Intentional Interviewing and Counseling: Facilitating Client Development in a Multicultural Society 7th Edition Allen E. Ivey University of Massachusetts Mary Bradford Ivey Microtraining Associates Carlos P. Zalaquett University of South Florida Copyright © 2009 Chapter 1 Toward Intentional Interviewing and Counseling Consider the following. We humans are social beings. We come into the world as the result of others' actions. We survive here in dependence on others. Whether we like it or not, there is hardly a moment of our lives when we do not benefit from others' activities. For this reason it is hardly surprising that most of our happiness arises in the context of our relationships with others. The Dalai Lama Chapter goals ▲ Identify key ideas of the microskills approach and show how the step-by-step model of the microskills hierarchy relates to broad concepts of interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy ▲ Infuse intentional interviewing to facilitate the drawing out of client stories, enabling clients to find new ways of thinking about these stories and new ways of acting. Interviewers need to have multiple techniques for responding to clients in a culturally sensitive fashion. Competency objectives ▲Identify the similarities and differences among interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy. ▲Understand the step-by-step microskills framework for mastering the interview. ▲Recognize the varying patterns of microskill usage used with different theories of counseling and psychotherapy. ▲Define intentionality, cultural intentionality, and intentional competence. Competency objectives ▲ Anticipate the impact of your comments on client conversation through learning the basics of intentional prediction. ▲ Outline and define the relationship—story and strengths—goals—restory—action model of counseling and therapy. ▲ Develop awareness of the impact of interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy on the brain. ▲ Examine your own natural helping style and use personal expertise as a base for further development. INTRODUCTION: WHAT IS THE “CORRECT” RESPONSE TO OFFER A CLIENT? I’m overwhelmed. My husband was let go in the latest downsizing and is impossible to live with. My job is going OK, but I worry about making the next car payment. Our ancient washer broke, flooded our basement, and ruined a box of family photographs. Our daughter came home crying because the kids are teasing her and my mother-inlaw is coming to visit next week. What should I do? INTRODUCTION: WHAT IS THE “CORRECT” RESPONSE TO OFFER A CLIENT? ▲ Reflection Questions How would you respond? What would you say? Take a moment to think before reading on, and even better, write down your response so that you can compare it with what others might say.* You’ll probably find their responses are different from yours. ▲ A key question is who made the “correct” response? INTRODUCTION: WHAT IS THE “CORRECT” RESPONSE TO OFFER A CLIENT? ▲ The answer, of course, is that there are many potentially useful responses in any interviewing situation. Reflecting the client’s emotions can be helpful. Selecting one aspect to focus on can be useful. You even might sit silently and see what happens next. INTRODUCTION: WHAT IS THE “CORRECT” RESPONSE TO OFFER A CLIENT? ▲ Our goal is to expand your possibilities for responding to people in need. ▲ Rather than “What is the correct response?” seek to develop multiple possibilities for helping clients deal with the world. INTERVIEWING, COUNSELING, AND PSYCHOTHERAPY ▲ There are many commonalities among interviewing, counseling, and therapy. ▲ The terms counseling, interviewing, and psychotherapy are often used interchangeably in this book. ▲ We will review them on-by-one. Interviewing ▲ Basic process for gathering information, problem solving and advice giving. ▲ Interviewers may be: Clinical, school, and career counselors, and school staff Clinical, counseling, and other psychologist’s specializations Social workers Medical personnel Business people Wide variety of helping professionals Counseling ▲ Counseling is more intensive and personal than interviewing. ▲ Counselors help people with normal problems / opportunities. ▲ Counseling most often associated Social work School Counseling Pastoral counseling Psychology Psychiatry, to a limited extent Psychotherapy ▲ Psychotherapy is more intense than counseling. ▲ Focuses on deep-seated personality or behavioral difficulties. ▲ Intentional interviewing skills are equally important for effective psychotherapy. Interrelationships Clinical Mental Health Counseling New terminology introduced in the field (CACREP 2009) ▲ Covers the same areas as shown in Figure 1.1 ▲ Engages in psychotherapeutic practice. ▲ Demands competence