HOME U.S. ABOUT WORLD BIOS POLITICS SUBMISSIONS ENTERTAINMENT FEM INISTS WE LOVE Feminists We Love: Liora K COMMENT POLICY CULTURE STYLE CONTACT US SPORTS RELIGION ORGANIZATIONAL STRUCTURE HEALTH OBITS OP-ED Perpetuating Partiarchy(And Other Liberal Arts-isms) April 17, 2013 By Guest Contributor Like 2 Tw eet 6 TFW.ORG COLLEGE FEMINISMS ARTS & CULTURE Poems by Kristen Nelson 3 By Natalie Olivo 12 Apr 2013 Liora K is an Arizona photographer w ho produces art not only for w ork and pleasure, but also for Feminism. When I first discovered Liora’s provocative and pow erful images, it w as in the context of her feminist project featuring text w ritten on w omen’s nude bodies. My collaborator (Soraya Chemaly) and I [...] COLLEGE FEM INISM S Perpetuating Patriarchy (And Other Liberal Arts-isms) 17 Apr 2013 By Natalie Olivo The true tempo of my college’s student body occasionally emerges on a double-sided sheet of paper that circulates around campus five days a w eek. This “alternative” student new spaper accepts the unfiltered content of anybody w ho submits something, providing it’s received before the 6 p.m. deadline. Usually students just [...] Millennial Feminists, Stand Up! 15 Apr 2013 By Ashley Yenick Many college-aged w omen have a skew ed view of feminism and how it might apply to them. Millennial feminism w as brought to my attention by an article at CNN.com w ritten by Hannah Weinberger entitled, “Where are all the Millennial Feminists?” She argued that millennials believe in equal rights, [...] Pre-Launch Video: Asking for Kale *trigger w arning, discusses rape* (by students at Tufts University) The true tempo of my college’s student body occasionally emerges on a double-sided sheet of paper that circulates around campus five days a week. This “alternative” student newspaper accepts the unfiltered content of anybody who submits something, providing it’s received before the 6 p.m. deadline. Usually students just e-mail notifications about their lost North Face jackets, but every once in a while, somebody writes something that rattles people to alertness. Two years ago, one of the editors thoughtlessly published a “why did the chicken cross the road” joke that ended with a punch line about rape. While this comment alone was problematic, it was a direct response to a student who had written in about her personal experience as a victim of sexual assault. 17 Apr 2013 A selected catalog of my altar from left to right The body is an instrument w hich only gives off music w hen it is used as a body. ~Anaïs Nin Bodies that sit here Bodies that read Bodies that stand and bend and hurt In German the [...] Short Story: “Small Change” Less than twenty-four hours later, students, faculty and staff gathered around the flagpole on our academic quad. One by one, impromptu speakers stepped up, positioned the bullhorn, and declared how our college does not tolerate rape culture in any capacity. A spirit of ‘60s rebellion energized the crowd – for about the first twenty minutes. Eventually, all the speeches sounded vague and repetitive. Students started fidgeting with their backpack straps and checking their cell phones. An hour later, after one last burst of enthusiasm during a concluding chant, the crowd dispersed. People continued on with their days. Nobody was naïve enough to expect our little rally to make a dent in any larger context. Clearly, two years later, the Steubenville football players convicted of rape hadn’t heard the cries at my college’s flagpole. The people at my college who needed to hear that rally were not the ones who attended. Yet even then, the question lingered. Had it accomplished anything at all? And if not, why? Perhaps the answer was best articulated, even if accidentally, in my women’s studies class the next day. We were discussing cultural elements that allow for a normalization of rape and sexual assault. A male student, slumped in the back row, raised his hand. He rarely talked, but that day he apparently felt like sharing. He claimed that education about rape, including how to avoid it, was already widely available. Everybody, from potential perpetrators to potential victims, already had access to this information. That said, there’s simply nothing more to do than provide the facts and hope people internalize them. A few students scoffed and frowned, but most remained neutral and unengaged. I glared at him. I also congratulated myself on how I was so much more informed, and politically correct, than my classmate. Yet, not to offer a “meta” criticism of this essay, what did I actually do to confront sexism, besides write about it? 10 Apr 2013 By Meg Mundell The w oman’s blink rate tells him she’s nervous: almost once per second, four times the normal count. Jack know s a touch of nerves can help soften up a client, especially in the clinic’s private w aiting cubicles, but if he overdoes it she may fear opening her w allet. [...] TFW IN THE WORLD TFW w ill be conducting a w orkshop at NWSA (November 7-10) titled “Mediating Feminisms” 16 Apr 2013 Aishah Shahidah Simmons w ill be screening and discussing NO! The Rape Documentary at Claremont Graduate University (4/17) and Occidental College (4/18) 14 Apr 2013 For more information, please visit: Tufts Action for Sexual Assault Prevention: http://tuftsasap.org/ Boston Area Rape Crisis Center: http://w w w .barcc.org/ Rape, Abuse & Incest National Netw ork: http://w w w .rainn.org/ Pre-Launch Video: Representations of Black w omen in Media (students at Royal Hollow ay) 14 Apr 2013 ACS committee interview ed students about the representation of black w omen in the media as part of their joint event w ith the Feminism Society at Royal Hollow ay. ELEM ENTARY FEM INISM S Majoring in English 29 Mar 2013 By Monica Torres When I sign my name, it’s Monica, not Mónica. When I order pupusas at my favorite restaurant, the w aiter w ill give my accent an approving nod, as if to say, you’re one of us. But it w ill only take a harder question for me to reveal the [...] Ms. Yolanda 18 Mar 2013 By Alexa Lambertis At an early age, I w as exposed to a w oman w ho essentially changed my life. A sw eet lady w ith a southern background, she w as introduced to me as a family friend. I