1 of 5 GUIDELINES FOR EVERY GRADE CHART OF DEVELOPMENT FRANK LANNING, Associate Professor of Education RUSSELL ROBBINS, Assistant Professor of Education Northern Illinois University, De Kalb KINDERGARTEN EMOTIONAL SOCIAL Affection is generally shown toward others. Fear and apprehension about school often develop. Some fears may increase with selfawareness and the realization that some danger may befall the child. Hate and anger may be displayed in temper tantrums. Anger is usually less aggressively expressed. Seriousness and not too much humor is characteristic. Fluctuation is common between dependency and growing independence as a balance is attempted. Relations with adults: Child is still mainly a family member. He is willing to help either parent. He likes to help mother with tasks which add to his growing independence. Relations with peers: Play is usually solitary or parallel. Individual play occurs from 1/3 to ½ of the time. Some is cooperative, but at a low level. Child will at times play in groups of five, six, or more, but prefers no more than three. Group plans of a few steps will be carried out. Affection, more than aggression, is shown toward others. First desires for competition appear. Child begins to be aware of qualities he likes or dislikes in others. Child is impatient for turns. Recognizing ownership is difficult. Child tens to pull, grab, or take. Child is a poor group member as he is a tattletale and demanding. Sex roles are not clear. Sex is ignored in choosing play groups. Reprinted from THE INSTRUCTOR, August//September 1966 PHYSICAL EMOTIONAL Skeletal growth slows to steady rate. Height Is about 3' 4”. Weight is about five times birth weight. Head size is near adult. Proportions are more like adults. Infant top-heaviness is lost. Baby features gain more individuality. Affection Is still shown fairly readily. Susceptibility to tooth decay may be high. Hate and anger may still be displayed in tantrums. A renewal of violent methods of expression with hitting and kicking is typical. Quick, violent outburst and contentiousness occur. Frustration is easily caused by lack of fine motor skills. Muscular development has been rapid. It is more difficult to be inactive. Large muscles are used. Child can feed and dress himself. Child begins to jump rope. With increase in sense of rhythm, he can skip, using alternation of legs. Skill can be gained with suitable tools. Visual functioning is immature. Some spatial relations appear. Handedness is established. Hands are used in smaller movements needing more dexterity. Fear may occur at beginning of school. Child seeks Independence but is apprehensive. Other fears are of the supernatural (ghosts) and the elements (thunder). Behavior often has extremes. Child laughs and cries easily. Child may be loving one moment and aggressively hostile the next. Excitability is common. The child becomes more stable, less impulsive. General dexterity: Average sleep needed is 11 hrs, 19 min. Attention span for play – 12 to 14 min. Table manners improve. Absence is common; but there is less susceptibility to colds. Language is more complex. Active vocabulary is about 2,072 words. Sentences may have five words or more. Girls are superior in articulation. The Instructor Publications, Inc. Used by permission. GRADE ONE SOCIAL PHYSICAL Generally, wider range of social behavior is undertaken. More cooperation, friendliness, sympathy, competition. fighting, and quarreling appear. Fluctuation occurs between home dependency and peer participation. Sense of fairness develops. Growth is varied between boys and girls. Girls are about a year more mature than boys. Height is about 2/3 of adult height. The body is about 2/5 of adult size. Yearly gain is about 1” or 2” in height and 3 to 5 pounds in weight. Knock-knees and protruding abdomen are prevalent. Relations with adults: Child desires closeness, thrives on praise, will take orders, dislikes criticism, wants approval, talks freely, is friendly. Still admires parents most. Mother is not center of attention. Father gets better obedience. Child is demanding, hesitant, companionable, with parent. Interest is lost in family membership. Relations with teacher are of special concern. First baby teeth are lost. First permanent teeth appear, usually six-year molars. Relations with peers: Group activity is more interesting. Small groups are preferred. Capacity for group work is limited. Loose organization allows individual freedom. Leaders usually lead small groups. Child is still impatient about waiting for turns. Is poor group member. Sex is ignored in choosing groups. Child is more aware of rights of others. May have definite impressions of some classmates and be vague about others. Tagging, imitation, of older children is common. Large muscle activity is still needed. Work done with the whole body. Most basic skills have been acquired. Strenuous activity is at high level. Rhythm is better established. Eye-hand coordination is poorly developed. Judging distances is improved. Muscles of hands and arms need more development. Writing is difficult. Eye and hand muscles usually develop well enough by 6 or 6 ½ for reading and writing. General development: Average sleep needed is 11 hr, 4 min. Low resistance to disease makes absence frequent. Language development has increased to an active vocabulary of about 2562 words. Attention span is still very short. Children are quick and active. 