De La Salle University Manila
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Unraveling the Generational Perception on
Same Sex Relationships
A Group Report
Presented to
The Faculty of Behavioral Sciences Department
In Partial Fulfillment
Of the Course Requirements in
Families and Population Change
Submitted to:
Mr. Melvin Jabar
Mr. Leo Parungan
Submitted by:
Adrias, Ramtrina
Borja, Jasmin
De Armas, Philaine
Katipunan, Jonel
Laqui, Zedrick
Lopez, Tara
Quinio, Nina
Ramos, Pamela
March 24, 2014
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I. Introduction
The lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community has been growing, and
acceptance has been widening as well. It may be said that a shift in perception on LGBT has
occurred, and there is an increase in social movements aimed at providing protection and
equality for the LGBT community. Historically, it is common knowledge that LGBTs faced
serious insensitive, degrading, and hostile acts towards them. However, the trend at present is
taking a stand against injustice towards LGBTs, and recent studies show that Generation Y also
known as the Millennials are spearheading this movement. This generation is much more open
and democratic compared to past generations. From past studies, the differences in generational
perceptions are quite interesting to note. Socio-political views, cultures, personalities, and ideas
characterize generations, and it consequently influencing perceptions and stands on certain issues
such as same sex relationships and LGBTs.
II. Short Literature Review
History of Same Sex Marriage
Ever since 1969 same sex relationship has been frowned upon in a community. One very
vital element that showed this was the Black Law Dictionary, which defined marriage as the
legal status, condition, and relation of man and woman united in law for life (Eskridge, 1993).
The book emphasized on the fact that marriage is the union between a man and woman, and
many people all around the world believed it. Same sex marriage has a very oxymoric concept,
for they say that this unification should involve a man and a woman because it is in the definition
of marriage; moreover, the Christian tradition states that this requirement is a prerequisite in
getting married. Furthermore, the western nation stated that in their society it is highly assumed
that only different genders are allowed.
The Lesbian and Gay Revolution
In June 1969, a police raid of the Stonewall Blar in Greenwich Village started a riot
between the homosexuals and heterosexuals. The riot provided witnesses, social practices and
created focal point for future struggles. Moreover, the homosexuals felt that they were
discriminated too much, which paved way to this emotional insurrection, and though many small
revolutions with the same intent happened ever since 1950’s this movement dramatically
progressed further after 1969.
LGBT Rights In the Philippines
Same sex relationship in the Philippines may have increased but citizens that are part of
the LGBT community will still face social and legal challenges. First example would be the same
sex marriage which is not legally recognized and neither protected by the civil rights law. In the
Philippines, same sex relationship is not a crime; however, public display of affection may be
subjected to the “grave scandal” prohibition in article 200 in the revised penal code. Contact with
minors will be an offense if the minor is after for the money or gain from the influence of the
adult.
Even though the Philippines is a Roman Catholic Country and 92 percent are Christians,
the country has been ranked as the most gay-friendly country in the world and the most in Asia.
In terms of media, LGBT has been gaining a greater visibility. Since a lot of successful LGBT
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members work for media, arts and fashion, they have gained tolerance from society (Wikipedia,
n.d.).
Philippine Bishop: Same sex marriage is against natural law
When Archbishop Emeritus Oscar Cruz was interviewed, he stressed that same sex
marriage or same sex relationship is against the natural law. The Archbishop also claimed
“natural law dictates that a union in marriage is only between male and female” and “it is the
natural law that human law can not change”. The Archbishop also added that it will only be
allowed in the country if the constitution is amended. In this article, it clearly shows how religion
and the Catholic Church affect the government and the perception of every citizen.
Using the divine law as a justification of why same sex relationship and same sex
marriage is wrong, it greatly affects the thinking and perception of every individual here in the
country. With the country’s strong ties with its religion, it is assumed that it is the greatest factor
that affects the citizen’s perception in same sex relationship (GMAnews, 2013).
Same sex marriage in the Philippines
Obama’s gestures and support towards same sex relationship could have been a nice
move inside and outside America but in the Philippines, it would only spark arguments and
questions on our readiness in same sex marriage. It might not even change anything at all. This is
not something the writer wrote to tell the readers that our perception of same sex relationship is
not improving; in fact, it is changing and Philippines is getting more liberal about it. Through the
help of social media in disseminating information on what is happening outside the Philippines
with regards to homosexuality, it catalyzed conversations here and helped the Philippines
understand more.
It is not really the church’s influence that makes it hard for the Philippines to accept same
sex relationship but the fact that the popularity perceive the church as the highest influencing
medium to this matter is the country’s weakness which gives the church a non existing power
and a strong perceived influence that many believe (Bangas, 2012).
III. Statement of the problem
Recent studies suggest that there is growing support for same-sex relationships. It is said
that this support stems from a less conservative environment, increasing democratic policies, and
more importantly generational beliefs. Today's generation, also known as the Millennials
(Generation Y), is described to be much more open to the idea of same-sex relationships, and
they are known to openly challenge those with opposing views. This shift in perception leads us
to inquire whether or not a person's generation does influence the stand on same-sex
relationships. Having said this, the study attempts to answer this question: what factors influence
the perception of the different generations on same-sex relationships? What cause this shift in
perception, and does it hold in the Philippine setting? This paper aims to shed some light and
insight to these questions. The results should hopefully lead to a better understanding of the
various perceptions on same sex relationships.