met her in her ow n home, w here w e w ould spend a majority of our time [...] I was even getting tired of the same old feminist arguments. Just a few weeks ago, while reviewing submissions for a literary journal at my college, I actually rolled my eyes at a first-year student’s paper. She wrote about how Disney films perpetuated sexist stereotypes, as if she was pioneering brave new scholarly territory — the first person to ever approach Disney with a feminist lens. After four years of writing papers about patriarchy, and talking in class about the virgin/whore dichotomy, I apparently decided that I had conquered sexism simply through relentless awareness. Although I would never consciously admit this absurd conclusion, I had to consider the implications. If people like me and my male classmate thought education was enough, then progress for women, along with all groups under patriarchy’s shadow, was going to plateau. As an English major, I am no stranger to the rickety bridge between scholarly musings and practical applications. While my papers are based on literary texts, they ultimately wheel around in abstract, nebulous hazes. Nobody even reads them except for my professors. While the gap between essays and reality is usually harmless, the dissonance between classroom discussions and everyday behavior is alarmingly wide. Chances are, the kid who wrote the rape joke also composed a paper about what’s good about patriarchy at one point. Girls who grind at “CEO and corporate hoes” parties have probably referenced the dominant male/submissive female binary in at least one of their essays. I, on the other hand, scroll through a convenient mental rolodex of “liberal arts” phrases that sometimes get tangled in foggy abstractions. I’m not citing myself as a pivotal cultural influence, or anything close, but perhaps my habits reflect a deceiving agreement. As my male classmate so eloquently demonstrated, while a dangerous mentality of inequality still exists, it’s okay to just write about it, to cushion the discussion in an educational context. I have fallen into the habit of allocating my musings on patriarchy to academic papers and classroom discussions. If I genuinely wanted to discuss feminism in a more casual capacity, I’d sound like I was, frankly, kind of whining. All my friends have sat through the classes. They know about the oppressive patriarchy and its evils. What else could I add to the conversation? Plus, despite a lingering disparity between the sexes, women have it far better than they did even forty years ago. We no longer have hunger strikes for suffrage or protests for equal wages. Feminist arguments are submerged in our national psyche. They are not just present at places of higher learning, but in mainstream culture. However, obviously this theoretical rhetoric has not yet instilled itself in collective action. Misogyny still exists in very real ways. Two years after my college’s flag pole rally, the Stuebenville rape case has catapulted underlying issues to national headlines. This culture of acceptance FOLLOW THE FEM INIST WIRE permeates freshman dorms where guys joke about a “rape closet.” A male acquaintance of mine, who happens to be an advocate of conservative social values, refers to feminism as a pseudo-science. He claims he once made a women’s studies professor cry by “using logic.” Find us on Facebook Of course, we women are not innocent either. Female students on my campus sometimes feel discouraged against coming forward as victims The Feminist Wire of sexual assault, fearing judgment even from their friends. Commentary Like such as “well, they were both really drunk” or “she was dressed like a slut” are not unheard of. This perpetual mindset of dismissing women, to The Feminist Wire which both men and women subscribe, extends across a spectrum of It's Culture Wednesday folks!!! Enjoy "Poems by Kristen Nelson"!! sexism. I’m not paralleling victim blaming to less severe issues, though an enduring acceptance of patriarchy is present in pockets of campus culture, as well as all over the country. Over the course of my four years ... here, I’ve heard a handful of classmates freely admit how they were See More getting their “MRS degrees.” They’ll go through the motions of attending class and composing papers, but ultimately, they are investing in a Poem s by Kristen Nelson thefeministw ire.com future that renders them dependent upon a husband. Off campus, we A selected catalog of my altar from left to right Thesee bodythe is an instrument w hich only dominant gives off music w hen it is used as female a body. ~Anaïs implications of the male/submissive binaryNinthat Bodies that read Bodies that stand and bend and hurt I’ve summoned for so many academic papers. 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I haven’t circulated a petition or conjured up another flagpole rally. But that’s the thing. Actions against oppression don’t have to consist of grand, sweeping gestures. I don’t have to stand on a metaphorical soapbox, but I’ve realized that people can change their actions to confront patriarchal norms on an individual level. I have to learn not to self-consciously shoehorn in a joke about “hating patriarchy” every time I note subtle sexism in a commercial or in a classmate’s comment. Facebook social plugin TWITTER UPDATES New , from our "College Feminisms" column!! 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Exposing students, and the general public, to the dynamics of patriarchal power has to be the first step. It has to create a foothold. I can write all I want about how people should transcend stereotypes, gender binaries, and patriarchal parameters. But at the end of the day, words mean very little when they do not match up against actions. However, maybe I’m just biased because I’m an English major, but words are the place to start. ________________________________________ Search & Hit Enter Natalie Olivo is a senior English major with a creative writing concentration and a history minor. She contributes to her college’s magazine, as well as InYourSpeakers Media. She hopes to pursue a career in publishing or journalism. 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