Spinal Cord Injury and Sexuality Glen W. White, Ph.D. Research and Training Center on Independent Living at the University of Kansas This training sponsored through a grant from the Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation Special thanks to… • The Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation • Centers for Disease Control • Ann Sullivan Center of Perú • Dra. Liliana Mayo and Staff members • Scott Richards, Ph.D. – Spain Rehabilitation Center, University of Alabama at Birmingham • Suzanne Groah, M.D., M.S.P.H. – National Rehabilitation Hospital, Rehabilitation Research & Training Center on Secondary Conditions in the Rehabilitation of Individuals with Spinal Cord Injury Special thanks to… • Sam Ho • Jaime Huerta • Monica Ochoa • And special thanks to Julio Chojeda for translation of materials from English to Spanish… Acknowledgement of sources used for this presentation: Yes You Can! (Paralyzed Veterans of America) SCI: A Manual for Healthy Living (TIRR) Sexuality (RTC/IL & PVA) Sexuality and Reproductive Health: What You Should Know (by the Consortium for Spinal Cord Medicine) Presentation Preview • Define Sexuality • Facts on SCI and Sex • Volunteer Activity • Myths on SCI and Sex • Male and Female Sex Organs • Stages of Sexual Response • Human Sexual Response Cycle • How can SCI affect Sexual Response and Activity? • Fertility Issues for Men and Women • Birth Control Techniques • Sexually Transmitted Diseases • Way to prevent sexual exploitation SCI and Sexuality: Some Facts FACT #1: • For people with disabilities, the lack of physiological sensation does not mean the lack of sexual desire. FACT #2: • It takes more than a stiff penis to make a solid relationship. SCI and Sexuality: Some Facts • The Dictionary defines sexuality as: • The conditions of being characterized and distinguished by sex. • Concern or preoccupation with sex. • The quality of possessing a sexual character or potency. SCI and Sexuality: Sensuality • What qualities do you think of in a person to be considered sensual or sexual? • • • • • • a good figure Attractive Nice personality Sexy Healthy Good conversationalist SCI and Sexuality: Sensuality • What qualities do you think of in a person who is not sensual or non sexual? • What are turnoffs? • Drunk • Ugly • Bad-tempered • Boring • Self-centered • Unattractive • Out-of-shape Are people with SCI Sexual? • How do people with spinal cord injuries fit in with the qualities of sexuality we have just discussed? • Are they considered as sexual beings? • Why? • Why not? SCI and Sexuality: Some Facts • Spinal cord injury may either affect or not affect the sexual function of the individual. • Does this mean that it will affect the sexuality of the individual? Need a Volunteer • Determine disability level • Discuss what some of the problems that the person will encounter as an individual with SCI: – On a day-to-day basis – From a self-concept viewpoint – From a self-care and independence point of view – From a dating viewpoint – From a marriage and family planning viewpoint – From an occupational and leisure viewpoint Volunteer Self-Report • How does the volunteer feel about having a disability? • How do they personally think it would affect their present lifestyle? • Sexuality? • and relationship patterns? • Other thoughts? Questions that people with SCI may ask themselves… • Is it alright for me to be sexual? • Will sexual activity be harmful to my health, or that of my partner? • Is marriage still a possibility for me? Who would want me? • What is the likelihood of my partner becoming pregnant? • How will my partner act if I can no longer do pelvic thrusting? Myths on SCI and Sex • SCI individuals are basically asexual and without feelings or sexual needs • They should be with their “own kind” • The ability to walk again is perceived as more important than regaining a pre-injury sexuality • Women with spinal cord injuries cannot have children • Men with spinal cord injuries cannot have children • Men cannot have erections after spinal cord injury or other disabling conditions Male and Female Sex Organs • Male Organs– External – Becomes erect for penetrating vagina • Female Organs – Internal – Repository for ejaculation of sperm • Both are very vascular and become engorged with blood Male Sex Organs and Care • Wash penis and scrotum with soap and water daily • Check regularly for skin irritation or infection – Can help detect penile or testicular cancer – Thickened areas are cause for concern • Talk to physician about regular testing for prostate or testicular cancer Female Sex Organs and Care • Vaginal area washed daily with soap and warm water • Some vaginal discharge normal – Beware of foul odor or an odd texture – Infection could be present, doctor should be consulted • Avoid douches – Can upset the natural cleansing of the vagina Female Sex Organs and Care • Menstruation cycle – Frequent changing