IV. Significance of the project relative to FAMIPOP class
This study would help us interpret the different perception of people when it comes to
same sex relationship. In status quo, it is observed that the older generation has a contrasting
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notion on same sex relationship compared to the younger generation. The study can further
enhance the reader’s understanding on how same sex relationships affect families, population
and the society itself. In our Family and Population we were taught about cultural differences
across countries, which affect how people act and think. Then from this study, it would help us
infer that people’s perspective about same sex relationship may be rooted from the kind of
culture he/she is immersed in. Moreover, this study shows the importance of being able to know
the difference between the perspectives of 3 generations that can define the development in
thinking and accepting of each generation towards same sex relationships. Ultimately, through
this paper our LGBT community will be informed about the the situation of people’s acceptance
towards the very sensitive topic, same-sex relationships.
V. Methodology
To be able to know the different perceptions of people about same sex relationship, the
researchers will conduct a qualitative research, which aims to collect these perceptions through
an interview. The researchers will make use of 1 method of qualitative interview namely,
personal interview.
The researchers also target to ask two different groups of people. Given that the research
aims to distinguish perceptions of varying generations, the researchers divided age groups into
two -- Generation X, ranging from 1966-1976, and Generation Y, ranging from 1977-1994.
Generational target market will ensure proper representation and confirm if the difference in age
will correlate to the difference in culture of each age range. The researchers opted for a mixture
of open-ended questions and yes-no type of questioning to have an in depth understanding of
each person’s perspective on the subject matter. Through this, we wish to garner as much
relevant information needed to make a valid conclusion. Also, similar questions will be asked in
both methods for all interviewees to be able to properly compare the answers of the respondents.
The qualitative questions that will be ask are listed as follows.
1. What is your feeling towards same sex relationship?
2. Do you accept people who are in a same-sex relationship? If yes, why? If no, will you
ever accept it in the long-run?
3. What are your criteria in accepting or rejecting people in a same-sex relationship?
4. What do you think is more acceptable gay or lesbians? Why?
5. Have you ever discriminated someone who is engage in a same-sex relationship? If yes,
how? If no, why?
6. Why do you think same-sex relationships are frowned upon?
After conducting qualitative interviews, the researchers will collect and summarize the
results of the interview. And through this, we will be able to make valid conclusions about the
subject matter discussed in this paper. The level of understanding and acceptance towards same
sex relationships will be key things that will be checked and looked for in the answers.
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VI. Results, Discussion and Analysis
1. What is your feeling towards same sex relationshp?
Generation Y
4
4
0
Strongly Agree
Agree
Neutral
Generation X 0
5
0
2
1
4
Disagree
2
Strongly Disagree
6
8
10
0
From a total of 8 Generation X respondents, 5 were neutral about same sex relationships,
1 disagreed and 2 felt strongly negative about it. None of the respondents had a positive feeling
about same sex relationships even if it is present in the world. The opposite could be said about
the answers of Generation Y. 4 of them were neutral about it, while 4 felt agreeable to same sex
relationships. From here we can see how opposite the perception of the two generations are. As
mentioned before, Generation X has neutral to negative feelings towards same sex relationships,
while Generation Y has neutral to positive feelings towards same sex relationships.
2. Do you accept people who are in a same-sex relationship?
10
8
8
6
4
4
Yes
4
No
2
0
0
Generation X
Generation Y
When asked the second question if the respondents accepted people in a same sex
relationship, the results clearly shows diversity in the answer of the Generation X. 50% of them
accepts people who are in a same sex relationship while the others do not. While 100% of the
respondents coming form Generation Y all accepted people who are in a same sex relationship.
Generation X respondents are cut in the middle. 50% of them believe that being in a same
sex relationship is the choice that the LGBT community makes on their own and they are not in
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the position to decide on them. While half of generation X still believes that same sex
relationship shouldn’t exist because it is against the church’s rules and teachings. Moreover, we
can see here that those who belong to Generation Y are all accepting and open minded about the
reality that is happening in our world today. They respect the decisions of the LGBT community
and give importance to their decisions. They do not close their minds about the love that can
manifest in a same sex relationship.
3. What are your criteria in accepting or rejecting people in a same-sex relationship?

Generation X
Reject : 5 out of 8
Accept : 3 out of 8
Religion
Evolution of
Social
Standards
Principle
Public Display
of Affection
Choice
Perception
Based on the results yielded by the survey, those who belong to Generation X identified
several reasons for rejecting same sex relationships. It is quite interesting to note that religion
and principle come to mind for those from the older generation. This could imply that Generation
X may be more religious or conservative when it comes to adhering to religious teachings. Aside
from this, given that they opt to reject same sex relationships on grounds of principle, it implies
that engaging in such relationships means that the person has no or lacks principle and good
morals—something which can be again related to religion. For Generation X, other reasons for
rejecting include the public display of affection by the same sex couple, as well as personal
ideologies regarding the topic. However, there are still those who accept same sex relationships.
Their reasons deal with freedom of choice, and the loosening of socially acceptable standards.

