Risky Bizzness: Student Wellbeing for successful students Contents ONE: INTRODUCTION TO WELLNESS Congratulations About this booklet About the Health Promotion Service The Wellness Centre TWO: A GOOD START The Student Connect Programme Benefits of Friendship Academic Support Resources include: Disability Support Service (DSS) Career Development Centre Where to stay? Key Tips for Renting Flat mates Roommate Checklist Neighbours 5 6 7 8 9 11 12 12 14 14 15 15 16 16 17 17 18 Budgeting Active travel in Galway 19 19 THREE: STUDY SKILLS Studying with Friends Food for Studying 23 24 25 Here are some tips for exam time eating: Cut Down on Salt Simple ways to cut down on salt: Time Management Suggestions for Time Management FOUR: HEALTH RISKS Under Pressure Tobacco 25 27 27 29 29 31 32 33 Alcohol Low-risk guidelines Alcohol – the good news Alcohol First Aid Alcohol Poisoning Rape and Alcohol If you are sexuality assaulted: For support contact: Dieting Other Risks Non-legal drugs Gambling Pornography 34 34 35 36 37 38 38 38 39 41 41 42 43 FIVE: NEW WAYS OF THINKING Benefits of Diversity Changing Relationships Don’t Be A Bystander to Bullying Family problems Encountering Prejudice on Campus Am I Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual? 45 46 46 47 50 51 52 SIX: POSITIVE HEALTH AND WELLBEING Try New Things Volunteering 55 56 57 On a personal level On a community level Opportunities for volunteering include: Dating Healthy Sex Enjoy Food Looking After Your Friends SEVEN: MIND, BODY AND SOUL Resilience Energy Boosters Celebrations About the Author Notes 57 58 58 59 60 62 64 67 69 70 72 75 75 INTRODUCTION TO WELLNESS INTRODUCTION TO WELLNESS Congratulations Congratulations! You’ve made it into the National University of Ireland, Galway. Whether you are coming from school or returning to education as a mature student it is now time to take a breath and enjoy a moment of self-pride. Getting a place in NUI Galway was not easy. It took time and hard work, but you got here. Naturally you may be a bit apprehensive about what happens now. There’s no doubt that life on campus can be complicated as you negotiate the pressures and pleasures of student life. There will be worries about studies, assignments, peer pressure, money, etc., but there will also be great opportunities to engage in new ideas, make friends, to be creative and expressive, and to be energized and fulfilled. For every problem, there are support services on campus; for every new idea, you will find a forum to turn it into reality. 6 1 About this booklet Inside this booklet will find the information and tips how to look after your health and wellbeing as you negotiate the whirl of student life. The information in the booklet is based on Irish and international research. Looking after your health and wellbeing will have a massive impact on your grades and on your ability to deal with the stresses of study, research and exams. This booklet is by no means an exhaustive account, but hopefully it will give you a head start on how to have a successful and fun time on campus. There are facts, ideas, contact details and also plenty of online links to articles and video clips that you may want to check out. Don’t hurry with the booklet though. Treat it like a having an ongoing conversation with a friend. You can dip in and out at your leisure. 7 INTRODUCTION TO WELLNESS About the Health Promotion Service The booklet was commissioned by the Health Promotion Service (part of NUI Galway Student Services) which aims to assist students to reach their full potential by providing non-judgemental and up-to-date information to help you make informed decisions. The Health Promotion Service provides one-on-one advice and help for any student who wants to know more about issues affecting their wellbeing. Students can schedule a Wellness Check-up – which looks at the 7 dimensions of wellness, below – to see if things are in balance, or if some changes are needed to prevent problems. Intellectual Emotional Physical Spiritual Social/ Cultural Occupational Environmental 8 The Wellness Centre The Wellness Centre is in the back of the Hub in Áras na Mac Léinn. It is a place where you can drop in to browse the large stock of informational leaflets and books dealing with a wide range of health and wellbeing topics, or chat to the Wellness Volunteers about services and resources available on campus or in the community. The Wellness Centre has a Relaxation Room that can be booked for personal use, to take a break or for health reasons. The only rules are that no studying is allowed and mobile phones must be switched off. The Health Promotion Service also runs programmes throughout the year including the Mind, Body & Soul Programme and the Exam De-stress Programme. Take ten minutes and explore the information online at www.nuigalway.ie/student_services/health_promotion/ If you want to discuss these subjects a bit more or would like some advice, please make an appointment with Cindy Dring, Health Promotion Coordinator, at 091– 492048. Alternatively, you can e-mail cindy.dring@nuigalway.ie or just drop in to Áras Ní Éimhigh. And – for everything you would ever want to know about being happy and healthy on campus but were too busy trying to blag into a party at 3am to ask...be sure to check out riskybizzness.blogspot.ie I wanted to give some feedback about the different Mind Body & Soul classes, which are really great! Thanks a lot for what you offer. It’s really something I can enjoy. – John, 3rd Year 9 1 A GOOD START An individual’s mental and physical well-being is critically important when it comes to third-level education. The life you live will impact on how you are able to study, process information, and critically engage with books, lectures, essays and exams. A good start (arguably the best start) to well-being is the simple act of making friends and creating supportive and fun social links. A GOOD START The Student Connect Programme Student Connect is a simple programme aimed at speeding up the rate at which first year students make friends. The mission of Student Connect is to provide a friendly and caring introduction to NUI Galway for first-year students, through the facilitation of student-to-student help and encouragement. Your mentor is a point of contact if you ever feel you need help or advice on personal, social or practical issues. Remember – don’t think twice about asking for advice. See www.student-connect.nuigalway.ie for more information. Benefits of Friendship Friendship increases your sense of belonging, purpose and selfesteem. Some people like lots of friends, while others prefer a small group. Likewise, there are times when you need to relax in the company of others. Other times you need to just chill by yourself – but it is always good to know you have people you can rely on for fun, support and ideas. According to the Mayo Clinic, the benefits of friendship include boosting your sense of belonging and purpose, whilst increasing your happiness and ability to deal with stress and trauma1. Friends are also great for help with studying and de-stressing during exams. It can be intimidating making friends, but when you are ready to try here’s a few things to do: 12 Say hello. Remember, you are not the only one beginning this new life journey. You are surrounded by people who are attending third level education for the first time. They will welcome a smiling face. Ask how they are doing? What subjects are they interested in? Do they want to go for a coffee? What bus do they get in to town? Accept invites to social events ­– walks, parties, trips to the cinema, etc. Don’t worry if you don’t know anybody. Half the people there won’t know anybody either. Social Networking. Tweeting, blogging, Facebooking and texting are all great ways to engage with new people that you can meet up with for a walk, talk, swim in Galway Bay, flash party or whatever takes your fancy. Get to lectures early. It will give you an opportunity to have a quick chat to find out if there is any socialising going on. Be interested in what other people are saying. ‘Making friends made university a lot less intimidating’ – Deirdre, 2nd year ‘And a lot more fun!’ – Padraig, 1st year 13 2 Academic Support A potential source of stress for students is worrying about the academic work they will have to do in order to succeed at third level. NUI Galway has many resources that students should begin checking out at the start of their first semester. These will provide you with the skills that will boost your confidence and reduce the stress levels. A GOOD START Resources include: Skills4Study in The Learning Centre on Blackboard provides online training through www.nuigalway.blackboard.com You will find a range of interactive lessons and guides to skills including writing essays and reports, studying and preparing for assessments. The Academic Writing Centre provides free one-to-one sessions to help students overcome recurrent problems with grammar, punctuation, spelling, and essay structure. You can also visit the AWC if you have trouble starting your essay or choosing your essay topic: www.library.nuigalway.ie/support/academicwritingcentre SUMS is a free drop-in centre that will help undergraduate students with any aspect of Mathematics or Mathematics-related subjects. Support is provided by postgraduates of the School of Mathematics, Statistics and Applied Mathematics: www.maths.nuigalway.ie/sums Library Tours and Training. This is essential training for all students, at which you will learn how to find the books and journals you need within the Library. For details ask in the library or check out www.library.nuigalway.ie Computer DISC (Drop in Support Centre) offers assistance to students enrolled in computer programming or software development courses. http://www.computerdisc.it.nuigalway.ie 14 Disability Support Service (DSS) Prejudice and discrimination can make many students wary of declaring a physical or mental disability. However, NUI Galway is committed to Equality for all students. To this end the Disability Support Service provides a professional, confidential, responsive and approachable service to support the needs of students who have a disability/specific learning difficulty. The office is committed to enabling all students to become independent learners. The DSS can organise special examination arrangements, including extra time and the use of special equipment for students with disabilities. To avail of this support you should come to the DSS for a Needs Assessment as soon as you register for your course. For more on DSS see: http://www.nuigalway.ie/student_services/disability_office/ Career Development Centre It’s never too early to visit the Career Development Centre. Drop in and meet the nice people there who can help you get started on building the foundations of your career. First year is a good time to: • Identify your strengths interests and values. • Discover a little bit more about potential career areas. • Get a good CV together for internships and summer work. • Get involved in campus activities that you are interested in.They also offer support if you are unsure about your course. For more see: www.nuigalway.ie/careers 15 2 Where to stay? Accommodation can be another big worry, but again there are resources available to help you out. NUI Galway’s Accommodation Office can help you find appropriate accommodation in Student Residences, flats, apartments or houses. The office can also help if problems arise with property owners. http://www.nuigalway.ie/accommodation_office/ A GOOD START Other info on private lets can be found at: www.advertiser.ie/galway/classifieds Key Tips for Renting • Always view a property before paying a deposit • Always bring a friend or parent with you when meeting a landlord • Ensure you have a rental agreement • Always read and understand the Rental Agreement before signing • Always get a receipt for the deposit and any rent paid in advance • Always make a list of furniture and appliances with the landlord. Damage or loss of property is a regular reason for losing a deposit. • If there are any outstanding repairs, ask the landlord to state in writing that they will be repaired – take photos if necessary. 16 Flat mates Sharing a flat with can be a very fun and liberating experience – especially if you have just moved out of the family home. It’s a great way of making friends and encountering new ideas and experiences, all of which are great for your personal development and mental health, which in turn strengthen your ability to learn and study. A happy student is a successful student! However, in order to make sure their flat sharing experience is positive above all else students must communicate, ask questions and work out ground rules. Roommate Checklist • Will they share household chores? • Will you cook together or share groceries? • What are their habits around work, study & sleeping schedules? • What are their preferences around kitchen duties (either share or not)? • How do they feel about playing music, TV? • Do they like to host parties? If so, discuss policies about advance notification, limits, etc? • Are they a morning person or a night owl? • Do they smoke, toke or drink alcohol? If so, how much? • Will they have friends staying overnight? • Do they have a job and what kind of work do they do? • Have they lived on their own before or had roommates? What was that experience like? • How will you split utilities, phone and cable bills along with other living costs? 17 2 Neighbours A GOOD START There will be non-student humanoids living near you. They are a very interesting species commonly known as neighbours. They do weird things like raise children, push buggies and work nightshifts, back shifts and early morning shifts. They are also a font of knowledge about shops, busses, parking, bin collections, part time jobs, second cousins down from the country who are looking for a date, etc. Say hello and you may be surprised at what happens. By registering as a student of NUI Galway you have agreed to abide by the NUI Galway Student Code of Conduct. The code stipulates that you must not disturb fellow students or neighbours, or engage in anti-social behaviour. Punishments for breaches of the code include reprimand, fine, suspension or expulsion. Please make sure you read and understand the information available at www.nuigalway.ie/codeofconduct 18 Budgeting There can be no doubt that money can be tight for students, so it is worthwhile taking the time to work out a budget. The Money Advice and Budgeting Service (MABS) have an online Budgeting Tool to help individuals manage their money, reduce spending and ‘develop a realistic budget you can stick to’. Check it out at https://www.mabs.ie/budgeting-tool/ Active travel in Galway Making friends, checking out the campus, getting somewhere to stay and working out a budget are not the only positive things students can be doing at the start of the academic year. The way you travel to NUI Galway can also be very beneficial. Admittedly car journeys in, to, and from Galway can be frustrating, and finding parking in town or on campus can be a nightmare. Travelling by bus is easier. It also has the advantage that you can use the bus trip to relax, listen to music or link up with old and new friends. However, there is an even more fun – and by far cheaper – way of getting about the city. It is called Active Travelling, which means simply walking or cycling to NUI Galway. The benefits are not only financial. Being moderately active for thirty minutes a day can help you be healthier in body and mind, and it’s not that difficult. Short bouts of at least 10 minutes can be accumulated. The HSE’s Get Active campaign explains that ‘being 19 2 active helps release chemicals in your brain (endorphins), which have a positive effect on your mood, not to mention the benefits to your heart, lungs, muscles and bones. Getting out and being active is also a great way to manage stress.’ A GOOD START Walking with a friend is a good way of catching up and socialising. You can walk all the way from your house to campus or simply get off the bus a stop or two early. For cyclists, there are plenty of parking places on campus. If you work up a sweat cycling into NUI Galway, showers are now available on campus in the new basement toilets of the Quadrangle. You will need a swipe card from Admissions: Contact 091– 495566. For more details see: www.nuigalway.ie/buildings/cycle_to_work.html If you don’t have a bike, no worries – you can hire one through NUI Galway’s very own bike hire scheme, ‘Spin’. There is an annual charge of €10, but after that you can use a bike for 30 minutes for free. To register see http://www.grandscheme.co.uk/galway/schemeNews?aid=31 For more about cycling check out: www.galwaycycling.org www.hse.ie/eng/health/hl/change/physicalactivity/ 20 2 ‘How do I relax? Put on some sounds, and walk along the river path that leads to Dangan’ – Dave, 3rd year STUDY SKILLS A big worry for first year students is the amount of study they will need to do. Students can get stressed about how to balance study with other important parts of their life like socialising, working and keeping mentally and physically strong. The truth is that the best kind of study is that which makes time for other parts of your life. Yes – going to a party can improve your grades! The trick is getting the balance right. Too many parties will not improve our grades… However too much study will not