The TRiO Make It Happen! Mentoring Program Mentor Training Manual TRiO Student Support Services Edmonds Community College 2012-2013 2012-2013 Edition January 10, 2011 Mentor Training Manual Created By: Allison Paytosh Program Coordinator, Make It Happen TRiO Mentor Program Student Engagement Specialist (AmeriCorps) TRiO Student Support Services October 27, 2011 Mentor Training Manual 2011-2012 Edition Edited By: Katie Gast Program Coordinator, Make It Happen TRiO Mentor Program Student Engagement Specialist (AmeriCorps) TRiO Student Support Services September 5, 2012 Mentor Training Manual 2012-2013 Edition Edited By: Laura Caferro Program Coordinator, Make It Happen TRiO Mentor Program Student Engagement Specialist (AmeriCorps) TRiO Student Support Services Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 2 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 I. Opening Address Mission Statement Vision Contents 4 4 II. Description of Involvement What is Peer Mentoring How is Mentoring Different from Tutoring Benefits of Being a Mentor Description of duties Mentor Agreement Mentee Agreement Confidentiality Agreement 5 5 6 7 8 9 10 III. Policies and Procedures Confidentiality Boundaries Crisis management 11 12 13 IV. Relationship Development and Maintenance How to be an effective mentor Mentoring sessions Effective closure of mentoring relationship 14 15 15 V. General Expectations Tracking your mentoring relationship Mentor Support Group 16 16 VI. A Mentor’s Toolkit Focused Attending Cultural Sensitivity Your Basic Rights TRiO resources EdCC resources Website resources Mentor To-Do List 17 18 18 19 20 21 22 VII. Appendices Initial email template 23 Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 3 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Pre-mentoring survey Post-mentoring survey TRiO Mentee Tracking Log TRiO Mentor Development Tracking Log 24 25 26 27 VIII. References 28 Mission Statement The Make It Happen, TRiO Mentoring Program will provide new TRiO students with a supportive one-on-one relationship with a peer mentor who’s focused on promoting the overall success of the student. The objectives of this program are to help new TRiO students: Develop and strengthen a sense of student identity. Become effectively integrated into the school, faculty, and campus as a whole. Articulate a sense of purpose about being enrolled at EdCC and pursuing their education. Acquire the necessary skills to become independent and life-long learners. Vision Statement The vision of the TRiO Make it Happen Mentoring Program is to enhance the quality of experience, and improve the success of, TRiO students at Edmonds Community College. This will thereby contribute to the cumulative success of the EdCC student body and the community in which it operates. Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 4 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 What is Peer Mentoring? In order to define what a Peer Mentor is, we must first acknowledge what it means to be someone’s ‘peer’. A peer is defined as “someone who is of equal standing with you— a friend, a colleague, a fellow student” as explained by mentoring specialists Marni Sanft, Michael Jensen, and Eldon McMurray (5). We all have many, many peers throughout our lifetime! However, we do not all experience what it is like to have a mentor. A mentor is someone who fosters a structured and trusting relationship with their mentee by providing “constructive role-modeling, encouragement towards raised aspirations, and by positive reinforcement for the achievement of goals” (Grove and Huon 3). When someone fits the description of both a peer and a mentor, we call them a peer mentor. This is an individual who “has learned from experience and has developed skills to successfully guide other students through college.” A peer mentor can act as an adviser, a guide, a sounding board, and a resource (Sanft, Jensen, and McMurray 5). A peer mentor is more focused on “promoting the overall success of the whole student, not just developing proficiency in a particular subject” (7). As a peer mentor, you will attempt to build a more personal relationship with your peers and help them recognize their goals and abilities so that they may achieve success! A focus group of to-be mentors provided the following characteristics to describe what a ‘mentor’ means to them: good listener, empathetic, supportive, strong character, dependable, people-person, outgoing, knowledgeable of resources, flexible, works well with others, and maintains boundaries. Another important characteristic of a mentor is having “optimism about life”, as was expressed by several college students. One’s positive attitude will encourage and support other students to discover their own abilities to succeed (5). As a mentor, one should hold great appreciation for their role. The value of mentoring is immeasurable. Mentors should feel a sense of commitment to the program. Effective mentors are those who recognize the great opportunity to make a lasting contribution in a mentee’s life. How is Mentoring Different from Tutoring? A “tutor may develop a relationship with the student being tutored, but the role in most tutoring situations is to teach or clarify content specific to a course”. Tutoring is limited to a specific time, space, and subject. However, mentoring is not (7). Mentoring skills can compliment tutoring skills and improve the overall experience of the person receiving assistance. Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 5 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Benefits of Being a Mentor Connect and contribute to your campus community Develop leadership and mentoring skills Empower others to succeed Enjoy camaraderie with other peer mentors Enrich your college experience Experience the satisfaction that comes from serving others Gain experience that looks good on a resume Improve communication and people skills Increase academic confidence Learn to navigate the college system Make new friends Master key learning strategies Network with faculty and students Create and participate in service-learning opportunities Receive a scholarship or other form of compensation Take responsibility for your own success Have fun! (Sanft, M., Jensen, M., and McMurray 12-13) Activity Think of an individual(s) who has mentored you. Take a moment to reflect on that experience. What was it about them that influenced you? What traits or qualities made this person an effective mentor? What, if any, lessons did you learn from them? Then, share and reflect with the group. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 6 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Description of Duties Develop an enduring, trusting relationship with your mentee. From your very first meeting, this will be the long-term goal towards which you work. Communicate with your mentee only through your specified school email account and in-person meetings. Refrain from phone calls, texts, instant messaging, Facebook, MySpace, etc. as they are not appropriate means of communication for the program. Plan mentoring sessions a minimum of 3 times per month. You are expected to meet this requirement regularly, meeting for a minimum of 30 minutes at a time. These meetings must only occur on the EdCC campus (i.e., TRiO office, library, café, etc.) unless approved in advance by the Program Coordinator. Record all meetings in your mentee logs. Adhere to all responsibilities listed on the Mentor Agreement form. This form provides more detailed objectives for your role. It is very important you reflect on those throughout your mentoring experience. Maintain a strong academic standing. Mentors are expected to maintain a minimum of a 3.0 GPA. Balance your needs and your responsibilities as a mentor and a student. Ultimately, your success as a student should always be your number one priority. Keeping a balance is key! Take time to reflect. Mentor support group meetings will be held throughout the year and are there for your benefit and the overall growth of your mentoring relationships. Participate and serve in a leadership role in at least one service-learning project per quarter. Work with your Program Coordinator to decide on your participation and leadership role in a service-learning project each quarter. The coordinator can provide information about different events going on around campus and in the community! This is a great way to spend time with your mentee! Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 7 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Mentor Agreement Mentor: _________________________________________________ (please print) I understand my responsibilities are to focus on promoting the overall success of the student. I understand that failure to comply with the conditions of this agreement is grounds for termination from the mentoring program. I agree to the following conditions: Initial Responsibilities Complete first mentor training with Program Coordinator Complete FERPA training Review all paperwork in your mentor folder Email your mentee and introduce yourself Other work-related tasks as assigned Daily Responsibilities Build a trusting relationship with mentee(s) Maintain confidentiality in working with mentee(s) Be sensitive and respectful to the individual needs of mentee(s) Model appropriate and effective behavior while mentoring Listen, be patient and understanding while mentoring Help facilitate goal-setting skills in mentoring sessions Help create an academic plan (a specific guide will be provided according to mentee’s program) Teach critical thinking and study skills Provide students with knowledge of resources in TRiO and on campus Keep an accurate record of all contact/sessions in monthly mentee log Document when a mentee cancels a session or does not show Keep track of trainings and extra-curricular activities attended on your mentor log (this will help you articulate your experiences and build your resume!) Check your email daily & on a regular basis (this is a necessary method of communication!) If you have any questions/concerns that need resolution, meet with Program Coordinator Other work-related tasks as assigned Quarterly Responsibilities Read/Review the Mentor Training Manual Submit completed mentor and mentee logs on the last day of every month/ last day of quarter Attend all trainings (excellent professional development opportunities!) Attend all mentor support group meetings (1 per month) Commit to a regular mentoring schedule (minimum 3 sessions/month) Participate and serve in a leadership role in at least one service-learning project/quarter Maintain a strong academic standing (minimum 3.0 GPA) Balance life and your mentoring responsibilities Other work-related tasks as assigned I have read and understand the above responsibilities. I will abide by these guidelines, which will assist me in being a supportive and productive mentor. I will discuss any concerns I have with the Program Coordinator. Failure to fulfill these responsibilities may result in termination. Signature __________________________________________________ Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 8 Date ____________________ Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Mentee Agreement Mentee: _________________________________________________ (please print) I