BEYOND
THE HURT
YOUTH PRESENTATION
Presenter Name
RespectED: Violence & Abuse Prevention
ENTER DATE HERE
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CANADIAN RED
CROSS MISSION
To improve the lives of
vulnerable people by
mobilizing the power of
humanity in Canada and
around the world
Humanity ▪ Impartiality ▪ Neutrality ▪ Independence
▪ Voluntary Service ▪ Unity ▪ Universality
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WORKSHOP TOPICS
• Healthy relationships and schools
• Power
• Bullying
• Labels and stereotypes
• Harassment
• Impacts of bullying and harassment
• Intervention and response
• Prevention and helping resources
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HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS
AND SCHOOLS
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SEE
HEAR
FEEL
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POWER
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POWER
The ability to make something
happen; it is about making choices
about who you are and what you do.
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EVERYONE HAS THE POWER
TO EITHER HELP OR HURT OTHERS
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BULLYING
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BULLYING
Intentionally mean, cruel,
hurtful behaviour. It
involves using power in a
negative way to hurt others.
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4 TYPES OF BULLYING:
VERBAL
Using words to verbally attack someone :
• Name-calling
• Mocking
• Put-downs
• Hurtful teasing
• Threats
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4 TYPES OF BULLYING:
PHYSICAL
Using physical force or aggression against
another person:
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Hitting
Pushing
Tripping
Punching
• Kicking
• Spitting
• Shoving
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4 TYPES OF BULLYING:
SOCIAL/RELATIONAL
Trying to hurt someone
through exclusion, rumours
or ignoring.
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4 TYPES OF BULLYING:
ELECTRONIC/CYBER
Using electronic media
to threaten, embarrass,
intimidate, exclude or
damage someone’s
reputation.
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ROLES IN BULLYING
Person who
bullies
Person who
witnesses
Person who
is targeted
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RULES FOR ONLINE BEHAVIOUR
• Golden Rule Test
• Trusted Adult Test
• Front Page Test
• Real World Test
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LABELS AND
STEREOTYPES
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Labels are judgments we make about other
people.
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Stereotypes are labels that we put on entire
groups of individuals.
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HARASSMENT
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Harassment is hurting another person through cruel,
offensive, and insulting behaviours.
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HARASSMENT
Harassment is similar to bullying
because someone hurts another
person through cruel, offensive and
insulting behaviours.
Harassment is different from bullying
in that it is a form of discrimination.
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DISCRIMINATION
Discrimination is treating someone differently
or poorly based on certain characteristics or
differences.
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HUMAN RIGHTS LAW
Age
Religion
Family Status
Race
Sex
Marital Status
Ethnicity
Sexual
Orientation
Physical and
Mental Disability
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SEXUAL
HARASSMENT
Unwelcome behaviour of a
sexual nature that offends,
humiliates and hurts another
person.
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IMPACTS OF
BULLYING AND
HARASSMENT
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POTENTIAL IMPACT ON THE
PERSON WHO IS TARGETED
Sadness
Anger
Loneliness
Fear
Low selfesteem
Problems with
relationships
Substance
abuse
Eating
disorders
Problems
with school
work
Cutting or
self-harm
Suicidal
feelings
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POTENTIAL IMPACT ON THE
PERSON WHO BULLIES
Problems with
school
Problems with
relationships
Guilt
Legal
consequences
Difficulty controlling
anger and
aggression
Difficulty
experiencing &
expressing positive
feelings
Distorted sense of
self-worth
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POTENTIAL IMPACT ON THE
PERSON WHO WITNESSES
Guilt
Anxiety
Feelings of
helplessness
Fear
Anger
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INTENT VS. IMPACT
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INTENT VS. IMPACT
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INTENT VS. IMPACT
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INTERVENTION
AND
RESPONSE
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HELPFUL RESOURCES
www.kidshelpphone.ca
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THE POWER TO MAKE A
DIFFERENCE
57% of the time, bullying stops within
10 seconds
when a peer intervenes.
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PREVENTION
AND HELPING
RESOURCES
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To become
more involved in
RED CROSS
check out our website at
WWW.REDCROSS.CA
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THANK
YOU
COMMENTS OR
QUESTIONS
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