This is the wonderful story of Amanda Gibson and the **.net forum. Over 3 incredible days, some sort of
sordid love triangle played out infront of our eyes, and we all pitched in and attempted to derive as much
info out of this bitch as possible.
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Originally Posted by Amanda
I dont like the fact that u give me the evil stare when Brett is just as involved as me and you seem to forgive
him? I would really like to hear his story told
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Originally Posted by Forum
Have sent MRM's response
I await a reply.
Note: I copied this part wrong, MRM’s response was something to the effect of “Well I don’t care, I love brett
and we’ve been living together for 6 months.”
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Originally Posted by Amanda
What?
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Originally Posted by Forum
reply: You heard me! I love brett. I'm sorry you had to find out this way but i couldn't take it anymore. We're
moving in together asap
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Originally Posted by Amanda
Well its a shame brett loves everyone else in te back of YOUR car!!
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Originally Posted by Forum
Like who?
Were you one of those people?
The back of my car is pretty comfortable isnt it?
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Originally Posted by Amanda
So u both like to swing and b in denial. Thats fine when you know what I know. I dont play stupid games like
you so if you want to know the truth from my end just let me know
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Originally Posted by Forum
What is the truth between Brett and yourself
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Originally Posted by Amanda
Why would I bother telling u when u havent believed anything to date? Ask Brett he knows how to lie his way
out of everything. If u really want to know the truth I will put in a letter to you?
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Originally Posted by Forum
as much as it kills me i've been honest with you. now it's your turn. please
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And so concluded day 1. Day 2 began, with what you see below, a few boys trying to ruin it.
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Originally Posted by Random failed a**o wum
Ey mate its Brett. Listen I no what she's been saying. Its not true. I wouldnt betray my best mate like that. I
didnt have sex with her in the ass. Ill be honest, she showed me her boobs but I told her to stop. Please
mate can we catch up for a beer to get over this?
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Originally Posted by Forum
'look, I couldn't sleep at all night night, I need you to tell me the truth; your side of the story'
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Originally Posted by Amanda
I am willing to do that. Just wondering if we should talk about a few things first?
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Originally Posted by Forum
Like what? sms me cos I cant talk at the moment. Simon is all over my movements.
^^^ Simon says you fail
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Originally Posted by Amanda
Just let me know when u r able to talk whether it b face to face or over the phone and I will explain
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Originally Posted by Forum
"I'm sorry, my head is all over the place and I really don't think I can see or talk to you. Let me know a bit
what is going on to make me feel more comfortable"
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Originally Posted by Amanda
"The way you look at me has me wondering what has been said and I would like an opportunity 2 hear what
he has said so I can defend myself and tell you my side. I really don't want to hurt you anymore but if I have
to tell u I will"
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Originally Posted by Forum
I don't know how you think i look at you, but you're asking me to divulge something he and i have discussed
without telling me your side?? I can't break brett's confidence unless i know what i'm breaking it for. I think
you need to tell me your side of things"
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Originally Posted by Amanda
I understand that but he has never held back anything about you and I would really like to know how much
he bullshits. I will not lie to you and I havent yet. U will not likie what I have to say and if i dont have to tell
you that would b good.
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Originally Posted by Forum
"Just tell me now your side of things. He said you made the first move and kissed him and it went from there.
The reason why I forgave him was because he did not like you and regretted sleeping with you"
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Originally Posted by Amanda
I should av known better, he is a lying scumbag and u can av him. HE started this sh*t fight and has slept
with me a hundred times, even whe yoyu were in Melbourne! He was planning a life with me but waiting a
few things out. Dont say I didnt warnm you when you recieve my novel!
seconds later...
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Originally Posted by Amanda
The only thing he doesnt like bout me is telling you the truth. It wnt be the last time he does this either. He
wins gold for the best cover your ass
After this, we switched to emails.
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Originally Posted by Forum
Ok, would you mind sending me an email? We can probably communicate better that way. I have set up a
seperate account as Brett has teh password to my normal one. bearbaby4u_3@hotmail.com
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Originally Posted by Amanda
Ok but I have to be careful as others sometimes use my computer
The first of the emails, and this is why you don't send emails from work people
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Originally Posted by Amanda
Is this working?
