How to Survive as a Graduate Student http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 1 2006 September 1 How to Survive as a Graduate Student • • • • • • • • • • • Francisco Pereira Chris Colohan Ted Wong Sean Slattery Alma Whitten Rob Deline Brian Noble Jay Sipelstein Jonathan Shewchuk Benjamin Pierce David Dill http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 2 2006 September 1 How to Survive as a Graduate Student • • • • • • • • • • • Francisco Pereira Chris Colohan Ted Wong Sean Slattery Alma Whitten Rob Deline Brian Noble Jay Sipelstein Jonathan Shewchuk Benjamin Pierce David Dill http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt ? Google IBM Credit Suisse First Boston Google Microsoft University of Michigan Susquehanna University of Berkeley University of Pennsylvania Stanford University 3 2006 September 1 Why are we here? • Learn how to survive and thrive • Hear from the "experts“ http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 4 2006 September 1 Outline • Getting started • The early years • The middle years • Black Friday • Fortune cookies http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 5 2006 September 1 Format • Question my authority! • Focus on new students • No names http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 6 2006 September 1 Getting started • Getting here • Attending the Immigration Course • Picking your new advisor http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 7 2006 September 1 Getting here • You have the ability to graduate http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 8 2006 September 1 Getting here • You have the ability to graduate • You are responsible for graduating http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 9 2006 September 1 Finding an advisor: step 1 • Go to lots of IC talks! • Learn about what you are interested in • Find out what you may not yet know you are interested in! • Find out who is leading what research • Find out who is looking for students • Go to the social events • Get to know the other students • Get to meet faculty in a relaxed setting http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 10 2006 September 1 Finding an advisor: step 2 Find out more about them • • • • • Ask them for a meeting Talk to their students Talk to their ex-students Read some of their papers Maybe attend a project meeting http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 11 2006 September 1 Finding an advisor: step 3 Come to an agreement • Tell them you’d like to put them down as your 1st (2nd, 3rd) choice • Verify that they’ll ask for you too • Fill out your handshake form accordingly http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 12 2006 September 1 Finding an advisor: step 3 Come to an agreement • Tell them you’d like to put them down as your 1st (2nd, 3rd) choice • Verify that they’ll ask for you too • Fill out your handshake form accordingly Don’t try to “game the system” • Almost everyone gets their first choice • Assignments are biased on your favour • Be open to different possibilities http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 13 2006 September 1 Why is an advisor so important? • Your advisor is your mentor • Your advisor is your manager • Your advisor is your advocate http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 14 2006 September 1 What do you look for in an advisor? • Approachability • Compatibility • Durability • History • Research http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 15 2006 September 1 What do you look for in an advisor? • Approachability • Can you talk to them? • Can you have discussions with them? • Can you talk about personal matters if they affect you or the research? http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 16 2006 September 1 What do you look for in an advisor? • Compatibility • Do you have similar working styles? • Hands-off, hands-on, hands-on-your-throat? • What do they expect from their students at different stages? • 40 or 60 hour work week? • What counts as research? • How do they react if expectations aren’t met? http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 17 2006 September 1 What do you look for in an advisor? • Durability • • • • • • Will they be here for all of your stay? Do they often go on leaves of absence? Do they have a business “on the side”? Are they near their tenure case decision? Are they new faculty? Are they established or a rising start? http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 18 2006 September 1 What do you look for in an advisor? • History • • • • • Have they graduated other students? How long did that take? Are they successful now? Alive? Embittered? Divorced? Insane? Have they “lost” a lot of students through advisor changes or departures? http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 19 2006 September 1 What do you look for in an advisor? • Research • Are you interested in their research? • How far along is it • exploration • implementation • paper writing • Research group structure • large group working on one problem/system • individuals working on unrelated problems • Are there more faculty/students involved? http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 20 2006 September 1 Multiple advisors: more of a good thing? • Pros: • Span research areas, skills, or styles • Combine strengths of each advisor • Parents v2.0 • Cons: • Must manage several relationships • Must balance demands of each • Must ensure they meet every so often http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 21 2006 September 1 Changing advisors • When to do it • If your research interests diverge • If your "styles" truly don't match • No problem, happens often http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 22 2006 September 1 Changing advisors • When to do it • If your research interests diverge • If your "styles" truly don't match • No problem, happens often • What to look out for • Changing frequently • Changing right before Black Friday • Changing more than twice… http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 23 2006 September 1 Outline • Getting started • The early years • The middle years • Black Friday • Fortune cookies http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 24 2006 September 1 The early years • Building up your advisor relationship • Taking classes • Fulfilling requirements • Doing research • Avoiding common distractions • Fear, uncertainty and doubt http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 25 2006 September 1 Building up your advisor relationship • Meet regularly with them • Communicate openly with them • Manage them • Accommodate their needs http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 26 2006 September 1 When advisors go bad http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 27 2006 September 1 When advisors go bad • (S)He doesn’t look at me the way he used to http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 28 2006 September 1 When advisors go bad • (S)He doesn’t look at me the way he used to • (S)He doesn’t spend time with me anymore http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 29 2006 September 1 When advisors go bad • (S)He doesn’t look at me the way he used to • (S)He doesn’t spend time with me anymore • (S)He falls asleep when we’re together http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 30 2006 September 1 When advisors go bad • • • • (S)He doesn’t look at me the way he used to (S)He doesn’t spend time with me anymore (S)He falls asleep when we’re together (S)He never compliments me anymore http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 31 2006 September 1 When advisors go bad • • • • • (S)He doesn’t look at me the way he used to (S)He doesn’t spend time with me anymore (S)He falls asleep when we’re together (S)He never compliments me anymore (S)He never tells me what’s wrong http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 32 2006 September 1 When advisors go bad • • • • • • (S)He doesn’t look at me the way he used to (S)He doesn’t spend time with me anymore (S)He falls asleep when we’re together (S)He never compliments me anymore (S)He never tells me what’s wrong (S)He never answers my calls/emails http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 33 2006 September 1 Taking classes • The old way (previous century) • Concentrate on research • Pass your classes (B-), get an A in your area • The apocryphal new way (this century) • Do well in your classes (A) and your research http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 34 2006 September 1 Taking classes • May seem very hard or very easy • Theory folks hate systems classes • Systems folks hate theory classes • It’s not unusual to fail one,nor is it a big deal • Always take more time than they should • Don’t forget your research! http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 35 2006 September 1 Doing research • • • • • Acquiring tools and concepts Learning how to survey an area Identifying a problem Solving it Dealing with yourself throughout • Listen to/read Manuel Blum’s advice • More later… http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 36 2006 September 1 Fulfilling requirements • Teaching • Teach a basic and an advanced class • Keep close watch on the clock (1/2-time) • Writing and speaking • Practice these skills early and often • Get lots of feedback before trying to pass http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 37 2006 September 1 Avoiding common distractions • Zephyr is not research! but it can help you with many practical things (http://zarchive.srv.cs.cmu.edu and also live with xemacs) • Don’t mix work and play • Try to work hard at least one hour a day • Make that hour the first hour • If you can’t work, go do something else! http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 38 2006 September 1 Avoiding common distractions • Zephyr is not research! but it can help you with many practical things (http://zarchive.srv.cs.cmu.edu and also live with xemacs) • Don’t mix work and play • Try to work hard at least one hour a day • Make that hour the first hour • If you can’t work, go do something else! • Community service is not a "distraction"! http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 39 2006 September 1 Avoiding common distractions • Community service: • • • • Traditionally students run many services Helps you meet many more people Gives a warm fuzzy feeling Faculty know who you are… http://www.grad.cs.cmu.edu http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 40 2006 September 1 Avoiding common distractions • What can I do? • • • • • • Coke Machine (service+coke@cs) Espresso Machine (service+espresso@cs) Software Collections (help@cs) DEC/5,The Guide To Living in Pittsburgh (decfive@cs) Student Seminar Series (sss@cs) Tea (freecsd-tea@cs) • IC/open house • Admissions Committee http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 41 2006 September 1 Outline • Getting started • The early years • The middle years • Black Friday • Fortune cookies http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 42 2006 September 1 Research: How’s Your Ego? Undergraduate work • given a task, complete it well, get cookie Graduate work • Find a problem you want to solve • Get grudging support for working on it • Have to justify why your work is worthwhile Do it because you want to http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 43 2006 September 1 Staying Sane • Don’t get isolated • spend time with people • talk to people about your work • Remember • there’s life after CMU • there’s life outside CMU • you do this because you want to http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 44 2006 September 1 Staying Sane: Maladies http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 45 2006 September 1 Staying Sane: Maladies Impostor syndrome • You think you’ve been successfully faking being good enough to be here, but one day you’ll fail and everyone will scorn you • Is very, very, very common Best cure • Talk to other students, admit feeling that way http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 46 2006 September 1 Staying Sane: Maladies Spiraling perfectionism • You think your work is too trivial for anyone to care about and you spend a lot of energy improving it or trying to avoid presenting it Best cure • Read papers, go to talks, go to conferences, recalibrate • Derive satisfaction from what you do, not from comparison with others http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 47 2006 September 1 Staying Sane: Maladies Trouble and panic • Failed exam or course • Research stalls or doesn’t pan out • Fight with advisor Best Cure • Remember it happens to everyone sometime • Help is available: • Older colleagues • Student ombudsperson • Frank Pfenning/Sharon Burks http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 