Woodland Hills School District Bullying Prevention Training James A. Bozigar,ACSW, LCSW Olweus Trainer and Jami L. Heffley, M.Ed. Behavior Interventionist/Olweus Trainer © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 1 Leadership for Schools That Care for Every Student © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 2 © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 3 © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 4 Moral Purpose Stop the bad thing Do the good thing © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 5 © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 6 What’s your sentence? © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 7 What is the mission of your school? • Create a caring classroom • Classrooms where everyone belongs • Positive school environment for the whole child • Safe place for learning © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 8 REFRAMING BULLYING PREVENTION • • • • Assessment of current status Leadership strategies Set priorities Educational practices to empower bystanders • Planning to Plan • Process for getting consensus and commitment to your plan © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 9 Recognition of the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program • Blueprint Model Program (Center for the Study & Prevention of Violence) • Effective Program (OJJDP) • Level 2 Program (US Dept. of Education) © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 10 Program Components Classroom School Parents Community Individual © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 11 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program IS... • Designed for ALL students • Preventive AND responsive • Focused on changing norms and restructuring the school setting • Research-based • NOT time-limited: Requires systematic efforts over time © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 12 The OBPP IS NOT... • a curriculum • a conflict resolution approach • a peer mediation program • an anger management program © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 13 Olweus Definition of Bullying: “Bullying is when someone repeatedly and on purpose says or does mean or hurtful things to another person who has a hard time defending himself or herself.” © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 14 Distinguishing Among… • Bullying • Rough-andTumble Play • Real Fighting • Conflict Vs. Bullying © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 15 Conflict vs Bullying: What’s the difference? © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 16 What is CONFLICT? • Conflict is often a difference of opinion or disagreement between two people of relatively equal power where both parties involved are equally upset. © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 17 What is bullying? • Bullying is more of a deliberate act and there is the intention to hurt, insult or threaten the other person. • Bullying is usually a repeated activity; however, it can also be a one time incident. © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 18 Conflict Resolution • Conflict is a part of growing up and is a healthy thing, as it teaches children and young people to learn to how to give and take, how to come to an agreement, how to solve a problem. • Teaching conflict resolution skills is important, as it will give them some important skills for the future. However, conflict resolution or mediation is not a recommended response to a bullying situation. © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 19 Effects of Being Bullied • Lower self-esteem • Depression & anxiety • Absenteeism & lowered school achievement • Thoughts of suicide • Illness © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 21 Health Consequences of Bullying (Fekkes et al., 2004) Headache Sleep problems Abdominal pain Feeling tense Anxiety Feeling unhappy Depression scale moderate indication strong indication Bullied 16% 42% 17% 20% 28% 23% Not bullied 6% 23% 9% 9% 10% 5% 49% 16% 16% 2% © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 22 Concerns About Children Who Bully • Children who bully are more likely to: – Get into frequent fights – Be injured in a fight – Steal, vandalize property – Drink alcohol, smoke – Be truant, drop out of school – Report poorer academic achievement – Perceive a negative climate at school – Carry a weapon © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 23 Children Who Bully • Bullying may be part of a conduct-disordered behavior pattern • This pattern may continue into young adulthood • Olweus study: Bullies were 4 times as likely to have 3 or more convictions by age 24 © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 24 Effects of Bullying on Bystanders • Bystanders may feel: – Afraid – Powerless to change the situation – Guilty for not acting – Diminished empathy for victims over time © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 25 Effects of Bullying on School Climate • Creates a climate of fear and disrespect • Interferes with student learning • Students may feel insecurity and not like school as well • Students may perceive lack of control/caring © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 26 © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 27 Children at Higher Risk of Being Bullied: • Children with disabilities, special needs, and health problems • Children who are obese • Children who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or who are questioning their identities © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 31 Children Who Bully Tend To... • Have positive attitudes toward violence • Be impulsive and have quick tempers • Show little empathy for victims • Be aggressive to adults • Be involved in other antisocial or rule-breaking activities • Be physically stronger than peers (boys) © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 32 Common Myths About Children who Bully • “Children who bully are loners.” • “Children who bully have low self-esteem.” © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 33 What Motivates Children Who Bully? • Like to dominate others in a negative way • Gain satisfaction from inflicting injury and suffering • Receive “rewards” by bullying others (prestige, attention, possessions) © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 34 What Roles Do Students Play In Bullying Situations? Start the bullying and take an active part Take an active part, but do not start the bullying A Followers C Like the bullying, but do not display open support TG, p. 24 Defenders G Student Who Is Bullied B Support the bullying, but do not take an active part Students Who Bully Supporter D Dislike the bullying, help or try to help the bullied student H The one who is being bullied Possible Defenders Passive Supporters F Dislike the bullying and think they ought to help, but don’t do it Disengaged Onlookers E © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 35 Group Mechanisms in Bullying • Social contagion • Weakening inhibitions against aggression • Decreased sense of individual responsibility • Gradual changes in the view of bullied student(s) © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 36 Family Risk Factors for Bullying • Lack of parental warmth involvement and • Lack of parental supervision • Overly-permissive parenting • Harsh discipline/physical punishment • Intergenerational Bullies © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 37 School Risk Factors for Problems of Bullying • Lack of supervision during breaks • Students have indifferent or accepting attitudes • Staff have indifferent or accepting attitudes towards bullying © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 38 A Word About …. Adults Who Bully © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 39 Why do schools get… © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 40 Misdirections in Bullying Prevention and Intervention • Simple, short-term solutions • Group treatment for children who bully • Anger management or self-esteem enhancement for children who bully • Zero tolerance policies for bullying • Mediation/conflict resolution to resolve bullying issues © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 41 OBPP Principles imply… 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Adults are responsible Clear & consistent message Short & long-term focus Follow model with fidelity OBPP should become part of everyday life at school © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 42 OBPP Principles imply: 6. Student involvement in changing climate 7. Student learning about bullying 8. OBPP is NOT peer mediation or conflict resolution 9. OBPP is not a classroom management technique © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 43 Appreciative Inquiry Wikipedia defines AI as “primarily an organizational development method which focuses on increasing what an organization does well rather than on eliminating what it does badly. Through an inquiry which appreciates the positive engages all levels of an organization it seeks to renew, develop and build on this.” © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 44 Commonalities for success • • • • • • • • Everyone feels heard Positive collaboration Staff buy in (its our problem, its our solution) Consistency and follow through Common goal/teamwork Allowing time for change Strong communication skills © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Our job as committee members… Establish a BPCC Conduct School Staff Trainings Administer Olweus Bullying Questionnaire Hold Staff Discussion Group Meetings Introduce School Rules and Consequences Use of Positive Consequences to Reinforce Positive Behavior 7. Use of Negative Consequences 8. Refine the Supervisory System 9. Hold an annual kick-off event 10. Partner with Parents, parent meetings © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US Introduce School Rules and Consequences • Develop policy on bullying • Anti-bullying rules • Positive & negative consequences • Introducing rules and consequences © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 47 about bullying • We will not bully others. • We will help students who are bullied. • We will include students who are left out. • If we know that somebody is being bullied, we will tell an adult at school and an adult at home and they will do something about it. © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 48 Use of Positive Consequences to Reinforce Positive Behavior • Why are positive consequences critical? • Who receives them? • Types of behavior to reinforce • Types of positive consequences • Tips on use of positive consequences © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 49 Use of Negative Consequences • Why aren‘t positive consequences enough? • Guidelines for use of negative consequences • Types of negative consequences © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 50 Refine the Supervisory System 1. Determine the “hot spots” for bullying 2. Develop strategies to increase supervision in common “hot spots” © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 51 Refine the Supervisory System (continued) 3.Develop ways of tracking and reporting bullying incidents school wide 4.Consider the attitudes of supervising adults 5.Evaluate your school’s physical design to reduce bullying © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 52 Hold Kick-off Event to Launch the Program • What is it? • When should it take place? • How to prepare for it? • What to cover? • Related activities © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 53 Classroom-Level Components 1. Post and enforce school wide rules against bullying 2. Hold regular class meetings 3. Hold meetings with students’ parents © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 54 Committee objectives • Build time for class meetings • Topic ideas • Support and staff development • Integrating messages across curriculum • Monitor progress © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 55 Classroom-Level PARENT Meetings • Build connection and community • Helps parents learn more about OBPP • Held 2-3 times/year (recommended) © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 56 Individual-Level Components 1. Supervise students’ activities 2. Ensure that all staff intervene onthe-spot when bullying occurs 3. Hold meetings with students involved in bullying 4. Develop individual intervention plans for involved students © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 57 Why Adults Don’t Always Intervene: © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 58 The Blind Spot of Bullying Prevention © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US On-the-Spot Interventions: The “Teachable Moment” 1. Stop the bullying 2. Support student who has been bullied 3. Name bullying behavior & refer to school rules 4. Engage the bystanders 5. Impose immediate & appropriate consequences 6. Take steps to ensure bullied student will be protected from future bullying © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 60 When There Are Suspicions of Bullying... • Intensify your observations of the child • Confer with colleagues • Talk to or survey students • Collect information from students • Contact parents © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 61 The Default mindset on Bullying A Criminal Justice Mindset – Bullying is a crime b/c it’s a violation of school rules – We conduct an investigation – We need evidence to prove a crime was committed – If a crime was committed, consequences can be given to the person who bullied – If a crime was not proven, there are few if any actions that can be taken © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US Educational Mindset on Bullying • Knowledge of the dynamics of bullying by all members of the school community • Bystanders knowing their role and responsibilities • Clarification of school values on how people should be treated • Strong message that bullying is inconsistent with those values • Preventive efforts sending strong message that the school cares about the problem © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US Changing Mindsets © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US Understanding Parents’ Perspectives…. © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 65 Spreading the Anti-Bullying Message into the Community • • • • • • Community sports leagues After-school programs Scouting, 4-H, other youth programs Faith-based organizations Juvenile justice groups Summer camps © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 66 What do we STAND for? – – – – – S: Speak UP T: Talk about it A: Always report N: Never Bully D: Defend others –S: Success –T: Talk about it –A: Always be kind –N: Never Bully –D: Discover & Dream © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US Now What? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Establish a BPCC Plan & conduct all School Staff Trainings Administer Olweus Bullying Questionnaire Plan Staff Discussion Group Meetings Posters -School Rules and Definitions Matrix of Positive Consequences to Reinforce Positive Behavior 7. Matrix of Negative Consequences 8. Refine the Supervisory System 9. Plan annual kick-off event 10. Plan parent meetings © 2012 The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, US 68