improve your grades… So what will help? Well, in addition to the academic support on page 12, there are three things are very useful when it comes to studying: friendships, food and time management STUDY SKILLS Studying with Friends Arrange to study with someone or with a group. You will be able to help each other, bounce ideas and give positive feedback. However, study groups are not for everyone – some people do work best by themselves. But remember even if you do work best by yourself, it is still important to stay involved with a social network. Whether studying by yourself or in a group, here are a couple of things that will help you get the best out of your study: • Do not be distracted. Set a timer for forty minutes and do that reading or writing. When time’s up reward yourself with a cuppa or a walk. Then do another forty minutes. You’ll be surprised how much you achieve if you just take your time and pace things. • Reward yourself. When you have finished that assignment go treat yourself. The Irish Heart Foundation’s ‘Manage Your Stress’ booklet, which is available in the Wellness Centre, also has great advice on giving yourself treats: ‘Whenever you are faced with a difficult challenge, plan to give yourself a treat afterwards. The possibilities are endless – a meal with a friend, a new item of clothing, a book, a relaxing bath or listening to music. Having something to look forward to will help you cope much better’ www.irishheart.ie 24 Food for Studying It is too easy to reach for quick junk snacks, particularly at exam time. Junk snacks are not food. They will not give you the nutrition and energy you need, and if you rely on them you will end up de-energised, which will impact on your ability to study. Eating good food will improve your grades as well as your physical and mental well being. Here are some tips for exam time eating: • Have a breakfast. But be careful of breakfast cereals, many of which are expensive, have little or no nutrition as well as a high salt and sugar content. Instead, start your day with good slow energy release food like a nourishing bowl of porridge or scrambled egg and wholemeal toast. • Eat small, frequent meals to keep your blood sugar and energy levels steady. • Have quick real food ready to hand. Get into a routine of getting soup, sandwiches and salads ready. Either do it the night before or at the start of the day. It’ll be worth it. • Avoid sweets and sugary junk snacks. If you want something sweet, eat fruit. Berries are great brain food. Other great snacks are raisins, nuts, and yogurts. • Remember you need more than carbohydrates. Pasta is not enough by itself. Throw some vegetables and cooked meat or tofu into the sauce. 25 3 • Cut back on the caffeine. Whilst it can give you a quick rush of energy it will leave you drained afterwards. Too much caffeine can lead to anxiety, nervousness, and jitteriness. • Keep away from alcohol. Alcohol inhibits retrospective memory and impairs your ability to retain and retrieve what you have studied. STUDY SKILLS • Drink water. Water re-energises your body and combats fatigue. • Don’t eat and study at the same time. Use meals and snacks as time out from study – let your brain rest! • Reward yourself. Treats might not give you energy and nutrition but they are great for comfort. When your study is done have that bar of chocolate or or muffin. You’ll appreciate it all the more after a hard day’s study. ‘It’s amazing what simple changes can do – I cut down on my coffee and my energy went up’ – Aoife, 1st year 26 Cut Down on Salt Salt in small quantities is good for you. However, most of us eat way too much salt, adding it to our meals or ingesting it in processed foods and junk food. As well as being a cause of heart disease, the more salt you eat, the more likely you are to retain fluid in your body. Some women have a tendency to ankle swelling, feeling bloated and a tightness of their jewellery at the end of the day. Reducing salt intake from food will help reduce this tendency. Some of the foods we eat regularly, for example soups, some cereals, bacon and sausages, have high levels of sodium ­– a single bowl of some cereals contains the same amount of salt as one cup of seawater. Simple ways to cut down on salt: • Gradually reduce the amount of salt you add at the table and during cooking. • Use alternative flavourings such as black pepper, herbs, spices, garlic and lemon juice. • Limit the use of stock cubes, gravy granules and ready-made sauces, which are all high in salt. Try the low salt varieties, or making homemade stock or sauces instead. • Choose fresh vegetables and lean meat more often than tinned or processed varieties. • Try and make home-cooked meals the norm during the week. If you do need to use ready meals on occasion, look for reduced salt options. 27 3 • Get out of the habit of having instant high salt foods at home. In fact do not even put them in your shopping basket! STUDY SKILLS • Children should eat less salt than adults and these guidelines will help you reduce the amount of salt your children will eat. Regular family meals will help encourage your children to eat more fresh foods and home-cooked meals. The above facts come from ‘Time To Cut Down On Salt’. For more info check out: www.stroke.ie/media/pub/informationleaflets/ timetocutdownonsalt.pdf 28 Time Management There is never going to seem to be enough time in the day, so you must learn to manage your schedule, set priorities and find the right balance between work and play. Poor time management is one of the biggest sources of stress for students. Get a diary or time planner. There are lots of useful apps for organising your life, such as Wunderlist and Evernote. But diaries and wall planners work well, too. The trick is to use them. Suggestions for Time Management • Identify your goals. • Prioritise your goals – high, medium or low priority. • Make a to do list. Create daily, weekly, monthly lists based on your priorities. • Allocate adequate time for each task. Be realistic about how much time will be required. • Schedule time on every course each week, and plan to review course material at least once a week. Identify what you don’t understand early on so you can clear up any confusion before it comes time for exams. 29 3 HEALTH RISKS Under Pressure HEALTH RISKS One of the many positives of entering third level education is the opportunity to develop skills that will not only improve your ability to study and deal with stress, but help you remain healthy and positive throughout your life. Developing these skills may take some effort (sometimes bad habits have to be dropped before new ones are adopted) but the benefits in the short and long term are considerable. But before looking at the positives we do need to look at the negative things that can impact on health, coping abilities and grades. Chances are that these do not affect you personally, but you may have a friend who is affected. It will be useful for you to have some understanding of what is impacting on your friend’s health. Feeling the pressure? See www.mymindmatters.ie for help & information. A constant negative that students have to deal with is pressure from powerful multinationals. Through advertising, sponsorship of arts and sports, and political lobbying, corporations seek to get you to give them money for damaging products. They have the power and wealth to subvert and overturn health programmes around the world. They attempt to shape individuals’ views on masculinity, femininity and socialising. Not all your friends will have copped on to this and they will try to pressurise you into giving way to big business. Big business pressures to be wary of include: 32 Tobacco Smoking is not just a health issue. It is a social and political issue. It is about whether you wish to choose to support an industry that uses its vast wealth and resources to undermine the health policies of national governments, as well as exploiting the least well off. “Big tobacco can afford to hire the best lawyers and PR firms that money can buy. Big money can speak louder than any moral, ethical or public health argument and can trample even the most damning scientific evidence.” – World Health Organisation director-general Margaret Chan. Cigarettes not only damage an individual’s health, but have an impact on their personality. The addictive nature of cigarettes can make smokers angry and jealous of individuals who do not smoke or are trying to give up smoking. Research by Pfizer found that a third of smokers will attempt to sabotage other people’s attempt to quit 2. In addition, evidence is mounting that third-hand smoke – the stuff that lingers as a smell in carpets, sofas, clothes and other materials – is a health hazard