48 2006 September 1 Staying Sane: Maladies Depression • • • • Loss of energy and interest Unhappiness Change in sleeping or appetite Fuzzy thinking Best Cure • CMU counseling center • Many grad students encounter this http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 49 2006 September 1 Beating pre-proposal FUD • "I'm not cut out for research." • It takes time to transition to self-direction • It takes time to find thesis topic • It is hard to figure out how to do research, let alone do it… • "I want to leave." • It is OK to leave (and you get a MS) • Leaving is NOT failure! • Staying out of stubbornness often leads to failure http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 50 2006 September 1 Sort-of-current Survival Rates 35 30 25 Got Ph.D. Gone 20 Absentia 15 On Leave 10 5 Still Here http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 51 20 04 20 02 20 00 19 98 19 96 19 94 0 2006 September 1 Black Friday http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 52 2006 September 1 Black Friday • Don't panic! • Ensure that you have an advocate • Talk to your advocate before BF • What have you (not) done • What do you expect to do (be reasonable) http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 53 2006 September 1 Black Friday: how it works • You fill out a form for your advisor • You go to the Black Friday TG! Meanwhile… http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 54 2006 September 1 Black Friday: how it works • • • • You fill out a form for your advisor You go to the Black Friday TG! Meanwhile… The faculty meet and discuss each student Key questions: • are you progressing • do the faculty believe you will finish eventually? http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 55 2006 September 1 Black Friday: how it works • • • • You fill out a form for your advisor You go to the Black Friday TG! Meanwhile… The faculty meet and discuss each student Key questions: • are you progressing • do the faculty believe you will finish eventually? • Your advisor writes a letter giving you feedback and setting goals for next semester • Frank signs the letter http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 56 2006 September 1 Black Friday: why? Black Friday is a good thing: • Gives you official feedback • From more than just your advisor! • Gives your advisor official feedback • Helps them (learn how to) advise http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 57 2006 September 1 Black Friday: the letter • "We are pleased. Next semester:“ • • • • Keep up the good work! Making satisfactory progress Try to reach suggested goals Alternatively, reach equivalent goals • "To remain in good standing, you must:" • Reach required goals • No, really reach required goals http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 58 2006 September 1 Black Friday: more why • Lack of communication Advisor might not be able to express disappointment… Certain advisors may be less patient. Language issues. • Lack of funds In our socialist funding system we are the means of production, not just the People… • Lack of direction Once classes and TAing are over, fewer excuses… http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 59 2006 September 1 Useful information http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 60 2006 September 1 Wrap up Things we wish we had believed a few years ago. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 61 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies Never surprise or be surprised by your advisor. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 62 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies Once an advisor, always an advisor. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 63 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies Talk with other students and faculty to get an outside perspective on your research http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 64 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies There is more than one partner in a marriage. Being concerned with only one of them is a BIG problem. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 65 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies You probably cannot write or speak as well as you can hack. Practice early and often. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 66 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies Hacking is not research. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 67 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies If you want to work, work. If you want to play, play. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 68 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies Work at least an hour a day. Make that hour the first hour. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 69 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies Keep outside interests and activities. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 70 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies Be honest to yourself about your abilities and limits. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 71 2006 September 1 Fortune cookies Your thesis has less to do with your career than you think. What you can say about your thesis has more to do with your career than you think. http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 72 2006 September 1 Final fortune cookie Have fun! http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 73 2006 September 1 Saga of Student X: Part 1 http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 74 2006 September 1 Saga of Student X: Part 2 http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 75 2006 September 1 Saga of Student X: Part 3 http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 76 2006 September 1 Saga of Student X: Part 4 http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 77 2006 September 1 Saga of Student X: Part 5 http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 78 2006 September 1 Saga of Student X: Part 5 N o w Now faculty at a famous university! http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 79 2006 September 1 Historical Survival Rates 40 35 30 25 20 15 10 5 0 Got Ph.D. Gone Absentia On Leave 19 71 19 75 19 79 19 83 19 87 19 91 19 95 19 99 20 03 Still Here http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~fpereira/ic.ppt 80 2006 September 1