The most painful time is adolescence with intense feelings, lack of confidence
and rebellion against authority
Adolescence is one of the most important and, at the same time, difficult periods
in the life of any person.
At this age, a person is waiting for a lot of problems that are difficult to cope
with on their own.
The main problem is the lack of understanding between parents and children.
Indeed, it’s the time when children start projecting their own opinion and want
to behave like adults. To do this, they behave provocatively, react aggressively
to comments. This is how they protest. They refuse to submit to the older
generation, because they want to have independence.
In my opinion, parents should communicate with their children, take an interest
in their problems, and give them an opportunity to speak out. Only in this case
will the child feel that it matters in the lives of adults.
Education is also one of the problems of adolescence. Not every person at such
a young age knows who he wants to become. This situation requires lengthy
reflection, communication with parents and older comrades.
Parents should not impose their opinions. It is best if they offer several options
and talk about the advantages and disadvantages of a particular profession. The
child must independently decide which way he needs to develop.
Teenagers are very worried about the appearance. Girls believe that they were
born ugly, they are overweight. The boys are embarrassed because of their acne.
In this case, parents should communicate with the children and help them
overcome their complexes.
For adolescence, pain and cruelty is a common thing. In these years, a person
for the first time experiences a feeling of love. To impress the opposite sex,
teens are ready for the most rash acts. Teenagers tend to fall in love and make
mistakes. This is how personal experience is formed.
All these inner and outer conflicts find reflection in their mind.
In fact, they are going through a rather difficult period of life. Knowing that,
parents and teachers should try to understand them and to help when necessary.
A frank and sincere talk with a teenager can be very helpful for his identity
formation.