Amanda Gibson
Sales & Marketing Admin
Settlement First National R/E
Shop 2 621 Ocean Drive
NORTH HAVEN NSW 2443
Ph: (02) 6559 7007
Fax: (02) 6559 7277
amanda@settlementfirstnational.com.au
www.settlementfirstnational.com.au
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A vast series of celebratory posts followed. ND became a wet blanket
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Originally Posted by forum
Yeah, it's working.
So Brett is lying? Cos he said you were the one who made the first move... What happened exactly?
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Originally Posted by Amanda
Well, do you believe what he tells you? Do you think I lie to you?
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Originally Posted by Forum
I thought I trusted you until you went behind my back with Brett. I don't know who to believe at the moment.
If you want to work on getting my trust back I would appreciate you tell me your side of the story
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Originally Posted by Amanda
Yes he is lying! He made the very first kiss at Christians 30th and it went from there.
I have no reason to lie to you, you have had enough hurt and it would be just as easy to walk away from all
the hassles but you deserve the truth as everyone else knows
Followed by
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Originally Posted by Amanda
He also went behind your back and more than once don’t forget. I do not lie or make things up and never will.
I will give you a letter which is very detailed and long that I am not proud of and you will not like at all but
from here on I can tell you it won’t happen again from me. I have learnt a lot from his lying and I really don’t
need it anymore. I really cannot see him having enough excuses for all of what I will tell you except that it is
not true but it is.
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Originally Posted by Forum
You're already emailing me, so i don't see why you feel the need to send me a letter. I just want to know the
truth"
The build up ensued, the suspense was incredible, VN helped sell it even more, and then... this
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Everything I have told you so far is the truth as much as it may have hurt. This is the whole story and make
up your mind from there because there is nothing worse than hearing only one side to a story and I don’t
appreciate how you or your family look at me like everything is my fault. It takes 2 to tango and everything
is just as much Brett’s fault as it is mine.
Brett doesn’t want me to tell you anything so we don’t hurt you anymore but instead just live a big lie! I
think you should know the truth so you know how your so called husband operates!
Brett and I started seeing each other 3 years ago and fell in love very quickly. He kissed me at Christian’s
30th Birthday and from then on we kept seeing each other as there was an instant attraction with each other.
It didn’t take long before we were sneaking around and sleeping together despite you thinking all that
started after what happened with the 3 of us. We didn’t fall in love after what we all shared, we were already
deeply in love and agreed to this so we could spend even more time together. You even found letters. Even
when we were all together he would whisper ‘I love you’ while we were making love every time. Every spare
moment we have we would be talking on the phone or seeing each other whatever way possible. Brett & I
realized how much we have in common and how we just click. We would catch up at lunch times or after
work all the time. Myself moving into your home was just another way for Brett to spend more time with me.
You used to ask me if we were really friends or just an excuse to get close to your husband, well I was
already close to your husband and he wanted me even closer. Yes we became good friends but I was the
best of friends with Brett already and he pushed for us to be friends and close which only made things better
and easier for us to see more of each other. We might have been great friends if he knew how to keep his
hands to himself. As you know, this isn’t the first time. What you don’t realize is every time you turned your
back we were all over each other. We have slept together hundreds of times, every time we see each other,
every opportunity we have. Whenever you would go to the shops, have a shower, go for a swim, go to bed,
we would be making love. We would make love in the spare room most of the time as we could see when
you arrived home or hear the car pull up. It would only take a few minutes at the most if that’s all the time
we had, he would always apologise and say it was because I turned him on so much. We could not keep our
hands off each other every second we had. He would do anything with me from kissing me passionately
every time while making love to sucking and kissing my feet and my entire body and much more, some
things he told me he just could not manage to do with you. You have no idea how sneaky one can be! I have
never met anyone who can bullshit, lie and cover things so well as Brett. If there is a will there is a way with
him. I have seen him lie to you on numerous occasions to cover his ass and the stupid part about it is, you
believe him. He once told me that if we do not end up together he would probably cheat again as that he is
not satisfied or happy with his relationship with you which clearly shows as anyone who keeps on cheating is
not happy with where they are or who they are with. He said that he felt pressured into marrying you from
the family because you two had been together for so long but probably should never have got married but
now have 3 beautiful children to look after. Who notices someone else on their wedding day? He told me he
only loves you as the mother of his children and a friend not his lover or the love of his life as a marriage
should do. He opened up to his mother and told her that I was ‘the love of his life’. Have you ever
experienced any of this in the whole time of your marriage you must ask yourself? After I left my relationship
Brett wanted to do the ‘right thing’ and let you fall out of love with him by his own actions as he obviously
didn’t want to let your family or the community see that he walked out on his family. Instead waiting for you
to have had enough of everything that was going on but clearly no matter what you heard or seen didn’t
matter, unless you were told differently? As I have told you before the only thing keeping him there is the
kids, he feels he has to do the right thing by the kids
Di had just left her relationship and you are in the middle of organizing and expanding your medical centre
so he needed more time to let you get this underway and not do anything in the middle of it all. Now working
with you is also another concern as he would ask what will I do for work and where would you like to live?