Generation Y
Reject : 5 out of 8
Accept: 3 out of 8
Public
Display of
Affection
Love and
Respect
Health
Choice
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Contrary to what was expected, the number of people from Generation Y who accept or
reject same sex relationships is actually the same as the number of people from Generation X
who have accepted or rejected it. However, it is important to take note of the reasons for either
accepting or rejecting. Respondents from Generation Y reject the idea not because of
conservatism, religions, or principle; same sex relationships are rejected because of the dislike of
public displays of affection and health. These seem to be more practical reasons for rejecting it.
On the other hand, same sex relationships are accepted due to love and respect for those
belonging to the LGBT community, and basic respect for the decisions they make concerning
their sexuality.
Lastly, these results seemingly imply another interesting notion—Generation X accepts
same sex relationships not because they would have wanted to, but because standards were
changing. When standards change, people naturally adjust in order to be socially accepted. This
could be one of the reasons why it has been accepted of late. On the contrary however, those
from Generation Y accept same sex relations because of love and respect—not because of
loosened standards, and the like.
4. Who is more acceptable? (Gays, Lesbians, Both, None)
Generation Y
2
4
2
0
Gays
Lesbians
Both
Generation X
2
0
0
4
2
4
None
2
6
8
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From Generation X’s respondents, there were 2 who believed that both gays and lesbians
are not acceptable, 2 said gays were more acceptable, while 4 said both were acceptable. From
Generation Y’s respondents, 2 said gays were more acceptable, 4 said lesbians were more
acceptable, and 2 said both were acceptable. In Generation X, there was no one who claimed that
lesbians were more acceptable than gays. This may be attributed to the fact that, gays were
relatively accepted earlier than lesbians. However, it should be noted that there were 2
respondents who said that neither gays nor lesbians are acceptable. Those who said neither of the
two were acceptable, were also the ones who had strong feeling about the church and their
catholic faith. However, even though most of them to do not approve of same sex relationships,
they still accept the LGBT community.
In Generation Y, there were no respondents who said that either the gays or lesbians are
not acceptable. Generation Y poses to be more open minded about their feelings towards the
LGBT community. 50% of the respondents answered that lesbians are more acceptable than
gays, as compared to Generation X respondents who did not answer lesbians over gays.
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5. Discriminated someone into SSR?
Generation X
Generation Y
1
1
Yes
Yes
No
No
7
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In both results we can see that almost everyone in both generations have not
discriminated against the LGBT community. In Generation X, the respondent who answered yes
to having discriminated against people in a same sex relationship believes that same sex
relationship is unacceptable. Thus, he has discriminated them working on the foundation of his
faith that there every “Adam” has his own “Eve” only. In Generation Y, the respondent who has
discriminated against people in a same sex relationship only did this because he is against those
in relationships who show public affection. Even though he accepts people who are in a same sex
relationship, he has discriminated them given that they engage in public display of affection.
6. Why do you think same-sex relationships are frowned upon?
Generation X
Religious
Beliefs/
Catholic
teachings
Culture/norm
s
Generation Y
Social norms
Religion
Others
Perception
Conservatism
Lastly, we asked the respondents why they think same sex relationships are frowned
upon. Generation X gave a number of reasons, and these include religious beliefs and Catholic
teachings (75%), accepted culture and social norms (12.5%), and the idea of conservatism
(12.5%). On the other hand, respondents from Generation Y have determined the following
reasons for why it is frowned upon: social norms (37.5%), and religion (25%). From this, we get
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the idea that whether or not people accept or reject something is highly influenced by society and
cultural beliefs. This plays a large role in determining the norms society abides by.
VII. Conclusion and Recommendations
From the given results it can be concluded that Generation X and Generation Y have
opposing views when it comes to same-sex relationships. Generation X’s perception are
generally based on the notion taught by the Church and the culture where they grew up too. Their
feeling towards same-sex relationship varies from neutral to negative. Among the 8 respondents
from Generation X, 4 of them reject it because it contradicts the Church’s dogma. The Church is
one of the biggest criterion on why people from this generation reject same-sex relationship;
other criteria on why people reject it would be principles, public display of affection and
perception. When it comes to who are more acceptable - gays, lesbians, both or none - from the
Generation X respondents there were 2 who believed that both gays and lesbians are not
acceptable, 2 said gays were more acceptable, while 4 said both were acceptable. But despite
having strong feelings against people in same-sex relationship, majority of the respondents have
never discriminated people in such relationship.
On the other hand, people from Generation Y are more permissive and prejudice-free
when it comes to the issue. Their feeling towards same-sex relationship are from neutral to
positive which is unlike Generation X that goes towards the other direction. All of the
respondents believe in accepting each and everyone, this is because of their open-mindedness
and greater understanding on the subject matter. When asked about their criteria on accepting or
rejecting, the same number of people who accept or reject is the same as the number of people
from Generation X who have accepted or rejected. Even though it is the same in number the
reason and the criteria are still different. The criteria revolved around pragmatic reasons such as
health and displaying affection in public. For Generation Y there is a mix when it comes to who
is more acceptable, from the 8 respondents 2 said gays were more acceptable, 4 said lesbians
were more acceptable, and 2 said both were acceptable. And as expected Generation Y have
never discriminated anyone in a same-sex relationship.
