Study Guide • A purpose or a reason why families are so important • Ensure the continuation of society Society is strong when the families in it are strong The functions that the family provides are also the responsibilities of family life. • • • • • Love and affection Security Protection Education Teaching values • • • • Economic support Procreation Guidance Socialization • Neighborhood/community – greatest impact • State • Nation • Society cannot do everything • The family is responsible for raising children to become contributing members of society • Strength is built by the way family members: • Communicate • Take responsibilities • Care for each other • Communication skills • Problem solving/decision making skills • Management skills (handle finances and responsibilities) • Conflict resolution skills After watching the episode, answer the following question: • Explain how the Taylor family used each skill to build a stronger family: • Communication • Problem solving/decision making • Conflict resolution • Management • • • • • Family comes first Every family member contributes to the family Change is possible Problems can be solved Where to get help • • • • Learn about yourself Strengthen your current family relationships Learn skills to use in your future relationships Expose you to family life careers • Need: required for survival • Must attend to unmet needs • Want: desired, but not essential • Family cannot satisfy all its members’ needs and wants • Ex: Managing family’s time and budget • Wanted to find out what motivates people • Motivation to satisfy needs produces growth • Lower level needs must be satisfied before progressing on to meet high level needs • When a need is met, it becomes less important and the next level of need becomes the focus SELF ACTUALIZATION ESTEEM LOVE & BELONGING SAFETY & SECURITY NEEDS PHYSICAL NEEDS Realizing personal potential, self-fulfillment, seeking personal growth and peak experiences Achievement, mastery, independence, status, dominance, prestige, selfrespect, respect from others Friendship, intimacy, affection, love From coworkers, family, friends, romantic relationships Protection from elements, security, order, law, stability, freedom from fear Air, food, drink, shelter, warmth, sleep Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy of Human Needs Poster • Using oak tag, rulers, and colored pencils; create a visual representation of each level of Hierarchy of Human Needs • At each level, include 4 magazine pictures that represent human needs associated with each level • Chuck had everything until the crash. Now he is on an uninhabited island and is working to meet his basic human needs. Watch the following clip. Cast Away Introduction. In the movie Cast Away, Chuck has to supply his basic physical needs with things he finds on the island; like coconuts, fish & crabs (raw at first), gather water and create a shelter tent. Physical Chuck’s life changes forever. His safety and security is taken away. Watch the Plane Crash Safety and Security • Chuck has family and friends that love him. Before the accident Chuck gave his girlfriend an engagement ring and then said, I'll be right back! Love and Belonging • Fire means a lot to Chuck. It is a signal for search planes and no more raw food! I HAVE MADE FIRE! Esteem What areas of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Human Needs do you see in this clip: Never Again, Never Again Would you be brave enough to sail away from the island? Escape to Sea During a crisis, decisions will be made to secure basic needs: I'm Sorry Wilson! What would you do? What would you do if you were Standing at the Crossroads After watching this last clip, please write a reflection answer to the following question: If you were Chuck, what would you do next? • For the next 5 minutes, try to think of as many emotions as possible. • Take a piece of paper • Fold it in half • List positive emotions on one side • List negative emotions on the other side • Say positive things • “You performed great in your game tonight!” • Offering help before being asked • “I know you have a lot of other things going on today, can I help you finish vacuuming?” • Being a good listener • Personality traits are developed or learned from family • Adventurous, observant, lazy, picky, confident • Emotional support from family = personality traits leading to success in life • Go to www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test • Take your time to read through each questions and answer honestly • Once complete, go to https://todaysmeet.com/FamilySoc • Use your first and last name (without spaces) for your “nickname” • In the message, include your • personality type • 1 strength for that personality you believe describes you • 1 weakness for that personality you believe describes you • • • • Physical Emotional Social Mental • The process of learning social skills • Children learn: • How to get along with others • What actions are acceptable • How to be independent • Responsibilities • • • • Talk to children Playing with children Taking an interest in a child’s formal education Supporting teachers and schools • Values: beliefs and principles about what is important • Control the way the family lives • Provides the direction family life takes • Tangible – objects that you can see or touch • Ex. Car, jewelry, furniture, house, electronics, artwork, pets, friends, books, clothes • Intangible – values that are not seen or touched, but perceived • Ex. Honesty, independence, religion, trust, friendship, love, security, knowledge, patriotism, education, creativity 1. If you have a free day, with no school, no work, and no responsibilities, what would you do with that day?? 2. What would you buy if you suddenly had to spend $500 in the next 24 hours? 3. If your home was on fire and you could only save three things, what objects would you save? (assume all people & pets are safe) 4. If you could change one thing in your community, what would it be? 5. If you were deserted on a tropical island with one other person, who would you choose? 6. If you could change one thing about the world, what would you choose? • Medieval knight wore coats of arms that symbolized their achievements and values • Create your own Coat of Arms with the following: • Picture of the thing you do best • One word that describes how you wish others would see you • Picture of a lifetime dream/goal • Picture of the ONE thing that is most important to you • Personal values • Values held by the individual • Grow out of peoples personalities • Societal values • Held by society • Apply to all people • Make life better • Read through the descriptions of each person • Explain which 5 people will be sacrificed in writing 1. By example • Demonstrating or showing what is right/wrong 2. Direct teaching • Verbally telling 3. Religious training • Principles to live by • Conflicting Values Ex: Politics, aging, friends, war & peace, health, religion, leisure time, money, morals, death, government • Friends • Movies • Magazines • Television • Newspapers • Choose an advertisement • Find AT LEAST 3 values in the advertisement • Be ready to defend your answer! • • • • • • Aids in making decisions Provides motivation Controls behavior Provides confidence and strength Brings consistency to outlook and actions Enables you to focus on others • Short term goal • Less than a year to complete • Long term goal • Over a year to complete • Human – offer knowledge, skills, talents, energy, time, interests and abilities • Material – consists of money & possessions, equipment, clothing, housing, transportation. • Community – includes facilities (libraries, museums, parks, services (senior center & recreation) and government programs (food stamps, health care & Head start) 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Identify the Problem Brainstorm Possible Solutions Explore and Evaluate Possible Solutions Make a Decision and Act on It Evaluate Your Decision