of sanitary napkins or tampons important to avoid infections – Use a mirror to guide careful insertion of tampons, if you lack sensation – Maintain good hygiene by regularly washing vaginal area with soap and warm water Female Sex Organs and Care • Breast Self Examinations (BSE) – BSE should be done monthly beginning at age 20 and should continue each month throughout a woman’s lifetime. – The American Cancer Society recommends women 40 years of age receive a screening mammogram every one to two years; after 50, every year – Frequency of mammograms depends on your age and history of cancer in your family Stages of Sexual Response Excitement stage • Begin feeling pleasurable sexual sensations • Blood pressure, heart rate, and breathing may increase • Nipples may erect, penis may erect, and vagina may moisten • Women’s clitoris and erectile tissue can enlarge and be sensitive to touch Stages of Sexual Response Plateau stage • Excitement more intense • Man’s erection may harden – May have pre-ejaculation • Woman’s vagina expands and moistens • Nipples and breast become more sensitive Stages of Sexual Response Orgasm stage • Women – Pleasurable contractions of genitals – Feeling can extend to other parts of the body – May experience several orgasms • Men – Ejaculation Stages of Sexual Response Resolution phase • Return to “resting” state • Time of relaxation, affection, and closeness • Post-play • Stage more gradual for women The next series of slides shows a more visual presentation of the stages of sexual response for men and women. Stages of Sexual Response Stages of Sexual Response Stages of Sexual Response Stages of Sexual Response Stages of Sexual Response Human Sexual Response Cycle Human Sexual Response Cycle How Can SCI Affect Sexual Response and Activity? • Women – Some unable to achieve orgasm, while others can have orgasm but lack sensation • Word of caution for women with SCI at or above T6 – Orgasms can sometimes cause Autonomic Dysreflexia (AD) – AD can have serious consequences – Know all signs and symptoms of AD How Can SCI Affect Sexual Response and Activity? • • • • • • • Bowel/Bladder Accidents Urinary Equipment Urine leg bags Ostomy Bags Spontaneity Pain involved Spasticity and Spasms (good and bad points) How Can SCI Affect Sexual Response and Activity? • Legal and Non-legal drugs affect the sexual abilities and health of men and women. • Prescribed Medications – Levitra (vasodilator) – Epinephrine (vasoconstrictor) – Pain medications (codeine) can cause drowsiness and nausea – Antibiotics (augmentin) can cause diarrhea or can be a contributing factor to vaginal yeast infections Positioning for Sexual Activity • No one position is the best one. • Experiment with your partner to see what position allows the most flexibility and pleasure • Use new positions to reduce pain and fatigue – See if your doctor or therapist can recommend information on this topic Fertility Issues for Men • SCI and Sperm production • Regular ejaculation vs. retrograde ejaculation • Stimulating Ejaculation – Electroejaculation • Up to 50% pregnancy rate • Artificial insemination Pregnancy and Fertility Issues for Women • Hormones • Menstrual Cycle • Pregnancy – Parenthood – Adoption Birth Control Techniques for Men and Women • Total sexual abstinence/celibacy • Abstinence from sexual intercourse • The Condom • “The Pill” Birth Control Techniques for Men and Women • • • • UID Norplant implant Rhythm method Permanent Sterilization – Vasectomy (not 100%) – Tubal ligation “getting tubes tied” (not 100%) – Hysterectomy Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) • What is an STD? – HIV/AIDS – Gonorrhea – Syphilis – Chlamydia • Not always symptomatic • How can you get an STD? – Unprotected sex – Sharing of used needles when using drugs (HIV) – Tainted blood transfusions (HIV) Prevention Tips to avoid sexual exploitation of people with disabilities • Say "no" if touch or situation is uncomfortable • Tell someone if help is needed • Do not keep secrets if it feels uncomfortable • Ask questions if confused or frightened by touch behavior • You have a right to privacy do not have to allow others to touch you without your permission • You have a right to learn alternative ways of expressing affection without intimate or inappropriate touch Tips for Discussing Sexuality with your Patients • Inform patients that information regarding sexuality and SCI is available • Let them know that they are welcome to discuss issues regarding sexuality with you • When discussing sexuality, ask direct, openended questions to promote dialogue • Remember that loss of libido may be a symptom of depression Review of Today’s Session Today we: • Defined Sexuality • Addressed myths on SCI and sex • Reviewed sex organs and sexual response cycle • Discussed fertility issues, birth control techniques, and sexually transmitted disease • Showed ways to prevent sexual exploitation