PSY 1301 Chadi Rachad Prof. Stephen McDaniel 24/09/2020 Enneagram Reflections I am a person who is mostly optimistic and friendly, I tend to be friendly with everyone and anyone when talking with them but shy at most as I believe that I hide my personality, I help others in need and can go to some extent whether be it homework or staying late for a project or even if they don't understand a certain topic. I am also the type to be quiet and not draw much attention to myself socially, I sometimes love to be competitive and achieve many things s with or against people and to win at most. Back at high school, I remember being social with many as I felt happy each day talking with someone new and interact with many faces but now the sensation is somewhat dead as I grew older. For the Enneagram reflection, I believe the arrow of stress for me is a niner as I want to make peace with anyone, anytime I feel like a discussion is going somewhere where I sense some hostility or bad feeling I tend to fix it and o diffuse what problems that occurs whether it is against me or against someone I know and that mostly comes to when I am stressed out or feeling weak at most. The arrow of growth is a three when I am at my best I feel the sense achievement “ I want to do more to win or to plan a road here I will succeed “ is what I say most of my time when I am at this point whether be it academically or physically at the gym I sometimes tend to push myself to achieve a certain level and go beyond if I had people with me or accompanying me. Lastly, I am confidently a six (a Loyalist) I tend to push myself sometimes but read the mood before going I prefer security over danger, I am mostly indecisive at my choices or others and can be self-doubting sometimes for instance choosing a certain product for me can be the hardest thing as I can’t decide whether to buy it for what I like it or what people advise to not buy is that sense of guilt that if choose wrongly or poorly you will end up being sad and regretful to such a choice.
