Lifegroup Leader Orientation Packet 31/02/2012 I. Introduction Thank you so much for taking the time to review this Lifegroup Leader Orientation Packet. Over the next several pages you should better understand why and how we do Lifegroups at Rotorua Elim Church. It all begins with our church’s mission statement, which is to lead people to an authentic, life-changing relationship with Jesus Christ. We believe that this mission statement is not simply for the pastors and leaders but for all those that consider Rotorua Elim Church their church. Becoming a Lifegroup leader is one of the best and most practical ways of participating in the vision. It is our desire to see everyone at Rotorua Elim Church in a community connecting, growing and serving. Being involved in Lifegroups is a huge part of helping people get connected, helping people grow and giving opportunities to serve. Over the next several pages, this booklet will present the vision, the purpose and some of the basic details necessary for leading a Lifegroup at Rotorua Elim Church. As Rotorua Elim Church continues to grow, it is important that more and more people take on the responsibility and privilege of Lifegroup leadership. So, again, thank you for taking the time to learn more about leading a Lifegroup at Rotorua Elim Church. 31/02/2012 II. Rotorua Elim Church DNA This diagram displays what we call the core “DNA of Rotorua Elim Church”. We believe that a follower of Christ at Rotorua Elim Church is involved in: Creative Worship: Experiencing Jesus Christ through worship and larger group gatherings. Lifegroups: Living Jesus Christ through simply choosing to live life with one another through connecting, growing and serving together. Global Project: Serving Christ through local or global opportunities outside the church or serving those in the church through usher, greeter, kids, etc. Growth: Devotion to Jesus Christ through personal relationship developed by prayer and Bible study is at the centre of our DNA. A personal growth attitude. 31/02/2012 III. WHY do we have Lifegroups at Rotorua Elim Church? 1. We are designed to do life together. We were not designed to be alone. Genesis 2:18 It is not good for man to be alone… 2. A small group was the model that Jesus Christ used to build His Kingdom. Matthew 10:2-4 Jesus chose twelve disciples… 3. It is the primary model of caring for one another at Rotorua Elim Church. John 13:34, 2 Corinthians 13:11, John 13:1-20, Galatians 6:2 4. It is the most effective way for individuals to connect, grow and serve. These are the core characteristics of a healthy Christ follower. One without the other creates an imbalanced life but the reality is at times we need to emphasize one without neglecting the others. IV. WHAT do Lifegroups look like at Rotorua Elim Church? More than the specific details of when, where or how often a group meets, it is our desire and prayer that our Lifegroups are identified by the following core values: Relentlessly Christ-centered – all about Christ, not just a fun, social club Intentionally life-giving – supportive, encouraging, optimistic, positive environment Courageously authentic – despite our flaws and failures we are going to allow God’s grace to be displayed through us Creatively caring – creatively showing our love to each other Extravagantly hospitable – showing people that they are always welcome Selflessly sacrificial – we want to follow Jesus’ example by sacrificially serving one another Strategically inclusive – not exclusive or select group but open to anyone and everyone Painfully honest – even if it is hard to admit or say, we are going to be vulnerable and honest with one another Cautiously confidential – creating a safe environment for people to share openly without fear of gossip, judgment or condemnation Mutually accountable – we are in this together, challenging each other, no one is better than the other Constantly learning – growing as individuals and together as a community Endlessly multiplying – always looking how to make more room for those not yet connected 31/02/2012 V. What is our VISION for Lifegroups at Rotorua Elim Church? It is our vision to see everyone at Rotorua Elim Church in a community connecting, growing and serving together. We want to be a place for everyone to find a community where they can connect, grow and serve. We do not want to be a church simply with small groups, but a church of small groups. In other words, we want to be a church made up of a bunch of small groups of people caring for each other. As a growing church, we are constantly in need of more qualified leaders and quality groups. Please know that we need you and others to take on the responsibility of becoming a Lifegroup leader and help lead people to an authentic, life-changing relationship with Jesus Christ. VI. What is our DEFINITION of a Lifegroup? Lifegroup: a gathering of people connecting, growing and serving together Notice, there is no focus on a particular number but the focus is on the purpose and intent to connect, grow and serve. If the focus is on the size of the group, the focus is on the wrong thing. We want to help lead people to an authentic, life-changing relationship with Jesus by connecting, growing and serving together. In regards to group size, depending on the target and focus of your group 6 to 20 is a pretty typical group size. Our vision is not to have large groups but to see growing groups multiply and raise up new leaders and new groups. Typically once a group grows to 16-20, it is time to identify another leader from within the group that can step up and multiply the group. 