Everyone but yourself can now see what a lie you are living. It seems to me that you will sleep with anyone
or do anything to keep him happy (Troy Bird for instance!). He told me that he encouraged this to happen
and see if it would make him jealous seeing you sleep with another man, his answer was ‘didn’t bother me at
all’, I hope she finds someone that actually loves her the way you should’. What does that tell you? You don’t
go sleeping around all the time if everything is wonderful!
We even would meet up at his brothers house at lunch times. We would meet for as many lunch times as
possible in all sorts of locations. The amount of times one would hide in the others car. Catching up for lunch
and talking was easy until he started working with you which made things harder as I am sure this was done
to keep an eye more on him.
We would even make love while we were all in the same bed when you fell asleep and we would hold hands
all night. He would always be as close to me as possible which made you cranky. Whenever you busted us
together and ran off upset he would never chase you because he would stay with me and tell me how much
he wants to be with me and how much he loves me.
When we both approached Brett at the same time after he came back from Brisbane and we all had it out,
you left angry and I went to leave also but he cuddled up to me and didn’t want me to go and told me how
he had to say and do all these things to you but still wanted us to be together. What does all of these things
tell you? We have always told each other how much we love each other, how much we mean to each other,
he has told me I am the love of his life and his soul mate. We are always very passionate with each other –
ask yourself is this anything your familiar with? You would answer no but still put up with it all for what
reason I will never know, or you know no different? Why would he go to the trouble of doing and saying all
these things to me really if he didn’t like me?
What really makes you laugh is the fact that you were rewarded with a new car for all your hard work and
dedication to Sam but don’t get to drive it, you see Brett driving it for all his ‘hard work’! We have made love
in the back of that car many of times as it is very roomy when you lay the back seat down. We have met up
in many of places such as; Spooners Bay, Sharkey’s Beach, Henry Kendall, (he would run off into the bush
when you turned up) Middle Rock Lake Cathie, different streets around Laurieton, Bonny Hills and Lake
Cathie and each others houses and many of other hidey holes to be found.
The week he told you he was staying in Wauchope he was living with me and hiding his car on top of the
mountain.
While you were at Pink I was in your bed until early morning, why do you think he didn’t want to go to Pink?
The time you discovered he had cooked me Atlantic Salmon for dinner was another very romantic night at
your house with candles in the bedroom, roses, a teddy and gifts followed by a candlelit bath and making
love all night. (I have hand written proof at the bottom of the page with Brett’s hand writing from the roses)
We had a very romantic weekend away at South West Rocks while you were in Foster staying in a beautiful
old heritage place, out for dinner etc etc. Basically anytime he isn’t with you he has been with me. We have
been to Kempsey for a romantic breakfast and also in Kempsey for dinner. We would go to places people
didn’t know you so much.
I don’t know whether you are in denial, naïve, just don’t care, or just believe all his bullshit to keep things
going for as long as he needs to, as a person could not possibly make all this up so now I have got that off
my chest, I feel a whole lot better as everyone else knows the truth (even David, you wonder why he is so
angry) except for you. You won’t hear from my again as what happens from here you do not need to know
because I am sick of all the lies.
I could probably keep going but I think you now get the drift that anything is possible!
Here are a couple of text and a hand written message with roses and gifts; (notice the dates?)
Hi beautiful. Just got home did not take mobile. Have been thinking about you all day! Have a sore tongue
and it is not from talking. Talk to you tomorrow. Love you. Xxx 24-10-09
You to are very much in the category of total hotness, babearama, sexy and wonderful with a very sweet
tasting pussy! Very horny thinking about you! Love you too xxx xxx xxx xxx 26-10-09
Thanks gorgeous. You are very dear to me. Love you my dream girl. Xxx 29-10-09
No worries. Your right. Love you too! Have a good weekend! Xxx xxx xxx 30-10-09
This is only a couple amongst hundreds of text messages!
