June 2015 A section of the Anglican Journal anglican diocese of quebec • diocèse anglican de québec DON’T GO AWAY CRUCIFIED WOMAN by Louisa Blair photo by Susanne Guenther Loewen 12 13 VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN ONLY TIP OF ICEBERG by Michelle Chevarie 14 Contents LETTERS NEWS Editor’s note 3 Bruce Stavert celebrates 50 years of ordination 7 Religious Language and Resurrection: a Response to Michael Pitts 4 ACW student bursaries 7 TRUTH, BEAUTY & GOODNESS Crucified woman 13 Happy Retirement To Deacon Hayes! 8 Has your parish had a garden party this year? 9 Stained glass windows 9 FEATURE BISHOP’S LETTER To the editor of the Diocesan Gazette 9 Recovering our hope 5 Marching for climate justice 9 As scary as physical violence against women seems, it is only the tip of the iceberg 14 CANADA BRIEFS COLUMNS ODDS & ENDS Tending the garden 10 6 Books cont’d Bishop’s letter 16 Récupérer notre espoir 5 Daisy and the Donkey Church 11 cont’d Canada briefs 16 Faithful reflections Don’t go away 12 June 2015 A ministry of the Anglican Diocese of Quebec founded in 1894 by the Rt. Rev. A.H. Dunn Jeff Metcalfe Editor Roy Stinson Chair of The Gazette Board Annalee Giesbrecht Layout & Design The Gazette is published 10 times a year (September-June) and mailed as a section of the Anglican Journal (Dépot légal, Bibliothèque national du Québec). Printed and mailed by Webnews Printing Inc. in North York, Ontario, The Gazette is a member of the Canadian Church Press and the Anglican Editors Association. Circulation: 3,800. The mandate of The Gazette shall be to serve as a means of encouragement, communication, and community building among the regions of the diocese, with special emphasis on regional activities and matters of concern for both laity and clergy. It shall provide an opportunity for the bishop to address the people of the diocese directly and seek to cover items from outside the diocese that bear on its corporate life. The Gazette shall provide a channel for infor- mation and a forum for discussion, shall be encouraged to express a wide range of opinion within the diocese, and shall enjoy editorial independence. (Canon 22 of the Synod of the Diocese of Quebec) Editorial and advertising enquiries, as well as letters to the editor, should be directed to: editor@quebec.anglican.ca The Editor The Gazette 527 chemin Principal Grosse-Île (Québec) G4T 6B2 (418) 985-2715 Letters WHEN I FIRST moved back to the country from the big city, it was with great relief. It seemed at that time I had made a real bargain, trading concrete for beaches, oceans of traffic for actual oceans. Growing up in the country, but having lived all my adult life in cities, I must confess, I was besot by rural nostalgia. A great many of my peers felt the same way, more then a few of them pining for a placement that would take them out of the pollution and into a safer place. However the thing about utopias is that they do not actually exist. For all its charm (and there are many) it turns out rural Canada is not a very safe place to live, especially if you happen to be female. According to Statistics Canada and the Canadian Institute for Health Information, rural girls are more likely to smoke and drink, have higher rates of suicide, and have poorer mental health. As Saman Ahsan, Executive Director of Girl’s Action Foundation has suggested, they are also more likely to face social pressure to ignore bullying, they are less likely to seek help if they are depressed, less likely to report being raped, and less likely to receive help if they do report it. Oh, and if that were not bad enough, if they are raped or the victims of other kinds of violence, they are more likely to be blamed for it, and shamed by their community. So much for rural nostalgia. It turns out that knowing your neighbours doesn’t always make you safer. The majority of violence against women happens not by strangers lurking in the darkness of inner city streets, but by family members: fathers, uncles, husbands (yes almost all of the violent acts committed against women are done by men). As Michelle Chevarie points out, living as if violence against women and young girls isn’t happening in our communities isn’t going to make the problem go away, in fact, this is one of the reasons it persists. The thing about pretending that we live in a utopia is that it prevents us from addressing the very real problems we face. So here is my proposal: if you are a father, teach your children that women and men are equal, and do it not through lengthy lectures but by learning how to cook, and sharing the housework equally, by valuing your wife’s work not as something that is good because “it keeps her busy,” but a career just as valuable as yours. If you are a church leader, think about the way you pursue your ministry, not only the sermons that you preach and how you interpret biblical texts, but also the everyday decisions you make like which parishioners you choose to visit and who you equip for leadership. If you hear about abuse, believe it. Do not be a bystander. As church leaders we need to speak up and to speak out. And if you are a woman or a young girl, know that you deserve better from your communities and your partner. If you feel unsafe, tell someone you trust. I hope that your local minister can be that kind of person. Utopias do not exist but healthy and safe rural communities might. I am convinced that if we can get rid of our nostalgia and be real about our sins, we can begin working towards the latter. In August I will be returning to the big city to pursue doctoral work at the University of Toronto. I hope you have enjoyed my short tenure as Editor over these last few months; it has been a great blessing to me to bring you the kind of difficult but needed reflections that Michelle offers us this June. Some outgoing advice to the next Editor: do not shrink back from the darkness, for the good news of our Christian story is that “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it” (John 1.5). If you are a woman or a young girl, know that you deserve better. Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 Editor’s note 3 Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 Religious language and resurrection: a response to Michael Pitts 4 IN HIS TEXT about resurrection and religious language, Michel Pitts invites us to move inside of scripture: to share in the depth of the sense of love, peace, joy, fear and awe found there. This is certainly a praiseworthy invitation, but we feel that it is unfortunate that the text does not avoid the trap Nietzsche denounced when he enjoined us to avoid overestimating the depths, by depreciating the surface. In this Easter season, Mr. Pitts discusses the gospel of Mark 16:1-8, even though the first choice in the Revised Common Lectionary for this Easter is the text found in John 20: 1-18. According to Mr. Pitts, Mark does not speak of bodily resurrection or of the appearances. Clearly there are no appearances in the passage in Mark, but as to references to bodily resurrection, let’s not come to any rash conclusions. After all, Mark tells us that the women did not find the body of Jesus in the tomb, instead they found a young man who announced to them that Jesus the Nazarene, the crucified , has been resurrected and is no longer in the tomb. For Mr. Pitts, Mark, in this text and others, speaks the language of the heavens being opened, of transfiguration, of angelic presence and of resurrection. Pitts says that this is not the language of everyday use, not the language of history or of science. We mention in passing, that Jesus demonstrates amply in his parables that everyday language can also be the language of mystery, the language of the depths. But to come to the heart of the issue, let us enter into the simplicity of Mark’s text: the women come to the tomb, the body of Jesus is no longer there, and a being announces that the Nazarene has been resurrected. If the reader dares to see in the text, not only a story but a historical narrative, why must this reading be automatically considered as a dangerous misunderstanding? Renowned theologians, Anglican or otherwise have had such readings. N.T.Wright with his 700 page volume The Resurrection of the Son of God is an example. Why must we lock ourselves into the logic of exclusion where a symbolic meaning to a text eliminates any possibility of historical truth? Our religious language, in the Christian community, is also the language of the gospels, which present aspects of the historical life of Jesus without necessarily establishing all the details. It seems presumptuous to us to imply that anyone can know the one and only way that religious language functions. It is even more risky to affirm that other ways of understanding religious language prevent people from becoming a part of the Christian community. Sociological studies have shown that churches whose benches are almost empty are those in which it is preached that in the scriptures there are only stories and no history, and that expressions of transcendence: miracles, resurrection, eternal life, etc. are poetic metaphors. In our opinion, the Christian community should be spacious enough to include different readings of the scriptures. Finally, who can say what is at the surface and what is in the depths? As the French writer Paul Valéry wrote, “That which is the deepest in man, is the skin.” Edouard C. Lebeau and Violet Konrad, Sherbrooke, QC Outragé ? Inspiré Excité ? Ambivalent ? Faites-nous savoir ce que vous pensez ! La Gazette est l’endroit où notre communauté de foi au Québec peut s’exprimer et converser librement, Par contre, une conversation n’incluant qu’une seule voix est plutôt unilatérale (et soyons honnêtes, plutôt ennuyante aussi…) Alors, « Crie de toutes tes forces et ne te retiens pas. Fais retentir ta voix comme le son du cor ! » (Ésaïe 58 :1a) Outraged? Inspired? Ambivalent? Excited? We want to hear what you think! The Gazette is the common conversation of our faith community in Quebec. But a conversation with only one voice is pretty one sided (and let’s be honest, it’s pretty boring too…) So “Shout out, do not hold back! Lift up your voice like a trumpet!” (Isaiah 58:1a) - The Editor Recovering our hope Récupérer notre espoir FOR TWELVE YEARS I have attended the Annual general meeting of the Church Society. Up until ten days ago my intention was to be there as usual. That all changed when I heard from the family that Paul Almond, the noted film and television director and producer, had died. Paul was educated at Baliol College at Oxford and did a great deal of his creative work in England. He was also named as an Officer of the Order of Canada. Despite his many international achievements Paul was a “parsonage kid.” His family’s roots are deeply embedded in the soil of Shigawake and the Gaspe coast. His Father was an Anglican Priest as was his uncle. They both served in the Diocese of Quebec. Paul was a lay reader in his parish of St. Aidan’s Malibu where the funeral is being held on Sunday, the day of his 84th birthday. I will miss his irrepressible wit and acerbic asides. Please pray for the repose of his soul and for his family. This year, like most years that I have been active in Church leadership in the diocese, has been marked by a continued process of change. We are challenged to find the ways and means of providing leadership and pastoral ministry over this farflung diocese. To achieve this we continue to work at restructuring ministry in the various regions so that we can respond to the needs of the small communities across central and eastern Quebec. Crucial to our work is the fundamental need to raise up lay and ordained leaders in the church communities. We have been successful in certain places and not at all successful in others. The days are past when we would see our local minister living just down the road. In today’s Church a parish priest has become a community gatherer, a discerner of pastoral ministers, and a traveling teacher of the faith. Parish life is no longer what happens in the church building, it’s what happens as we engage the members of the larger community in every venue and in every walk of life. Where people are unwilling to change their DEPUIS LES DOUZE dernières années, je préside l’assemblée générale annuelle de Church Society (La Société d’Église du diocèse de Québec). Mon intention de