in: Interviewing Counseling Diagnosis Treatment THE CORE SKILLS OF THE HELPING PROCESS: THE MICROSKILLS HIERARCHY ▲ Foundation of intentional interviewing ▲ Communication skill units of the interview ▲ Summarizes successive steps ▲ Provides different alternatives for use with different clients and in different situations THE CENTRAL SKILLS OF THE HELPING PROCESS: THE MICROSKILLS HIERARCHY ▲ The microskills hierarchy summarizes the successive steps of intentional interviewing. ▲ The skills rest on a base of ethics, multicultural competence, and wellness. Microskills hierarchy ▲ Once you have mastered attending behavior, you will move up the microskills pyramid to questioning, client observation, paraphrasing, and other basic listening skills. These foundational skills are part of the practice of the most experienced professional. ▲ Afterwards you will encounter action skills of interviewing, counseling, and therapy. These are skills to help clients explore their personal or interpersonal conflicts. They include confrontation, focusing, interpretation/reframing, reflection of meaning, self disclosure, feedback, logical consequences, information/psychosocial, and directives. Microskills hierarchy ▲ Develop your own style of being with clients, but always respect this grounding. ▲ With these skills you will learn how to structure a “wellformed interview.” You will be able to conduct a complete interview with a verbal client using only listening skills. Microskills hierarchy ▲ After mastering listening skills, the ability to conduct an interview using only these skills, and the advanced skills, you will be prepared to consider alternative theories and models of helping. ▲ The microskills are used by different theories. For example, mastering the listening skills and the structure of the interview will give you a strong foundation for learning person-centered theory and become a competent Rogerian. Microskills hierarchy ▲ At the apex of the microskills pyramid you will determine your own theory and practice of counseling, interviewing, and psychotherapy. ▲ As you gain expertise you will learn each client has a totally unique response to you and your natural style. Many clients will work well with you; some will require that you adapt to their style. Having many alternatives ready to help your varying clientele is desirable. Microskills ▲ Mastery of the microskills allows you to listen effectively and help clients change and grow ▲ Effective use of microskills enables you to anticipate or predict how clients respond to your interventions ▲ Knowledge of the skills gives you flexibility If client does not respond as you expect, you can shift skills and strategies that match their needs. Microskills and Research ▲ Significant Findings Expect results Practice is essential Multicultural differences are real Different theories have different patterns of skill usage Specific microskills result in predictable client responses. Microskills Learning Model Practice, Practice, Practice… The 5-steps learning framework: 1. Warm up. Focus on a single skill and identify it as a vital part of the holistic interview. 2. View. View a DVD or observe a live demonstration. 3. Read. Read about the skill or hear a lecture on the main points of effective usage. 4. Practice. Ideally, use video or audio recording for skill practice; however, role-play practice with observers and feedback sheets is also effective. 5. Generalize. Complete a self-assessment. Integrate the skills and contract for action into the “real world” of interviewing, counseling, and therapy. Microskills ▲ They are dimensions of emotional intelligence and social competence. ▲ Teaching these skills to clients has proven to be an effective counseling and therapeutic technique in itself. ▲ Full intentional competence makes a difference to you and your clients. ▲ You can “go through” the skills quickly and understand them, but really practicing them to full mastery makes for real expertise. DRAWING OUT CLIENT STORIES ▲ Interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy are concerned with client stories. ▲ Your first task is to listen carefully to these stories and learn how clients come to think, feel, and act as they do. ▲ Through interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy it is possible to rewrite and rethink/restory old narratives into new, more positive and productive stories. ▲ The resulting change may be deeper awareness of emotional experience, more useful ways of thinking, and new behavioral actions. DRAWING OUT CLIENT STORIES ▲ Our aim is development and growth. ▲ Expect your clients to have enormous capacity for change. ▲ Search for strengths, positives, and power in the client to help him or her cope with their most difficult