Managing Conflict

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Working effectively in a team
NONE OF US
IS AS SMART
AS ALL OF US
Objectives of this presentation
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Conflict is normal (& good!) just needs
to be managed
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Identify your conflict handling style
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Steps for problem solving approach
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Strategies for better communication
Ingredients for a successful
team
1.
 2.
 3.
 4.
 5.
 6.
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Clarity in team goals - and a plan
Clearly defined roles and rules
Balanced participation
Awareness of the group process
Conflict management
Clear communication
Goals, Roles and Rules
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Has your team defined its goals?
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Who is going to do what? How will you
find a balance and monitor that?
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What are your ground rules?
4-Step Group Formation Model
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Forming
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Storming
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Norming
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Performing
Conflict - definition
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To come into collision, to be in
opposition or at variance; disagree
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a controversy, a quarrel, discord of
feelings or actions as in
a conflict of ideas
Conflict is normal
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Some conflict is inevitable - it is normal
human behaviour
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Conflict can be functional or
dysfunctional
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Dysfunctional conflict:
– threatens group survival
– diverts energy
– destroys morale and trust
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Functional conflict
– improves decision making
– stimulates creativity
– releases tension
– increases energy
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We need to manage conflict, not
eliminate it.
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What sorts of conflicts can happen
when people come together to work as
a team?
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Low
Importance
GOALS
High
Importance
Conflict Handling Styles
Shark
 Fox
 Turtle
 Teddybear
 Owl
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-competing
-compromising
-avoiding
-accomodating
-collaborating
CUDSA model
1. Confront the conflict
 2. Understand the other’s position
 3. Define the problem(s)
 4. Search for and evaluate Alternative
solutions
 5. Agree upon, implement and evaluate
the Best solution
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Some communication
strategies
Choose an appropriate time and place
 Maintain eye contact
 Define the problem using “I”
statements
 Don’t use labels/insults
 Give positive as well as negative
feedback
 Ask questions to clarify
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“I” versus “you”statements
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You’ve done a terrible job on this
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I feel worried that this is not up to the
required standard and we’re going to
get a bad mark
“I” versus “you”statements
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You are late to every meeting – its
impossible to work with you
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“I’m finding it really frustrating when
you are late and we have to repeat
everything we have already said. Can
we talk about this?”
Common IE conflicts!
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Late to or missing meetings
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Not finishing allocated task or not to
expected standard
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Aggressive/domineering manner
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Uncooperative attitude
IE conflict resolution
processes
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Try the methods outlined here within group
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Talk to supervisor, who can act as facilitator
to resolve problem
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Notify coordinators, who can attempt
conciliation and/or take formal action to
resolve problem.
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