procéder de la même manière cette année a été chamboulée lorsque j’ai appris, par le biais de sa famille, le décès de Paul Almond, réalisateur renommé à la télévision comme au cinéma et producteur. Paul avait reçu son éducation au Collège Balliol et à Oxford, et avait complété plusieurs de ses œuvres en Angleterre. Il avait aussi reçu la distinction d’officier de l’Ordre du Canada. Bien que ses réalisations aient atteint une envergure internationale, Paul est toujours demeuré un « petit gars de paroisse ». Ses racines familiales étaient profondément ancrées dans la terre de Shigawake et de la côte gaspésienne. Son père et son oncle ont tous deux été des pasteurs anglicans qui ont œuvré au sein du diocèse de Québec. Paul agissait en tant que prédicateur laïque dans sa paroisse de Saint Aidan à Malibu, là où ses funérailles ont été célébrées le dimanche 26 avril, le jour de son 84ème anniversaire. Son esprit vif et irrépressible et ses réparties mordantes vont me manquer terriblement. S’il vous plaît, priez pour le repos éternel de son âme et pour sa famille. Comme toutes les années au cours desquelles j’ai fait partie de l’équipe de gestion du ministère dans notre diocèse, cette année est toujours sous le signe d’un processus continu d’évolution. Les défis se multiplient dans la réalisation de notre mission qui consiste à trouver les façons et les moyens d’assurer le leadership et le maintien du ministère pastoral dans notre vaste diocèse. Afin de compléter cette mission, nous poursuivons la restructuration du ministère dans les diverses régions afin d’être en mesure de répondre aux besoins des petites communautés du centre et de l’est du Québec. Nous avons un besoin fondamental auquel il est crucial de répondre : il nous faut favoriser le développement de leaders ordonnés et laïques à partir de nos communautés religieuses. Nous Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 Bishop’s Letter 5 Canada Briefs PREPARED BY BEN GRAVES TRC report to be released Numerous events, including a walk for reconciliation, the planting of a heart garden and a public feast, have been planned to mark the release of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission’s (TRC) report at the last national event scheduled in Ottawa May 31 to June 3. The release of the report comes eight years after the TRC was established by the Indian Residential School Settlement Agreement in 2007, and signifies the culmination of the seven national TRC events held since. It does not, however, mark the end of the process of reconciliation, according to Justice Murray Sinclair, chair of the TRC. “If you thought the truth was hard, reconciliation will be harder.” Crosstalk Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 Summerland church hosts World Day of Prayer 6 St. Stephen’s Anglican Church in Summerland, B.C., played host to the World Day of Prayer (WDP) in March. WDP describes itself as “a global ecumenical movement of Christian women joined together to observe a common day of prayer each year on the first Friday of March.” It was started by women in the United States and Canada in 1922, and has since grown to span 2,000 different communities across Canada and 170 countries around the world. This year’s ecumenical service materials were written by the WDP committee of The Bahamas. As such, St. Stephen’s immersed itself in Bahamian culture in anticipation of WDP, exploring Bahamian history, music and traditional food. Lynette Lodge, who was born in Grenada, but possesses a wealth of knowledge on the Caribbean and the challenges faced by The Bahamas today, delivered the homily, which was followed by intercessional prayers for the Bahamian community. The Highway Council for Refugees calls on faith leaders to stand with Muslims The Canadian Council for Refugees (CCR) has released a statement in response to what it terms “increased prejudice and hostility” toward Muslim immigrants. The statement calls for faith leaders, along with political and community leaders, to take positive action against what it described as a rising tide of prejudice. The CCR has raised the possibility that the government itself may be engaged in discrimination against Muslim refugees, noting that in 2012, the minister of Citizenship and Immigration rejected Somalia and Afghanistan—both countries with mostly Muslim populations—as priority populations for immigration, despite the recommendation of the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees. The statement notes that further prejudice and discrimination will only “make Muslim young persons question whether they can ever fully belong in Canadian society,” and challenges non-Muslim Canadians to question whether or not the current political climate is truly reflective of “Canadian values of tolerance, non-discrimination, and openness.” Anglican Montreal Toronto youth ministers attend conference in Chicago Eight youth ministers from Toronto were among the 400 youth leaders across more than a dozen Christian denominations who attended the Progressive Youth Ministry Conference at Fourth Presbyterian Church in downtown Chicago this past March. The conference’s tagline was “Fresh Voices, Radical Ideas,” and participants said the content lived up to its billing. Particularly engaging was the Rev. Amy Butler, who pulled no punches in her closing homily when tackling the question of the church’s relevance in the modern world. “In a world that considers our cathedrals—and even the pulpit where Martin Luther King, Jr. preached—irrelevant,” she said, “what is the future of our church? We could be afraid or we could admit our irrelevance and get creative in love.” Rosemary MacAdam, youth minister for St. Margaret’s Anglican Church, New Toronto, who attended and reported on the conference, said she “felt a deep sense of hope” at the end of the conference, knowing that people like Butler are leading the church into the future while actively confronting the challenges that it continues to face. The Anglican Hamilton church’s outreach programs bear fruit The Rev. Mike Deed, rector of the Church of the Resurrection in Hamilton, Ont., describes the area in which his church is found as a somewhat “deceptive space.” Although it’s