How the doctor stopped mummy doing odd things... by Victoria Lowry Illustrated by Sandie Lowry Based on the characters from the Little Bear series by Martin Waddell & illustrated by Barbara Firth. Redrawn with permission of Walker Books Ltd., London SE11 5HJ. www.walker.co.uk I’m going to tell you about my mummy. She sometimes does some odd things... I’m going to tell you about my mummy. She sometimes does some odd things... In the morning I brush my teeth for 2 minutes like the dentist told me to. Mummy brushes her teeth for 10 minutes and does it 3 times. Sometimes she takes so long it makes me late for school. I’m going to tell you about my mummy. She sometimes does some odd things... Before tea time I wash my hands with mummy and daddy. But mummy takes much longer washing her hands. By the time mum’s finished washing her hands we’ve eaten our tea and her tea is cold. Before I go to bed I have a bath. I play with all my toys and splash around, it is such fun! When mummy baths she takes hours. She washes every part of her body very carefully, lots and lots of times. Daddy can get very cross because he really needs the loo! It can be hard... I’m late for school. We never eat tea with mummy. And I don’t see her because she’s always in the bath. She is always washing! Daddy gets upset because he doesn’t know how to help mummy. But he says the doctor will help... I thought the doctor was really cool. He had stickers in his office and gave me a lollipop! Best of all he said he could help mummy! Apparently mummy has something called O.C.D. (It stands for something big and long called Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) The doctor told me all about OCD... Some people with OCD always check! Check before they stand up... Check before they walk... Check before they leave the room... Just always check! They check because they are scared. They think that if they don’t check they might lose something and something bad might happen. Some people with OCD always keep things, Keep old newspapers, Keep empty cans, Even keep the rubbish! Just keep everything! They keep things because they think they might need it someday. They think if they throw it away something bad might happen. Other people with OCD always wash! Wash their clothes... Wash their hands... Wash their face... Just always wash! They wash because they are scared of germs. They think that if they don’t something bad might happen. Like my mummy! Lots of people have OCD. Both mummies and daddies can have it and even kids. It is not like a cold, you can’t catch it from someone else. It is to do with the way your brain deals with worry. You see we all worry... I worry about... something! The difference is that my brain tells the worry to go away and it does. In people with OCD their brains don’t know what to do with the worry. Instead of going away it gets bigger and bigger. To try and stop it getting any bigger, people with OCD do things to try and make it go away. The doctor said: ‘In your mummy’s case she is worried about germs. Her brain does not tell the worry to go away so it gets bigger and bigger. Your mummy has to try and make the worry go away all by herself. She does this by washing lots and lots. More than other people do. If her brain learns to make the worry go away, then she won’t have to wash as much anymore.’ ‘Mind you I can’t teach overnight. There is no magic potion to make it all better in a flash. It will just be you and daddy for a while’ ‘It is going to be tough for your mummy. She might even get worse before she gets better because we expose her to what she is scared of. She might have to take medication for a long, long time. But in the end she will be better. Knowing you love and support her will make it easier.’ The doctor did help mummy. Mummy had to work hard and it didn’t happen quickly. But it was worth it. Thanks to the doctor and all mummy’s hard work she’s better now. Let me show you... Now in the mornings mummy brushes her teeth for the same time as me. Now mummy washes her hands with daddy and me and eats tea with us. She likes it lots more now as it’s not cold. Now mummy spends half as much time in the bath. This makes daddy happy as he no longer has to wait for the loo! Most importantly now mummy has more time to play with me... We are a multidisciplinary national service funded by the National Specialist Commissioning Team in order to provide treatment for the most severely ill patients with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) in the form of intensive home-based therapy, outpatient, and inpatient treatment. National and Trustwide Services for OCD/BDD South West London and St George’s Mental Health NHS Trust, Springfield Hospital, 61 Glenburnie Road, London SW17 7DJ. Telephone: 020 3513 6961 South West London and St George’s Mental Health NHS Trust