situation or story. The case of the 8-year-old child teased by friends ▲ Reflection Questions What is the role of listening? What are the potential strengths observed in this child? What is the role of storytelling? What is the ultimate goal of this intervention? What can you expect next time you see him or her? Narrative theory ▲ Narrative theory is a relatively new model for understanding counseling, interviewing, and psychotherapy sessions. ▲ Narrative theory emphasizes storytelling and the generation of new meanings. ▲ Main concepts includes narration, storytelling, and conversation. The narrative model of Intentional Interviewing and Counseling Relationship—story and strengths—goals—restory—action. ▲ Listening to the story, finding positive strengths in that story or another life dimension, and rewriting a new narrative for action are what interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy are about. 1. Relationship 5. Action 4. Restory 2. Story and Strengths 3. Goal Relationship ▲ Develop rapport, trust, and a working alliance with your client. ▲ Attending skills help establish the relationship. ▲ Be your own natural self. ▲ Every relationship will be different and will test your social skills and understanding. ▲ Working alliance is another word for relationship. About 30% of successful counseling and therapy outcome is due to relationship or common factors consisting of caring, empathy, acceptance, affirmation, and encouragement. Story & Strengths ▲ Learn how clients make sense of their problems, challenges, and issues by listening to their stories. ▲ Help them tell their stories in their own way. Attending and observation skills will help client draw their stories. Encouraging, paraphrasing, reflection of feeling, and summarization will help them fill out the story. ▲ Different counseling systems and theories may draw out different aspects of stories that lead in varying directions. ▲ Listening skills are key in drawing out client strengths to solve their problems. Listen for and be “curious about their competencies—the heroic stories that reflect their part in surmounting obstacles, initiating action, and maintaining positive change. Goals ▲ If you don’t know where you are going, you may end up somewhere else. ▲ Help the client determine where he or she wants to go. ▲ Brief counseling considers this area so important that they often start the interview right here. “What do you want to happen today as a result of our conversation?” Restory ▲ Help clients restory — generate new ways to talk about themselves. ▲ Many times listening are sufficient to provide clients with the strength and power to develop their own new narratives. The 5-stage interview helps find new ways of making meaning. ▲ Counseling theories give us alternative ways to think and talk about client stories. Learn the vitality and power of counseling theories such as cognitive, behavioral, psychodynamic, existential-humanistic, multicultural counseling and therapy, brief counseling, and others. ▲ As you define your own natural style, remain open to the multitude of possibilities offered by the professional helping field. Action ▲ Help the client bring new ways of thinking and being into action. ▲ Each counseling theory will provide you with alternative ways of action. For example, person-centered counseling emphasize self-discover, emotion, and meaning, in while cognitive behavioral methods actively seek to change ways of thinking and behaving. ▲ As you define your own natural style, remain open to the multitude of possibilities offered by these theories. INCREASING SKILL AND FLEXIBILITY: INTENTIONALITY, CULTURAL INTENTIONALITY, AND INTENTIONAL PREDICTION ▲ INCREASING SKILL AND FLEXIBILITY There are many ways to facilitate client development. Learn to blend what is natural for you with new interviewing skills. Be yourself but realize that to reach a wide variety of clients you will need to be flexible and learn new ways of being in the interview. Intentionality core goal of effective interviewing ▲ Clients come to us with multiple issues and concerns. ▲ How you listen and how you respond may say as much about you and your style, as it says about your client. Look at yourself and your listening style. ▲ Beginning interviewers are often eager to find the “right” answer for the client. It will be ideal to find the perfect response that would free the client for more creative living and wellness! ▲ Intentional interviewing is concerned with how many potential responses may be helpful. Intentionality definition ▲ Intentionality is acting with a sense of capability; choosing from among a range of alternative actions, thoughts, and behaviors in responding to changing life situations. The Intentional Individual Developing