for infants and children.3 The tobacco industry needs people to stay addicted – this is how it makes money. How to Quit: Contact the Health Promotion Service, or check out www.quit.ie 33 4 Alcohol The most commonly used drug in Ireland is alcohol. HEALTH RISKS It can be useful for relaxing and socializing. However, there a number of problems associated with alcohol – not least the pounds it will pile on you. While every drink carries a certain risk, people who stay within the low-risk guidelines are unlikely to experience problems, or to cause problems for other people. You can enjoy a drink - but too much, too often or too fast can cause problems. Low-risk guidelines Men: 17 standard drinks or fewer per week, spread out over the week, with 2 alcohol free days Women: 11 standard drinks or fewer per week, spread out over the week, with 2 alcohol free days A standard drink = half pint lager, small glass of wine, a pub measure of spirits A bottle of wine = 8 standard drinks 34 The question we need to ask ourselves is – how much is too much? The NUI Galway Student Lifestyle Survey 4 found that students were experiencing high levels of harm as a result of their own or of others’ drinking. Beyond the glitzy adverts, the truth is that alcohol increases the risk of developing more than 60 diseases and medical conditions, even at low levels of consumption. It is considered to be the most commonly used date rape drug, and a factor in half of all suicides in Ireland. One in four deaths of young men aged 15-39 in Ireland is alcohol-related 5. Recent research has also linked alcohol consumption to breast cancer in women 6 . Alcohol – the good news The good news is that cutting back and slowing down alcohol consumption can boost your wellbeing considerably. The NHS publication ‘Cutting down on alcohol’ highlights the following benefits of reduced drinking, including: feeling better in the morning; improved immune system; more energy; better skin tone; a better mood. The NHS also has easy advice on how to cut down alcohol. For more check out: http://www.nhs.uk/Change4Life/Pages/cutting-down-alcohol.aspx However, please note that Irish and UK alcohol measurements are different, so the NHS ‘Drink Checker’ would not be an accurate guide for students in NUI Galway. For a good non-judgmental way to begin looking at your engagement with alcohol is to try out the e-PUB facility in NUI Galway: www.nuigalway.ie/student_services/epub.html 35 4 Alcohol First Aid Use these tips to help someone who has had too much to drink. Do not underestimate the risks of alcohol poisoning. It can cause brain damage or be fatal. HEALTH RISKS DO: • Assist the person to a comfortable and safe place. • Use a calm, firm voice when speaking to them. • Lay the person down on their side, with knees bent so they won’t choke if they vomit. • Check breathing every 15 minutes. If they stop breathing, start CPR. • Wake them frequently. Alcohol levels can continue to rise, even in sleep. • Stay with them if they vomit, to be sure they don’t swallow or breathe in the vomit. • Keep the person from getting cold or overheated. • Find out if they have taken any other drugs. The combination of some drugs with alcohol can be fatal. DON’T: • Do not give cold showers – the shock may make the person pass out. • Do not try to walk them around. • Do not provoke a fight by arguing with or laughing at someone who is drunk. • Do not leave them alone. • Do not try to counsel the person – confront their behaviour later when they are sober. • Do not give anything to eat or drink – black coffee and food will not help, and the person may choke. • Do not permit the person to drive. 36 If you’re not sure, but think help is needed, call for help! If the person has sustained any kind of injury and has been drinking, or if they cannot be wakened, call for help immediately! Alcohol Poisoning • Person is unconscious or semiconscious and cannot be awakened. • Cold, clammy, pale or bluish skin. • Slow breathing, less than 12 per minute, or irregular, with more than 10 seconds between breaths. • Vomiting while “sleeping” or passed out, and not waking up after vomiting. • Person drank a large quantity in a short period, then collapsed. Get Help! On Campus: 091– 492604 (Health Unit) Off Campus: 999/112 37 4 Rape and Alcohol HEALTH RISKS With regards to sexual assault and rape, men use alcohol to build up their ‘courage’ to attack someone, then blame the action on their alcohol consumption. With regards to women, alcohol is the most common form of date rape drug. It will reduce your ability to identify a threat to yourself or to one of your friends. Alcohol consumed by a rape survivor can be used in court to discredit her character and testimony 7. If you are sexuality assaulted: • Go to a safe place • Call someone you trust immediately • Do NOT change your clothes • Do NOT wash • Contact the police • Go to the hospital emergency room For support contact: Galway Rape Crisis Centre Business Line: 091– 583149 8 See the Rape Crisis Network Ireland’s website for resources and information about sexual violence: www.rcni.ie 38 Dieting In 2012 a survey by Dáil na nÓg 9 found that • Positive body image rapidly declines throughout the teenage years and negative body image is considerably more prevalent among girls than boys. • Almost 2 in 3 teenagers say they feel pressurised to look good for other people. • More than half say that comparing themselves with others impacts negatively on their body image and that their body image interferes with their participation in activities such as swimming, dating and putting photographs on Facebook. Peer pressure, advertising and bullying impact negatively on how young men and woman in Ireland perceive their body image. This problem is exacerbated by the many myths about body image that are now common place in everyday discourse. These are myths perpetuated by the dieting industry. However the biggest myth is that dieting will improve your body image. It will not. Dieting does not work. It makes you feel guilty about your body and has long term negative impacts. If anybody suggests dieting to you, just remember the following: • Dieting is an unhealthy and expensive product created by a powerful industry that makes its money from making people feel guilt, shame and inadequacy in relation to their bodies. • Dieting very rarely works. (If it did then the dieting industry would go bust overnight.) 39 4 • Most people who go on a diet regain the weight within a year. • Dieting can have long lasting effects on your metabolism which actually result in weight gain. • Dieting can lead to reduced muscle strength, slower reaction times and poor brain function as well as nutrient deficiencies, dehydration and electrolyte imbalance. • Dieting can lead to an eating disorder. HEALTH RISKS • Dieting can take a heavy toll on your emotional wellbeing. • Dieting can leave you feeling tired, faint, dizzy, weak and generally lacking in energy. The above information is from the University of Alberta Health Centre’s leaflet Food, Weight & Body Image10. This online leaflet also has positive advice about body image including: • Compliment people on their actions and accomplishments rather than their appearance. • Join in activities and pursue interests that focus on skill and relationships rather than appearance. Regardless of your age have a look at Dieting For Teens – it’s packed with positive eating info: www.caringforkids.cps.ca/handouts/dieting_information_for_teens Remember also that dieting is one of the main factors in eating disorders. For more see www.proyouth.eu 40 Other Risks There are other pressures that students need to be wary of: Non-legal and other drugs Whilst alcohol is the most consumed drug in Ireland, there are other non-legal drugs available. Problems that arise from nonregulated drugs include: • Users have no information about the quality or purity of drugs they buy putting them at risk of overdose or poisoning. • Your reaction to a drug may not be the same as another person’s. • Price can fluctuate which will impact on your ability to budget your finances. • It is a myth that cannabis is harmless. It can lead to serious problems, including dependence and psychosis. • Possession can lead to a criminal conviction which will make it harder to access employment or get a visa. • Some drugs are available over the counter (some painkillers, for example), and some are prescription drugs that are sold illegally for recreational use (such as benzodiazepines). These can be addictive and dangerous, especially when taken in conjunction with alcohol. See www.drugs.ie for more informaition. 