UPGRADE (Upgrade Your Environment) Upgrade - To raise to a higher standard by adding or replacing Environment- The surroundings or conditions in which a person lives or operates <Proverbs 15:17> NIV Better a meal of vegetables where there is love than a fattened calf with hatred. THINGS TO REPLACE Negative environmental factors Destinationitis The thought that when ________ happens everything will be great Unrealistic expectations There is no perfect ________ Progress and problems are a package deal <Proverbs 14:4> NKJ Chronic complaining Only highlights the negative Does not move you closer to solving the problem A major environmental drain Strife - angry or bitter disagreement / conflict Locate the reasons for strife Angry / hot tempered Scornful - contemptuous, mocking Selfish / quarrelsome A whisperer <Proverbs 26:20> ESV The best way to stop strife Catch it early <Proverbs 17:14> ESV UPGRADING YOUR ENVIRONMENT Lessons from prison <Acts 16:20-26> Paul and Silas had to shift their focus Away from the negative physical surroundings Away from pain and discomfort Away from the "why me" questions Paul and Silas shifted their focus to God Prayer - talking with God Singing hymns - praise to God Questions for your environment Where is your focus? There will always be challenges and negatives What can you change? Your words can make a major difference <Proverbs 12:18> NIV How can you bring God into your environment? Prayer Giving God credit/praise <Psalm 34:1> ESV 091408 Proverbs 14:4 (NJK) 4 Where no oxen are, the trough is clean; But much increase comes by the strength of an ox. Proverbs 26:20 (ESV) 20For lack of wood the fire goes out, and where there is no whisperer, quarreling ceases. Proverbs 17:14 (ESV) 14The beginning of strife is like letting out water, so quit before the quarrel breaks out. Acts 16:20-26 (NIV) 20They brought them before the magistrates and said, "These men are Jews, and are throwing our city into an uproar 21by advocating customs unlawful for us Romans to accept or practice." 22The crowd joined in the attack against Paul and Silas, and the magistrates ordered them to be stripped and beaten. 23After they had been severely flogged, they were thrown into prison, and the jailer was commanded to guard them carefully. 24Upon receiving such orders, he put them in the inner cell and fastened their feet in the stocks. 25About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them. 26Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundations of the prison were shaken. At once all the prison doors flew open, and everybody's chains came loose. Proverbs 12:18 (NIV) 18 Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. Psalm 34:1 (ESV) 1 I will bless the LORD at all times; his praise shall continually be in my mouth. 091408 Digging Deeper: 1. Read Genesis chapter 13. What did Abraham do regarding strife? Consider that he did not take the easiest path but God showed up and blessed him. 2. Read Mark 9:33-41. What caused the strife among the disciples and how did Jesus answer the problem? 3. Do a word study on strife in www.biblegatway.com Questions: 1. What (not who) would you most like to change in your environments? 2. What can you add or replace that would impact your environment the most? 3. How can you bring God into your environments? 091408