C H U R C H O F T H E N A T IV IT Y O F T H E B LE SS E D V IR G IN M A R Y MISSION STATEMENT We are a Catholic Community, called to be faithful, caring and enthusiastic disciples. We build up the kingdom of God by worshiping and praising God, proclaiming the Good News of Jesus Christ in word and witness, giving loving service to our neighbor and strengthening the parish community. NUESTRA MISION Somos una comunidad católica llamada a ser discipulos fieles, compasivos y entusiastas. Construimos el Reino de Dios adorando y alabando a Dios, proclamando la Buena Nueva de Jesucristo de palabra y con testimonio, Sacrament of the Eucharist Saturday Vigil: 4:30 pm Sunday: 9:00 am, 1:00 pm - Español Weekday Mass: M-Th—8:00 am, F—Noon Holydays: Noon & 7:00 pm Sunday, February 14, 2016 Sacrament of Reconciliation Friday: 1:00-1:45 pm; Saturday: 3:15-4:15 pm; or by appointment Arrangements for the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick/Communion, Baptism, and Matrimony may be made by calling the Parish Office. PARISH OFFICE 152 Main Street , Brockport, NY 14420 Phone: (585) 637-4500 E-mail: cnativit@dor.org Website: nativitybrockport.org Facebook: Nativity Brockport (https://www.facebook.com/NativityBrockport) Hours Monday –Friday: 9 am—4 pm Staff Fr. Joseph McCaffrey, Pastor—jmccaffrey@dor.org Deacon Tom Schrage—tschrage@rochester.rr.com Deacon Chris Fisher—cfisherjr@rochester.rr.com James Pudetti, Financial Director—jpudetti@dor.org Pamela Rickerl, Parish Secretary—prickerl@dor.org Connie Mesiti, Religious Ed Coordinator—cmesiti@dor.org Thomas Griffin, Facilities & Grounds/Cemetery Supervisor Jorge Salgado, Coordinator of Hispanic Ministry—salgado@dor.org Louise Pohl, Contemporary Choir Director Bridget Bishop, Seasonal Choir Director Pastoral Council John LaPierre—President e-mail: NativityBVMCouncil@gmail.com MT. OLIVET CEMETERY E. Canal Road, Brockport, NY 8 am-dusk, April 1 - November 30; December & April —weather permitting; Closed January 1 –March 31 For information, call the Parish Office at 637-4500. LENTEN PREPARATION THIS WEEK: Friday, February 19 10:30-11:30 am Bible Study – Parish Center 12-2 pm Holy Hour – Church 1-1:45 pm Open for Confession—Church 6-7 pm Lenten Supper – Parish Center 7:00 pm Stations of the Cross - Church Saturday, February 20 3:15-4:15 pm Open for Confession—Church Page 2 Church of the Nativity, Brockport, New York Prayer List of the Sick We pray for those in our faith community and those that we hold in our hearts. May God grant them healing and strength. Nancy Bartlett, Evelyn Battiste, Adaline Caruso, Jessica Couch, Nancy Danko, Gail DeToy, Josephine DiNatale, Dave Ellis, Michael Ferris, Dolores Flow, Nate Foley, Theresa Gusek, David Kleehammer, Kailee Kwiecien, John Lupisella, Lhessa Lyons, Brian McCullough, Carol McNeil, Chuck Muscolino, Joanne Nicolucci, Pat Nisdeo, Mary Overmeyer, Tony Pacilio, Sara Ridd, Lorraine Sheflin, Frances Swalbach, Andy Virgilio. Names remain on for one month. Please call the office to add, remove or resubmit a loved one’s name. The Nativity Community welcomes in Baptism, Andrew, Estefany Ruby & William Mendoza Perez, children of Roberto Mendoza Perez and Maria Perez Sandoval. February 14, 2016 Office News MASS REQUESTS To schedule a Mass, please stop by the office or call Pamela during office hours. BULLETIN DEADLINES FOR THE HOLIDAYS Please submit items by Friday THEWEEK BEFORE the weekend you wish it to appear. Please: 1) E-mail it to cnativit@dor.org OR 2) Drop it off during open office hours The bulletin is due at noon on Tuesday, and time is needed to fit everything in. Your cooperation is most appreciated! HOSPITAL VISITATION If a member of your family is in Unity, Strong, Highland, or General, please call the Parish Office and let us know so Father Joe can visit. Adult Confirmation Any ADULT who would like to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation this spring, please contact our Parish Office. We will take all your information, so we can make plans with the Bishop’s Office. Then, we will have you attend a preparation program at Sacred Heart Cathedral on Saturday, February 27 from 9 am-2 p.m. For more information you can directly contact: Marianne Himmelsbach, the Cathedral’s Faith Formation Coordinator, at 254-3221, x108 or mhimmelsbach@dor.org. Important note for all: Confirmation is required if one wants to be a sponsor for Baptism or Confirmation. Please pray for the souls of Charles Nash & Timothy Connors, who passed away recently. Scriptural Readings for the Week Sunday: Dt 26:4-10/Ps 91:1-2, 10-15/ Rom 10:8-13/Lk 4:1-13 Monday: Lv 