Multiple Responses ▲ has more than one action, thought, or behavior to choose from in responding to changing life situations. ▲ can generate alternatives in a given situation and approach a problem from different vantage points, using a variety of skills and personal qualities, adapting styles to suit different individuals and cultures. Lack of Intentionality ▲ Lack of intentionality shows in the interview when the helper persists in using only one skill, one definition of the problem, or one theory of interviewing, even when that approach isn’t working. Intentionality involves… ▲ Listening first; solving problems later. ▲ Avoiding “perfect” solutions. ▲ Avoiding jumping to the “right” response too soon. ▲ Adapting your style to suit different individuals / cultures. Cultural Intentionality definition ▲ Cultural Intentionality is assessing client cultural background and flexing microskill application to achieve specific results; and recognizing that the result achieved from use of specific microskills may vary widely among clients from different cultures. Cultural Intentionality Alternatives for Cultural Differences Know and integrate communication styles and relationship experiences of diverse cultural groups into your own personal helping style Age Ethnicity Health Race Individuality Ability Gender Lifestyle Sexual Orientation Religion / Spirituality Disability Development Cultural Intentionality remember… ▲ All interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy is multicultural. ▲ Same microskills may have different effects on people from varying cultural backgrounds. ▲ Culture can be defined in many ways and cultural differences may include religion, class, race/ethnicity, gender, lifestyle, disability, or age. ▲ Avoid stereotyping. ▲ For many diversity is what constitutes the mainstream. Cultural Intentionality remember (cont.)… ▲ Individuals differ as much as or more than cultures. ▲ Attune your responses to the unique human being before you. ▲ Respecting and honoring our differences bring us together as one people. Intentional Prediction Expect Specific Results From Specific Use of Microskills ▲ If you work intentionally in the interview, you can anticipate predictable client responses. And, even if the expected does not happen, you can intentionally flex and come up with a helpful alternative comment. Intentional Prediction Expect Specific Results From Specific Use of Microskills For example, if you use questioning skills, you can predict how clients respond. If you reflect feelings, you can predict clients will focus on their emotions. Questions: Closed and open questions are used to help clients clarify their issues. Predicted result: Clients will give more detail and talk more in response to open questions. Closed questions may provide specific information. Reflection of Feeling: Identified key emotions are fed back to the client to help them clarify affective experience. Predicted result: Clients will be able to experience their emotional states more clearly. Example ▲ Open Questions Begin an interview. Open new topics and pinpoint/clarify details. Identify specifics. Assist with client / situation assessment. ▲ Closed Questions Focus the interview Reveal specific details. Close down client talk. Increase interviewer control. Example (cont.) ▲ Open Questions Encourage more pertinent detail. Clients talk more and give more detail. ▲ Closed Questions Encourage more focused client talk. Encourage more pertinent detail Encourage less wandering. Clients provide specific information. Intentional Competence ▲ Intentional Competence is integrating your natural style, self-understanding, and artistic abilities with the somewhat predictable client responses from your use of the microskills, allowing you to flex and change direction in order to be with your client in new ways, required for their development. Intentionality and Predicted Results ▲ Each microskill is coupled with a general set of predicted results (see Appendix I). ▲ Predictability and ability to anticipate results of your interventions will never reach 100%. ▲ If the first skill does not produce the expected result, be ready with another skill or concept. ▲ By developing cultural intentionality through microskill training you will have a large array of competencies to help clients grow in their own direction Theory and Microskills ▲ 1966–1968: Single skills microskills model is developed by a group at Colorado State University. ▲ 1974: Identification of multicultural differences in communication styles. ▲ The model has been tested nationally and internationally in over 1,000 clinical and teaching programs in the past 35 years. ▲ More than 450 microskills studies have been completed to date. (See CD-ROM for detailed