EMPOWERED ACSI Early Educator Conference Althea Penn, M.Ed.Adm., NAC.PDS The handouts and PowerPoints are available at http://speakerscore.com/empowered EMPOWERED <iframe src="//player.vimeo.com/video/53544952" width="500" height="281" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen></iframe> EMPOWERED Empowered-Prayer I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources He will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Ephesians 3:16 EMPOWERED Empowered-Worship I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources He will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Ephesians 3:16 EMPOWERED Empowered-Love I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources He will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Ephesians 3:16 EMPOWERED Effective Discipline Principles 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. Discipline is teaching Discipline is motivated by love Discipline considers developmental levels Discipline considers learning styles Discipline considers personality styles Discipline considers the antecedent or cause Discipline ensures the child’s basic needs are met Discipline requires a nurturing teaching style EMPOWERED Discipline defined To instruct or educate; to inform the mind; to prepare by instructing in correct principles and habits; as, to discipline youth for a profession, or for future usefulness. Webster’s 1828 Dictionary EMPOWERED Principle #1 Discipline is not punishment, but instruction. How can a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed according to Your word. Your word I have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against You. Psalm 119:9, 11 EMPOWERED Teaching the Whole Child Holistic Multi-sensory Active Combination of experiences Education comprehends . . . instruction and discipline intended to enlighten the understanding, correct the temper, and form the manners and habits of youth, and fit them for usefulness in their future stations. .. Noah Webster EMPOWERED Principle #2 The motive is love… "My son, do not make light of the Lord's discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those he loves…" Hebrews 12:5 EMPOWERED Principle #3 Developmentally appropriate Design the learning experiences and the environment—the physical classroom arrangement, materials, activities, schedule, curriculum, and teaching methods — to the developmental levels, personality and learning styles of the children in order to promote growth… NAEYC EMPOWERED Principle #4 Consider Learning modalities o Visual o Auditory o Kinesthetic “Each mind has its own method.” Ralph Waldo Emerson, 1803-1882 EMPOWERED Crib to classroom Auditory infants are attuned to sounds and words… Talk early Rapid vocabulary growth Enjoy listening to books EMPOWERED Visual infants Attracted to colors, shapes and motion Excellent eye hand coordination As toddlers…blocks, beads, puzzles EMPOWERED Kinesthetic infants Reach milestones early (crawling, walking, etc.) Well coordinated Confident in bodies Physical contact Like being held and rocked EMPOWERED Visually-What are your students seeing each day? Audibly-What are they hearing each day? Bodily-What are they feeling each day? God’s love, Word, and Spirit EMPOWERED EMPOWERED Principle #5 Consider personality types Principle #6 Consider the antecedent (preceding event) or cause Three primary causes of misbehavior Unmet need (rainy day-exercise) Lacking a specific skill (confusion-stop, look, choose or exploration) Mismatch between child and the environment or schedule (nap time) EMPOWERED Principle #7 Ensure The Child’s Basic Needs Are Met “People take time! Dealing with discipline takes time. Children are not fax machines or credit cards. When they misbehave they are telling us that they need help in learning a better way. They are telling us that there are basic needs not being met that are motivating the behavior.” Allen N. Mendler, What do I do When.. .? EMPOWERED EMPOWERED Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs Principle #8 Nurturing teaching styles Positive guidance helps to broaden egocentric views… Model pro-social behaviors: sharing, helping, cooperating EMPOWERED EMPOWERED Providing a nurturing classroom: 1. Developmentally appropriate program 2. Teacher interaction – positive, effectively communicate, support, observe, motivate and discipline each child 3. Behavioral expectations –realistic and consistently reinforced limits (redirection and active listening) 4. Modeling - caring relationships 5. Mastery of basic knowledge, skills and core competencies of early childhood development EMPOWERED Early Childhood Educator Competency To support social and emotional development and provide positive guidance. Time out Developmentally inappropriate for 0-3 yrs. Isolating Rejecting Terrorizing Ignoring National Health & Safety Standard 2.039 http://nrc.uchsc.edu EMPOWERED Discipline Philosophy Self-evaluation 1. Methods 2. Behavioral expectations 3. Communicating expectations 4. Conflict resolution methods 5. Problem solving methods 6. Solution follow through 7. Environmental factors EMPOWERED Effective Discipline Principles 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. Discipline is teaching Discipline is motivated by love Discipline considers developmental levels Discipline considers learning styles Discipline considers personality styles Discipline considers the antecedent or cause Discipline ensures the child’s basic needs are met Discipline requires a nurturing teaching style EMPOWERED I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 EMPOWERED EMPOWERED EMPOWERED ACSI Early Educator Conference I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources He will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Ephesians 3:16 The handouts and PowerPoints are available at http://speakerscore.com/empowered EMPOWERED EMPOWERED Effective Discipline Techniques I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources He will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. Ephesians 3:16 Do not hold back discipline from the child (Proverbs 23:13). EMPOWERED I tried to teach my child with books He only gave me puzzled looks I tried to