19:1-2, 11-18/Ps 19:8-10, 15/ Mt 25:31-46 Tuesday: Is 55:10-11/Ps 34:4-7, 16-19/Mt 6:7-15 Wednesday: Jon 3:1-10/Ps 51:3-4, 12-13, 18-19/ Lk 11:29-32 Thursday: Est C:12, 14-16, 23-25/Ps 138:1-3, 7-8/ Mt 7:7-12 Friday: Ez 18:21-28/Ps 130:1-8/Mt 5:20-26 Saturday: Dt 26:16-19/Ps 119:1-2, 4-5, 7-8/Mt 5:43-48 Next Sunday: Gn 15:5-12, 17-18/Ps 27:1, 7-9, 13-14/ Phil 3:17--4:1 or 3:20--4:1/Lk 9:28b-36 Skate into Spring Sunday ~ March 20, 2016 Skating & Snacks SUNY Brockport Family Fun Night Saturday ~ April 23, 2016 Family movie & Dessert Sweden Clarkson Rec center Watch the bulletin for more details. Mark these dates on your calendar so you don’t miss out! !! Page 3 Church of the Nativity, Brockport, New York Father Joe’s Week: Last Thursday, Fr. John Forni and I went to lunch at Uno’s, and then to see “Brooklyn.” What a wonderful movie. The performances are perfect, the direction is subtle and affecting, the music is spot on, and a great story to book. And a good portion of it is shot in County Wexford. Go and see it…That evening when I came home I learned of the death of Tim Connors, so I went over to Bill and Joyce’s house to be with them and their family. There was lots of good support, so I stayed a while, then went home…Saturday I went to the First Penance meeting and talked with them about moral development in children. It looks like it will be a good group…Sunday I had three Masses and the RCIA. In the evening I went to the Cathedral to watch the Super Bowl with Fr. McKenna. His cook left us a delicious beef stew, and I took the leftovers home with me. The game was interesting, and I stayed with Kevin for three quarters, and watched to the end when I got home. Maybe it’s my unhipness, but I didn’t get any of the commercials, and the halftime show was incomprehensible…Monday afternoon I went to see the Doctor, and am fine for another six months…Tuesday evening our Festival committee met to begin planning for next summer, and to welcome new members. It looks good for the event; lots of good ideas and people to help…Ash Wednesday saw me at the Physical Therapist’s to begin a regimen for my shoulder. I have some tendonitis and the ortho docs suggested some therapy…The Masses went fine for Ash Wednesday. It was wonderful to come into church that day and see the purple in place (thanks, Cindy). Our bilingual Mass was well prepared by Jorge Salgado, and had a good representation from both the Spanish Community and college students. May all of us have a blessed Lent. I went to lunch with John LaPierre to plan the pastoral council meeting for next week, and to supper with Mary Lynne Turner on our annual Ash Wednesday fish dinner…God bless and have a good week! Ireland 2016 There are still spots left! Join Fr. Joe McCaffrey on a 12-day trip to Ireland, September 26 to October 6, 2016. We’re going to Dublin, Belfast, Westport, Killarney, and more. Castle dinner and pubs galore! See where the Titanic was built and board a famine ship. Tour Waterford Crystal and enjoy a night of Irish dancing and tunes. Walk in the footsteps of John Wayne and Maureen O’Hara where The Quiet Man was made. And so much more, like the Cliffs of Moher! The price has been set to $2,950. Luxury bus, 7 suppers, all breakfasts, hotel, porterage, driver/guide all included. Limit of 48. Contact Fr. Joe McCaffrey, 585-637-4500 (jmccaffrey@dor.org) for information and reservations. Arrangements by CIE, the national tour company of Ireland. Flyers are up in all entrances of the Church. Please take one! February 14, 2016 Supper and Stations Join us Fridays during Lent for a simple supper before observing the Stations of the Cross. We will be at the Parish Center from 6-7pm. Come when you can. Bring your own simple, meatless meal to enjoy and share this time with others before we head over to the church for Stations of the Cross. Plates, etc. will be provided, so clean up will be easy. Spend your Friday mornings during Lent with Fr. Joe who will be leading a Bible Study on the Letter to the Ephesians. We will gather from 10-11:30am in the Parish Center. All you need is your Bible and your interest. It’s a great way to grow in God’s Word this Lent. See you there! We will be going to the Abbey of the Genesee again for a Retreat Day on Wednesday, February 24th, leaving after the 8 am Mass. We will have three silent reflections on Lenten themes, join the community for Midday Prayer, have lunch—leaving the Monastery about 3-3:30 pm. All are welcome! Cost is $20—Checks made out to “Abbey of the Genesee.” Bring your own lunch. Let us know at the Parish Office (637-4500) if you are