research review.) ▲ Microcounseling was the first systematic video-based counseling model to identify specific observable skills. Microskills Premise ▲ The premise behind the microskills model is that the skills are useful in multiple theories and settings What is the theory underlying the microskills approach? ▲ Many students ask about this. ▲ First, interviewing and counseling are informed by more than 250 theories and may not need another one. We’d prefer that you focus on skills and not emphasize theoretical implications until later. ▲ Secondly, the microskills provide an integrative theory that helps understand and practice multiple theoretical approaches. Table 1-1 Microskill patterns of some popular theoretical approaches and strategies. ▲ The first 6 theories listed are presented in this book. They were selected because of their wide use. ▲ Knowledge gained here will enhance your learning and mastery of these and other theories. ▲ Observe that virtually all theories give considerable attention to the listening skills. However, the influencing skills vary widely in their use. Information Processing as a PersonEnvironment Transaction Genogram ▲ The interview is contact in which two brains interact in the conscious present with a considerable underlay of past history. Also, interpersonal change and growth occurs. Counseling is not a one-way street. BRAIN RESEARCH AND NEUROSCIENCE: IMPLICATIONS FOR THE INTERVIEW ▲ Recent developments in brain science are changing the way we look at people and the influence of the environment on individuals. ▲ To communicate with other mental health and medical professionals, you will need to study and increase your knowledge of this cutting edge field. ▲ Neuroscience and neuropsychology will enhance and clarify our practice. BRAIN RESEARCH AND NEUROSCIENCE: IMPLICATIONS FOR THE INTERVIEW (cont.) Definition of Neuroplasticity ▲ Neuroplasticity refers to the brain’s capacity to develop new neural connection in response to new experiences and can remodel neural networks. What Does This Mean for You and the Helping and Interviewing Process? ▲ The most dramatic example of neuroplasticity is evidence that effective counseling and therapy produce new neurons in the brain. ▲ When you interact with clients, both your and your client’s brain develop new neural connections as a result of your interaction. ▲ Successful interviewing and counseling help clients develop new and useful connections. See Appendix II for an extensive review of the relationship between microskills, helping theory, and brain functioning. SUMMARY: MASTERING THE SKILLS AND STRATEGIES OF INTENTIONAL INTERVIEWING AND COUNSELING ▲ Welcome to the fascinating field of interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy! ▲ You are being introduced to the basics of the individual counseling session, but the same skills are essential in group and family work. ▲ Physicians and nurses, managers in business settings, peer counselors, and many others have adopted this skill training format as part of their profession and/or training. ▲ The system works and is constantly changing and growing. Key Points Interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy ▲ These are interrelated processes that sometimes overlap. Interviewing may be considered the more basic and is often associated with information gathering and providing necessary data to help client’s resolve issues. Coaching operates from a strength framework and helps plan for immediate and long-term change. Counseling focuses on normal developmental concerns whereas psychotherapy emphasizes treatment of more deepseated issues. Key Points Microskills ▲Microskills are the single communication skill units of the interview (for example, questions, reflection of feelings). They are taught one at a time to ensure mastery of basic interviewing competencies. Key Points Microskills hierarchy ▲ The hierarchy organizes microskills into a systematic framework for the eventual integration of skills into the interview in a natural fashion. The microskills rest on a foundation of ethics, multicultural competence, and wellness. The attending and listening skills are followed by confrontation, focusing influencing skills, and eventual skill integration. Key Points Microskills teaching model ▲ Five steps are used to teach the single skills of interviewing: 1. warm up to skill; 2. view the skill in action; 3. read and learn about broader uses of the skill; 4. practice; and 5. generalize learning the interview and to daily life. ▲ The model is useful to teach social skills to clients in the interview. Key Points Relationship—story and strengths—goals—restory—action ▲ Our first task is to help clients tell their stories. To facilitate development, we need to draw