Have you found a B necklace which he has hidden somewhere that he was going to give to me also?
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People absolutely lost their shit upon reading this.
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Originally Posted by Forum
OK, thanks for being up front and honest with me about what has happened. As you could appreciate, this is
a lot to take in so I just need a couple of hours to think about everything that has happened.
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Originally Posted by Amanda
I am sorry for all the hurt and I will not interfere anymore.
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Originally Posted by Forum
There are still a few things I would like to resolve but I just need a bit of time to think and I will get back to
you.
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Originally Posted by Amanda
OK
That was 2nd day, now time for the final day’s correspondence.
First email sent today
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I wasn't able to sleep again last night, I couldn't stop thinking about what you
said. He told me you would tell me all these lies. He said you were vindicitive. He
said you desperately wanted him but he chose me. I had to think about it
overnight, but it's so obvious he was right. If your little dreams are true - what
proof do you have? If i know my husband i know there will be some pictures or
video's - show me the proof you little lying home wrecker
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I also told you he was fucking good and I really couldn’t give a fuck anymore.
Yes, I do have proof but I want nothing more to do with a nasty, horrible, lying,
bullshit artist that I couldn’t fucking care less about anymore after what I have
learnt. Like you know, this isn’t the first he has been a home wrecker so don’t
you or him ever call me a home wrecker or I will tear his head clean off. He
seems to enjoy having his way and fun with people until it all gets too hard and
he gets found out and then worms his way around you like I have never seen
before. You can have him as I am much better without something like this in my
life. I don’t even want to be his friend when we always said we would be friends
forever. I really do feel for you as I do think you are a nice person and I don’t
want to hurt you anymore and you deserve much better but he is shit scared and
will do anything to get his way out of things. He has no balls! Even if you left him
Nicole I still wouldn’t want him and I think he realizes that. Good luck with your
life cause you are sure going to need it as I know that is all true and how he
operates and you will be living with this for the rest of your life, if he hangs
around that long!
I should go into writing books if I made this up? Who could possibly think all this
up, REALLY? Think about it and stop being so stupid like he is treating you. I have
seen him cover his tracks all these years
My reply:
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Look amanda, Brett and I have something, something you will never have.
You like to make up stories to try keep us apart.
He does things for me that your stories could never go anywhere near.
He has made my whole body his temple and he worships it all day long.
I cant accept what you're saying without proof. If it is true I will never forgive
him but i refuse to contemplate it as I know he is so specail and would never go
there
Her reply
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I really really cannot believe that you think I made this all up. He is not that good
believe me! There are a lot better out there. Do you really think I am obsessed
with having him. What a joke, he is so funny! He actually couldn’t believe a girl
like me was interested in him and now I know why. He always used to ask what I
see in him. How blind I must have been. He feels safe with you and good luck
My reply:
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You may want nothing more to do with this but it's me that is going to have to
live with the consequences of your actions for the rest of my life. What proof is
there? Are there photos or videos of you two in my house? I want to see what
you have been up to with my husband, supposedly over hundreds of times
And then I got 3 replies without saying anything
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Like I said, good luck with that cause all I can do is LAUGH with all I know and
have been told. And now I laugh even more with your stupidity.
He knows you will never forgive him that is why he is so scared and will tell you
anything to stop losing his kids. That was his biggest fear.
You caught us a few times, what are you talking about. Did he ever used to run
after you when you ran away. You know and I know.
Like I said I couldn’t care less anymore. I’m sure the rest of your family would
love to know what a lying scumbag he is
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You can leave me alone now as they are your cheating home wrecker husbands
actions that got me in trouble in the first place. I really cannot believe what I am
hearing and want no more of your fucked up relationship. I have things but will
never show you, instead watch you in misery
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Ask his mother what I told you? Ask his mates, Troy, Jason how he opened up to
them. If any of them have enough guts to tell you
And that’s all she wrote.
We tried to probe her this morning, mostly to attempt to elicit pictorial or video proof, but it did nae work.
Somehow she figured it out, sent this back
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STOP FUCKING WITH ME AND FUCK OFF WHOEVER YOU ARE.
The end. Some of the boys are talking about reversing this now that we know who we are supposed to be, and sending the
whole sordid mess to the other 2 (Brett and Nicole) but we’ll see what happens I suppose.