Venetia Valley PTA Venetia Valley PTA VV Parent & Teacher Association October 2, 2013 General Meeting AGENDA Topic Presenter Time Allocated Call to Order & Introductions Renee O’Hare 5 min Introduction to Middle School Teachers 15 min Cyber Safety Domenick Yazzolino 40 min Principal’s Update Juan Rodriguez 10 min VV Fall Carnival Jessica Bosch 10 min PTA Business Renee O’Hare 10 min What’s Middle School all about? VV Middle School Presi STEM, Science Fair and Science Night, Health and Sports, Drama, Mathletes, Music Marin County Sherriff – Cyber Safety Domenick M. Yazzolino Marin County Sheriff’s Office School Resource Officer Bullying: From Bystanders to Positive Change Agents Let’s stop Bullying before it starts! Objectives • Greater Understanding of the Bullying Dynamic as it Relates to the By-stander Effect • Greater Understanding of Liabilities and Weaknesses of Current By-stander Strategies • Increased Knowledge and Skills in Youth Development Approaches • Ability to Implement Youth Development Approaches at Your School Site Risk Factors • Family • School • Community • Peer Group • Personal Media Influence • Children spend 6.5 hours each day with some type of media • Video Games in 65% of US Homes – – – – 86% With Males 8th grade boys play 23 hours per week 8th grade girls play 12 hours per week 59% of 4th grade girls and 73% of 4th grade males favorite games are violent • 61% of youth 8-17 have TV’s in their rooms – At 18 years old they witness 200,000 acts of violence including 40,000 acts of murder WHY Bullying Is Not Reported 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. Fear of Retaliation Not Wanting to Be a Snitch Not Wanting to Worry Parents Shame Fear of Losing Friends Hard to Prove Confidentiality Fear of What Parents Might Say Critical Question Why Don’t Most Bystanders Take Action? Factors for Non-Intervention • • • • • • • • Fear of Retaliation Fear of Becoming a Target Belief That Target Deserved What They Got Lack of Skills Lack of Instruction on Strategies Feels it Won’t Make a Difference Acceptance of Bullying Being Normal Not Cool to Intervene Westhills High School Students, 2006 Traditional Approaches for Bystanders • Bystander Talks Directly to Bully • Bystander Tries to Pull Target Away • Bystander Tries to Distract: • Humor • Tries to engage the bully or target in other conversation • Bystander Tells an Adult Peer Group Approach • • • • Informal Approach Strengthen the Peer Groups/Cliques Identify Peer Groups/Cliques Select a Minimum of Two Leaders From Each Group/Clique • Provide for Skill Development of the Group • Empower the Group • Provide for Follow-up/Booster Sessions Session Structure • Eat Lunch and Informal Meeting • Classroom Meeting/Discussion • Topic/Skill Development • Small Group Discussions/Work • Round Table: Issues and Answers Bullying… In the Social Media World Internet • Facebook • My Space • Blogs • Chat Rooms Cell Phones • Snap Chat • Text Messages • Instagram • Etc… http://www.forbetterlife.org/ SAMPLE CLIQUES HICKS STONERS GOTHS COWBOYS SKATERS TAGGERS PARTY CREWS JOCKS REBELS GANGSTERS SKINHEADS SURFERS TECHIES PREPPIES REDNECKS ETHNIC GROUPINGS GOALS • Changing Peer Group Norms – – – – – – – Rumor Control Pro-Social Responses to Disrespect (Friends) Instigating Violence Getting Youth Involved in Safety Increasing Positive Interactions Between Cliques Reducing Exclusion Reducing Tensions and Negative Conflicts Peer Educator Model • High School Students as “Teachers”/Facilitators • Develop Their Own Curriculum • Develop Posters With Slogans • Develop PSA’s on Video Tape • Posters and Videos Played at Target School Prior to Curriculum • Classroom Presentations • Cross-Age Mentoring Fostering Empathy • Teachable Moments • Classroom Meetings on Empathy/Kindness • Intervene Early – Focus on Behaviors not the Student • Recognize Empathetic Behaviors – Have Students Share How They Have Helped • Role Modeling • Role Playing – Role Reversal • Point-Counter Point • Class Discussions – Literature – Movies • Perspectives of ALL Characters Crime Prevention Triangle Location/Time Intensive Intervention Intervention Victim Whole School Perpetrator 1. http://www.stopbullyingnow.com/ 2. http://www.lfcc.on.ca/bully.htm 3. http://www.police.govt.nz/service/yes/nobul ly/ 4. http://www.clemson.edu/olweus/ 5. http://www.cyberbully.org/ All That is Needed for Evil to Run Rampant is for Good People to Do Nothing Resources/Bibliography • Aggression Replacement Training, Goldstein, Arnold P., Glick, Barry, et al Research Press (800) 519-2702 www.researchpress.com • Steps to Respect: A Bullying Prevention Program, Committee for Children, 2001. (800) 634-4449 www.cfchildren.org . • Bully Busters: A Teacher’s Manual for Helping Bullies, Victims, and Bystanders, Horne, Arthur M., and Newman, Dawn A., and Bartolomucci, Christi L. Research Press (800) 519-2702 www.researchpress.com • Blueprints for Violence Prevention: Book Nine Bullying Prevention Program, Olweus, Dan and Limber, Sue University of Colorado at Boulder. (303) 492-8465. • Stop Bullying! Guidelines for Schools, New Zealand Police PRINCIPAL’S UPDATE Juan Rodriguez & Mari Kernan 2012 VV FALL CARNIVAL 2012 VV FALL CARNIVAL 2012 VV FALL CARNIVAL 2012 VV FALL CARNIVAL THIS YEARS FALL CARNIVAL Saturday, October 12 (11-4 pm) • One of our biggest fundraising events • Purchase your pumpkin for Fall/Halloween • Amazing food booths with food made from our own Venetia Valley families • Our own Mr. C is the Master of Ceremonies for the day • Entertainment from VV alumni: Phoenix Uprising & Parent Band: Memory Laps • Affordable day of family fun for all with live performances from students, community band, games and rides VV FALL CARNIVAL What we need from parents… • Parent Volunteers (125 Volunteers staffing booths to make the day a success) – We need 70 more parents to volunteer • Food Donations (Flyer went home last week) • Baked Goods for ‘Cake Walk’ game – Cupcakes, Cakes, Cookies that will serve as prizes for the winners of the games Venetia Valley PTA Renee O’Hare Volunteer Opportunities! Volunteers Needed! Area for Volunteer Opportunity Description Time Commitment Cash for Trash Collect recyclables and turn them in for a check to VV. Can organize a team to rotate tasks 1-2hrs, 1st Friday of every month Online Auction Organizer & staff Organizer: Project manager for the online auction 10-15 hrs in the Spring Online Auction Staff (need multiple) Mails letters, follow up phone calls, pick up donations 5 hrs in the Spring Book Fair Organize Volunteers and manage book fair for 2014- this year, be a shadow to learn Book Fair Help run the book fair operations 2 -4 hrs Dine-4-Dollars Arrange “Dine-4-Dollars” event with businesses, distribute schedule and flyers to school 4-6 hrs Falcon Fund Call families to encourage donation to the largest fund raiser at VV 2-3 hours Volunteers Needed! Area for Volunteer Opportunity Description Time Commitment Crossing Guard Help Help traffic flow through the morning drop off hours 1 – 2 hours month Community Outreach Lead Organize community outreach events (welcome to new families, wine & cheese night, etc.) 3 hrs per month PTA Board member Representatives needed from • Teacher from elementary school • Teacher from middle school • Parent from middle school 1.5hrs each month (2nd Wed. of the month) Family Engagement Representative Represent VV at the SRCS Family Engagement Council, a District-wide Task Force. Share your ideas, gain information, and advise the district on strategies for building strong home-school-community partnerships. 