out narratives of their personal assets. With a positive foundation, clients may learn to write new stories with the possibility of new actions. James Lanier reminds us that language stressing a problem or disorder may get in the way of effective interviewing and counseling. Key Points Intentionality ▲ Achieving intentionality is the major goal of this book and a central goal of the cultural intentionality interviewing process itself. Intentionality is acting with a sense of capability and deciding from among a range of alternative actions. The intentional individual has more than one action, thought, or behavior to choose from in responding to life situations. Key Points Cultural intentionality ▲ The culturally intentional individual can generate alternatives from different vantage points, using a variety of skills and personal qualities within a culturally appropriate framework. Key Points Intentional prediction ▲ When you use specific skills in the interview, you can predict what the client is likely to say next. However, each person is different and often will not behave exactly as predicted. You will shift style and change skills to continue the interview smoothly. Key Points Theory and microskills ▲ All counseling theories use the microskills but in varying patterns with differing goals. Mastery of the skills will facilitate your becoming able to work with many theoretical alternatives. The microskills framework can also be considered a theory in itself in which interviewer and client work together to enable the construction of new stories, accompanied by changes in thought and action. Key Points Research validation ▲ The microskills model has been validated by more than 450 database studies and over 40 years of clinical practice. The skills can be learned, and they do have an impact on clients, but they must be practiced constantly or the user will lose them. Key Points Brain research and neuroscience ▲ Interviewing and counseling will be increasingly informed by research in this area in the coming years and you will want to keep abreast of new developments. ▲ Of particular importance is neuroplasticity. “Neuroplasticity can result in the wholesale remodeling of neural networks . . . a brain can rewrite itself ” (Schwartz & Begley, 2003, p. 16). ▲ Successful interviewing may be expected to help clients develop new and useful connections. Key Points You, microskills, and the interview ▲ Microskills are useful only if they harmonize with your own natural style in the interview. Before you proceed further with this book, audiorecord or videorecord an interview with a friend or a classmate, and make a transcript of this interview. ▲ Later, as you learn more about interview analysis, examine or study your behavior in that interview. ▲ You’ll want to compare it with your performance in an interview some months from now. YOUR NATURAL STYLE: AN IMPORTANT AUDIO OR VIDEO EXERCISE ▲ You are about to engage in a systematic study of the interviewing process. ▲ Complete Exercise 1: Your Natural Helping Style before proceeding too far into this book. The exercise is explained in the next section. When you complete the exercise, don’t forget to request feedback from your “client.” ▲ The first audio- or videorecording of yourself using your natural communication style during an interview will help you obtain an accurate picture of where you are as you begin. ▲ You will want to compare your interview with later work as you progress through this text. Your present natural style is a baseline you will want to keep in touch with and honor. COMPETENCY PRACTICE EXERCISE AND SELF-ASSESSMENT Chapter 1 Individual Practice Self-assessment Exercise 1: YOUR NATURAL STYLE: AN IMPORTANT AUDIO OR VIDEO EXERCISE IIC What is Your Natural Helping Style? ▲ Audio- or videotape a baseline interview using your natural style. ▲ Helpful to acquire a written transcript of the interview for a study script. ▲ Compare baseline with subsequent skills practice and development. Exercise 1: YOUR NATURAL STYLE: AN IMPORTANT AUDIO OR VIDEO EXERCISE IIC GUIDELINES ▲ Find a volunteer client willing to role-play a concern, problem, opportunity, or issue. ▲ Interview the volunteer client for at least 15 minutes. Seek to avoid sensitive topics. ▲ Use your own natural communication style. ▲ Ask the volunteer client, “May I record this interview?” ▲ Inform the client that the tape recorder may be turned off at any time. Exercise 1: YOUR NATURAL STYLE: AN IMPORTANT AUDIO OR VIDEO EXERCISE IIC GUIDELINES (cont.) ▲ Select a topic. You and the client may choose multicultural dimensions, interpersonal conflict, or a specific issue selected by the “client.” ▲ Follow ethical guidelines. See Chapter 2 for a review of ethical practice. ▲ Request that your volunteer client complete the Client Feedback Form (Box 1-3). ▲ Compare this baseline with subsequent recordings of your work later in this course. FORM IIC Client Feedback Form (in CH. 1) In practice sessions, it is very helpful to get immediate feedback. As you practice the microskills, we encourage you to use the Client Feedback Form. Exercise 1: SELF-ASSESSMENT IIC Review your audio- or videotape and ask yourself and the volunteer client the following questions: 1. What did you do that you think was effective and helpful? 