only a short drive away from several wealthy, attractive neighbourhoods, the Resurrection actually serves an area that a 2012 study found has the highest poverty rates on Hamil- News ACW student bursaries SUBMITTED BY JANICE FRASIER THE ANGLICAN CHURCH Women of the Diocese of Quebec have small bursaries available for students from the Magdelen Islands, Lower North Shore and the Gaspé Peninsula to enable them to continue their education at CEGEP or University level, if living away from home. Application forms may be downloaded from the ACW page on the Diocesan website. BY PETER DENIS On March 25, the Feast of the Annunciation of our Lord Jesus Christ to the Blessed Virgin Mary, Archbishop Bruce Stavert celebrated the Golden Jubilee of his Ordination by Bishop Russell Brown in the Cathedral of the Holy Trinity, Quebec City. Many friends and family from Quebec and St. Matthias’ joined Bruce for a Choral Eucharist, followed by a reception at St. Matthias’, Westmount, where he has been serving as a Clergy Associate since his retirement in 2009. As it was only one week before his 75th birthday on April 1, both milestones were the focus of the evening. The lessons were read by his daughters, Rosamond and Kathleen, and his son, Timothy and his wife, Diana. Diana also assisted at the Eucharist. At the reception his wife and children read notes of best wishes from friends in Quebec City and Prince Albert, Sask., where he served most of his career, as well as participating in a well-rehearsed roast of their father and husband. Photos of Bruce in his younger days and banners celebrating his birthday and Jubilee decorated the Hall. About 150 friends were in attendance. Congratulations to Bruce on his long service to the Anglican Church of Canada and to St. Matthias’. Patrick Wheeler is the new Rector of St. Matthias’ Church, Westmount, where Bruce has served as Clergy Associate since his retirement. Peter Denis attends St. Georges Church, Georgeville. For more information, contact Margaret Woollerton: 41 Deacon St. Sherbrooke, QC J1M 1B5 or at 819-346-6784 The deadline for applications is September 1, 2015. Give the Gift of IMAGINATION This year, make a gift to provide a faith community the unique opportunity to encourage their creative potential and build a strong future for Canadian Anglicans. foundation@anglicanfoundation.org Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 Bruce Stavert celebrates 50 years of ordination 7 Happy Retirement To Deacon Hayes! Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 BY MARJORIE LEPAGE 8 NATIONAL VOLUNTEER WEEK, which took place from April 12-18, was a great opportunity to show our most sincere appreciation and recognition to local volunteers. Always ready to give a hand, rarely missing any event, our local volunteers are the one who helps our community stay active and alive. To thank them and give them the recognition they deserve, the Shigawake and Port-Daniel community put together a volunteer evening on April 17th. What was supposed to be an event for all, ended up actually being a secret retirement party for Deacon Patsy Hayes. The Rev. Hayes who had even participated in the organization, was absolutely clueless about her surprise party. She recalls enjoying every minute of it after the initial shock. Patsy has been the deacon for the Parish of Chaleur Bay since January 25th 2006. She has lead our churches for many years and has done many volunteering hours. Fourteen years later, after being the leader of both St. James, Port-Daniel & St.Pauls, Shigawake church, she has decided to retire. Her successor, Nicholas Forte, should arrive and take her place this summer. As a gift, she was given a beautiful painting by Gloria Hayes Ethel Bradbury representing both St.Paul and St.James church. Being one of the most active ladies out there, it was no surprise to see the Shigawake Community Center packed with folks from all around the Chaleur Bay area, ready to honour her and thank her for everything she has accomplished. Many speakers were invited up front by the master of ceremony, Bill Sullivan, to give thanks to Patsy Hayes for everything she has done. Among them was John LeGresley from St-Andrews church in New-Carlisle, Jimmy Huntington from St-James church in Hopetown, Margaret Marjorie Lepage is a young aspiring journalist in the Deanery of Gaspe. PHOTO CREDIT: MARJORIE LEPAGE Ann Mauger, the Rev. Doreen Bird-Daley from the New Carlisle United Church Pastoral Charge, Josie MacWhirter from St-Andrew’s United church in Hopetown, pastor Paul Bedford from Hope Baptist Church, Ann MacWhirther, Elton Hayes from St-Paul’s Shigawake, Melda Huntington, former mayor Kenneth Duguay representing the municipality of Shigawake, Hartley Lepage and Marjorie Lepage representing the Municipality of Port-Daniel-Gascons as well as the Anglican gazette, Gloria Hayes representing the Woman’s Institute and her husband, Garry Hayes. Many entertainers were also called upfront to sing and perform some of Patsy’s favourite songs. Among them was George Hayes, Rob MacWhirter, Warren MacKenzie, Mona and Bill Court, Lois Hayes, Mark Dea, Lorne Walker, Melda and Jim Huntington and Dave Royal. To close off the party, the choir joined by The Rev. Hayes, was invited to sing ‘‘Beautiful Gaspe’’ written by Ruth Duguay and Lois Hayes as the organist. A big thank-you to Landis Assels and Edith Mackenzie who put together this lovely event. The evening was a success and on behalf of all, I would like to wish a happy and well deserve retirement to Patsy Hayes. Has your parish had a Marching for climate garden party this year? justice BY ROY STINSON Stained glass windows MANY OF OUR beautiful churches have stain glass windows that tell the stories of Jesus and the Bible in a way that words cannot. They also in their dedications provide a history of the former families in the parish. Some of these stories are being lost when churches close. The Diocesan Gazette would like to publish a record of some of these windows in future issues. Those from closing churches or closed churches are especially requested. Find a volunteer photographer and send us your high-resolution photographs. Beverly Dame (board member) can advise you on the