2 of 5 EMOTIONAL Affection is shown but it may appear Pat receiving it is not enjoyed. Fear of embarrassment makes child more inclined to deny some previous fears, such s entering school. cars are deeper and more worrisome (war, spies, burglars). Social worries about being liked develop. Violent outbursts are fewer and less anger aggressiveness is shown. Some temper tantrums and fighting persist. When angry a child may withdraw from group rather than force others to withdraw. Crying easily brought on. Jealousy may exist in a girt over the father's attention to the mother. Some tics may develop. General dissatisfaction, sulkiness, musing moods, minor strains of sadness, complaints, increase. GRADE TWO SOCIAL Relations with adults: Child verbally asserts himself, pursues questions, nags, is sensitive to others’ attitudes, talks readily, is friendly, seeks approval. Interest is regained in being a helpful family member. Parents are challenged. Harmony with mother is again possible. Boys regard father as very important. Girls are more sensitive to reprimand from the father. Teacher is generally liked. Relations with peers: Beginnings of real group play appear as cooperation is better learned. Impatience with waiting turns has lessened. Participation in loosely organized group play increases. Competition increases. Child is a poor loser. Bossing, domineering, and name calling still occur. There is some evidence of oncoming sex cleavage as girls may start to play games which are unattractive to boys and vice versa. Sex is still generally ignored inchoosing play groups. Some “best friends” are usually acquired by the end of the year. Reprinted from THE INSTRUCTOR, August//September 1966 PHYSICAL EMOTIONAL Growth between the sexes has much variation. Growth is generally steady and smooth. Fatigue may set in comparatively easily. Affection may be strongly voiced, but is demonstrated less often. Permanent teeth appear rapidly. Front incisors in the lower jaw usually appear first. Muscular coordination is much improved. Large-muscle activity is still needed. The whole body may still be used to gain control of neuromuscular powers. Strenuous activity is enjoyed. Moving to imaginative rhythms is fun. Dressing is completely handled by child. Eyes are mature enough for longer periods of focus. Eyehand coordination is well established. General development: Average sleep needed is 10 hr, 58 min. Attention span has lengthened. Child is good listener. Speech may still be immature. Language is used more freely. The Instructor Publications, Inc. Fear of animals should decrease. Fear of natural phenomena still exists. Fears of fighting, failure, being disliked remain. Anger outbursts should decrease, also temper tantrums. Boys still fight. Jealousy may exist over parent relations. Sense of humor increasing. Child is relatively calm, less demanding of parents, more selfreliant, matter-of-fact. Happiness often results from achievement. Feelings become more sensitive, emotions more concealed. Child may cry easily, is sensitive to criticism. Used by permission. GRADE THREE SOCIAL Generally, child seeks approval, praise, affection, talks freely, is friendly, finds home and school restrictions irking. Relations with adults: Identification with parent is often strongest. Desire to approach adult standards. Parents are challenged, argued with, receive demands for praise as well as admission of wrong doing. Child admires mother most, makes demands of her, is dependent on her. Relation with father is less intense. Teacher’s guidance and praise are sought. Relations with peers: Transition to peer culture is almost complete. The larger peer group now more important than family, causing criticism of siblings. Spontaneous groupings of short duration occur. More will abide by group decisions. Bickering is frequent. Rules are insisted upon as more organized games are played. Best friends are acquired. Stronger differentiation between sexes develops. Boys’ and girls’ play interests are becoming different. PHYSICAL Variation in growth between sexes still fairly great Growth is relatively slower than before. Body profile is being lost Health is good. Permanent teeth should number about 10 or 11. Incisors in the upper jaw should have appeared. Large muscles are still developing. Strength and improvement of motor skills and body controls are rapidly Improving. Arm and leg muscles are not strongly developed, resulting in a look of spindly weakness. Writing is still difficult. Vigorous body activity is enjoyed: Tag is preferred to toys; balancing is more skillful; swimming, bicycling, lee skating, roller skating more easily performed. Interest increases in games requiring small-muscle control. Eye muscles have strengthened. Eye-hand coordination is better. Attention span, though longer, is still short. Active vocabulary is 3600 words. Speech may be immature. 