4 Tuesday evening meetings 6 – 7:30 pm Dad’s Club Member Group of dad’s help VV during events and other times when called! i.e. carnival games 4-6 hrs entire year (as you can) PTA Board Members – Open Positions WE NEED YOU! Name Representing Level FILLED – THANK YOU OPEN SPOT Parent Elementary– K or 1 Alede Ruiz OPEN SPOT Teacher Elementary OPEN SPOT Parent Middle School OPEN SPOT Teacher Middle School Thank You PTA Volunteers!* • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Sarah Hinkley (Falcon Fund & Electronic sign) Julie Chan-Paloglou(Falcon Fund) Helen Driscoll (Falcon Fund) Max Espaillat (Falcon Fund) Mayra Bueno (Falcon Fund) Helen Reid (Roadway sign & Escrip) Candace Langley (Information Board) Holly Wipfler (Spirit Wear & Mural Project) Juan Morales (Spirit Wear) Monique Rutter (HeadsUp Representative) Lura Flynn (Directory) Delmy Rosales (PTA Copies) Jacqueline Rivera (Falcon Fund) MariCarmen Segura (Translation) • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Jen Inouye (Book Fair) Kari Francisco (Carnival) Steve Litras (Carnival & Dad’s Club) Claudia Garcia (Carnival Committee Lead) Tes Lazzarini (After School Enrichment) Jessica Bosch (Carnival Committee Lead) Grace Dearborn (Newsletters) Lynn Hernandez (Boxtops) Amy Cosby-Frost (Falcon Fund) Monica Stafford (E-Blast) Renee O’Hare (Facebook) Dave Roberts (Childcare for PTA mtgs) Laura McCurdy (Childcare for PTA mtgs) Laura Daniels (Teacher Appreciation Lead) *If your name is NOT on the list and you are volunteer, I apologize! Please let me know for the next THANK YOU message! FALCON FUND! FONDO HALCON! GOAL: 100% participation from FAMILIES & TEACHERS/STAFF What’s it Worth? LUXURY ITEMS COST: New Video Game Console……………. $300-$500 New video game………………………….. $50-$75 1 pair of brand name tennis shoes..$50-$100 Cup of coffee at a coffee shop………$3 - $5 Fast food meal for a family of 4……$20-$30 **Supporting YOUR child’s education** As little as $1 per day per family Falcon Fund Initial Campaign 8/23 – 9/2810/25 • Extension to give classrooms a bit more time to collect and win! • Incentives: – 20% of the falcon fund donations will go back to the classrooms the children are in (teacher acct) • Pizza Party – The class that raises the MOST money – Classes with 100% participation(includes teacher) Falcon Fund Leaders…So Far! Top Classes closest to 100%: – Mrs. Milano - 1st Grade – Mrs. Landin - 1st Grade – Mrs. Sulsberger – 2nd Grade – Ms. Rosecrans/Ms. Sakellariou – 2nd Grade – Ms. Smith – Special Education – Mrs. Detore – 5th Grade Falcon Fund Status Through 9/30 • 18.6% of VV Students have contributed • 40% of teachers/staff have contributed • Amount raised through 9/30/2013: THANK YOU FOR CONTRIBUTING! Erin and Adam Chaffee Maria and Thomas Larson Monica and Scot Stafford Holly Wipfler and Deryk Lee Amparo Lopez Soledad Ramirez and Alfredo Rivera Olvera Erick and John Benassini Maritz Lopez and Jaime Mazariegos The Patel Family Guadalup Reyes and Leonel Vazquez Tuan Tiet Martha Orellana Reina Gonzalez Jose Orozco and Marianela Reyes Jianetta Puacara Maria Elena Reyes and Oliverio Calderon Alede Ruiz and Samuel Cardenas Teresa Alas and Juan Castellon Jorge Coronado Onelia Diaz and Ilso DeLeon Marisol and Erik Diaz Esmerelda Garcia-Flores and Samuel Morales Dora Ramirez and Manuel Gomez Delfina Rogel Irlanda Munoz Herlinda Martinez and Hector Garcia Matilde Cruz