pixel requirements. SUBMITTED BY CYNTHIA PATTERSON Miriam Blair, Aurora Patterson-Drainville and Hannah Blair (parishioners of Cathedral of the Holy Trinity) set out with friends from cathedral close for the Action Climate March on 11 April. To the editor of the Diocesan Gazette UNFORTUNATELY THE EDITORIAL Board of The Gazette has received the resignation of The Reverend Jeffrey Metcalfe, Editor of the Gazette, as he has been accepted at the University of Toronto for studies towards another degree in Theology. On behalf of all the readers and the board we extend our heartfelt thanks and praise for a job well done. Especially for moving the paper into the 21st century, with new columns and an easier to read and hold format. Type faces, size and graphics are now focussed on seniors vision needs. We ask God’s blessings on Jeffrey and his family as the take another journey to serve Christ. Roy Stinson is the Chair of The Gazette Board and a member of The Church of the Advent, Sherbrooke SUBMITTED BY CYNTHIA PATTERSON Bishop Dennis Drainville, Archdeacon Garth Bulmer and deacon Cynthia Patterson at Action Climate March where participants numbered over 25,000. Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 NO NOT A sunny afternoon social!!! But a grounds clean up party. Send the Gazette, your photo’s and description of it. Did parishioners come in droves with rakes and shoves for planting? Was a committee struck to layout the plots or were they there already? Did you plant flowers to beautify the Church or share with shut-ins? Were they a back drop for wedding photographs? Or, did you plant a vegetable garden to share with those in need? Our Fall Issue awaits your submissions, please send by July 24th. 9 Columns Tending the garden Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 BY MARIE-SOL GAUDREAU 10 THE ANGLICAN FOUNDATION of Canada (AFC) was one of the topics of discussion at the last Diocesan Executive Council meeting. As most of you know, the AFC has supported a lot of projects within our Diocese and I’m positive it will continue to do so in the future. However, I was surprised to learn during the conversation that as a Diocese our membership to the AFC is one of the lowest contributors within Canada. There are some Dioceses were all of the parishes within that Diocese supports the AFC, for some reason we as a whole do not. There might be a lot of reason for that and I’m going with the easiest answer, that of lack of knowledge and understanding. Lack of knowledge about the AFC, what it is and what it does, as well as a lack of understanding on the fact that their membership is based annually and most of us probably don’t think about it until we want to write up a request for funds for one of our projects. Let’s start by learning a bit about the AFC – here’s what their website has to say: “The Anglican Foundation of Canada seeks to provide abundant resources for innovative ministries, Anglican presence, and diverse infrastructure projects across the Canadian Church. Each diocese may apply for funds twice per year for— • innovative ministry, Anglican presence and diverse infrastructure projects • church music in Canada • education and programs in Canada’s North • worship initiatives, liturgical arts, outreach and community endeavours • theological studies” As you may recall, late last year the farming project from Entry Island received the approval of a substantial grant from the AFC for them to be able to develop and maintain their community farming. That’s innovative ministry! What’s great is the fact that the AFC is around to be able to support such projects. How did the AFC get started and how do they accumulate money to be able to support such projects? Again, I found the answer to that on their website: “As a member-based organization, AFC invites individuals, parishes and church organizations to make an annual contribution so that it can respond generously to applicants who are engaged in ministry to serve the Canadian Church. At a meeting of the General Synod in 1957, the agreement was that every parish would contribute $50 each year in order to build up a fund for mission and ministry across the Canadian Church. The Foundation’s ability to support ministry is also funded by bequests, memorials and special gifts, donor-designated trusts, life insurance, gift annuities and investment income.” I was a bit surprised to learn that in 1957, the contribution was $50 a year, and do you know that in 2015 the contribution is still only $50 a year! The Diocese contributes its $50 to the AFC, I will admit that the amount hasn’t been paid each year. However, last year when the AFC launched it’s “Free up 50 Campaign” the conscious effort was made to make sure that we book it as an annual expense and make sure to send our cheque out. In 2014 when the AFC launched its campaign it reported that out of 1650 parishes across Canada only 507 were donors. It would be great to see that number rise and to know that it was because as a Diocese our Parishes are contributing to the great work the AFC has done for us here locally within our borders but also for others across our great nation! Marie-Sol Gaudreau is the Executive Director of the Diocese of Quebec. BOOKS Daisy and the Donkey Church Daisy and the Donkey Church. Story and illustrations by Louisa Blair. 