Similarities and Differences of the Children of Athens and Sparta Differences Sparta Athens Similarities Similarities and Differences of the Children of Athens and Sparta Differences Sparta wanted to create tough, singleminded soldiers to maintain control over their conquered territories Athens wanted to create wellrounded citizens Unfit children were left to die. At age 7 boys were put under control of state. Lived in military style barracks. Education stressed military training and obedience. Children nurtured by their mothers. Age 7 taught good manners by a pedagogue. Purpose of education was to create a wellrounded individual. At 18 formally became a citizen Similarities Boys stayed at home until age 7 Harsh punishment used to impose discipline.