teach my child with words They passed him by often unheard Despairingly I turned aside "How shall I teach this child?" I cried Into my hand, he put the key "Come, he said, play with me." --Anonymous EMPOWERED Key Techniques 1. Positive Guidance Limit the use of words such as no, don’t stop. Use positive terms to guide behavior…”Please walk, thank you.” “Jim is playing with…you may use it when he is finished.” “Puzzle pieces are not for throwing. Lets put them in their places together.” EMPOWERED 2. Redirection • Explain why behavior is unacceptable/poor choice • Distract their attention • Timer to set a limit for play • “You want to play with the truck, but Michael is using it right now. Your turn…” EMPOWERED 3. Classroom rules, expectations and activities that are realistic and DAP • Assist in developing class ground rules for behaviors • Typical vs. atypical behavior Biting when teething Parallel vs. cooperative play And to one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one, to each according to his own ability; and immediately he went on a journey. Matthew 25:15 EMPOWERED 4. Limits, consequences and choices that children understand, and that promote self-control Natural consequences should reflect choices • “Run when you should walk and you slip and scrap your knee.” • Letting others go first, opening doors for others, being careful around younger children or older adults, pride in keeping a clean work area, taking care of materials and equipment So also Christ… though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered. Hebrews 5:8 EMPOWERED 5. Limits and consequences that are consistent and applied equally to all children • Love the un-loveable • Consider student perceptions • Incentives and rewards-fair EMPOWERED 5. Limits and consequences that are consistent and applied equally to all children (EXAMPLE) • Post classroom rules in devotional or circle time area • Keep them simple Toddlers Helping hands Walking feet Listening ears Indoor voices Looking eyes Preschoolers WQ-Work Quietly FD-Follow Directions RO-Respect Others RP-Respect Property SS-Stay Seated EMPOWERED 6. Desired behavior modeled by teachers/caregivers • Follow the golden rule…treat others… • Model social graces and role play good choices • • • • • and consequences (enjoy when we take turns…) Be organized and prepared for each activity Maintain a neat and orderly classroom-clean as you go Arrive early and greet each child at your door Daily health check – regular breaks-recharge Maintain a positive solution oriented attitude EMPOWERED 7. Minimal use of negative consequences • Hold children accountable • Help them learn from experiences • Communicate to the child they are good/acceptable although their behavior is not acceptable • Safe place or quiet area for reflection and time to wind down when over stimulated by activity, surroundings, or circumstances beyond their control (i.e. divorce, separation, anxiety) • Comfort both - when a child acts out EMPOWERED 8. Build relationships with each child by listening and observing • Consider your own temperament traits and learning style • Identify your preferences • Make a list of children’s behaviors that bother you • Incorporate each child’s learning style in developing instructional activities • Auditory – Help remind of transitions • Visual – Sort and store • Kinesthetic – Store items, lead action songs EMPOWERED Mary treasured all these things, pondering them in her heart. Luke 2:19 9. Enlist parents as partners • Communicate daily • Build warm, caring professional relationships • Compliment child to parent • Share information with honesty and compassion • Indicate areas of success and concern • Select behaviors to improve/target EMPOWERED Encourage Parental Involvement Discuss the importance of having open parent communication and techniques used to make it happen, also discuss the importance of parental involvement. Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. EMPOWERED 10. Reinforce good behavior • Smile, use the child’s name often • Praise good behavior • High expectations for student achievement • Expect the best • Provide acceptance, affirmation, affection, attention and appreciation through eye contact, high fives, gentle tone of voice, positive facial expressions, body language, respect and individuality EMPOWERED Purposely use positive words Awesome! Great! Good going! Marvelous! I am proud of you! Super! Fantastic I like that! EMPOWERED Magnificent! Fascinating! Mark 11:23 For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be removed and be cast into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have whatever he says. 11. Plan lessons, follow consistent daily routines and smooth transitions Think through lessons and prepare materials before class. Plan smooth transitions between daily routines and train children from day one Be consistent and display emotional stability. Proverbs 10:9 He who walks with integrity walks securely, But he who perverts his ways will become known. EMPOWERED 12. Arrange the classroom to promote self-discipline • Adequate personal storage space • Materials students use should be visibly stored and • • • • accessible Designate sleeping, learning centers or subject areas and eating areas Arrange the room so that the teacher you can observe and monitor all activity at all times Use wall space for display, storage and learning enrichments Keep busier areas separate from quiet spaces EMPOWERED 12 Key Effective Discipline Techniques 1. Positive guidance 2. Redirection 3. Classroom rules, expectations and activities that are realistic and DAP 4. Limits, consequences and choices that children understand, and that promote self-control 5. Limits and consequences that are consistent and applied equally to all children 6. Desired behaviors modeled by teachers/caregivers 7. Minimal use of negative consequences 8. Build relationships with each child by listening and observing 9. Enlist parents as partners 10. Reinforce good behavior 11. Plan lessons, follow consistent daily routines and smooth transitions 12. Arrange the classroom to promote self-discipline EMPOWERED I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13 EMPOWERED