2014 HAVE YOU HAD an opportunity to meet Aldo and Alli, the donkey and goat who live in the Cathedral Close? And did you know that these two animals are more than just unusual pets located in the centre of Old Quebec? In fact, they have a significant Christian mission: they provide a ministry of peaceful hospitality and spiritual healing to the many people who pass daily by the Cathedral. In popular culture donkeys are usually portrayed as stubborn and stupid, but, unlike A.A. Milne’s perpetually mournful Eeyore or C.S. Lewis’s gullible Puzzle, they are actually gentle, intelligent creatures. To be called an ass suggests that one is dim-witted or ridiculous, but for those who know these placid beasts the metaphor would, in fact, be a tribute. Donkeys are humble, good-natured creatures who seem to engender a calm, meditative atmosphere. Sarah Blair and her family discovered this when they spent several months with two donkey companions walking the Camino de Santiago pilgrimage route in Spain. On returning to Canada, Sarah acquired Aldo in an effort to share the salutary virtues of donkeys. So, while Aldo and his loyal friend Alli enjoy the summer months in the country with the Blair family, they live in the Cathedral Close for the rest of the year where they carry out their ministry of gentle friendliness. To celebrate this quiet presence, Louisa Blair, Sarah’s sister, has written and illustrated Daisy and the Donkey Church, a charming children’s book. The story depicts how Aldo transforms the Cathedral Close from a busy thoroughfare into a sanctuary where passersby slow down to greet and visit with one other. The skillfully told story presents the various individuals who live and work around the Cathedral and benefit from Aldo’s placid presence. Daisy, a young girl, approaches the “lady with sticking-up hair and rubber boots” who is feeding the animals and learns that Aldo is actually a liturgical donkey. The lady describes how donkeys play a significant part in much of the bible and bear the mark of the cross on their backs to signify their important role in the lives of both Mary and Jesus. Throughout the work delightful naïve illustrations bring the story to life. Anyone familiar with the Cathedral will instantly recognize the Close and the surrounding buildings, such as the Chateau and the Monastery. Aldo is lovingly portrayed, and his simple purity of spirit is beautifully rendered. The delicate line drawings are highlighted by a subtle watercolour wash that perfectly evokes the atmosphere of Old Quebec. Daisy and the Donkey Church is not the only work to celebrate Aldo’s ministry. A calendar featuring pictures of Aldo and Allie interacting with their various visitors is also available. Bravo Ministries Burundi Sewing Workshop, run by Allison, the third Blair sister, produces stuffed donkeys. The funds collected from these ventures support ministries associated with the Cathedral. So take a minute to read this delightful book and discover how a humble donkey and a goat uphold the covenant of hospitality in the heart of Old Quebec. Ruth Sheeran is the Rural Dean of the Deanery of St. Francis and a member of St. Mark’s Chapel. Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 REVIEWED BY RUTH SHEERAN 11 FAITHFUL REFLECTIONS Don’t go away Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 BY LOUISA BLAIR 12 IT ALL STARTED off with a discussion about leggings. Five teenage girls were sitting around our kitchen table. They were discussing a school rule saying that girls could only wear leggings if they also wore a garment that came down over their buttocks. They were outraged by this – that girls should have to cover up to prevent their male classmates from being distracted from their studies by lust. It’s another case of blaming the victim. A few challenges to their increasingly furious arguments were timidly offered by the dour, middle-aged kill-joy who was serving them home-baked muffins – me. Our discussion then moved on to violence against women. The girls were well informed about the facts – such as the fact that 66% of all female victims of sexual assault are under the age of twenty-four (11% are under the age of eleven), and the shockingly high rate of violence against women by their intimate partners. Meanwhile my own intimate partner walked into the kitchen carrying six bags of groceries and began to quietly stack them in the fridge and the cupboards. It’s best to just stay away from men, someone was saying. The collective sense of rage was towering, and then, suddenly, it toppled. There was a silence. One girl said despairingly, but I want to get married and have children! So do I! confessed another. As with so many issues, it is Aboriginal people who show me new directions when despair threatens. They’ve mostly had to face our most dire social problems in a much more personal and direct form than I ever have, and their choices for how to deal with them, especially in remote communities, are far more limited. A Cree woman I was talking to in northern Quebec once told me that most of the jobs available for First Nations in the community – mostly in healthcare and social services – were held by women, which had given them new economic and personal power. But the men resented this, and some took out their anger by beating up their wives. I asked about police responsiveness to reports of wife assault, and about safe houses. “You need to be able to get away,” I said, “you need help.” “We all need help,” she corrected me. “We cannot live without our husbands and our sons, where would we go? Where would they go? We have to face this problem together. Our husbands and sons need education, they need jobs, they need self-re- spect.” You can’t dismantle community when it’s the only resource you have left. So often our solutions to problems are division, separation. Separate offenders from society, divide the men from the women. Put them away. Send them away. The Cree woman made me question profoundly the idea that there is a place called “away.” There is a crucial role for separation in times of crisis, and sometimes it has to be permanent. But eventually, there’s no “away” left. The irony of this is that the First Nations themselves were displaced when Canada became the perfect “away” for British landowners who wanted to kick tenant farmers off their land and replace them with sheep. But the world has now run out of countries to ship people off to when they become undesirable. Religion hasn’t helped. In most of them, including our own, going away is often seen as a solution to the ills of the world. The material world is messy and out of control, full of mud and blood. As lust is embarrassing, and childbirth is terrifyingly savage, women have long been associated with this dirty material world. We long for our souls to be free and pure, to be “away”. But in the voyage towards spiritual purity, women are often despised, used, and discarded as the clean, detached spirit makes its way to paradise, or nirvana, or holiness. What God loves is in fact our messy humanity, not our spiritual