41 4 Gambling Poker and card-game websites use aggressive marketing techniques such as pop-up windows, inviting people to try them for free. What is advertised as fun can lead to debt and broken relationships. It is an addiction that impacts on women as much as men. Gambling can be a fun and sociable pasttime or a destructive addiction. It depends on your relationship with gambling. Things to remember: HEALTH RISKS • Set a limit on the amount of money you are going to gamble. Do not exceed this. • Set a limit on the amount of time you are going to play. Do not exceed this. • Don’t let gambling affect your relationships • Gambling will not provide you with a steady income. If you need money look for a job. • Never gamble alone. • Don’t be fooled by the adverts. Yes – people can win, and win big. But most do not. Pornography Whilst there is evidence to show that the use of sexually explicit material can compliment or enhance a couple’s relationship, this is dependent on the nature of the material. There is a difference between pornography and erotica. The problem with pornography is that its emphasis is not on erotic and equal pleasure. Rather it gives a false portrayal of sexual relationships with its focus on: ‘culturally accepted beauty standards, the idea of the constant sexual availability and insatiable sexual appetites of men and women, the excitement of sexual novelty, and sex outside of a primary romantic relationship. It rarely includes affection, intimate relationships, expressions of love […] the focus on sexual penetration is so pervasive that caressing, kissing, or cuddling are minimized or eliminated.’ – Ana J. Bridges, Pornography’s Effects on Interpersonal Relationships 11 Much pornography also emphasises and normalises male dominance and aggression. Men who watch pornography can become desensitized to the needs, feelings and opinions of women. They can become isolated from genuine friendships (sexual and non-sexual) with other students. This can impact on relationships and lead to dangerous behaviour including sexual assault. On a positive note some people do enjoy what is termed “femme pornography” with its emphasis on ‘slower, sensual sexual pleasures and relationships’. This is something they can share with a partner or enjoy by themselves without the dangers of adopting a risky lifestyle12. And finally, there is a video to watch and discuss with your male and female friends. It is from America but the issues are very relevant to students in Ireland. Project Unspoken: I am tired of the silence can be watched at: http://t.co/BxSqslqBa1 43 4 NEW WAYS OF THINKING Benefits of Diversity NEW WAYS OF THINKING On campus you will meet people who have different life experiences and expectations. These can be shaped by an individual’s gender, age, body shape, sexuality, ethnicity, faith, by whether they are overseas students or from other parts of Ireland, and many more factors. Be open to engaging with people from different backgrounds. You may be surprised at what you learn. Remember you too have important differences that define you positively as an individual. Be proud to share your experiences and background with others. Engaging with others will help you build up new support networks, examine and share your own identity and grow more confident about your place in the world. Changing Relationships It can happen that some students coming into third level have friends and family who engage with the world in a negative way; most commonly through using diversity as the butt of cruel humour, exclusion and bullying. Sadly, not all students and staff in third level institutions are immune to such behaviour. It is all too easy for new students to simply stumble into friendships that replicate those that shaped their life before entering third level education. 46 The difficulty with prejudice is that by holding on to detrimental views of other people you will not be able to express the pride of your own identity as fully and as positively as it deserves. In addition prejudice will block you from accessing other people’s knowledge, networks and experience; prejudice will stunt your ability to grow intellectually and emotionally. Don’t Be A Bystander to Bullying Bullying can happen anywhere to anyone. One of the most common forms of bullying in NUI Galway is the use of unwanted sexual contact – either verbal and/or physical – by drunken men against women. Half of all female students in NUI Galway have experienced this form of bullying. Other common forms of bullying include: • the spread of malicious gossip through social networking • the pressurizing, isolating or laughing at people who don’t drink alcohol • verbally or physically attacking people because of their faith, sexuality, ethnicity or disability If you witness or know about bullying that is going on then you have to choose whether to be part of the bullying problem or a part of the solution to bullying. 47 5 Being part of the problem includes: • Joining in with the bullying, laughing at the victim, or making jokes afterwards on social media, text messages etc. NEW WAYS OF THINKING • Give silent approval to the bully by looking on and doing nothing. Bystanders can act in different ways when they see or know about bullying Being part of the solution includes: • Expressing disapproval of the bullying • Expressing support for the victim • Finding help. This can mean speaking to the person in charge of the place where the bullying is taking place – the bus driver, the bar manager, the lecturer. • Making a formal complaint to NUI Galway or to the Gardaí • If possible to help remove the victim from the bully The Australian Human Rights Commission also gives the following advice on how to stop bullying Supportive bystanders: Just as we have human rights we also have responsibilities to respect and protect the rights of others. A supportive bystander will take action to protect the rights of others. A supportive bystander will use words and/or actions that can help someone who is being bullied. If bystanders are confident to take safe and effective action to support victims then there is a greater possibility that bullying can stop and the person who is bullied can recover. 48 People respect those that stand up for others who are bullied but being a supportive bystander can be tough. Sometimes it is not easy to work out how to help safely because bullying happens in different ways and places such as online, at work or school. There is no one size fits all approach to being a supportive bystander. For supportive bystanders to take safe and effective action here are some suggestions: • Make it clear to your friends that you won’t be involved in bullying behaviour • Never stand by and watch or encourage bullying behaviour • Do not harass, tease or spread gossip about others, this includes on social networking sites like Facebook • Never forward on or respond to messages or photos that may be offensive or upsetting • Support the person who is being bullied to ask for help e.g. go with them to a place they can get help or provide them with information about where to go for help • Report it to someone in authority or someone you trust e.g. to a lecturer, to one of the support services, to the Students’ Union Welfare Officer; at work to a manager; if the bullying is serious, report it to the police; if the bullying occurs on Facebook, report it to Facebook. 49 5 Family problems NEW WAYS OF THINKING Refusing to repeat negative behaviour will not only be of great benefit to you, but also to other students and, equally importantly, to any friends and family members who do have a negative view of people different from them. We all have the capacity to develop and grow as we go through life. Some of that change comes from watching our family and friends go through new experiences. You may be frustrated at the prejudice of your intimate circle, but remember that by supporting your going into third level education they have already expressed an understanding that you will be exposed to new ideas. Be confident about these new experiences and ideas. In time your family and friends will stop expecting you to enjoy or tolerate their prejudices; they may even change their own opinions. Equally, in time you may come to see beyond the negative side of your closest family and friends, and learn to appreciate and respect the positive strengths and beliefs. ‘My advice? Remember to talk to your family about your news, the good stuff and the worries. They’ll always look out for you.’ – Graham 50 Encountering Prejudice on Campus Remember prejudice causes real damage. It impacts on the mental health of those being subjected to abuse; it creates the culture and justification for verbal, physical and sexual violence to happen. Do not condone it. If you do find yourself in the company of students who use diversity as the butt of cruel humour, exclusion and bullying, there are a number of things you can do. If you feel comfortable, speak out. It could be that there are others in the company that feel as you do. If you don’t feel comfortable talking then you can still challenge people by walking away. Take your friendship and invest it in more positive relationships. They are not hard to find: everywhere you look on campus there is potential for new friendships. Anti-social behaviour breaches the NUI Galway Student Code of Conduct. If you are subject to harassment you can make a complaint. For more information, see NUI Galway’s Anti-Bullying Policy: http://www.nuigalway.ie/equality/ documents/AntiBullyStudents.pdf Oh yeah, and for those students who still haven’t worked out when exactly to use the word gay, check out Ash Beckham at Ignite Boulder 20 at http://t.co/b0VavOT3wk 51 5 Am I Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual? NEW WAYS OF THINKING All sexual relationships are enhanced by love, trust and emotional support. All sexual relationships also require partners to practise safe sex. However, it can be confusing and stressful if you believe you may be gay, lesbian or bisexual. Ask yourself the following questions: • Do you have frequent sexual fantasies about persons of the same sex? (Straight people also have same sex fantasies. It’s a question of what’s the most frequent.) • Do you feel more emotionally connected to persons of the same sex? • Are you more attracted to persons of the same sex? Don’t worry if you do not have a definite answer. Sexual orientation can develop incrementally. It’s okay to experiment as long as a you remember safe sex. Trust your instincts and you’ll eventually know what your sexual orientation is. For information and support for young gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in Ireland, check out: www.belongto.org NUI Galway also has a great society for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people of all ages, GiGSoc. See http://www.socs.nuigalway.ie/society_profiles/view/75 Twitter version: http://t.co/it0TnELyYo 52 POSITIVE HEALTH AND WELLBEING POSITIVE HEALTH AND WELLBEING Having discussed some of the risks to health and wellbeing, now it is time to look at the positive things students can do for themselves and for their friends. The positives could be summarised as follows: try new things, meet new people, enjoy your food! But one sentence does not do justice to the fun and creativity that is part of a positive lifestyle. So here is a slightly longer version: Try New Things Try out a sport club, society or CKI’s ALIVE community volunteering. They are all great ways of meeting friends, improving your self esteem – and look great on a CV. For more see: Societies: www.socs.nuigalway.ie Clubs: www.clubs.nuigalway.ie Community Knowledge Initiative (CKI): www.nuigalwaycki.ie Other things to check out include: The Arts and Theatre Office which runs exhibitions, art classes and the Múscailt spring festival; Check out: www.nuigalway.ie/arts_office NUI Galway Kingfisher Club A great venue for socializing and fitness. Its facilities include: 25 metre, 6 lane swimming pool; saunas & steam room; state of the art, 130 piece Lifefitness gym facility; café; meeting room; squash, racketball and basketball courts and much more. See www.kingfisherclub.com/nuigalway.html 56 Volunteering A great way to meet people is by volunteering. volunteering has benefits on both a personal and a community level. On a personal level Volunteering has a positive effect on six aspects of personal wellbeing: happiness, life satisfaction, self-esteem, sense of control over life, physical health, and mental health.13 Benefits include • Greater life satisfaction and lower rates of depression. • Volunteer now to prevent problems in the future. • Volunteers live longer. • Volunteers have lower rates of heart disease. • Volunteers have less stress. • Volunteers have higher levels of oxytocin and dopamine. • Volunteering gives you the ‘helper’s high’ (endorphins). • Volunteering enhances the immune system. • Volunteering makes you more interesting and adds to your identity. 6 57 POSITIVE HEALTH AND WELLBEING On a community level Communities with high levels of volunteerism tend to have healthier residents, better academic test scores, and lower crime rates than those that don’t.14 • More people had better health in communities with high levels of volunteerism. • More people in communities with strong volunteerism said they’re “very satisfied” with their lives. • Communities with lots of volunteer activity had fewer burglaries. • Students in areas with high levels of volunteerism performed better academically. Volunteering is like being in a health club that is free to join! Opportunities for volunteering include: Health Connect Volunteering: The Health Connect initiative, is a health promotion outreach programme for students. It involves student volunteers in providing non-judgmental, up to date, student-centred information about sexual health, alcohol and other drugs, mental health, nutrition, physical activity and safety. CKI ALIVE Volunteering: A Learning Initiative and the Volunteering Experience (ALIVE Programme) was established in 2003 by NUI Galway to harness, acknowledge and support the contribution that its students make by volunteering. The programme draws on a strong tradition of student engagement both on and off campus and assists students who wish to actively volunteer while developing tangible and transferable skills alongside practical volunteering experiences. Over 300 non58 governmental organisations support the programme and enable the student volunteers to act as bridge-builders between the University and civil society. Of course meeting new people can lead to more than friendships… So a few things to consider: Dating If you are interested in dating, go for it. However, remember you still have studies and exams to do. Here are some things to consider: • Don’t date your flat mate. If you break up, you’ll be stuck with that person until the end of the lease and it could get awkward. • Don’t cheat on them. If you don’t want to be exclusive, be open and tell the person you don’t want an exclusive relationship. But then don’t expect exclusivity from them either. • Avoid drama. If the relationship is getting too complicated or stressful, get out before it affects your grades and other aspects of your life. • Have fun! Enjoy hanging out with lots of people and don’t rush into anything. 6 59 POSITIVE HEALTH AND WELLBEING Healthy Sex Many people think that sexual health means not getting (or giving anyone else) a sexually transmitted infection, or avoiding unwanted pregnancy. But it is much more than that. It involves respecting ourselves and others, and developing a sexual self that has boundaries, openness, and pleasure. Not everyone is sexually active, but sexuality is part of being human, and everyone must decide what is right for them, according to their values. If you meet someone that sends the hormones soaring, there may be a few things you want to consider first. • Have you been drinking? Are you really capable of making decisions that you won’t regret in the morning? • Will you be cheating? If you already have a boyfriend/girlfriend, ask yourself if this one night of hooking up is worth risking a good thing. • Do you know this person? Are you sure they don’t have a girlfriend/boyfriend? If so, do you really want to get involved with a cheater? Is this person safe? • What are your expectations? Do you have any expectations around developing a relationship or do you both understand this is just a one-night stand? • Think about your reputation. Do you care if people know you do one-nighters? Will that change the way you look at yourself? Try to think beyond the weekend! • Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs). What is the chance of you getting an STI? Remember, when you sleep with someone, you sleep with everyone else that he/she has slept with. 60 • Are you prepared to protect yourself against pregnancy and STIs? Do you have condoms and another means of birth control? Be careful – condoms do not prevent all STIs, and are not 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. An article you might find interesting “Hooking-Up” Can Unhinge You can be read at: http://t.co/C4C1QeaGs8 Videos to check out: Demystifying a Sexual Health Check-up – Video http://services.su.nuigalway.ie/explore_projects/project/32/ public-health-education-videos-evaluation-of-the-dramatisationof-a-sexual-health-checkup/ How to put on a condom: http://t.co/yTNetLXYTD 6 61 POSITIVE HEALTH AND WELLBEING Enjoy Food Food is fun. Not only does it give you energy but it tastes great and is wonderful for sharing with friends and helping everybody relax. A healthy diet costs very little, is stress free and is very simple. Make sure you eat a good balance of food types. • The best foods are the ones nearest to their natural state. • Make sure there are different colours of food on your plate. • Enjoy cooking your own food. • When you are hungry, eat. • When you are full, stop. • As long as you are getting adequate exercise your body will pretty much look after itself. • It’s that easy. Remember cooking is not a time-waster: it is a valuable time-giver. It gives your brain much needed time off from study. Cooking allows you to have control over what you eat. It is cheaper than eating out or ordering takeout meals. The finished product is something you can share with friends. It is a skill that will aid and comfort you throughout your life. The Student Services Health Promotion website has a great collection of recipes, provided by Kate’s Cookery School: http://www.nuigalway.ie/student_services/health_promotion/ recipes.html For more on cooking check out: startcooking.com Brain food can be very easy to make: scrambled egg and toast or chopped fruit and natural yogurt. 