For the last question we asked both Generation on why same-sex relationships are
frowned upon and the reason for such are the Catholic Church’s teaching, cultural and social
norms, conservatism, and perception. From the results it can be inferred that a person’s opinion
is greatly affected to what society dictates to him/her. The Generation X grew up on strict and
social norms that are prejudiced towards same-sex relationship that’s why their responses are
like that. For Generation Y, the social norms are more liberal and more tolerant on same-sex
relationship making them as mentioned above more permissive and open-minded on the issue.
Throughout the years, there has been a change in the level of tolerance and acceptance between
traditional and liberal. What was once ridiculed is now accepted. Although, there are still
extreme cases that those people involved in same sex relationships have been ostracized by
society. We now live in a world wherein these people can freely express themselves.The societal
standards have shifted. Due to the diversity of the people in the society, we can say that we have
become more accepting of others. We cannot base these standards on one religion or belief
anymore. As we become more and more diverse, people's preferences have become more diverse
as well. We now live in a society wherein tolerance is not enough, we are moving onto accepting
one another despite our differences.
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Given these results the researchers would recommend to have more questions to induce
more answers to be able to really grasp the different perception of Generation X and Generation
Y. This will also help in determining why and what causes the difference in perception. A more
detailed perception on this topic would help see the smallest change in the societal
norms.Another recommendation would be, having a uniform demographic and/or background
when it comes to the respondents. One society that share same or similar beliefs would make the
study more reliable and consistent. By making it uniformed, the researchers will be able to see
the changes that happen within one society.
The researchers would also recommend greater amount of respondents. On a topic as
contraversial as same-sex relationships, it is best to have more respondents due to the different
perceptions that our society has today. A bigger number of respondents would make the study
more reliable as well. It is also recommended that this study would be done over the course of
years. Time is essential in being able to capture the societal standards. Given the different
changes regarding same sex relationships happening today, like legalization of same sex
marriages in some countries, we can say that views on this issue could change given a certain
amount of time. Those that did not accept it before, may accept it now. Change is inevitable
given time.
VIII. Methodological Limitations
One limitation in our methodology is the sample size. We generalized Generations to 2
groups only in order to hasten our research due to time constraint. These generations are named
as Generation Y and Generation X, which are aged from 13-21 and aged from 21 and above,
respectively. As a group we were only able to garner 16 interviewee’s since each of us only
interviewed 2 people, one from Generation X and the other one from Generation Y. We wanted
to use qualitative research; however, we also know that quality can also come with quantity, and
again due to time constraint we were unable to have scenarios completed. The topic is very
recent and very specific so the group had a hard time looking for scholarly articles that will apply
in the Philippine setting resulting for them to use local articles.
Moreover, another limitation that we had is our sample scope. Majority of the Generation
Y’s are from De La Salle University since this is where majority of the time of the group is
allocated every day. Also, some of the people interviewed from Generation X’s are family
members which can create a bias since it does not go beyond people of different income levels.
Basically, the sample scope did not touch different people in the society such as, government
officials, educated leaders and informal settlers.
Another limitation that we see in our research paper is the different perspectives of
people in the criterias on why same sex relationships are accepted or rejected, and are frowned
upon. People tend to differ in culture and norms because people come from different traditions,
and because of this difference people can perceive the analysis of our data with bias. A relevant
example is the criteria “Love and Respect”, people have different perceptions and understanding
of what Love and Respect are, some people may use these words as substitutes for one another,
or someone may use them as supplements. In other words, these open ended questions can relay
different meanings to people who will read the paper because these given criterias has no definite
meaning.
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IX. References
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March 22, 2014, from http://www.rappler.com/thought-leaders /5223-same-sexmarriage-in-the-philippines
Eskridge, W. (1993, October). A History of Same-Sex Marriage. Virginia Law Review, Vol. 79,
No. 7, Symposium on Sexual Orientation and the Law, pp. 1419-1513. Retrieved March
5, 2014, from http://www.jstor.org/stable/1073379
GMAnews. (2013, June 27). Philippine Bishop: Same sex marriage is against natural law.
GMAnetwork News. Retrieved March 22, 2014, from http://www.gmanetwork .com
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Wikipidea. (n.d.). LGBT Rights In the Philippines. en.wikipedia.org. Retrieved March 21,
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X. Survey
GENERATION X Respondents
1) Interviewee: Romeo Borja
(Father; Manager)
1. For me as a conservative Catholic, it is totally SSR is totally improper. I believe in the
Catholic rule that it is extremely prohibited.
2. I do not accept people engaging in SSR. And I think I will never accept it because it is a sin.
3. My criteria of rejecting it are first SSR is against the cardinal rule of the Catholic Church. And
second is my belief that men are for women and women are for men.
4. Both are equally acceptable. They are still humans and it is not their fault to become
homosexuals. What I do not accept is their practice and relationship with the same-sex.
5. No because they are still human beings who have feelings. It is improper to be judgmental and
show them that what they are doing is not acceptable. We just have to let them realize their
own mistake of engaging into SSRs.
6. Basically, it is because most of the Filipinos are Catholic, and SSRs are contracting with the
Catholic teachings. It was taught that this kind of relationship is a sin in Catholic. However, it
still depends on a person. Today, some Catholics are becoming more open with things, so they
tend to accept SSRs.