understand my responsibilities are to focus on succeeding at Edmonds Community College with the support from my mentor. I agree to the following conditions: Initial Responsibilities Meet with the Program Coordinator (to review paperwork and discuss mentor match) Receive email from mentor Plan a mentoring session schedule with mentor (minimum 3x/month, 30 minutes/session) Quarterly Goals Build a trusting relationship with mentor Attend scheduled mentoring sessions Design your academic plan Plan out short-term and long-term goals with mentor Strengthen your student identity through participation in EdCC events. Ask mentor to help you navigate through the college and gather resources Participate in at least one service-learning project/quarter Check your email daily & on a regular basis (this is a necessary method of communication!) I have read and understand the above guidelines. I will abide by these guidelines, which will assist me in being a productive student. I will discuss any concerns I have with the Program Coordinator. Signature _________________________________________________ Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 9 Date ____________________ Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Confidentiality Agreement Please read the following contract once through, then fill in the necessary blanks and sign and date the form. Thank you. As part of my participation in the Make It Happen, TRiO Mentor Program, I, _____________________________ (mentor), hereby enter into this agreement with ________________________________ (mentee) and as such agree to the following: I shall not, except as authorized by ______________________________ (mentee), at any time during or after the TRiO Mentor Program, disclose to any other person or entity any confidential or sensitive information which has come into my possession or knowledge during the course of the TRiO Mentor Program; nor shall I use any such confidential information for my personal use or advantage or make it available to others. I will not disclose or use, directly or indirectly, any confidential information (e.g., names, email addresses, students’ grades/academic standing, personal health information, financial information, life situation, etc.), or make such confidential information available to others for use in any way unless special circumstances apply (see next paragraph). I, _______________________________ (mentor) understand and have discussed with ________________________________ (mentee) my duty to inform the Program Coordinator(s) of any situations where there is concern of harm to self or others. This is the only time when complete confidentially can be broken. By my signing below I hereby acknowledge that I have read this agreement and agree to its terms. _________________________________________ Name of Mentee (Please Print) _________________________________________ Name of Mentor (Please Print) ________________________________________ Signature _________________________________________ Signature _______________________ Date _______________________ Date Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 10 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Confidentiality As a mentor, you hold a very valuable role in your mentee’s life. It is crucial for you to act maturely, appropriately, and professionally during your mentoring sessions, other interactions (including post-mentoring) with your mentee, and when speaking on behalf of the program. This experience will be immeasurable and one you should be very proud of as you grow and work towards future goals of your own. In order to establish trust and confidence in the mentoring relationship as a mentor, you need to understand the purpose of the confidentiality agreement and maintaining confidentiality between mentor and mentee. Recognize, you have signed and agreed to uphold the expectations for confidentiality while mentoring. Confidential information may or may not include the following: names, email addresses, students’ grades/academic standing, personal health information, financial information, life situation, etc. Do not share the names of the other mentors, unless that particular mentor has said it is okay with them. When speaking to other peers, friends or family, you may tell them you have a mentee, but never release the name of your mentee or other confidential information. Try to avoid talking about private information through email. Kindly explain to the mentee that if they have a concern, you can plan to meet in person to discuss the concern. One should always be hesitant about what they write in an email. Your words can easily be misunderstood in an email and cause stress on the relationship (Sanft, McMurray, and Jensen 142-143). A mentee may disclose private information to the mentor as they build a mentoring relationship. A mentor should not share this information with anyone else, *UNLESS the mentee is in danger of doing harm to self or others (61). Making a referral: When working with a mentee, you must ask for permission before consulting with others (*except for the one exception). A mentor can help a mentee who is struggling with serious emotional problems and/or might be in danger of doing harm to self or others, by making a referral to counseling services or another appropriate service. It is very appropriate to offer to walk them to the counseling center and assist with the initial contact. Willingness to do this increases the likelihood that the mentee will actually receive the help they need and will build trust within the mentoring relationship. Also, if you know the person/organization that you refer them to, it will better guarantee that they receive proper support. Remember to validate the fact that the person came to you for help and be honest about your limits and your need to refer. Also, remember to follow-up with your mentee and see how things are going and continue to provide support (203-205). Contact the program coordinator immediately in any case that you have concerns about your mentee. These concerns do not need to be emergencies only. Contact the program coordinator once you have first come to recognize there is a problem. Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 11 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Boundaries Before you begin your mentoring relationship, you should be aware of your boundaries and how to establish them within a mentoring relationship. It is important to discuss boundaries early. You can have this discussion while filling out the confidentiality agreement together. Remember, you are a student, but you are also in a position to represent TRiO. It is important for students to trust you and open up to you, but you need to avoid becoming too involved in personal issues. You should continue to discuss boundaries throughout the relationship. Situations may come up where you need to remind the mentee or yourself that certain boundaries have been established and need to be adhered to (Sanft, McMurray, and Jensen 61). (IMPORTANT)There are certain boundaries that all mentors and mentees are expected to adhere to. These are: At no point, shall a mentoring relationship turn into a romantic relationship. Communication should remain through face-to-face contact and email only. Cell phones, text messaging, Facebook, or MySpace are not a suitable means of communication for this program to ensure that a meaningful relationship can be established. Mentors and mentees will not threaten to cause harm to one another. * At any point that one feels these boundaries might be comprised, please consult with the program coordinator before a crisis develops. The program coordinator can help to establish clear boundaries. Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 12 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Crises Management Remember that you are a peer mentor, not a magician. As a mentor, you act as a student advocate. You are a resource that can lead others to the help they need and the goals they wish to achieve. However, you are not a miracle worker. You do not need to take on responsibility for your mentee’s every request. Remember, one of the main program objectives is for mentees to acquire the necessary skills to become independent and life-long learners. You will not be able to hold their hand every step of the way, or make every decision for them. When a mentee comes to you in crises, remember these important principles: Keep a calm voice and listen – this will help the mentee to calm down Ask the mentee to describe the situation or problem Listen for what the real problem is Use decision-making skills to establish a plan to solve the crises Ask the mentee if you they have sought help previously Know the limits of what you can do Make appropriate connections or referrals Be patient Follow up A mentee may or may not seek out your help. In situations where you believe a mentee is experiencing some problems or a crises, be on the lookout for these observable warning signs: Change in attitude about school Sleeping in class Not attending class Missing or being late with assignments Ambivalence about their performance Negative changes in appearance Negative comments about themselves Negative comments about others Being quickly angered or bothered (Sanft, Jensen, McMurray 43) Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 13 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 How to be an Effective Mentor The key is AUTHENTICITY! Be your true self. During your first few meetings, which may be through email or in person, it is important to keep a few principles in mind: 1. Make a good first impression (a) Speak in lower tones and keep your voice relaxed - this will portray the impression of confidence and knowledge. (b) Be informed- about the program, the goals for your relationship, and how you can help. (c) Discuss confidentiality and establish clear boundaries 2. Communicate to the mentee that he/she is special (a) “I’m really looking forward to meeting you in person Allison!” (b) Remember to call the mentee by their name throughout the conversation. (c) Listen for feelings- tune in to clues (e.g., tone of voice) and react accordingly. (d) Try to relate to the mentee and build rapport. 3. Be an effective listener (a) Try to be more interested in what the other person has to say, then what you have to say (see “Focused Attending” in Mentor’s toolkit). (b) Put aside all other work and distractions. (c) Generate a visual picture of what the mentee is telling you. (d) Don’t cut the mentee off. (e) Ask questions and give feedback. (f) Each student has his/her own strengths- you are there to help them discover these, not to make them clones of you. (g) Be sensitive to students with special needs. 4. Be enthusiastic about your work (a) Lead by example. (b) Learn everything you can about what EdCC has to offer students. (c) Put personal problems aside. (d) Be sincerely interested in the conversation. (e) When dealing with an angry/upset individual, stay composed and do not take things personally. Use empathy and take a break when needed. (f) Remember, the most beneficial relationship will be a reciprocal one (i.e., mutually benefiting). 