31/02/2012 VII. WHO is your Lifegroup designed for? With the vision of seeing everyone at Rotorua Elim Church in a community connecting, growing and serving together, it is our desire to include all ages and life-stages: Kids – (intermediate and high) Students – (typically in highschool) Young Adults – 20’s/30’s Adults Men Women Family Most groups have a primary “target” but many have blurred lines and are open to more than one target group, but for administrative purposes, it’s most helpful to primarily focus on one target age group or life-stage. VIII. What TYPE of Lifegroup are you interested in leading? Although all groups should be primarily focused on the mission of helping lead people to an authentic, life-changing relationship with Jesus Christ, there are three primary types of groups that we focus on: Connect – using common interests to build relationships with each other (Ex. sports, hobbies, activity, dinner group, hiking) Growth – studying principles and teachings of the Christian faith (Ex. Bible Studies, Devotionals, Christian Books, DVD series) Service – using our resources to serve each other and our community (Ex. – local projects, area of need) There are lots of needs but the question we want you to ask yourself when trying to decide what type of group you are going to lead is, “What is your passion?”. Find something that you are passionate about or interested in and design a group with that in mind. We not only believe that people lead best when they are most passionate or interested in the subject matter but we believe that people enjoy being apart of a group whose leader is passionate and interested in what is being done or discussed. 31/02/2012 IX. WHERE do Lifegroups meet? Lifegroups meet at locations within the community that are purpose appropriate and create a comfortable, casual environment. (Examples: homes, coffee shops, parks, community centers, gyms, restaurants, meeting rooms, etc.) Philosophically, it is our desire that our Lifegroups meet in the community. We want people to experience and connect with Christ in the community and not just at the church. Secondly, please note and understand that as we grow it is logistically virtually impossible to accommodate all of the Lifegroups that would like to meet at the church. Childcare (if applicable) - There is no single solution for childcare needs. Each individual leader decides how they want to handle their group’s childcare. Listed below are some options: X. None provided - each individual/couple make their own arrangements Rotate responsibility - each individual/couple takes a week to provide childcare or involves older, responsible kids to watch the younger ones Group/Leader responsibility - the leader or someone in the groups gets the necessary childcare and the group collectively pays for the childcare WHEN do Lifegroups meet? Purpose appropriate is most important but here are the standard guidelines we ask all our leaders to follow: A minimum of twice a month Any day of the week Any time of the day Not during a weekend service, leader trainings or a church event. Our Lifegroup schedule runs with the school term. The purpose for this is to give leaders and attendees a clear starting and stopping point. This is important because it allows leaders to have an opportunity to take a break if needed, and group members the opportunity to choose a different type of group. Although we run on a term schedule, many groups and individuals decide to repeat/continue as a group the very next semester. We simply ask that you as a leader revise your group profile and reset your group members so that you will have room for new attendees. 31/02/2012 XI. Lifegroup LEADER APPROVAL Process The approval process for a Lifegroup leader is a three step process: 1. Attend the Lifegroup Leader Orientation OR Read the Lifegroup Leader Orientation Packet Online 2. Fill out the Leader Application Located on the Lifegroups webpage. 