2) Interviewee: Blesilda C. Adrias
(Business Woman, Female)
1. Disagree because as a devout Catholic, I believe that SSR shouldn’t be accepted.
2. No. As I said, I am against SSR and I don’t think there will come a time that I will accept it.
3. SSR is against the Church’s teachings and I personally do not like looking at people in a SSR
in public. I truly believe that men are for women and vice versa.
4. If I had to choose, I would definitely choose gay over lesbians. Gays are generally more happy
and respecting. Although, given the chance to not choose, I will not choose any.
5. No. I like to keep my opinions of them to myself because even though I am against the idea, I
still respect them as human beings.
6. It is because the Philippines is generally under the Roman Catholic religion and we were
taught ever since we were kids that SSR are to be not accepted in the Church.
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3) Interviewee: Nancy B. Quinio
(Housewife, Female)
1. Neutral. It’s there, and it’s not like we can do anything about it.
2. Yes. Whether we like it or not, it exists and we can’t deny it so might as well accept it.
They’re also regular people.
3. It’s their choice.
4. For me, whether you’re gay or lesbian, it’s the same.
5. No. They deserve respect as well.
6. Against the Catholic belief, there are still a lot of conservatists, and some people are afraid or
have homophobia.
4) Noel Katipunan
(Businessman, Male)
1. I’m neutral about it ‘cause I respect people’s decision
2. Yes, I have a nephew who has a boyfriend and I accept him
3. Rejection: PDA. They are mature enough to know what’s good or bad for them and for the
eyes of the society
4. Girl to girl, cause I have a lot of friends who are into this relationship back in the days. And
now they have their own families and proud mothers. Hahahahaha.
5. No, I respect people because they deserve it but not because of their preference in life.
6. Cause it’s against our religion’s teachings
5) Bro. Gelo Paragas
(Brother, Male)
1. With regards to my feelings it’s mixed but if you ask me for my stand, I would stand by what
the pope said “Who am I to judge them”
2. Honestly, I don’t. I don’t judge them. If we’re talking about workspace, I have no problems
working with them. They’re just like everybody else.
3. I don’t reject them as persons; it’s just that I am not in agreement with the acts but again, who
am I to judge. For now, I would feel awkward seeing a couple of same sex, say, kissing in
front of me.
4. Honestly, I see no discrimination. Again, I don’t reject them for who they are.
5. It is a blessing for me that I am raised in an all boy school so meeting gay people is not new to
me. In fact, I have gay friends, teammates in my volleyball team. So in the early stage of my
life, I’m already used to that. I have no problem, actually.
6. I think it would have something to do with norm. You know what is “normal” for people to
see; the norms that are set by the society, the norms that are set by religion – both official and
unofficial.
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6) Hannah Lopez
(Businesswoman, Female)
1. I accept that we live in a society where people have diverse preferences. I acknowledge how
some peole choose to be in a relationship with the same sex, but my personal prefence is the
conventional female-male set-up.
2. Yes, I accept it but my personal preference is not to be involved in one.
3. The societal standards have evolved over the years, and we have become more accepting of
diverse interests and preferences. If other people are happy being in a same sex relationship,
and we see that they have become better persons because of their partner, then the relationship
has brought more good.
4. Gays are more acceptable, especially as they have grown in numbers. There are also industries
and fields where gays have been known to excel in. All these factors have provided society
with more reasons to be more accepting of them and the contributions that they bring.
5. No, I have always been objective in how I treat other people and do not judge them because of
their relationships nor their sexual preferences.
6. This may be because of religious beliefs and the dictates of a more traditional society.
7) Interviewee: Zady Laqui
(Businessman, Male)
1. Neutral, but still dislikes it.
2. No, same sex relationship is against the teachings of the church and what the Bible states. It
also contradicts to the principles instilled in me.
3. Same Sex Relationship is against the teachings of the catholic church. I also believe that this is
against my principle which is why I am rejecting it. I do not like the fact that an act can
desecrate both my principles and the principles and teachings of the Catholic Church.
4. In my opinion, Gay people are more accepted in the Philippines simply because they are more
visible in the country. An example of this are Gay celebrities such as Vice Ganda who are
famous because they are homosexual. I haven’t seen any lesbian who did not have any
controversy.
5. No, I just don't mind them.
6. It is probably frowned upon because of the different perspective and religions that people
have. Most people in the Philippines are Catholics making despise same sex relationships due
to religious reasons.
8) Ruth Ramos
(Physician, Female)
1. I’m iffy about it. It looks very inappropriate.
2. No, not entirely too sure if ever I’ll accept it but as of now no.
3. Rejecting, it would probably the teachings of the Catholic Church.
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4. None, because according to Catholic teaching men are made for women and vise-versa,
nothing else.
5. No. Because they are still people.
6. Its against the Catholic Church.
GENERATION Y Respondents
1) Interviewee: Rodolfo Villareal
(College student, Male)
1. It is neutral because it's kind of weird because it is unnatural. Cause I sort of believe in the
rules embedded in the Bible, and it says that the purpose of relationships is to reproduce. But
in SSR, this purpose of relationships is not met so it is like against in the law of the Bible. But
for me, I'm open but it is still kind of weird because it is not what I got used to see.
