On Course Strategies for Creating Success in College and in Life Chapter 6 GAINING SELF-AWARENESS Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6|1 CASE STUDY IN CRITICAL THINKING STRANGE CHOICES • Choose the student you think made the strangest choice and speculate why she or he made this choice. In particular, what are the kinds of past experiences that may have made the student behave this way? • Recall a course you once took in which you made a choice that your instructor might describe as “strange.” Explain why you made that choice. Dive deep, exploring what really caused your choice. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6|2 CRITICAL THINKING: FOCUS QUESTIONS RECOGNIZING WHEN YOU ARE OFF COURSE • In which of your life roles are you off course? • Do you know how you got there? • More important, do you know how to get back on course to your desired outcomes and experiences? Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6|3 THE MYSTERY OF SELF-SABOTAGE Identify each statement as a self-sabotaging behavior or as a wise choice behavior. I started a study group. I started a study group, but I have missed two meetings. I did all my homework early. I did all my homework early, but I left it at home. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. Wise Choice Self-Sabotaging Wise Choice Self-Sabotaging 6|4 CRITICAL THINKING: FOCUS QUESTIONS IDENTIFYING YOUR SCRIPTS • What habit patterns in your life get you off course? • How did these habit patterns develop? Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6|5 Make three slips of paper. On each slip of paper, write a self-defeating behavior. It can be one that has affected you or one that you've observed affecting others. Fold each slip of paper in half. Express the likely negative results of that behavior. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6|6 ANATOMY OF A SCRIPT • Scripts are internal forces composed of habit patterns and core beliefs. Think about your habit patterns: something you often think, feel, or do. List one of your thought patterns, one of your emotional patterns, or one of your behavioral patterns. Does this habit pattern tend to keep you on course or get you off course? Pair up and share the habit patterns you’ve identified. Brainstorm strategies to revise a habit pattern that gets you off course or strengthen a habit pattern that keeps you on course. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6|7 HABITUAL PATTERNS • Decide if the following sentences are thought patterns, emotional patterns or behavioral patterns. I am good in math. I am always late to class. I'm too busy. I often feel anxious. I exercise regularly. I always screw up. I seldom get angry. I never ask for help. Thought Pattern Behavioral Pattern Emotional Pattern My tutor always frustrates me. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6|8 CORE BELIEFS • Core beliefs are unconscious judgments that dictate what we consistently think, feel and do. They are an invisible part of a script that contains our view of ourselves, other people and the world. • Complete the following sentence stems according to your core beliefs. The world is_________. People are _________. I am ________________. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6|9 HOW WE WROTE OUR SCRIPTS • Think about your answers from the previous slide. What factors have influenced your core beliefs? When you were a child, how did others respond to you? When you were a child, what did significant adults say to you? When you were a child, what behaviors of significant adults did you observe? What other factors may have contributed to your core beliefs? Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 10 HOW WE WROTE OUR SCRIPTS • Attributions are qualities that tell us “how we are” or “how we should be.” For example, “I’m creative” or “Always be busy.” Write one of your attributions. • Injunctions are qualities that tell us “what we are not” or “what we should not be.” For example, “I’m not good in math” or “Don’t stand up for yourself.” Write one of your injunctions. • How do you believe you developed your attributions and injunctions? Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 11 CRITICAL THINKING: FOCUS QUESTION REWRITING YOUR OUTDATED SCRIPTS • How can you revise the self-defeating scripts that keep you from achieving your full potential? Jeff Morin Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 12 SELF-AWARENESS AT WORK • The Holland Code is a tool that places you in one of six personality types and suggests possible careers that may appeal to you. • Review the following career choices. Write down the number next to the career choice that is most appealing to you. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Mechanic Chemist Writer Nurse Salesperson Accountant 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Electrician Detective Musician Counselor Lawyer Secretary Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Dental technician Doctor Interior decorator Teacher Entrepreneur Financial planner 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Forester Mathematician Inventor Physical Therapist Travel Agent Computer Operator 6 | 13 SELF-AWARENESS AT WORK Review the following chart. Find the personality type that is most appealing to you and record its number. Personality Type 1 Realistic Personality Type Description Prefers activities involving objects, tools and machines. 2 Investigative Prefers activities involving abstract problem solving and the exploration of physical, biological, and cultural phenomena for the purpose of understanding and controlling them. 3 Artistic Prefers activities involving self-expression, using words, ideas or materials to create art forms or new concepts. 4 Social Prefers activities involving interaction with other people to inform, train, develop, help or enlighten them. 5 Enterprising Prefers activities involving the persuasion and management of others to attain organizational goals or economic gain. 6 Conventional Prefers activities involving the application of data to bring order out of confusion and develop a prescribed plan. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 14 SELF-AWARENESS AT WORK • Does the number next to your selected career choice match the number next to your selected personality type description? If so, how could you use this information to benefit you? If not, is there a possible career choice that you have not considered in the past? Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 15 CRITICAL THINKING: FOCUS QUESTIONS WRITE YOUR OWN RULES • What personal rules do you have that dictate the choices you make daily? • Which of these rules help you create high selfesteem? Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 16 THREE SUCCESS RULES • What are the three behaviors that successful students consistently do? Show up: I commit to attending every class from beginning to end. Do their best work: I commit to doing my best work on all assignments, including turning them in on time. Participate actively: I commit to getting involved. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 17 QUICK REVIEW Scripts are internal forces composed of what? Emotional Patterns Core Beliefs Thought Patterns Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. Behavior Patterns 6 | 18 QUICK REVIEW Decide if the following sentences are thought patterns, emotional patterns, or behavioral patterns. I am such a lousy writer. Thought I always get caught using my cell Behavioral phone in class. I am always happy. Emotional I am typically late for my morning Behavioral class. I get frustrated in my English class. Emotional I will never do well in college. Thought Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 19 QUICK REVIEW Match the following personality type to the correct description. CONVENTIONAL ARTISTIC INVESTIGATIVE Prefers activities involving abstract problem solving and the exploration of physical, biological, and cultural phenomena for the purpose of understanding and controlling them. Prefers activities involving objects, tools and machines. Prefers activities involving interaction with other people to inform, train, develop, help or enlighten them. REALISTIC Prefers activities involving self-expression, using words, ideas or materials to create art forms or new concepts. ENTERPRISING Prefers activities involving the application of data to bring order out of confusion and develop a prescribed plan. SOCIAL Prefers activities involving the persuasion and management of others to attain organizational goals or economic gain. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 | 20 WISE CHOICES IN COLLEGE: TAKING TESTS • What are three factors that determine how well you score on a test? How well have How well do you prepared? you take tests? How much have you learned from previous tests? • Which factor do you believe is the most important and why? Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 21 CHALLENGES WITH TAKING TESTS • Make a list of common challenges you have experienced while taking tests in college. • Circle the challenge you struggle with the most and look for a strategy in On Course to help you. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 22 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS BEFORE TAKING TESTS How could you use the CORE learning system before taking a test? Collect Collect complete and accurate information from all reading assignments and class sessions. Organize Organize many different kinds of effective study materials. Rehearse Evaluate Rehearse these study materials with a distributed study schedule. Evaluate to confirm your understanding of all study materials. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 23 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS BEFORE TAKING TESTS Match the following strategy with its correct description. Repeat statements that revise your beliefs about your ability to do well on tests. Arrive early and get comfortable. Create a mental movie of yourself taking the exam with great success. Prepare yourself physically and emotionally. Avoid stress, get there early, and choose a preferred place to sit. Get a good night’s sleep, eat well, breathe deeply and relax. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. Visualize success. Create a positive affirmation about taking tests. 6 SS | 24 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS WHILE TAKING TESTS What are some strategies you should implement as soon as you receive a test? Write memory cues on the test. Preview the test. Make a test-smart plan, deciding which questions to answer first and how much time to spend on remaining questions. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 25 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS WHILE TAKING TESTS In the following test situations, identify whether the best guess would be TRUE or FALSE: Part of the answer is false. FALSE The question contains unconditional words (e.g., always, never, every, all). FALSE The question contains conditional words (e.g., seldom, sometimes, usually, often). TRUE You studied hard, but the question contains FALSE words you’ve never seen before. You have no idea what the answer is and are reduced to taking a pure guess. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. TRUE 6 SS | 26 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS WHILE TAKING TESTS • What strategies can you use when answering multiple choice questions about which you are unsure? Cross out answers that contain unconditional words. When answers are numbers, cross out highest and lowest. • When answers are similar, choose one of them as the correct answer. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 27 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS WHILE TAKING TESTS • What strategies can you use when answering fillin-the-blank questions about which you are unsure? Always write something in the blank. Make sure the answer fits grammatically into the sentence. Look for answers in other places in the test. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 28 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS WHILE TAKING TESTS • Which type of recall test question is the greatest challenge for you? Questions that ask for a list Short answer questions Essay questions Definition questions Math problems Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 29 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS WHILE TAKING TESTS What strategies can you use to maximize your point total on any test? If you get stuck, move on; don’t waste time on a question you can’t answer. If you feel anxious, refocus. Close your eyes, breathe deeply, say your affirmation, and try again. Review your answers. Start with the sections that offer the most points. Give an answer for all questions. Proofread before turning in your test. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 30 STRATEGIES TO IMPROVE TAKING TESTS AFTER TAKING TESTS • List strategies you could do after your instructor returns a graded test to deepen your learning. Study the instructor’s feedback. Correct wrong answers. Seek help. Seek accommodations if needed. Copyright © 2014 Cengage Learning. All rights reserved. 6 SS | 31