6 POSITIVE HEALTH AND WELLBEING Looking After Your Friends If your friend seems out of sorts, don’t be afraid to ask them if they are okay. Just knowing that somebody cares enough to ask, can really help someone having an emotional time. Things that indicate your friend is having a difficult time can include them: being tense, irritable, sad/miserable/tearful; behaving erratically; being changeable in mood, panicky, withdrawn or very quiet; not being able to concentrate; using alcohol or other drugs to cope with problems; being agitated, very loud/disinhibited; talking incoherently; seeming dulled. You may also notice a change in your friend’s appearance, such as significant weight loss or gain. They may stop socialising, stop caring about their looks or personal hygiene, or stay in bed all day. • Trust your instincts. Talk to your friend. Don’t wait until things have escalated to a dangerous level. It’s almost always easier to address a health-related problem in its early stages. The benefits include open and honest communication and the chance to get help should a problem indeed exist. • Let them know that you are concerned about them and why. Say something like: “I’m worried about you because you haven’t been yourself lately, and I want to help.” Or “Tell me about what’s worrying you.” • Listen carefully, sensitively, and without judgement. Accept expression of feelings. • Empathise. Communicate understanding. Be prepared for defensiveness or denial. They may even try to turn the focus on 64 you. It takes a lot of courage for someone to admit that they need help. • Be tolerant and understanding. In some cultures, seeking help is seen as weak or shameful or may be frowned upon. Some behaviour may be the way that the person attempts to cope with life’s stress or tries to create some semblance of order in their lives, and so they may initially feel threatened by your concern. Confidentiality is very important when supporting a friend. However if you are worried your friend may be thinking about self harm or is at risk, you should suggest that they accompany you to one of the following student services where they can get immediate help: Student Health Unit, Áras na Mac Léinn http://www.nuigalway.ie/student_services/health_unit/ Chaplaincy Service St. Declans, 6 Distillery Road www.nuigalway.ie/student_services/chaplains Tel. 091 495055 E-mail: chaplains@nuigalway.ie Counselling Service http://www.nuigalway.ie/student_services/counsellors/index.html Tel. 492484 or 087-6644299 E-mail: counselling@nuigalway.ie There is a simple video on how to talk about mental health issues. It is called 5 tips on how to start a conversation about mental health and can be seen at: http://t.co/9e1tokuuuM 65 6 MIND, BODY AND SOUL MIND BODY AND SOUL Throughout the year Student Services Health Promotion runs a number of programmes that will help you de-stress and boost your confidence and resilience, or make some positive lifestyle changes. There is a new Mind, Body & Soul Programme every semester, and the Exam De-stress Programme is offered at exam time. The programmes are subsidized so the price is kept low – some are even free. For times and dates and prices of the current programme, keep an eye on the Health Promotion Service website. Alternatively e-mail Cindy at cindy.dring@nuigalway.ie or just drop in to Áras Ní the Wellness Centre to pick up a brochure. There are many other relaxation techniques and therapies available – keep an eye out for them. There is a useful one-minute and five-minute relaxation audio file that you can download from the Student Counselling Service website: http://www.nuigalway.ie/student_services/counsellors/ self_help_fact_sheets/relaxation_audio_files.html But of course there is plenty of things you can be doing as well. So to finish this booklet here are tips covering three subjects: Resilience, Energy Boosters and Celebration. Resilience • Mental health is something we all have and it is something we should take steps to protect in the same way we guard our physical health. We need resilience for life’s ups and downs: • Have courage to be imperfect: Try to aim for ‘not bad at all’ or ‘really quite good’ instead of ‘perfect’. • Take time for yourself. Allow yourself time to do things that you enjoy. If you create boundaries around your time, and stick to them, others will respect them. • Sign up for that course, join that club. Getting involved in community activities can create skills and boost your physical and mental wellbeing. • Be active every day in as many ways as you can. Being physically healthy is an important foundation for your resilience. See www. getactiveireland.ie • Spend time with people who make you feel good. Having supportive relationships is a key factor in resilience. Good friendships are as important as romantic and family relationships. • Laugh out loud each day. Laughing reduces stress levels, so look for opportunities to introduce some humour into your day. • Get your ZZZZZs. You will feel more resilient and able to handle the stresses of the day when you’ve had a good night’s sleep. Go to bed earlier and learn some tips on how to improve the quality of your sleep. • It’s all about team work! Tackle difficult questions first, learn to ask for help and accept all offers. 69 7 MIND BODY AND SOUL • Remember, “this too shall pass”. Keep things in perspective. Avoid being overly about things. Try and focus on the things you can control. • Talk out your troubles. If you let friends and family know when times are tough, they may be able to provide a lot of support. This could include listening, advice or providing practical support. Sometimes you may need to talk to a professional. For more info see: http://www.mentalhealthireland.ie/projects-aactivities/building-resilience-together-project.html Energy Boosters There are plenty of drinks, vitamin supplements, snack bars etc. that promote themselves as energy boosters. They cost money and rarely work or if they do, it is only a short-term solution, often with a negative side-effects like palpitations and jitteriness. Here are some very cheap things that do work and cause you no harm: • Control stress. Stress-induced emotions consume huge amounts of energy. Talking with a friend or relative, joining a support group, or seeing a counsellor can all help diffuse stress. Relaxation therapies like meditation, self-hypnosis, yoga, and tai chi are also effective tools for reducing stress. • Lighten your load. One of the main reasons for fatigue is overwork. Overwork can include professional, family, and social obligations. Try to streamline your list of “must-do” activities. Set your priorities in terms of the most important tasks. Pare down those that are less important. Consider asking for extra help, if necessary. • Exercise. Exercise almost guarantees that you’ll sleep more soundly. It also gives your cells more energy to burn and 70 circulates oxygen. Exercising causes your body to release epinephrine and norepinephrine, stress hormones that in modest amounts can make you feel energized. Even a brisk walk is a good start. • Avoid smoking. You know smoking threatens your health. But you may not know that smoking actually siphons off your energy by causing insomnia. The nicotine in tobacco is a stimulant, so it speeds the heart rate, raises blood pressure, and stimulates brain-wave activity associated with wakefulness, making it harder to fall asleep. And once you do fall asleep, its addictive power can kick in and awaken you with cravings. • Eat for energy. Better to eat small meals and snacks every few