Definition of Empathy Pre-Assessment I think empathy means … Empathy Quotes Empathy involves … Empathy does not involve … Empathy Reflection My definition of empathy is … Our classroom definition of empathy is … The character from To Kill a Mockingbird I have the easiest time empathizing with is … because … The character from To Kill a Mockingbird I find most difficult to empathize with is … because … “’First of all,’ he said, ‘if you can learn a simple trick, Scout, you’ll get along a lot better with all kinds of folks. You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view—‘ ‘Sir?’ ‘—until you climb into his skin and walk around in it’” (Atticus Finch, p. 33). “When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen” (Ernest Hemingway) “Whenever you feel like criticizing any one … just remember that all the people in this world haven’t had the advantages that you’ve had” (F. Scott Fitzgerald) “For there is nothing heavier than compassion. Not even one’s own pain weighs so heavy as the pain one feels with someone, for someone, a pain intensified by the imagination and prolonged by a hundred echoes” (Milan Kundera) “Self-absorption in all its forms kills empathy, let alone compassion. When we focus on ourselves, our world contracts as our problems and preoccupations loom large. But when we focus on others, our world expands. Our own problems drift to the periphery of the mind and so seem smaller, and we increase our capacity for connection—or compassionate action” (Daniel Goleman) “Some people think only intellect counts: knowing how to solve problems, knowing how to get by, knowing how to identify an advantage and seize it. But the functions of intellect are insufficient without courage, love, friendship, compassion, and empathy” (Dean Koontz) “I call him religious who understands the suffering of others” (Mahatma Gandhi) “It’s the hardest thing in the world to go on being aware of someone else’s pain” (Pat Barker) “The opposite of anger is not calmness, it’s empathy” (Mehmet Oz) “The struggle of my life created empathy—I could relate to pain, being abandoned, having people not love me” (Oprah Winfrey) “Movies that encourage empathy are more effective than those that objectify problems” (Roger Ebert) “He’s really sort of the devil. He’s completely emotionally detached. He has no empathy. You find that in psychopaths. It’s about power with Voldemort. It’s an aphrodisiac for him. Power makes him feel alive” (Ralph Fiennes, about playing the Harry Potter character, Voldemort) “Normal people have an incredible lack of empathy. They have good emotional empathy, but they don’t have much empathy for the autistic kid who is screaming at the baseball game because he can’t stand the sensory overload. Or the autistic kid having a meltdown in the school cafeteria because there’s too much stimulation” (Temple Grandin) “Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It’s the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else’s pain is as meaningful as your own” (Barbara Kingsolver) “I think we are living in selfish times. I’m the first one to say that I’m the most selfish. We live in the so-called ‘first world,’ and we may be the first in a lot of things like technology, but we are behind in empathy” (Javier Bardem) “When you start to develop your powers of empathy and imagination, the whole world opens up to you” (Susan Sarandon) “I always think that if you look at anyone in detail, you will have empathy for them because you recognize them as a human being, no matter what they’ve done” (Andrea Arnold) “Throughout the world, teachers, sociologists, policymakers and parents are discovering that empathy may be the single most important quality that must be nurtuered to give peace a fighting chance” (Arundhati Ray) “Reading fiction not only develops our imagination and creativity, it gives us the skills to be alone. It gives us the ability to feel empathy for people we’ve never met, living lives we couldn’t possibly experience for ourselves, because the book puts us inside the character’s skin” (Ann Patchett)