and Juan Florencio Judith Calderon and Jose Gongora Kathleen Brabo Jessica and Andreas Bosch Julian and Sukhwinder Saban Alma Maldonado Aleksei & Lina Rajamachvili Max and Osvaldo Espaillat Fernando Martinez Alma and Rafael Pulido Herlinda and Hector Garcia Marth and Jose Quintero Jheny Jut Recinos Guadalupe Reyes and Leonel VazquezMary Kilonzo and Patrick Muithya Michael and Rebecca Hornick Oriel and Chris Cook Berta and Francisco Calero Amy and Josh Frost Betty and Ed Shea Elmer Gramajo-Rodas Liliana Montejano and Jorge Espejo Norma Barrientos and Jose Ruiz Yolanda Camacho and Alejo Salinas Jessica and Andreas Bosch Jeanine Changeux Amy and Josh Frost Ingrid and Francisco Galindo Renee and Shannon O’Hare Elba Jimenez and Jose Mazariegos MariaElena Reyes Oliverio Calderon Henri Reyes Marilucia and Vlanderley Resende Rosa Franco Elvira Lopez Kari Francisco and Steven Litras Torhalla and James Dabalos Aura Garcia Grace and Paul Dearborn Rosa Gramajo Sarah and Steve Hinkley Magdalena Ortiz and Roger De Leon Berta Calero Lynn and Javier Hernandez Martha and Jose Quintero Ingrid and Francisco Galindo Dave Ross Benjie Cortez Sheila Torres and Jose Felix Thuy Truong and Minh Le Yessina Giron Amilda Cifeuntes and Galindo DeLeon Wendy De Leon Rebecca and William Honick Jorge Espejo Cleotilde Calderon and Rulaman Sara Mazariegos Mazariegos Graciela Chavez Kari Francisco and Steve Litras Mayra Romero Eliasar Rodriguez and Marquin Maldonado Mayra Bueno and Miuel Godoy Helen Reid and Samuel Gallegos Dioneyra and Erik Diaz Jennifer Stebbins and Matthew Griggy Duc-Tin & Thanh-Nhan To Isaac Urbano and Loyola Sedano Francisco Chan/Vilma Escobar Juan Arreaga and Marta Lopez Roger and Pamela Harrell Laura & Wed Daniels Thanks to the Teachers/Staff Who Have Contributed to the Falcon Fund! STAFF Juan Rodriguez Mari Kernan Maria Bartlett Barbara Wing Leslie Ramirez Coach Carly Roxanna Guzman Laura McCurdy Margaret Anne Centrella Kindergarten – 4th Kristin Vandro – K Sheila Torres – K Yoana Landin – 1st Kim Press – 2nd Alexa Sakellariou – 2nd Diana Mendoza – 2nd Michelle Rosecrans – 2nd Megan Sulsberger– 2nd Jessica Ferrar – 3rd Carolyn Kenneray – 3rd 4th – 8th Joy Conway – 4th Kim O’Brien – 4th Maggie Dawes – 4th Karen DeTore – 5th Marc Belmont – 5th Freddy Dominguez - MS Shannon McKown – MS Raleigh Yasinitsky – MS Mabel Bialik - MS 2013-2014 Approved Budget Revenue Generated Description of Revenue Revenue Amount Falcon Fund Donations up to 10/1/2013 $14,166 Spirit Wear Revenue $1,600 Carnival Donation (Malugani Tire – THANK YOU) $250 Library $101 Misc donations (Gaspares, Target, United, Escrip) $1,366 TOTAL REVENUE $17,483 2013-2014 Approved Budget Expenses Paid Through 9/30/2013 Description of Expense Expense Amount School Beautification - mural $613.00 Teachers Supply Accounts $329.00 Academic competitions – Spelling Bee $150 Library: Refunds of lost book fees $56 Music MS Band $421 Teacher Lunch: Staff mtg 1st week of school $138 Kindy Welcome & 1st Day coffee $90 Bank Supplies $73 Spirit Wear $2311 Total Expenses Paid $4,181 2013-2014 Approved Budget Total Approved Budgeted Amount $110,465 Revenue through 9/30 -$17,483 WE STILL NEED TO RAISE $92,982 Upcoming Dates to Know! • • • • • • • • VV Fall Carnival: 10/12!! Falcon Fund phone campaign: Oct/Nov 2013 Family Game Night 10/25 Parent Meeting; 1st Grade: November 6 Book Fair: November 18-22 International Potluck: November 20 Parent Meeting; Kindergarten: January 8,2014 Daddy Daughter Dance: February 2014 How to stay in touch? • PTA Mail blasts – please email us if you’d like to subscribe: venetiavalleypta@gmail.com • Facebook: LIKE us “Venetia Valley K-8 PTA”