2. What stands out for you from the Client Feedback Form and any other comments the client may have said to you about the session? 3. Can you identify one thing you would like to improve? 4. What strengths do you bring to the study of interviewing? Include the natural skills observed in the session plus personal strengths and qualities that you believe will be helpful in your future growth. 5. What areas would you like to grow and learn more about yourself. Exercise 2: DIVERSITY, MULTICULTURALISM, AND YOU IIC Culture Counts! ▲ Part of cultural intentionality and multicultural competence is your awareness of yourself as a cultural being and your ability to work empathetically with people different from you. ▲ Unless you are aware of yourself as a cultural being, you will have difficulty in developing awareness of others. ▲ You need to understand the differences that may exist between you and those who may come from different cultures. ▲ An important skill is recognizing your limitations and the need in certain cases for referral. Exercise 2: DIVERSITY, MULTICULTURALISM, AND YOU (cont.) IIC Culture Counts! ▲ Consider the list below and the multiple cultural identities we all have as part of our being. Language Physical ability/disability Race/ethnicity Socioeconomic status Gender, Age (young, old) Sexual orientation Sexual orientation Significant life experience (e.g., rape, abuse, cancer, war) Spirituality Area of the country Nationality ▲ You may want to add other issues to this list. We are all multicultural beings deeply affected by our cultural and environmental context. Exercise 2: DIVERSITY, MULTICULTURALISM, AND YOU (cont.) IIC Examine your personal preferences and biases ▲ How much experience do you have with people who are different from you? ▲ How able are you to work with those who may be different from you? For example, if you are heterosexual, how able are you to work with the gay or lesbian culture? If you are gay or lesbian, how able are you to work with the heterosexual culture? ▲ What developmental steps do you need to take to increase your understanding and awareness? DETERMINING YOUR OWN STYLE AND THEORY: CRITICAL SELF-REFLECTION ON YOUR FIRST INTERVIEW DETERMINING YOUR OWN STYLE AND THEORY: CRITICAL SELFREFLECTION ON YOUR FIRST INTERVIEW ▲Keep a journal of your path through this course and your reflections on its meaning to you. ▲Your first session is a critical foundation on which to build. Here are some questions you may consider. We build on strengths. What did you do right in this session? What did the client notice as helpful? What was the essence of the client’s story? How did you help the client bring out his or her narrative/issues/concerns/problems? How did you demonstrate intentionality? When something you said did not go as anticipated, what did you do next? Name just one thing on which you would like to improve in the next session you have. CRITICAL SELF-REFLECTION ON YOUR FIRST INTERVIEW Here are just a few of many possible questions that you can consider. We build on strengths. What do you do right in this session? What did the client notice as helpful? What was the essence of the client’s story? How did you help the client bring out their narrative/issues/concerns/problems? How did you demonstrate intentionality? When something you said did not go anticipated, what did you do next? Name just one thing on which you would like to improve in the next session you have? Write your ideas in your journal As you begin… ▲ The first practice competency exercise asks you to examine yourself and identify your strengths as a helper. ▲ YOU are the person who counts. ▲ Develop your counseling skills based on your natural expertise and social skills. Learning Check √ √ Focus on development as the aim of interviewing, counseling, and psychotherapy. √ Achieve intentionality, cultural intentionality, and intentional competence. √ Learn the 5-stages of the interview. √ Integrate the step-by-step microskills model into your personal theory and helping style. √ Identify how the microskills model applies to varying theories of counseling and psychotherapy. √ Examine your natural helping style. √ Use your own skills as a base to grow your microskills practice.