2.Yes because I believe that they have free will. Nobody can mess with free will, even God
Himself. It is totally just depends on them. So who am I to judge them?
3. Mine also applies with normal kind of relationships. Example is I don't want to see extreme
PDAs between the same-sex, and I think that is when I will reject it.
4. Lesbians are more acceptable because it is just weird for me to see it when it comes to gays.
5. No because it is mean, and I'm not that kind of person that will judge them
6. Because it is not really normal. It is not what people get used with.
2) Interviewee: Renzo Mutuc
(College Student, Male)
1. Neutral, not against and not for. Respect their rights.
2. Yes, because they are part of the same community. Do not do unto others what you do not
want others to do onto you.
3. If they want to be respected, they should respect themselves first. If they are PDA, they should
discretely do it. They shouldn't do it in a public place. If they do not want others to fight them,
they should respect each other first.
4. Lesbians, because their personality is strong. They do not care what other people think about
them. Gay people have issue's since they start those issues. Lesbians are calm and strong
minded.
5. No, I accept them fully.
6. It has been established that there is an "Adam and an Eve" in the society. They also tend to
become different since they are not becoming part of the society.
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3) Interviewee: Richard Sy
(College Student, Male)
1. Neutral because even though they are of the same sex, they have equal rights and they are
creations of God.
2. Yes because as long as they love each other that's all that matters.
3. Love
4. Neutral same as number 1. They are still human beings.
5. It is not socially accepted.
4) Interviewee: Gino B. Quinio
(Engineering Student, Male)
1. Neutral. Wala lang with me. Their choice.
2. Yes, we can’t do anything about it.
3. Accept because it’s their life.
4. Lesbians are more acceptable. I’m uncomfortable with gays.
5. No.
6. Frowned upon because it makes people feel uncomfortable.
5) Betina Libre
(College Student, Female)
1. Used to it because I have a friend that is in this kind of relationship
2. Yes. People have their own beliefs so I respect that
3. Accepting: Normal couples, like holding hands, peck on a cheek. Either way, whatever it is. It
is still acceptable. Too much in pda in public is not acceptable.
4. Girl to girl, people don’t really like guy to guy. Because girl to girl relationships are not that
obvious compared to guys
5. No. it’s not right and they should still be respected.
6. Because people are afraid of what they don’t understand.
6) Danielle Banares
(College Student, Female)
1. I’m ok with it. People have the right and freedom to what they want despite what other people
think. It’s better for a person to be free in the society.
2. Yes because I see everyone as the same, despite our gender or race.
3. Reject: Sexual practices that promote sicknesses like Aids. Also, having multiple partners;
stick to one
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4. Both. They’re equal so why would something be more acceptable than the other.
5. No because I’m not against it
6. Because people are not that liberated and they stick to tradition and God. How they perceive
as a man and woman.
7) Agerico Soriano
(College student, Male)
1. I'm completely fine with same sex relationships. I just find it really disturbing to see how the
PDA's happen though, but overall, I have nothing against them.
2. Yes because people in same sex marriages tend to become better at being couples than regular
people. Studies say that they also tend to become better parents.
3. I will not accept people in same sex relationships if:
- they PDA a lot
- they're touchy
- one or both of them cheat on each other
- they're both violent
- they're looking for a threeway with another person
4. Gay people, cause I'm more used to seeing gay people in relationships, especially in the center
of gay relationships of the world, the Philippines.
5. Honestly speaking, yes. It's just really disturbing to know that someone's sexually active, but
at the same time is gay.
6. Society tends to believe that whatever is new and isn't something that we're accustomed to, it's
automatically wrong. For example, you wouldn't tell a muslim man to eat pork, cause it's
against his own culture. Similarly, you wouldn't tell a straight hetero sexual man to watch gay
people go at it in a porno, cause they're more used to watching normal porn (Pardon my
example for it's insensitivity).
8) Kimberly Empeo
(Female, College Student, 22)
1. Its normal now a days. We’re in the 21st century, let’s accept it.
2. Yes, because I have friends who are in a same-sex relationship. I see no difference with samesex relationship and opposite-sex relationship, its still the same, its love.
3. I have no criteria because at the end of the day I do respect and accept them. Although I don’t
really agree to them being married because the concept of religion comes into the picture.
4. Depends because there is a chance that gays are more acceptable because they were the ones
who first opened everyone to such relationship.
5. No, because they are human beings as well. They fall in love and they also get hurt. And like
what they always say “you can’t judge a book by its cover."
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6. I think this is because of religion. As a Catholic, we were thought that a girl is for a boy and a
boy is for girl.
XI. Individual Reflection (each student must submit) not included in the max. number of
pages)
Ramtrina Adrias
The differences in perception on same sex relationships of Generation X from Generation
Y are very different. As I expected, generation X tend to be more conservative and close minded
about the phenomenon. They hold true to their principles, beliefs and have a solid stand about
same sex relationships. Generation X are more inclined to saying religion as one of the barriers
in the rejection of same sex relationships. They are very stern on the idea that according to
Christianity, women were specifically made to be a male’s partner. On the other hand,
Generation Y is more accepting and open minded about same sex relationships. They argued that
the LGBT community are people who are misunderstood and are humans who just want to love
and be loved in return. They were less likely to answer religion as a barrier to the acceptance of
same sex relationship, but dwelled more on the general perception of the society in accepting it.