coming. New Parishioners We are glad you joined us.. Pamela & Sophia Rickerl Heather, Chloe & Emily Trembley A Marriage Prayer for World Marriage Sunday Dear Lord, Help us remember when we first met, and the abiding love that grew between us. Please work our love into practical living, so nothing will ever divide us. We pray for words both kind and loving, and hearts always ready to ask for forgiveness as well as to forgive. Lord, together with faith and hope, we place our lives and marriage in your righteous hands. Amen. Page 4 Church of the Nativity, Brockport, New York Lent -- Is it all about Self-Improvement? By Dr. Marcellino D’Ambrosio from The Crossroads Initiative For many, Lent means spiritual self-improvement through sacrifice. It’s often all about what to “give up” for Lent. But Jesus’ 40 day fast in the wilderness was not for his own sake. It was all to prepare for his ministry, a ministry that brought light to those in darkness and healing for the afflicted. The early Christians followed Jesus in their approach to Lent. They fasted and prayed for forty days before Easter to support two special groups of people who were pushing up against some serious obstacles. First there were those preparing for baptism who were struggling to break the bonds of sin and paganism. The second group were the penitents who had been away from the sacraments for many years. They were preparing for reconciliation and a return to communion at Easter. So Lent in the Early Church was not so much a time of personal growth as church growth. Rather than a time to look inward it was about looking outward. We are being asked not just to deepen our faith, but to share it. It is finally time to take seriously the call to the New Evangelization and make it a part of our Lenten journey. There are many Church-going Catholics who experience the practice of their faith more as a chore than a joy. There are an increasing number of Catholics who have been away for a long time. And there are many from other religious traditions and of no religious background at all, who don’t know that they have a loving Father. Evangelization is not about pushing our ideas on people. It’s about letting them know the Good News that they are loved and forgiven, that their life has more meaning and promise than they ever suspected. Several years ago, I called a cab to take me to the airport. I decided to make conversation with the driver who was obviously from the Middle East. “Where are you from?” “Iran,” he answered. “Are there many Christians in Iran?” “I never met one,” he replied. “So why do you have a cross hanging from your mirror?” Then he told his story. “I was an army officer when the Shah was overthrown and the Ayatollahs came to power. They preached a harsh religion of intolerance and hate, and it made me hate religion. I left Iran and I vowed never to set foot in a mosque again. After years in the states, a neighbor invited me to his Church. I decided to go, to find out if what I learned about Christianity was true. That Sunday, I heard about a God of love, a God of mercy, a God who tells us to call him “Father” and who sent his son to die for me. This message moved me very deeply. So I kept going back became a Christian.” This Lent let’s pick up our heads and look around– around the family, the neighborhood, the workplace. Who needs to experience the love of God? Pray and fast for them. Reach out to them. Listen to their story. Invite them to your home for a cup of coffee, a glass of wine, or a meal. Invite them to your Church home for Mass or a Lenten mission. If they are not Catholic, invite them just to see what a Catholic Church is like. No pressure. If they’ve been away, invite them to see what your Church is like. Next time you are going to confession, invite someone to come with you. The Iranian cabdriver could have said no. But he had a right to know the truth about his heavenly Father. And his neighbor had a duty to introduce him. Thank God that his neighbor’s love was greater than his fear of getting a “no.” Now there’s a good thing to give up for Lent – the fear of rejection! February 14, 2016 CONFIRMACIÓN DE ADULTOS Todo adulto que quiera recibir la Confirmación esta primavera, por favor, póngase en contacto con la oficina parroquial. Tomaremos toda su información, y luego contactaremos con la oficina del obispo. Después tendrán que asistir a un programa de preparación en la catedral Sacred Heart el sábado 27 de febrero de 9am a 2pm. LAS DISCIPLINAS DE CUARESMA DE AYUNO Y ABSTINENCIA Los católicos que tienen buena salud y están entre la edad de 18 a 59 años