What does it all MEAN? What does this have to do with YOU? • With your partner or group, come up with a definition of BULLYING. Also come up with a definition of HARASSMENT. • Are these definitions the same or different? Explain the similarities and differences. • New York Anti-Bullying Laws & Policies | StopBullying.gov • There are 3 forms of bullying: • VERBAL BULLYING – saying or writing mean things. • • • • • Teasing Name-calling Inappropriate sexual comments Taunting Threatening to cause harm • SOCIAL BULLYING – also known as relational bullying. Involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes: • • • • Leaving someone out on purpose Telling other children not to be friends with someone Spreading rumors about someone Embarrassing someone in public • PHYSICAL BULLYING – hurting a person’s body or possessions. • • • • • Hitting/kicking/pinching Spitting Tripping/pushing Taking or breaking someone’s things Making mean or rude hand gestures • Cyberbullying – Intentional and repeated harm inflicted through the use of computers, cell phones, and other electronic devices. • Cyberbullicide - “suicide indirectly or directly influenced by experiences with online aggression.” (Hinduja & Patchin, 2009) • Megan Meier Story – YouTube • Phoebe Prince, 15 May Have Committed Suicide Because of Cyber Bullying - YouTube • My story: Struggling, bullying, suicide, self harm – YouTube • With your partner or group, discuss what you have witnessed here at NPHS. Come up with a list of ways you have witnessed bullying or cyberbullying that directly relates to a student or group of students targeted from this school. • Be ready to discuss with the class. • ANYONE can be affected. • Anyone who is targeted as being “different” or “weird” • Are perceived as different from their peers, such as being overweight or underweight, wearing glasses or different clothing, being new to a school, or being unable to afford what kids consider “cool” • Are perceived as weak or unable to defend themselves (passive) • Are depressed, anxious, or have low self esteem • Are less popular than others and have few friends • Do not get along well with others, seen as annoying or provoking, or antagonize others for attention • Families • Whole Communities • Schools • With your partner or group, reflect and discuss the different forms of bullying that you have experienced, witnessed, or just heard about in class. • Come up with 2 realistic scenarios involving bullying. Create one that involves cyberbullying and one that involves verbal, social, or physical bullying. • Write your scenarios down on a separate sheet of paper. • 15,425 usable questionnaires from 50 States and 158 schools around the country; grades 9 - 12 CDC-Youth Online-High School YRBS: Home Page • Nationwide, 16.2% of students had been electronically bullied, including being bullied through e-mail, chat rooms, instant messaging, websites, or texting, during the 12 months before the survey (Table 16). Overall, the prevalence of having been electronically bullied was higher among female (22.1%) than male (10.8%) students • Nationwide, 20.1% of students had been bullied on school property during the 12 months before the survey • During the 12 months before the survey, 28.5% of students nationwide had felt so sad or hopeless almost every day for 2 or more weeks in a row that they stopped doing some usual activities • Nationwide, 15.8% of students had seriously considered attempting suicide during the 12 months before the survey • During the 12 months before the survey, 12.8% of students nationwide had made a plan about how they would attempt suicide • Nationwide, 7.8% of students had attempted suicide one or more times during the 12 months before the survey • With your partner or group, create an idea for an anti-bullying campaign, activity, or workshop/seminar. • Within your plan, you should include the following: • 1. Who is advising/running/directing the campaign, activity or workshop. • 2. The main goals (at least three) directly related to NPHS needs. • 3. A list of the main bullying behaviors to be addressed. • 4. A plan of activities/events (minimum of two): • - List each activity/event and include: • a. What type (what is it (description)? • b. Who is it aimed to help? • c. How it can be organized (what is/who will be involved). • d. Overall goal of each event/activity. • 5. Be prepared to share your ideas with the class.