5. Communicate to the mentee that the Make It Happen TRiO Mentor Program exists to help him/her maximize their experience at EdCC. (a) Establish initial meetings and structure for mentoring sessions. (b) Focus on developing a sense of understanding and commitment within the relationship. (c) Gradually over time, the mentors need to be able to step back, little by little, as the mentees assume more responsibility for the mentoring sessions (Grove, Julie & Huon, Gail. 9-12.) Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 14 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Mentoring Sessions All mentoring will take place through email or face-to-face, during on-campus meetings. Please feel free to use the TRiO office as a place to meet as well as any other location on campus. Attending campus events together is a great way to get to know your mentee. Try to identify activities of interest to both of you: service-learning projects, sporting events, lectures, student-life programs, plays, etc. Also, keep your eyes and ears open for event outings planned and scheduled by Lead Mentors! Off-campus meetings are not acceptable for this program unless otherwise approved by the Program Coordinator. Effective Closure of Mentoring Relationship Are you there yet? The mentoring relationship should end when the mentee has shown progress in their endeavors, achieved their desired skills and goals, and demonstrated confidence in their ability to succeed on their own. This stage of your relationship gives you time to reflect upon what you have accomplished together. A mentoring relationship can end for many different reasons. A student may be near graduating or transferring. They may also have to choose to discontinue school to deal with other life concerns. Hopefully, wherever and whenever the relationship comes to a close you can say that you and your mentee have addressed some or all of their concerns and reached their goals. Just as each student is unique, the length of time that you need to spend in the mentoring relationship will be different. Some students may need or request little help, while others may seek your advice consistently across a quarter. Remember, that you are not there to help them throughout their entire academic career. Your ultimate goal is to see them grow and possess the necessary skills to succeed on their own. Reaching this stage does not mean that your interaction with the student has ended. It just means that your relationship will take on a different form. You may still stay in contact with the student to see how they are doing in the future (Sanft, McMurray, and Jensen 66). Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 15 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Tracking Your Mentoring Relationship Within your mentor folder, you will find the following items for tracking purposes: 1. Pre-mentoring survey 2. Post-mentoring survey 3. Mentee Logs * Keeping up to date with these forms will be very helpful to the program’s success. Mentoring Surveys Part of the program includes assessment. In the first meeting, mentees should be asked to fill out a pre-mentoring survey. These can be found in the mentor folder. Upon the conclusion of your mentoring relationship, mentees need to fill out the post-mentoring survey as well. In addition, if your mentee has met with you 3 or more times, they will need to take an assessment. This information will be helpful in retaining funding for a TRiO AmeriCorps Student Engagement Specialist in the future. When mentors decide to discontinue their participation in the program, there is also a mentor survey to be completed. Ask the program coordinator for more information. Log Forms Each mentor will have an official log form. The mentor will list the names of each mentee and provide further description of each: date of mentoring sessions, total hours mentored, whether you participated in a Service Learning Project, and a description of what you did during your session. Mentor Support Group All of the mentors create a support group. When this group comes together they can share thoughts and experiences and share advice. The goal is to schedule 1 meeting per quarter where mentors will come together to discuss the progress made by the mentees and mentors. This meeting may also become an additional training session for the mentor, so it is very important that you try to attend. Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 16 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Focused Attending Kristi Slette Skillshare Associates 2010 Focused attending is a set of physical and psychological skills that increase the success of humans to clearly communicate and understand what they are hearing and seeing during an interaction with one or more people. Physical attending (posture of attention): Physical behavior that increases your ability to communicate accurately and understand another individual. *It is important to remember that attending behaviors are culture-specific. Typically in the United States the following behaviors are culturally encouraged: (Use the acronym SOLER helps us remember how to physically attend to the individual you are mentoring.) S: Sit Squarely O: Open Posture L: Lean Forward/Lean Back E: Eye Contact (Culturally appropriate) R: Relax (Release muscular tension and breath) Psychological attending: Mental behavior that increases your ability to communicate accurately and understand another individual. Calm your body and mind Engage in active listening (also called Clinical Listening or Listening to Understand): Your job is not just to hear what the other person is saying, but also to be a keen communicator and observer of behavior. Form appropriate responses Demonstrate Empathy (Slette, Kristi. Learning in Adulthood: The Basics of Coaching, Mentoring, and Teaching Adults. Skillshare Associates, 2010.) Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 17 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Cultural Sensitivity A person who is culturally sensitive is aware that there could be differences between their culture and another person’s, and that these differences could affect their relationship and the way they communicate with each other. Culturally sensitive people attempt to be free from prejudices and preconceptions about other cultures. As a mentor, it is important to be aware of any cultural differences between you and your mentee. You must learn to accept other cultures (even if you do not agree entirely) and not let differences in beliefs hinder the relationship. It is also important to familiarize yourself with common behaviors of the different culture. Certain behaviors or expressions that may seem acceptable to you could be perceived as rude or derogatory to others. Ask your mentee to share these with you or do a little research of your own (Sanft, McMurray, and Jensen 107-113). Your Basic Rights Always remember your basic rights. Share these with your mentees and remind them to recognize these in their life. These may be fun to share together when talking about boundaries. These rights relate to your personal boundaries. Your Basic Rights You have: The right to act in ways that promote your dignity and self-respect as long as others’ rights are not violated in the process. The right to be treated with respect. The right to say no and not feel guilty. The right to experience and express your feelings. The right to take time to slow down and think. The right to change your mind. The right to ask for what you want. The right to do less than what you are humanly capable of doing. The right to ask for more information. The right to make a mistake. The right to feel good about yourself. (Jakubowski, P. & Lange, A.J. The Assertive Option: Your Rights and Responsibilities. Research Press, 1978.) Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 18 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 TRiO Resources “TRiO is a federally funded program that provides low-income, first generation college students and students with disabilities the valuable support and services that will assist in student success and persistence towards graduation. TRiO serves to motivate and help students accomplish their goals by offering comprehensive individual support.” http://edcc.edu/trio/ The website is rich with helpful information ranging from information on tutoring services to applying for scholarships. Familiarize yourself with all it has to offer. TRiO has a filling cabinet filled with resources to assist with student success. For example, there are multiple worksheets/resources for building time management skills, stress management exercises, college booklets and transfer information, etc. Help navigate your mentee through an issue by sitting down and using one of the TRiO computers. Help walk them through a problem to find the resolution. Help and encourage your mentee to receive tutoring services by one of our TRiO tutors. See the TRiO Academic Coordinator to get started. Utilize the TRiO staff as well. They are all happy to help provide suggestions! Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 19 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Resources at EdCC Academic Advising http://www.edcc.edu/advising/ Counseling Center http://www.edcc.edu/counseling/ “Academic advisors are trained to advise across many program areas and they typically meet with students who are in the exploratory or early stages of their academic careers.” “The Edmonds CC Counseling and Resource Center in Mountlake Terrace Hall room 145 (425-6401358) offers appointments with professional counselors for free, short-term counseling (3 to 5 sessions), as well as referral to community resources, to help students adjust to, cope with, and succeed in college. The Center also offers an original series of “When Someone You Know” brochures that address a variety of topics such as depression, anxiety, and more.” Diversity Student Center http://www.edcc.edu/dsc/ Services for Students with Disabilities http://www.edcc.edu/ssd/ The Diversity Student Center, located in Brier Hall, serves all students, with a focus on ethnicallydiverse, homeless, female, gay, lesbian, and gender-diverse students. In addition to promoting diverse events, they also provide: ~resource assistance to help students understand college life; ~connections to a conversation partner program to help second language speakers with English (in a friendly conversational setting); ~a resource library with items for loan for a full quarter; ~ assistance to club members, and a computer lab with internet access for students. “Our program helps students with all types of disabilities such as: deaf, mobility, language, learning disability, blind/visual, chronic health, neurological, psychological, or emotional. We also help students work with outside agencies and other programs to ensure they succeed in college.” Project H.I.R.E. (Hire Individuals Ready for Employment) http://www.edcc.edu/ssd/_project_HIRE.php “Project H.I.R.E. provides participants with a personal job developer to help you find the employer and the job that is right for you. “ Career Action Center http://www.edcc.edu/careeractioncenter/ “We create connections between employers and students by providing opportunities for recruitment, career information, job search, internship education and access to retraining. Services include online job and internship listings, a career resource room, job and internship search assistance, and an academic internship program. For those looking for help paying for career training, we offer a worker retraining program and an opportunity grant.” Student Life http://www.edcc.edu/stulife/ Locate and learn about student government, clubs, volunteer opportunities, and other activities for your mentee to get involved with. Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 20 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Website Resources http://mentoring.org/ Everything you could possibly learn about mentoring, how to find mentoring opportunities, and what other mentors are doing around you. www.wamentors.org “Washington Mentor is a student services website representing the colleges and universities of Washington.” http://mappingyourfuture.org/ “Mapping Your Future is a national collaborative, public-service project of the financial aid industry- bringing together the expertise of the industry to provide free college, career, financial aid, and financial literacy services for students, families and schools.” http://www.thewashboard.org Washington Scholarship Coalition- “A partnership of public and nonprofit agencies coming together to build an online scholarship marketplace and provide a trusted source of scholarships. The Washington Scholarship Coalition exists to create connections and ensure scholarship funds are reaching those in need.” http://www.edcc.edu/library/scholarships/default.htm Edmonds Community College Library website- This PowerPoint presentation, created by the EdCC Library faculty, shows how to find the most useful online scholarship information and resources for you. http://www.edcc.edu/foundation /scholarships/ Edmonds Community College Foundation- The EdCC Foundation supports access, success, and excellence for students, faculty and staff. http://www.collegeplan.org/cpnow/pnwguide/pnwguide.htm Pacific Northwest Scholarship Guide- The Scholarship Guide-Online is a personal stepby-step tool, designed for you. http://nchelp.org/index.cfm “Represents a nationwide network of guaranty agencies, secondary markets, lenders, loan services, collection agencies, schools and other organizations involved in the administration and serving of federal and alternative student loans.” http://www.studentsinservice.org/ Students In Service, An Washington Campus Compact AmeriCorps Program- Learn about how you can become a part-time AmeriCorps member and earn an educational scholarship while providing service at your school or in your community. Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 21 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Mentor To-Do List: Before the mentoring can begin, there are a few steps to complete. 1. Read the mentor manual front to back. This manual is your life! Well maybe not, but the manual has been filled with useful resources for you. Please refer to it as you develop your mentoring relationships. 2. Complete the mentor agreement and confidentiality agreement. 3. All mentors are required to complete the training on the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act (FERPA). Mentors must complete this training before their first mentoring session. To take the training, please visit the following website: http://odet.edcc.edu/training/. Click on the link “Take This Course” under, FERPA TRAINING. When you have finished the training, print off the last page and put it in your personal mentor folder. The coordinator will check to see you have completed this. 4. Familiarize yourself with all of the forms (especially those within your mentor file) and stay up to date with logging all information. 5. Know your Coordinator’s contact information and availability. The coordinator is here to help you and answer any questions you have along the way. Laura Caferro Program Coordinator, Make It Happen TRiO Mentor Program Student Engagement Specialist (AmeriCorps) TRiO Student Support Services Phone: 425.640.1866 Email: laura.caferro@email.edcc.edu Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 22 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Appendix A- Initial Email Template Hello ___ (Mentee’s Name)___, I would like to introduce myself as ___(Your Name)___, your new Mentor in the Make It Happen, TRiO Mentor Program. I am a new mentor in the program and am excited to have this opportunity to work with you and to help you succeed in college. I have been a full-time student at EdCC for the last 4 quarters and have really enjoyed it. …. (May provide another sentence or two about yourself- don’t write an essay ). I am very much looking forward to our first meeting. Can you plan to meet one day next week for 30 minutes? I am free on (these days and these times). Let me know what day or time might work best for you. Have a great day! Sincerely, (Your first name) – include last name if you prefer, but not necessary Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 23 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Appendix B- Pre-mentoring Survey Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 24 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Appendix C- Post-mentoring Survey Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 25 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Appendix D- TRiO Mentee Tracking Log Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 26 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 Appendix E- TRiO Mentor Development Tracking Log Make It Happen TRiO Mentoring Program 27 Mentor Manual 2012-2013 References Thanks to the following resources and individuals. Their work helped to build this manual. Grove, Julie & Huon, Gail. 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