Sex, Sexuality and Gender CHETNA STRC Ahmedabad Raising Consciousness Creating Awareness Objectives of this Workshop • To understand basic information about sex, various sexualities and Gender. • Vulnerability to HIV/AIDS by Gender & Sexuality. • To make participants aware of their own attitudes and values with respect to different sexualities- homosexuality, bisexuality and trans sexualism • To improve knowledge and skills dealing with them. 2 What is your DREAM?????? What do you want to be ???????? 3 Exercise DISCUSSION How did you find this exercise??? 4 SEX Sex ~ is what you are born with. Sex is a biological construct. 5 Gender Economic, social and cultural attributes and opportunities associated with being male/ masculine or female/ feminine in a particular social setting at a particular point in time. 6 Feminity & Masculinity Femininity: Qualities and characteristics appropriate for women/girls considered Masculinity: Qualities and characteristics appropriate for men/boys considered 7 Activity Social Construct of Gender 8 Manifestation of Gender Differences Gender Roles: what women and men do/ expected to do Gender Relations: relation of power between men and women, women and women and men and men. Gender Identity: how people perceive their own genderwhether they think of themselves as a man, a woman, both or as a different gender 9 Gender & Vulnerability to HIV/AIDS Can be: 1. Physiological – twice for female 2. Less access to and Control over resources Access is the ability to use a resource. Control is the ability to define and make decisions about the use of a resource. (WHO2001) 10 Gender & Vulnerability to HIV/AIDS Contd: 3. Gender Norms Related to Sexuality- shapes attitude towards sex- dominant man 4. Difficulties in Promoting Consistent Safer Sex Measures 1. Decision by man on, Abstinence, Be Faithful D…………………. ,Condom Use, When to have sex 2. Women as receivers 3. Lack of Female controlled measures 11 Gender & Vulnerability to HIV/AIDS Contd.: 5. Gender Based Violence 40 % ever married woman faced Physical, Sexual, Emotional violence (NFHS-3) Trafficking Women- the Care giver Legal Aspects Poverty and Migration 12 Sexuality 13 Person • • • • 12-13 Age of Exploring Sexual Pleasures 16-18 Age Of Homosexual/ Heterosexual Exploring With Sexual Experiences Heterosexual Bisexual Homosexual Heteros Heterosexu Behavioral Bisexua Gay Koti exual al Feminine Bisexual l men men Hijara 14 Exploring sexuality: Homosexual / Heterosexual Experiences BIRTH MALE OR FEMALE 12 TO 18 YEARS HETROSEXUALBISEXUAL SELF INDENTIFICATION OF OUR GENDER AND SEXUAL IDENTITY HOMOSEXUAL 15 SEXUALITY . Sexuality ~ is how you perceive sex and your preferences (A comprehensive term which includes social roles, personality, gender and sexual identity, biology, sexual behavior, relationships, thoughts and feelings of an individual and the expressions of which are influenced by social, ethical, economic, spiritual, cultural and moral concerns) 16 Four Components of Sexuality • Biological sex – physical and genetic sexual make-up • Sexual orientation – sexual attraction to members of a particular sex • Gender identity – psychological sense of being male or female • Gender expression and Social sex role – adherence to the cultural expectations for feminine or masculine behavior 17 SEXUAL ORIENTATION One’s erotic, romantic, and affectional attraction to people of the same sex, to the opposite sex, or to both sexes. Heterosexuality: Erotic, romantic, and affectional attraction to people of the opposite sex. Bisexuality: Erotic, romantic, and affectional attraction to people of both sexes. Homosexuality: Erotic, romantic, and affectional attraction to people of the same sex. 18 BISEXUAL • Bisexual is someone who has romantic and/or sexual relations with other people of more than one sex • A bisexual may be more attracted to one sex than the other, attracted equally to both, or find people's sex unimportant. The strength of their attractions to men and women may vary over time. 19 KOTI • One who has feminized male identity • Biologically Male 20 DOUBLE DECKERS • One who is attracted towards male in both ways insertive & receptive. • One may be feminine or may be not or change according to situation. 21 PANTHIS • One who is insertive relationship. • He is always masculine. in same sex 22 HIJRA • Akhwai- One who is non castrated in feminine attire • Nirvan- One who is castrated in feminine attire • Maa pit ka hijra (INTERSEXED)- Naturally born with characteristic of both male & female or underdeveloped characteristics. 23 TRANSSEXUAL • Individual whose gender identity is that of the opposite gender • Male-to-female transsexuals • Female-to-male transsexuals 24 Traditional Binary Gender Model Biological Sex: Hormones, genitalia secondary sex characteristics Male Female Gender Expression Masculine Dress, posture, roles, identity Sexual Orientation Attracted to Women Feminine Attracted to Men 25 Revolutionary Gender Model Biological Sex: Hormones, genitalia secondary sex characteristics Male Intersexed Gender Expression Feminine Dress, posture, roles, identity Masculine Androgynous Sexual Orientation Attracted to: women men Female both neither other 26 SEXUAL IDENTITY Identity: How one thinks of oneself, as opposed to what others observe or think about one. Sexual Identity: An inner sense of oneself as a sexual being, including how one identifies in terms of gender identity and sexual orientation. 27 Frequently Asked Questions • Is homosexuality Illness? • Can homosexuality be “cured” by appropriate therapy? • Do gay men want to be women and lesbian want to be men? • Can homosexual people be identified by their mannerism or appearance? • Are all homosexual people ‘promiscuous’ and incapable of maintaining long term relationship? • Does a male child later becomes homosexual as a man had sexually abused that child? 28 Continue…. • A hijra has both male and female genitalia or ambiguous genitalia? • Whether lesbian have turned to other women due to bad experiences with men? • Whether in most gay or lesbian couples, one partner always plays the man and the other plays the woman? 29 WHY HOMOPHOBIA? People tend to hate or fear what they don't understand 30 Factors of Sexuality causing vulnerability to HIV/AIDS •Culture of Silence •Pre marital sex and multi partner sex is increasing (NFHS-3) •Resistance for Sexual health education for adolescents 31 Open Forum for discussions • Any Questions ?????? 32 33