T li f e q u a li t y r e s o u r c e s - l u c y ch a r t i e r , phd By Lucy M. Chartier PhD, NP O ften when we become ill we feel victims of that illness, embracing the idea, for example, that a virus attacked us and overwhelmed our immune systems’ defenses. Or we accept our “fate” of succumbing to cancer because our mothers and grandmothers did, believing that since the cancer is in our family DNA, we have no control over the expression of that potential. Illness is real: we do have viral invasions and expressions of DNA that reveal themselves as morbidity. However, contemporary science explicates an understanding many healers have held throughout history: our conscious and subconscious beliefs shape the experiences we have, psychologiS el f- T r a n s f o r m a t i o n cally, physically, and relationally—including the “Truly the greatest gift you can give yourself development of illness. is that of your own self-transformation.” (Lao Henry Ford famously stated: “Whether Tzu) Deciding to release the chains that you think you can or think you can’t, you’re bind us to our past—our outdated beright.” This truth focuses on the conscious liefs—allows us a first step in the process belief system and the power of thought, of self-transformation. both positive and negative: If I believe A patient I’ll call George came to me that I can and will achieve my goal I am after several years in psychotherapy with likely to do so. If I doubt my abilities to two different therapists in different cities. achieve my goal, and sabotage my efforts A “workaholic,” he understood that his because of my doubts, I am unlikely to success was “costing” him in terms of accomplish the goal. his relationships; he was driven to work But what about people who appear excessively nonetheless. The concept of to be confident and who take all the right “enough money” was foreign to him: steps toward their goal, yet fail to reach it? even though he had accumulated financial Or those who accomplish a goal but don’t wealth, he couldn’t stop earning more. The feel satisfied? One explanation is that their relational “cost” was two lost marriages. subconscious beliefs are in conflict with He coped with his loneliness by having their stated—or conscious—beliefs. affairs, and, in the process, contracted The subconscious mind harbors sexually transmitted diseases. He ate and doubts and wounds from earlier in life, the drank to excess to manage his stress and residue of past failures or messages we’ve guilt and developed hypertension, hyperabsorbed from our parents, teachers, and cholesterolemia, and a peptic ulcer. friends. Habitual ways of responding to When I met him, George was angry, life events, including underlying feelings depressed, and ready to “give up.” Antideabout the self and deeply imbedded bepressant medications had provided unimliefs, arise from the subconscious mind. pressive results and created difficult physical These messages are powerful and most and emotional side effects. So, medications often are the driving forces of our lives. Our were no longer an option from his point conscious minds seem to be overwhelmed of view: he wanted something different. by the constancy of the He wanted to be differdeeper subconscious drive ent. George was ready to maintain the status quo, and willing to experience so we “give up” our efforts a different paradigm to combat what seems to of healing that put him be a losing battle with ourfirmly in the “driver’s r. Chartier notes, “As selves. We stop trying to seat.” I provided guidance referenced in The Bilose weight, for example, and assistance to help him ology of Belief, by Bruce even though we want to identify, clear, and balLipton, PhD, PSYCH-K, is because we can’t seem to ance what had been the a new, scientifically-driven stay with the (conscious) auto-pilot of his life—the therapy that helps people plan for success. beliefs of his subconfundamentally change deUltimately in order to scious mind. structive, unhealthy subachieve well-being we must Using an integrated conscious beliefs and pataddress, clear, and balance approach drawing upon terns of behavior. Nexalin the underlying (subconmultiple therapies includAdvanced Therapy is transcious) beliefs we hold ing Nexalin Advanced scranial electrical stimulaabout ourselves in order to Therapy/transcration, a brief therapy that adbe free of that which binds nial electrical stimulation dresses depression, anxiety, us to the past and pro(TES), PSYCH-K, and and insomnia. Both of these motes our dis-ease. Then self-regulation training, therapies are available at we are able to construct George began his transLife Quality Resources, in new beliefs that are relevant formation. addition to biofeedback and for our present selves, the The therapeutic neurofeedback. “self ” we want to claim, to processes we used helped craft, and maintain. George release the “ he subconscious mind harbors doubts and wounds from earlier in life, the residue of past failures or messages we’ve absorbed from our parents, teachers, and friends.” Powerful Unconscious Beliefs new approaches D background “noise” of the subconscious mind. Those messages had continued to play the self-limiting beliefs that undermined the conscious beliefs he had already changed. For instance, although he knew working excessive hours was not in his best interest, he continued the behavior. Beliefs held in his subconscious mind were more dominant and powerful than his conscious beliefs. Min d -B o dy Th e r a py : Biological Feedback Loops integrity, and partnership. He lost weight, developed healthy eating patterns, joined a health club and really used it. He learned how to be kind and tolerant of others. George transformed himself. Christopher Reeve said, “If we accept that the mind/body connection can produce harmful effects, then we can assume that the same connection has a healing power as well.” George is a shining example of this truth. h&h Dr. Chartier is an advanced practice registered nurse. She holds a BS in nursing and master’s degrees in psychiatric nursing, clinical psychology, and humanistic education. Her PhD is in clinical psychology. Dr. Chartier has extensive experience in the development and support of human potential and consciousness, and psychopharmacology. Number 4 Originally published in Health & Healing in the Triangle, Vol. 15, No. 4, Health & Healing, Inc., Chapel Hill, NC, publishers. Reprinted with permission. For further information about neurofeedback, biofeedback and psychotherapeutic services offered by Dr. Lucy Chartier and Dr. Dan Chartier and their associates, contact: LIFE QUALITY RESOURCES 5613 Duraleigh Road, Suite 101 Raleigh, NC 27612 Telephone: (919) 782-4597 www.LifeQualityResources.org h e a l t h & h e a l i n g • V o l u m e 15 The therapies we chose helped address the psychological, emotional, and physical expressions of conflict. We know that physiological changes occur in the brain when we give appropriate feedback. These physiological changes support behavior changes that become permanent. This is important because people want to be healthy, stable, and complete in their psychological work. They want to be free from the past and able to move forward without repeating the old lessons over and over again. So we moved beyond traditional “talk” therapy to methods that worked more directly with biological feedback loops. These processes promoted neurological “re-wiring,” and thus fundamentally changed cellular memory. George consciously and subconsciously forgave himself and others who had contributed to his false notions of himself. He was able to find peace. From his place of peace and balance George was thus able to establish new, healthy beliefs and behaviors because he was able to stop subconsciously sabotaging himself. He was able to identify new, healthy goals that honored his new belief structure. George continued to work because he loved his work, but he decreased his hours, allowing him to develop hobbies and to learn how to play. Ultimately, he developed a relationship that was built on honesty, Dr. Chartier