hours than three large meals a day. This approach can reduce your perception of fatigue because your brain needs a steady supply of nutrients. • Only use caffeine to your advantage. Having a cup of coffee can help sharpen your mind. But to get the energizing effects of caffeine, you have to use it judiciously. It can cause insomnia, especially when consumed in large amounts or after 2 p.m. • Limit alcohol. One of the best hedges against the midafternoon slump is to avoid drinking alcohol at lunch. The sedative effect of alcohol is especially strong at midday. Similarly, avoid a five o’clock cocktail if you want to have energy in the evening. If you’re going to drink, keep it low-risk, and at a time when you don’t mind having your energy wind down. • Drink water. What’s the only nutrient that has been shown to enhance performance for all but the most demanding endurance activities? It’s not some pricey sports drink. It’s water. If your body is short of fluids, one of the first signs is a feeling of fatigue.15 71 7 MIND BODY AND SOUL Celebrations Celebrating is good for your head and your heart. There are small celebrations and big celebrations. The small ones are the little rewards you give yourself after getting a block of study done or finish an assignment. Be proud of what you have done. Tweet it. Then treat yourself to a walk by the canal or a chat with a friend. Once a week or so have a slightly bigger celebration. Galway is a city with so much to do and you will always bump into somebody when you are doing it. There are plenty of fun things at very little cost. Here are a few suggestions: • Walk up and down Shop Street, checking out all the talent • Visit the market by Saint Nicholas Cathedral on a Saturday to soak up all the lovely sounds, smells and colours. • Walk the prom, and don’t forget to kick the wall. • Scare the hell out of yourself by diving from the top of the Blackrock diving tower (although to avoid hypothermia it might be a good idea to wear a wetsuit!). • Join all the dog walkers and joggers in Dangan for a constitutional walk or visit one of the many parks in and around Galway such as Salthill Park, Eyre Square, Terryland Forest Park, Barna Woods… (But remember to scoop the poop if your dog is responsible for it) • Have an impromptu game of football in one of the above parks or in the college. • Go to some of the many free events in Galway City Museum, Galway Arts Centre and Galway City Library. 72 Other good Galway past-times may be a little bit more expensive (which wouldn’t be hard seeing as all of the above are completely free!) but are still well worth it: • People-watching from one of our many outdoor cafes. The cafes lining the sides of Shop Street and High Street and the one at the back of the Born Shopping Centre are just some that spring to mind. • Go to the cinema, and keep an eye out for the Galway Film Society films on Sundays and free/very cheap NUI Galway films during the week (check www.socs.nuigalway.ie for details) • Check out what’s happening in the Town Hall Theatre. They have a fantastic line-up of music, comedy, dance, and theatrical productions. • Pay a visit to the Aquarium in Salthill, to see all kinds of weird and wonderful fish and other sea life. • Dust off your cúpla focal. Club Áras na nGael on Dominic Street has something on almost every night, from sean-nós and Breton dancing to world fusion and trad music. Wednesday night is Learner’s Night, and all are welcome, even if you don’t have a word of Irish. • Browse some of the charity shops in Galway. Whether it’s food,clothes, books or knick-knacks that take your fancy, they’re pretty much all here. Could end up being very expensive if you’re an impulse buyer though. You have been warned… • Hit one of the amusement arcades in the Headford Road Shopping Centre, City Limits in Oranmore or Seapoint in Salthill. You can play Qasar, bowling, bingo car racing and dancing games. Just be careful not to end up spending all your money on the slot machines. 73 7 MIND BODY AND SOUL • Play pool or snooker in the snooker hall on Eglinton Street. Being good at pool isn’t necessarily a sign of a misspent youth, you know. Pool tables and Foosball can also be found in The Hub Café in Aras na Mac Leinn. • Spend money. All that money you saved after you quit dieting and smoking and cut down on the drinking and gambling can be used for even bigger treats. Galway city is the gateway to some of the most incredible scenery and history in Ireland. Take a weekend off and go visit the Burren, Aran Islands, Inish Boffin, Athenry, Oughterard... Enjoy! About the Author Rab Fulton is an author, storyteller and performer. For more on his work see: http://rabfultonstories.weebly.com/ Cindy Dring is the Health Promotion Coordinator, Student Services, NUI Galway. Additional material by Ciara Ford. Design by Shannon Reeves. Notes 1. Friendship has many other benefits. For more check out the Mayo Clinic article at: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/friendships/MH00125 2. ‘One third of smokers sabotage friends who want to quit’ in thejournal.ie See: http://t.co/13CSQZwLAz 3. Ballantyne, C. ‘What is third-hand smoke? Is it hazardous?’ in www.scientificamerican.com See: http://t.co/EbVikhrZSg 4. MacNeela, P., Dring, C., Van Lente, E., Dring, J. & McCaffrey, J. (2012) Health and Wellbeing of NUI Galway Undergraduate Students: The Student Lifestyle Survey. NUI Galway Student Services. 5. For more info see: alcoholireland.ie/alcohol-facts/men-and-alcohol 6. ‘Why Drinking Alcohol Is Linked to Breast Cancer’ in www.sciencedaily.com See: http://t.co/dz1En4uk3t 7. For more on Alcohol and Sexual Violence see: www.rcni.ie/uploads/RCNI-FS04.pdf 8. For more facts on rape in Ireland see: www.rcni.ie/facts.aspx 9. For more on the Dáil na nÓg Body Image Survey see: http://cdn.thejournal.ie/media/2012/10/dcya_bodyimage_final_01-1.pdf 10.University of Alberta Health Centre: Food, Weight & Body Image See: http://t.co/c1Tbf6f65K 11. http://www.socialcostsofpornography.com/ Bridges_Pornographys_Effect_on_Interpersonal_Relationships.pdf 12.Ana J. Bridges, Pornography’s Effects on Interpersonal Relationships See: http://t.co/RpWZnXNsZ8v 13Thoits, PA & Hewitt, LN (2001) J Health Soc Behav. Jun; 42(2): 115-31. 14.Whiteley, P. “Civic Renewal and Participation in Britain.” News release, Economic and Social Research Council. 15.Boosting Your Energy by www.health.harvard.edu See: http://t.co/rqdr3MsfP2 75 7 Where to go for support, advice & information... Healthy Living To see a nurse or doctor, go to the Health Unit in Áras na Mac Léinn (091– 492604) For information or advice on general health issues, contact Health Promotion Officer & Wellness Centre (091– 492048/091– 494221) Healthy Eating, Mental Wellbeing, Alcohol & Drugs, Stopping Smoking, Exercise, Sexual Health. PERSONAL & EMOTIONAL Counselling: 5 Distillery Rd, 091– 492484 Chaplaincy: 6 Distillery Rd, 091– 495055 Health Unit Áras na Mac Léinn: 091– 492604 Health Promotion Officer in Áras Ní Éimhigh: 091– 492048 …for support with a wide range of personal Issues e.g. Depression, Anxiety, Eating Disorders, Bullying, Relationships, Sexuality, Assertiveness, Addiction, Homesickness, Loneliness... PRACTICAL ISSUES Student’s Union: Representing the rights of students. Contact them for any issue or concern. Áras na Mac Léinn, 1st floor Accommodation Office: 091– 492364 Fees Office: 091– 492386 Disability Office: 091– 492813 Mature Students Officer: 091– 492695 Student Information Desk (SID): 091– 495999 Admissions, Registration, Exams, Forms etc. Overseas Students: Can go to the International Office, 7 Distillery Road, 091– 49527. Legal Issues: for free legal advice contact FLAC society, E-mail: nuigflac@gmail.com. Bullying/Harassment Issues: Contact Students’ Union’s Equality Officer 091– 524810, E-mail: su.equality@nuigalway.ie INTERESTS & ACTIVITIES Whether you’re looking for individual or social activities, NUI Galway has got it all... Societies: www.socs.nuigalway.ie Clubs: www.clubs.nuigalway.ie Volunteering: www.nuigalwaycki.ie Gym & Pool Kingfisher: 091– 570800 Student Newspaper: www.sin.ie Student Radio: www.flirtfm.ie Arts Office: 091– 493766/091– 4935098 ACADEMIC & CAREER MATTERS Head of relevant College, School or Dept. Career Developent Centre: 091– 493589 Counselling: 091492484 Health Promotion Coordinator & Wellness Centre 091– 492048/091– 494221 ...for Exam & Study Tips, Course & Career Choices, Dealing with Stress/Anxiety, Goal Setting & Time Management First years Don’t forget you can ask your peer mentor whatever you need to know about college life! Not sure who you need to talk to? Then just call or pop into us at Student Services (091– 492364) in Áras Uí Chathail http://www.nuigalway.ie/ student_services/