From here we can already see the development in the way of thinking of the generation. We are
now more rational than emotional. Parts of Generation Y may still cling on to the reason of
Christianity, but has now taken into consideration the perspective of the society.
When we first talked about the topic, it instantly interested me. I personally wanted to
know the change in perspective of the Generation X and Generation Y on such a sensitive topic,
which was same sex relationship. When I was interviewing people I saw the level of comfort
change as well. My mom who is part of Generation X, seemed to be more tense when she was
answering the questions. But, all throughout the interview I could feel that she was very firm on
her stand of being against it. My mom is very religious so she is more incline to the traditional
view of same sex relationships. When I interviewed a fellow Generation Y respondent, I could
feel that he was more open and very casual about the topic. There was no evident hesitation in
answering the questions. He very well knew that same sex relationship exists for a reason, and
that reason is love. He respects people in a same sex relationship because he argues that we are
all creations of God and we all still have equal rights.
My stand on same sex relationships is actually neutral. I am still figuring out if I really
am accepting of it because I am being held back by what my religion says about it. I know for a
fact that same sex relationships shouldn’t exist as taught by the church, but as times change, I
have opened my eyes to the reality that there are people who find love and joy in same sex
relationships. Who am I to stop a person from giving love and accepting love, as long as it is for
their good? Who am I to say that what they are doing is wrong, if they both bring out the best in
each other? I have accepted my struggle in knowing my stand about same sex relationship. I only
hope that I will remain as open minded as I can be and keep on respecting everyone’s decisions
even though a part of me says it’s wrong, a part of me stills says that if love is there then who am
I to be against it?
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Jasmin Borja
I agree with the result of our study that there is difference in terms of perception between
our generation and the much older generation. I fully understand the stand of the generation x of
why they do not accept this kind of relationship. Based on their responses, they do not accept it
because they respect the culture and religion they got used to. However, just because some
people from generation y accepts SSR, it does not mean they do not give importance to the
culture and religion. The generation y is just being more open with possibilities due to the
influence our progressing world.
Personally, I have a neutral perception when it comes to SSR. I reject same sex
relationship if the reason why it was build is just for sexual interest, because as we all know it is
extremely prohibited in the Catholic teachings. However, I accept same sex relationship when it
was build with love and for companionship. The reason why I became more open with SSR is
because of my gay friend. According to him, being gay means having uncertain future because
of the fact that same sex relationship is not acceptable in our society. In my perspective,
homosexuals should also have the right to be happy and have a certain future because they are
also human beings. Maybe at some extent, we can accept this kind of relationship to help them
achieve the happiness and equality they desire.
Philaine De Armas
When we talk about old people, there is this notion that they are traditional and
conservative. Now, through our research, we wanted to verify this stereotype by tackling a
sensitive issue, that is, same sex relationships, by garnering opinions of people coming from
different generations. It is not surprising how the results came out to be. Results show that the
views of Generation X are more restricted to what tradition dictates while Generation Y is open
to same sex relationships.
Generation X and Generation Y were brought up in different circumstances which
contributes to their differing views on same sex relationships. Generation Y are more liberated in
terms of their thinking which might have been due to having more individual rights and being
able to exercise these rights freely. Because of Generation Y's consciousness to society, they are
more open to possibilities and thinks outside the box -- up to the extent of going against the
norm. Meanwhile, Generation X has been brought up in a society where anything that was
considered out of the ordinary was usually frowned upon, specifically homosexuality.
Eventually, homosexuals dared to be their true selves until its traditional perception has evolved
and became more accepted by the society. This can also be a reason why Generation Y is more
used and open to the idea of homosexuality because they personally know homosexuals whereas
during the time of Generation X, not as much individuals revealed their homosexuality for fear
of being judged or discriminated.
Personally, I don’t discriminate same sex couples because they’re equally the same as all
of us -- human beings. I am just bothered with how they bluntly express themselves in public
through sexual activity. But as what Pope Francis said, “Who am I to judge them”. If
heterosexual individuals find happiness in their same sex relationships, then so be it. I can’t
dictate what they should do, and neither should society. We need to accept the fact that times are
changing and we need to adapt.
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Jonel Katipunan
The results of our research claims that the different generations have different perceptions
and criteria on to what extent of the same sex relationship is accepted. As part of the generation
Y, I fully understand how the generation X came up with their answers and where they are
coming from. This is something that is really evident in the present generations, where us being
more understanding and liberal about it and the other as more traditional and technical when it
comes to religion and tradition. With all respect to our religion, I am still neutral and I do not
really take a stand on this issue, one is because I know that we are all mature enough to know
what is right and wrong for us. With that alone can already be a valid reason for me to say that
there is no really right or wrong when it comes to this issue. Love is very subjective and I know
everyone deserves love.
Laqui, Zedrick
Our topic for our final paper is all about same sex relationships, the group thought about
it because we were very intrigue about what kind of same sex relationship is more acceptable in
the society. It can either be the relationship of a man with another man, or a woman with another
woman, and it is very interesting to study about how people perceives these kinds of
relationships, and how they respond to it.
