1. It is a period of adolescence that you may start questioning and A. B. C. D. exploring your sexual identity. Middle adolescence Early adolescence Late adolescence All periods 2. Many middle adolescents have more arguments to their parents since they are struggling for: A. Emotional changes B. Mental milestone C. Independence D. Different relationships 3. They are responsible in coordinating complex decision making, impulse control, and being able to consider multiple options and consequences. A. Self- control B. Frontal lobes C. Brain D. Nervous system 4. Their strong emotions often continue to drive their decisions due to A. Peer pressure B. Development C. Impulses D. Social demand 5. During late adolescence, should be able to set reasonable goals for your self and plan a/an ______ that will help you reach the goals. A. strategy B. action C. dream D. Course 5. In this milestone, you should be more emotionally stable, care more about those around you, and have an improved sense of self. A. Development milestones B. Emotional milestone C. Social milestone D. Mental milestone 6. In this milestone, you are able to see things from different perspective. Personal Development 14 A. Mental milestone B. Social milestone C. Intellectual milestone D. Emotional milestone 7. In the late adolescence period, it not normal that sometimes the girls beat the boys when it comes to how fast they develop. A. True B. False C. Partly true D. Partly false 8. According to Sushant, exploring what the heart wants and to tune out of the rest of the world to build a relationship with your soul is a good idea. A. True B. False C. Partly true D. Partly False 9. The moment you start interacting with yourself you will discover that A. You know so little B. You are less impulsive C. You have talents and skill D. You are getting mature LET’S REMEMBER The physical change from puberty continues during the middle stage. Most male may have some voice cracking. Some develop acne. For females, physical change is almost complete and girls have regular period. Young adults usually have more impulse control and able to see risks and reward accurately. They reasoned logically for they already knew the reward of their actions. Teens entering early adulthood have a stronger sense of their own identity now and can identify their own values. The true mantra for success is knowing yourself Personal Development 15 REFERENCES DepEd (2016), Personality Developmemt, Ground Floor Bonifacio Building, DepEd Complex, Meralco Avenue, Pasig City, Philippines Allen and Waterman (2019), Stages of Adolescence, https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/Pages/Stages-ofAdolescence.aspx Sushant, (2019), Know yourself, retrieved fromhttp://www.personalitydevelopment.org/know-yourself.html Bruner S., December 18, 2018, Changes to expect in the late adolescence, retrieved from,https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/adolescence/changes-toexpect-in-late-adolescence/ Personal Development 16