control, our success at putting distance between souls and our bodies. But this is so hard for us to believe. To prove it, God had to the plunge into time, space, our planet, our bodies, like one of those Google earth zooms, and become one of us. He did the opposite of this spiritual going away and “did not abhor the virgin’s womb.” He became mud and blood and embraced it all the way through his life, which included walking into an all-too-human violent death, so that he could love us not from a majestic distance but through our humanity. So don’t go away. There will be difficult questions of leggings and difficult questions about how to protect women from sexual violence and how to prevent it. There will also love, commitment, and babies. And in all of it, God is with us, exactly here. Louisa Blair is a writer and a parishioner of the Holy Trinity Cathedral, Quebec City. “Crucified Woman,” by Almuth Lutkenhaus-Lackey. Photo Credit: Susanne Guenther Loewen. FEMINIST THEOLOGIANS JULIE Clague and Doris Jean Dyke write that “Crucified Woman” was sculpted simply as an expression of women’s suffering, and the artist only reluctantly lent the sculpture to a United church in Toronto for Easter one year, unsure of whether she wanted it interpreted theologically. She was overwhelmed by the response, especially of women who for the first time, saw “their suffering, their dying and their resurrection embodied in a woman’s body,” and thereby felt God’s solidarity with the suffering specific to women. Feminist Mary Grey explains, “Christa liberates not by . . . proclaiming that there is an innate redemptive quality in [women’s suffering]; but by being present with and sharing in the brokenness, identifying this as the priority for God’s healing love, Christ gives hope, empowers, and enables the process of resistance.” Also, in 1989, upon hearing of the Montreal Massacre of 14 women, hundreds gathered around the “Crucified Woman” to remember the victims and God’s solidarity with them. Susanne Guenther Loewen is a doctoral candidate at the Toronto School of Theology. She lives in Winnipeg, Manitoba. Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 Truth, Beauty & Goodness 13 Feature As scary as physical violence against women seems, it is only the tip of the iceberg Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 BY MICHELLE CHEVARIE 14 I ENVISION A day when we can firmly state that violence against women, and everything that this term encapsulates, is an issue of the past. Unfortunately, it is something we have yet to overcome, not only as a small community of 500 persons on the Magdalen Islands, but as society. Well hidden within rural communities’ seclusive tendencies, this is a violence that unquestionably thrives today and ultimately remains a problem, not only for women, but for human beings in a global community working towards equality for all its members. Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 it is not happening. Something that we do not wish Although sheltered from the outside world and to observe, given that it coincides as something we protected by bodies of water, women on the Magrarely do ever see in public, creates the perfect endalen Islands are no more immune from acts of vironment for violence to remain and thrive behind violence and discrimination than in other regions closed doors. whose human rights record we hypocritically like On the other hand, I believe as members of to condemn. We spend a lot of time worrying about often-small communities it is our responsibility Islamic women wearing headscarves, but are curito ensure that each person feels safe; safe enough ously less interested in English and French culture’s to reach out and ask for help, rather than feel the methods of oppressing women. apprehension of being judged by others. Let us be For example, the occupancy rate for L’Accommunities that acknowledge violence against clamie—a women’s shelter in the Magdalen women and out rightly rejects ideology that allows Islands—for the fiscal year of 2012-2013, was a violence to persist. Be open to living equally, as men whopping 115%! Of the admissible requests that and women together. were accepted, the ‘lodging/housing’ service was utilized 76 separate times, whereas other external “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that services were used 923 times. This makes for a we belong to each other.” grand total of 999 accepted requests for help (in—Mother Teresa, humanitarian and missionary cluding the possibility of the same woman benefitPost scriptum ing from a service twice). These statistics include all Upon completing the article, The Reverend Jeffrey women and children using the services offered by Metcalfe asked me, ‘If the church could do one the shelter on the islands. thing to help improve the situation of women, what A study recently conducted with the women in would it be?’ It is the frustration in my heart, as in the community of Grosse-Ile, the community where many others, that bears the answer to this question. I live, was brought to my attention. The results were While searching for a passage from the Bible, I not surprising. Consistently, one of the statements discovered a majority of quotes illustrating the subpulled from this particular study clearly demonmission of women, references to the inferior status strates an undeniable truth: women feel that there of women, as well as quotes depicting the imporis more work required in order to achieve equality tance of a woman’s role in household affairs—just to between the sexes. Self-esteem tends to also pose name a few. Gender equality is just one of the many a certain challenge for these women. Their stories challenges Christianity faces in modern times. This bear witness to an undeniable truth: women feel burdening representation of women is out-dated depreciated, not only about themselves, but even and maybe it is time for the church to remove the more so when they are compared to the men in shackles of traditional scripture and belief. A structheir community. tural belief that favours the oppression of women Think of the word ‘violence’ and what imagdoes not correspond to the growing needs of our es automatically