PERCEPTION WHO ARE YOU? HOW DO YOU SEE THINGS? • Perception is the process of being aware of and understanding the world • Form, challenge, and reinforce ideas and beliefs • Influences how we choose to interact with others • Massive amounts of stimuli that must be processed SELECTION • Perception begins with those messages we choose to focus on and respond to • Filter out things by being selective • We can only pay attention to a small portion of stimuli • Sensory overload; selection helps prevent it SELECTIVE ATTENTION • The process of focusing on one thing, while not paying attention to anything else • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPnCbUK3QGY • Focusing on one event often involves ignoring events that are less expected SELECTIVE EXPOSURE • Exposing self to beliefs, values, and ideas that are similar to our own • Netflix, Spotify, Facebook, Twitter • Preference for messages that support personal positions / values (Fox News, MSNBC) • Mood management (movies, music, etc.) • Communicators play a role in choosing the types of messages they receive (ditch the negative; feel the pain) SELECTIVE PERCEPTION • When individuals filter what they see and hear to make it suit their own needs, biases, or expectations • Relevance to self (hearing your name called, car you drive, etc.) • Focusing on anticipated messages (Smith and Hubs) SELECTIVE MEMORY • Information we retain from interactions • Memory is dynamic (evolve), creative (reconstructive; bits and pieces), and social (jointly construct memories of shared experiences) ORGANIZATION After stimuli is selected, we must organize them so they construct meaning. • Schemas: mental structures developed from experience (road maps; classification tool) • Prototypes: best example of a category • Stereotypes: generalizations of a category • Interpersonal Constructs: opposing terms (friendly vs. hostile; more complex with experience; cognitive complexity) • Scripts: sequences of action that define situations (protocol) COGNITIVE COMPLEXITY • Numerous (many interpersonal contructs) • Abstract (more generalized; better for predicting behaviors) • Organized (links various constructs; defines along many dimensions) • Capable of handling contradictions / inconsistencies (prevents oversimplification of persons and or situations; Rate My Prof) INTERPRETATION • Giving meaning to information • Ambiguous situations can be interpreted various ways INFLUENCES ON PERCEPTION • Culture: Standpoint Theory (group affiliations impact perception) • Media: defines what is acceptable; media literacy • Fields of Experience: perceptual baggage • Language: connotative meanings SELF AND COMMUNICATION • Self-concept: general perception of who we are; past, present and future selves • Possible selves: visions of what we may become • Self-esteem: an assessment of individual worth • Self-image: mental picture of one’s self SYMBOLIC INTERACTIONISM • How we internalize and use social values to guide how we see ourselves and others; how we interact with others • Observe and internalize others’ reactions to us • Cooley’s looking-glass self: self arises from interpersonal interactions and perceptions of others • How we appear to others • How appearance is judged • Developing a sense of self through judgment of others GEORGE HERBERT MEAD • Not born with a self • We develop self through perceptions of IMPORTANT relationships with significant others • Generalized other: viewpoint of the entire society • “I” is the doer, the actor, the performer; in the moment • “Me” is the critic and judge; reflects on the actions of the “I” RELATIONAL SELF • Process of constantly becoming who you are as a result of relationships with others • People behave differently when they are with different people (cultural, familial, social contexts) • Communication helps each achieve a self that would otherwise not be realized • Communication creates identity; responsibility to interact with others so they can achieve healthy self identity HOW DOES THIS DRAWING REFLECT RELATIONAL SELF?