Leonard Jr. honored with leadership award NORWALK By CHRIS BOSAK Hour Staff Writer More than 30 years ago Stew Leonard Sr. signed up his teen-aged son for Dale Carnegie training. The son, Stew Leonard Jr., did not want to go, but did not have a say in the matter. The human relations principals Stew Jr. learned from the training provided the foundation by which he runs Stew Leonard's dairy stores. Stew's now has four stores in Connecticut and New York and employs nearly 2,500 people. It is consistently ranked high on Fortune magazine's Best Companies to Work For lists. Dale Carnegie training continues to be a big part of the culture at Stew Leonard's as five to 10 employees take the course each year. In fact, more than 500 employees have graduated from the training since the 1970s. On Monday morning, Stew Leonard Jr. was presented with the 2008 Dale Carnegie Leadership Award during a breakfast gathering at Norwalk Inn with about 50 of his employees on hand. Bob Dickson, president of Dale Carnegie of Western Connecticut, and Michael Crom, chief learning officer for Dale Carnegie, presented the award. It is safe to say Leonard's reluctance toward the Dale Carnegie training is well behind him. In fact, his own children have either taken the course or will take the course soon, he said. "I never imaged back when I was 17 years old that I'd have to speak so much (in public)," Leonard Jr. said. "You learn the basics of how to speak in front of a group. It also teaches you to have a positive outlook on the events that happen in your life every day. You can't sugarcoat everything, but you train your mind that when a difficult situation happens, you tell yourself that something good will come out of it. "We try to do that in our stores with our customers," he added. "Dale Carnegie teaches you to not be defensive. Try to help that customer. I'm honored to get this award. The training has been a part of Stew Leonard's for a long time. I have my father to thank for that." Dickson kicked off the breakfast event with a half-hour refresher course of some of the Dale Carnegie principles, including visualizing success, acting enthusiastic and to smile. "When you smile you are approachable," Dickson said, "and when you're approachable good things come to you." Dickson pointed out that only two other Connecticut companies have been presented with the award: Mark Kelly of Safety Marking Corporation in 2007 and Greenwich Hospital in 2005. "When you look at the Stew Leonard's organization, you see the embodiment of Dale Carnegie principles," Dickson said. "They live it and they work it. It gives you (as a customer) a reason to want to come back. It also makes it an enjoyable place to work." Dale Carnegie Training, which boasts more than six million graduates, develops professional skills such as leadership, communication, sales and presentations. On the Web: www.stewleonards.com www.westernct.dalecarnegie.com