deben guardar ayuno y abstinencia de carne el Miércoles de Ceniza y el Viernes santo. Cuando uno ayuna come solamente una comida al día, con la posibilidad de añadir dos pequeñas meriendas, que no sumen otra comida completa. Los católicos de 14 en Adelante deben abstenerse de la carne todos los viernes de cuaresma. CENA Y VIACRUCIS Ven con nosotros los viernes de Cuaresma para una cena simple antes del Viacrucis. Estaremos en el centro parroquial de 6pm a 7pm. Trae una comida sencilla sin carne, para disfrutar y compartir este tiempo con los demás antes de ir al templo para el Viacrucis. Proveeremos platos. VISITA A LAS FAMILIAS Si quieres que visitemos a tu familia y tengamos un estudio bíblico u oración en tu casa, comunícate con Jorge Salgado para programar la visita. También, si conoces alguna familia que debemos visitar para que vuelva a la Iglesia, háznoslo saber. FACEBOOK: Dan os un “me gusta” o hazte amigo de nosotros en facebook. Búscanos en: Ministerio Migrante Hispano, Brockport, NY. COMUNIDAD HISPANA - Si te gusta cantar o tocas cualquier instrumento te invitamos a unirte a nuestro coro, ensayamos los domingos a las 12:30pm. Necesitamos personas comprometidas que nos ayuden a cantar, o toquen algún instrumento. - Si quieres aprender a leer la Biblia y seguir creciendo en tu fe, te esperamos en el centro parroquial todos los martes a las 7pm. - Los domingos después de misa tenemos café en el centro parroquial. - Si tiene algún niño que no esté bautizado, pide la ficha de inscripción para programar el día y la hora de la charla y del bautismo. Page 5 Church of the Nativity, Brockport, New York February 14, 2016 Sunday Financial Offering Nativity Calendar February 7, 2016 Budget amount needed per week………………$6,067.00 Actual amount received…………………...…...…$6,109.00 Over (under) budget year to date………..……($1,173.97) Attendance……...….…………………………...………..….…383 Sunday, February 14—Valentine’s Day No Religious Education Classes 9:00 am Rite of Sending & Rite of Election during Mass Black, Native American & Hispanic Collection during Mass 12-1 pm Hisp. Gathering—Parish Center Monday, February 15—President’s Day Parish Office Closed 7:00 pm Seasonal Choir – Church Tuesday, February 16 9:30 am Prayer Shawl Ministry—Rectory 2:00 pm Biekirch Mass 7:00 pm Pastoral Council—Parish Center 7:00 pm Estudio Biblico—Parish Center Hisp. Min. Wednesday, February 17 7:00 pm Contemporary Choir – Church Friday, February 19 10:30-11:30 am Bible Study – Parish Center 12-2 pm Holy Hour – Church 6-7 pm Lenten Supper – Parish Center 7:00 pm Stations of the Cross - Church Sunday, February 21 No Religious Education Classes 12-1 pm Hisp. Gathering – Parish Center Thank you for your continued faithful giving! Mass Intentions Saturday, February 13 4:30 pm Pasquale Battisti—Lincoln Family Sunday, February 14—1st Sunday of Lent, St. Valentine 9:00 am Special Intentions of Steve & Connie Mesiti, Jr.—Mom & Dad 1:00 pm For the people of the parish Monday, February 15 8:00 am Marion McCauley—John & Pat Bush Tuesday, February 16 8:00 am Doris Kepler—John & June Killigrew 2:00 pm Biekirch Mass: Viola LaPierre—Brian & Mary Francis Wednesday, February 17—The Seven Holy Founders of the Servite Order 8:00 am Annette & Nicola Fiorillo—Carmela Coccitto Thursday, February 18 8:00 am Linda Hartmann—Husband, Wayne Friday, February 19 12:00 pm John Cleary—Tony & Kathy Pacilio Saturday, February 20 4:30 pm John Goosley—The Family Sunday, February 21-2nd Sunday of Lent 9:00 am Roberta Celento—Ron & Francine Mazzarella 1:00 pm For the people of the parish There will be NO Religious Education Sunday, February 14th OR the 21st due to February Recess. For more information, contact Connie Mesiti, Religious Education Coordinator, at (585) 637-4500 or cmesiti@dor.org for any questions. The Sanctuary Candle is burning before the Blessed Sacrament during the month of February for Annette & Nicola Fiorillo requested by Carmela Coccitto. 2nd Sunday of Lent– February 20 & 21, 2016 *As of Tuesday noon Saturday 4:30 pm Sunday 9:00 am Music Piano and cantor Greeters/Ushers Dan & Maria Lincoln (H), June Keller, Bill & Jason Horn (H), Steve Drexel, Helen Hwiecko, Joyce Mullen NEED A VOLUNTEER, B ill W r igh t Lectors Lynne Gardner (POF), Pat Corbin Patty Hayles, John Lemke CLOW-Leader XXX Marlene Beghini CLOW-Aide XXX Jessica Horn Contemporary Choir Sacristans/Heads Charilla Conner, Carol Rich Arden & Tina Campbell Extraordinary Ministers Cheryl Conner, Carol Rich Bill Guilford, Mary Lynne Turner Altar Servers Jake Burchfield, Lauren Dailey, Alex Scaglione Rebecca Graves, Mitchell Henshaw, Sydney Horn