Dating Violence: The physical, __________________, verbal, or _________________ abuse of one partner by the other in a current or former relationship Warning Signs of Dating Violence Acts ____________ _____ __________________ Tries to pressure the other into sexual activity Controlling _________________ Quick Involvement (serious or exclusive right away) Unfair Expectations ______________________ Blames others for problems Overly __________________ Verbal Abuse __________________ of Battering Threats of Violence Force Used During Argument Why don’t teen break up with their abuser? LOVE DOUBT Protecting Yourself From Abuse: Spend time with others that share your ______________ and treat you with respect Know your own _______________ with regard to sexual activity and communicate those ______________ to anyone you date. Avoid _____________ and __________________. These substances can impair your ability to make sound decisions. Understand the _________ __ ___________________ of abuse. Trust your “__________” Seek _________________ from someone you trust. Dating 101 Know the person before you say ________ Did anyone ___________ you about the person? Double date with trusted friends or go out in a _________ Go to public places Be clear about your sexual _________ Have a cell phone Know exit doors Avoid alcohol and __________ Never leave your drink unattended Make sure you have a way home Date Rape When one person in a dating relationship forces the other person to take part in ____________ ___ ____________________ Can harm survivors physically, mentally, and emotionally. Alcohol or drugs often involved Drugs are often used to subdue the victim. _____________________ like Rohypnol “roofies” are often used. Contact doctor/hospital or police _____________________. One of the crimes least likely to be reported. You can have had prior sexual encounters with person and still be date raped. College Campus Safety Never walk home late at night by ______________ Stay in well lit areas of the campus Learn about security __________________ on campus **The leading cause of arrests on most college campuses is _________________ related. Help for Survivors People who have survived rape or abuse may feel angry, confused, or _________________ Survivors may withdraw from friends and family or develop symptoms of ____________________ or anxiety Long term problems may include alcohol or drug abuse, eating disorders, ___________________, and suicide Seeking professional help is the best way to work through feelings and avoid long-term health consequences Sources of support: parents, guardians, teachers, coaches, school nurse, guidance counselors, police, crisis centers, therapists, support groups, hospital, medical centers, shelters