3. Pastoral Character Approval Once an applicant has completed the Lifegroup Leader Application, we ask the Pastoral Staff to review the entire list of Lifegroup Leader Applicants. The pastors are simply asked one question, “Based on character alone, do you have any concerns with the individual leading a Lifegroup at Rotorua Elim Church?” If none of the pastors are able to confirm one’s character, we simply ask that the applicant serve in other ways and connect with one of the pastors and reapply at a later time. XII. Leader TRAINING Typically, four times a year we will have trainings that are designed for Lifegroup leaders. Each of the trainings are generally scheduled 2 or 3 weeks prior, so there should be plenty of time to make necessary arrangements to attend: XIII. Leader RESOURCES It is our desire to provide all our leaders the resources that are necessary to lead strong Lifegroups. Listed are several great places to get ideas and/or resources for you or your group: Elim Bookstore online Smallgroups.com 31/02/2012 If cost is a concern, we will do our best to provide you as the leader with the leader resources you need, which can be requested. Please note that we cannot cover the resources needed for each individual attending a Lifegroup. XIV. Lifegroup CARE As a Lifegroup leader, we want to create an atmosphere and culture of caring for one another, as scripture encourages. For Basic Care (i.e. sickness, job loss, hospital visitation), we suggest following the principle of the Golden Rule. Do to others what you would want them to do for you. You may also direct them to request pastoral care by filling in a contact card at reception. Another great resource is www.carecalendar.org, which is a free web based system that helps groups organize meals for individuals/families during a time of illness or crisis. Please keep in mind that this is not exclusively your responsibility as the leader but you as the leader should encourage and facilitate care within the group. In other words, encourage the group to care for one another. At times there are more serious situations that you do not feel prepared to handle. Please do not hesitate to call the church office and ask for one of the Pastors. XV. CREATING AND MANAGING a Lifegroup As a Life Group Leader you will be given a password and a page on our website to advertise your group. On that page you will have Something Like the following example: 3D, dinner, devotions and dessert Email Lifegroup Leader Lifegroup Leader(s): Scott Smith Elena Smith Day: Friday Time of day: Evening (time listed in desc.) Frequency: Every other week Start Date: 02/03/2012 Next Meeting Date: 02/03/2012 Location: Will Be different but will start below Study Topic: Will be different topics Lifestage: Adult Childcare: Childcare not provided Cost: More than $10 Description: This group is for those who love to visit and eat. Every other week we will meet at a restaurant for dinner as a group, then head to a house for devotions and dessert. We start at 6:30 and will enjoy the evening together. 31/02/2012 All Lifegroups need to be created and/or recreated 2-4 weeks prior to the start of each new term. An email reminder will be sent out to all approved leaders reminding you it is time to create your Lifegroup profile. If you are repeating the same group, we do ask that you review your Lifegroup profile, which ensures that all the details have been looked at and are current for a new term. XVI. PROMOTING a Lifegroup There are three simple but very important ways to promote your Lifegroup: Lifegroups Online- Fill out your Lifegroup profile online through the link you get sent. Personal Invitation - The single most effective way to build a Lifegroup is through personal invitations. Please don’t underestimate the importance of this responsibility. A personal invitation is more important than anything. XVII. Customizable Invitation Cards - To be made XVIII. Lifegroup SIGNUP Most people will signup for Lifegroups through the Lifegroup section on the webpage. For those that do not have internet access, one can simply call the church office. As the leader, you will receive an automated email notifying you that someone has joined your group. The individual that signs up for your group will also receive an automated email giving them the basic details of the group and a note that they can expect to hear back from the group leader within 24-48 hours. Please do your best to kindly welcome them to your group within 24-48 hours and give them any other important information or updates that they would need, such as a link to purchase the book your group will be reading together or what the group will be covering at the next meeting. XIX. Lifegroup QUESTIONS/CONCERNS There are countless questions or concerns throughout any given term, so please know that we are always available to help out in any way possible 31/02/2012 XX. The REVIEW Thanks again for taking the time to read through the details of this Lifegroup Leader Orientation Packet and for considering stepping up to help lead people to an authentic, life-changing relationship with Jesus Christ. 31/02/2012 Life Group Leader Application Date: Your Full Name: Life Group Details Day: Time of Day: Frequency: Start Date: Next Meeting Date: Location Study Topic: Life Stage: Childcare: Description: 31/02/2012