PERCEPTION OF SELF AND OTHERS Jehanzeb Khan Lecturer Mohammad Ali Jinnah University, Karachi. List 5 positive and 5 negative traits you have Share within your group PERCEPTION OF SELF AND OTHERS Jehanzeb Khan Lecturer Mohammad Ali Jinnah University Karachi. WHO AM I? Concept of Self Western culture Non – western culture Looking Glass Self by Cooley Positive and negative labels Social Comparison by Leon Festinger Self – esteem Reference group Social Identity Theory Similar and unique Ideal and Actual “People only see what they are prepared to see.” Ralph Waldo Emerson PERCEPTION • Process of selectively attending to information and assigning meaning to it • Perception becomes reality • Brain selects some information (sensory stimuli), organizes it, and interprets it Perception & Communication • Perception affects communication and communication affects perception—it is an ongoing cycle of influence. Perception shapes how we interpret others’ communication and how we ourselves communicate. At the same time, communication influences our perceptions of people and situations. The two processes are intricately intertwined. Perceiving Others • Perception: an active process of creating meaning by selecting, organizing, and interpreting people, objects, events, situations, and activities. • Narrative: The stories people create and use to make sense of their personal worlds. THE PERCEPTION PROCESS • Attention and Selection – Needs • Biological • Psychological – Interests – Expectations • Selection • Organization • Interpretation • Evaluation THE PERCEPTION PROCESS Our brains arrange these stimuli so that they make sense according to organizing principles such as simplicity and pattern. • Principles for Organizing Stimuli – Simplicity: The simplification in some commonly recognized form. – Pattern: a set of characteristics used to differentiate sth from others. • Interpretation of Stimuli 111-87-87-87 021 34985601 0300 2318520 42501-1489631-8 PERCEPTION OF SELF • Self Concept: a mental image about abilities, knowledge, competencies & personality. – Rich Self-concept – Weak Self-concept • Self-perception • Reactions and responses of others – Others’ comments to validate, reinforce, & alter the perception PERCEPTION OF SELF • Self-Esteem – Overall evaluation of • Our competence • Our personal worthiness Accuracy of Self-concept and Self-esteem • Depends on our own perceptions and how we process others’ perceptions of us Incongruence: the gap between our accurate selfperception and reality. Self-fulfilling prophecies: a false perception of a situation or characteristics or skills Filtering messages The way we filter what others say about us Media Images A distorted self concept can become a self- fulfilling prophecy. Accuracy of Self-concept and Self-esteem • We present ourselves through various roles we enact from – Our own needs – Relationships that we form – Cultural expectations that are held for us – The groups we choose to be part of – Our own conscious decisions Self Perceptions • Moderate competing internal messages • Influence how we talk about ourselves with others Cultural and Gender Differences • Influence perception • Affect the participant’s views of the self Perception of Others • Physical Characteristics – – – – – – – – – Race Gender Age Appearance Facial expressions Eye contact Movement Personal space Touch Perception of Others • Social Behaviors – Implicit personality theories – Halo effect continued Perception of Others • Stereotyping – – – – Prejudice Discrimination Racism Ethnocentrism – Sexism – Ageism – Able-ism continued Improving Social Perceptions • Emotional states – At the time of the interaction – To engage in selective perceptions, ignoring inconsistent information Perception of Others • Question the accuracy of your perceptions • Seek more information to verify perceptions • Realize that perceptions of people may need to be changed over time continued Perception of Others • Use perception checking to verify conclusions you have drawn (1) Watch the behavior of the other person (2) Ask yourself “What does that behavior mean to me?” (3) Describe the behavior and put your interpretation into words to verify your perception. continued AN IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR SELF-CONCEPT An internal feeling that influences how you see yourself. How you believe other people see you. Learned beliefs about how you see your physical appearance, personality and abilities. Related to beliefs, attitudes and opinions. how you feel about yourself (emotional) . Each person has its own personal views characteristics and beliefs of ones body and mind that shapes self esteem. Synonyms or nearsynonyms 'selfworth', 'self-