come to mind? For myself, it is world today or the fundamental teachings of Jesus surely some type of physical act. Physical pain and Christ and the Bible itself; such as that we are all suffering is the most obvious form. Given an image of blood trickling down a woman’s face or the image equal in the eyes of God. Without uprooting its entire foundation, religion of a woman who is simply depressed, evidently the must at least acknowledge women as equals in soformer will incite more disturbing feelings inside ciety, in church life, and in the home. Can churches us. As scary as physical violence seems, it is only unanimously promote healthy, equal relationships the tip of the iceberg. There are actually five widely and respect towards women regardless? Providing accepted categories of violence, namely physical, more opportunities for individuals to speak out verbal, psychological, sexual, and economic. Each about violence against women and gender inequalrespective form is as serious and as dangerous as ity will also help create awareness and a vital social the others. Could there be some kind of misunderchange. It remains necessary that we continue to standing with regards to what is really considered challenge certain views and stray from what hinders an act of violence, ultimately contributing to this humankind for the sake of future generations of unintentional desensitization? men and women, a future where men and women Violence may not only be hard to detect due to live together free from violence. the aforementioned lack of awareness and understanding or misconception, but also because it is Michelle Chevarie works for the Women’s Shelter of the an issue embedded in an intricate taboo system. As Magdalen Islands. Her work consists mainly of creating simple as it may seem, because we know that vioawareness for the shelter through speaking about violence against women is unacceptable, one way our lence against women and children. culture has responded is to hide it, and pretend that 15 Odds & Ends (continued from page 5) understanding of what the Church is and what we are called to do as Christians in contemporary society we see the signs of the imminent death of those church communities. In some cases there is little that can be done. However, it is truly sad when the possibility exists to embrace new life and people refuse the call because of fear or a dogged attachment to a church building or an image of church that died many years ago. The wonderful thing is that in many places in the Diocese of Quebec there are signs of new life. More young people are engaged in the church communities. There is a newfound sense that things are possible. My friends, this is more than just feeling that spring has arrived again. It is a sign that the Spirit is guiding us and helping us to recover our sense of hope. May God Bless you all. +Dennis Diocese of Quebec Gazette • June 2015 (suite de la page 5) 16 avons eu du succès avec cette approche à plusieurs endroits mais avons échoué dans d’autres. Les jours où le pasteur local vivait tout près de sa communauté sont aujourd’hui choses du passé. Dans l’église contemporaine, le pasteur doit être un rassembleur de communauté, un dépisteur de pasteurs locaux et un enseignant itinérant de la Foi. La vie paroissiale n’est plus ce qui se passe dans l’église; c’est ce qui se passe lorsque nous cherchons à impliquer tous les membres d’une communauté plus large dans chaque aspect de la vie de tous les jours. Lorsque les gens ne sont pas prêts à changer leur perception de ce que l’Église représente et de ce que nous sommes appelés à faire en tant que chrétiens dans la société moderne, nous pouvons discerner les premiers signes de l’agonie de ces communautés. Dans certains cas, il n’y a pour ainsi dire plus rien à faire. Alors qu’il serait possible pour une collectivité de s’embarquer dans une nouvelle vie, il est très désolant de voir certains de ses membres refuser de relever le défi à cause de la peur ou d’un attachement obstiné à un édifice religieux ou à l’image qu’ils conservent de l’église, cette image ne correspondant plus à la réalité depuis longtemps déjà. Mais la bonne nouvelle est qu’il y a des signes de renouveau dans plusieurs endroits au sein du diocèse de Québec. De plus en plus de jeunes s’im- pliquent au sein de leur communauté religieuse. Un nouveau sentiment se développe : nous pouvons réaliser tellement de choses! Mes amis, cela va plus loin que la seule arrivée du printemps. C’est un signe que l’Esprit-Saint est là pour nous guider et nous aider à retrouver la confiance. Que Dieu vous bénisse tous. +Dennis (continued from page 6) ton Mountain. And so in spring of 2014, parishioners at the Resurrection gathered together to discuss how they could better serve their community. One year later, they have reported progress. The church began a seniors’ drop-in program, a support group for local women—spurred by the high percentage of seniors living in poverty and single mothers in the area—and together with local church partners St. Stephen’s on the Mount, Holy Trinity and St. Michael’s raised $60,000 for the 2015 Coldest Night of the Year benefit for the Neighbour to Neighbour food bank. Nor is the Resurrection resting on its laurels: the coming months will see it hosting workshops for those suffering from anxiety and depression, and it will also seek to partner with the Hamilton AIDS Network. Niagara Anglican Canadian Anglicans attend UN Commission on the Status of Women Eight Canadian Anglicans—six women and two men—made the trip to New York City in March to attend the 59th session of the UN Commission on the Status of Women (UNCSW). The UNCSW affirmed the Beijing Platform for Action, which was tabled in 1995 and urged governments worldwide to promote gender equality; it called for complete gender equality across the globe by 2030. The Rev. Canon Alice Medcof, one of the Canadian Anglican attendees, said, “The request was that governments…work towards a society where women gain equally with men the good that society has…” She added that it was “thrilling…to have women from parts of the Communion where Anglicanism is perhaps two per cent or eight per cent of the population. The Sower