First and foremost, my group and I started out by making the questions that we will be
asking on our interviewee’s, and since it is a qualitative research we had to make the questions
very open in order to get a quality answer from the person. Moreover, we decided to interview at
least 2 people in order to maximize efficiency due to time constraints, and we also stated that
from the 2 people that we will interview, one should be an adult and the other one should either
be a high school student or a college student. Doing this, we widened the scope of our study to
two generations, namely Generation X and Generation Y.
It was very awkward at first when I started to interview my Dad about same sex
relationship. I had a feeling he was very annoyed and uncomfortable that his own son is
interviewing him about this; however, I explained to him the situation and clearly told him that
this is for research and for nothing else. I literally expected all the answers that my father gave
me; I knew from the start that he disliked same sex relationships and that he was against it
because he is a very religious man. He has his own principles and he abides by them no matter
what, and this value of his made him despise people desecrating his religion. Another person that
I interviewed is a friend of mine, he is actually a fellow student leader from DLSU, and he is a
very open person. In my point of view, it was easier to talk to him considering he was of the
same age as me, and that I did not have to explain to him what this is all about. He answered the
questions very openly and he even cited different examples. However, what touched me that
most is his answer on the question “What are his criteria in accepting same sex relationship”, he
answered “I respect them because they are still human beings, still creations of God”, which
gave shivers on my spine. Though I myself is against same sex relationship, this quote from him
moved my whole being, and made me consider trying to accept these things in society.
My experience in doing this study in my FAMIPOP class is undeniably unforgettable.
We were able to see the different perspectives of 2 age brackets towards same sex relationship,
and we were also able to know which relationship was more attractable or evident in the
Philippines. Having said this, the interviews, though having a small sample size, deepened our
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understanding about same sex relationships. These kinds of papers and interviews will definitely
mold Lasallians to become critical thinkers and more aware of what’s happening to his/her
society.
Lopez, Tara
Generations X and Y look at things differently. With the clear generation gap, the two
generations have different perceptions on same sex relationships. Generation X being brought up
in a more conservative and traditional environment has a more close-minded approach to things.
Anything that does not follow the traditional social norms is not readily accepted by most. As for
generation Y, tradition is not strictly followed anymore. Upbringing of children in this
generation is more liberal. Despite the many changes in the societal standards, they are more
accepting.
With the growing number of those involved in same sex relationships, the study is very
timely. The study shows us how one’s environment does affect their perspective and stand on
different issues in society, especially this controversial one. In my opinion, a mix of a traditional
and liberal environment would be ideal. One cannot condemn another for their personal
preference. Diversity has played a major role in changing the norms of society. We must
eventually learn to accept, not just tolerate, these changes. By accepting those that are different
from us, this may create an environment that is conducive for growth and understanding.
Quinio, Nina
It’s interesting to note the differences in generational perceptions regarding same sex
relationships. There are so many factors that can influence a person’s take on issues such as this.
For instance, the results of this study indicate how the year you were born in and the
circumstances surrounding it can affect your perceptions on same sex relationships. Religion,
societal norms, and I would say open-mindedness influence how we perceive those from the
LGBT community, and whether or not we accept or reject same sex relationships. Those that
belong to Generation X seem to be more conservative. They lean towards strongly adhering to
norms accepted by society and are in line with religious beliefs. Moreover, engaging in same sex
relationships is unprincipled and most unacceptable, most especially when coupled with public
displays of affection. The results also show that one of the reasons why those from Generation X
accept same sex relationships is because of the slow acceptance of the idea--unlike those from
Generation Y who accept it out of mutual love and respect. Generation Y is much more open to
same sex relationships and the LGBT community. As previous studies suggest, they actually
helped spark movements to increase the rights of the LGBT community, and they vye for
equality. Although despite this, it is still unavoidable that there will be those who still remain
closed to the idea for various reasons as well. There are people who still feel uncomfortable, and
some regard it as unnatural. Nevertheless, in my opinion, it is good to note that there is wider
acceptance for same sex relationships because people realize that those who engage in this are
still humans with the same rights as you and me. My personal stand on same sex relationships is
to accept it. It may not be something I would like to get involved in, but I recognize that people
are all different and may feel differently with matters concerning sexuality. I am for respecting
people’s choices, and not imposing limits to their rights as citizens and people. Lastly, I do
believe in happiness in choices and if choosing to love or be with someone of the same sex
brings happiness, then I would support him or her as long as it is not destructive to anybody else.
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Ramos, Pamela
I honestly believe that the perception of Generation X and Generation Y boils down to
the social and cultural norm that persisted during their time. For Generation X, we know that
they were conservative back in the days, they abided to the rules and teachings of the Church.
They were consumed by what society tells them, I believe that this is why up until now people
from Generation X it finds it hard to accept same-sex relationship. For Generation Y, status quo
is very different, its more liberal and broad-minded. So this causes the change in perception of
the younger generation.
I actually stand in the middle of same-sex relationship, because there are times that i find
myself for it but there are also times that I find myself not for it. To be honest, I have a lot of gay
friends, they’re just like heterosexuals also. We’re all pretty much the same, we all want to feel
and be loved so who am I to take away their chance in love?
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