3 of 5 EMOTIONAL Fears of earlier type decrease. They become more realistic. Caution starts to increase. Worries about family and school problems increase. Anger outbursts decrease; with some boys fighting continues. Explosions occur as disturbances or frustrations mount. Jealousy of others' ability may increase as personal limits are realized. Tenseness increases with more selfappraisal, criticism. Tensional outlets more obvious. Moods are variable. Pleasure is gained from achievements. Sense on humor continues to grow. Seriousness and matter-of-fact demeanor are present. Feelings are more easily hurt, but more restraint is used to conceal emotion. Ways are found to channel emotions, such as talking to pets. GRADE FOUR SOCIAL Generally, home and school restrictions are disliked, interference is disliked. Teasing, discourtesy, scuffling, carelessness. increase as standards are rejected. School orientation good. Sex roles are fairly well established. Relations with adults: Adults are seen more critically. Increasingly accurate estimates are made. Blame will be accepted. Freedom is sought from parent dependence and identification. Relations with mother are smoother. Boys find a new relation with father-that of sharing interests. Relations With peers: Peer orientation strong. Group membership important for mutual friendships, complex interrelations occur. Competitive and cooperative spirits develop. More stable relationships exist. Most follow rules. Acceptance by friends is important. Large groups are often formed for competitive games. Desire to excel to gain approval is strong. Sex cleavage is strong with contempt for opposite sex. Spontaneous groups of the same sex likely. Girls' and boys' play interests differ more. Pressures prevent casual withdrawal from groups. Rituals, codes, are valued. Friends are often made outside neighborhood. Reprinted from THE INSTRUCTOR, August//September 1966 PHYSICAL EMOTIONAL Growth is slow and even. Stabilization of previous gains occurs. Pattern of change is more gradual Girls experience least height gains. Eyes reach adult size, shape, by end of year Often 18” in height and double weight have been gained since school entrance. Happiness, contentment, are prevalent. Simple occasions are pleasurable. Bursts of happiness and demonstrative affection are frequent. Better body control. Motor skills improved, perfected. Sport skills are more rapidly acquired There is a peak in variety of play activities. Eye-hand coordination is very good. Skill with tools is better. General development: Somatic complaints increase. Vocabulary is expanding. Better speech patterns are developing. Girls show superiority in articulation. word usage, sentence length and structure, especially at 9 1/2. Spurts of activity are typical. There is optimism about growing up and a more practical outlook. Child is relatively unselfconscious, better adjusted, can admit former fears, weaknesses. Fears-are at low ebb. Anxiety is lessened. Fears and worries increasingly realistic. Concern is about punishment, lies, grades, personal adequacy, wars. Humor is based on nonsense rhymes, comics, word puns. Wisecracks may be a defense. Jokes about things that worry them decrease anxiety. Jokes about self are disliked. Angry outbursts are brief, explosive, shallow, fewer. Hostility to adults is often shown. Child may cry when angry. He doesn't often hold grudges or nurse hurt feelings. Jealousy appears over abilities of others as limitations are realized. Emotions are given new channels. May be more fidgeting, fingerto-mouth activity, for tensional release. Peers are still helpful. The Instructor Publications, Inc. Used by permission. GRADE FIVE SOCIAL Generally, more are aware of and concerned about others' feelings. Sex roles are clear. Siblings between 6 and 9 cause most trouble. Preschool children and pets are liked. Relations with adults: Child is more critical of adults; he will be openly hostile at times. He resents interference. Parents still accepted, but standards are often rejected. There is more inattentiveness, untidiness. Disobedience Family activities are popular. He enjoys creative companionship with parents. They are treated affectionately. Mother has special prestige. Father is regarded with pride. Relations with peers: Peers are dominating influence; their approval is sought. Group cooperative spirit is combined with competitive spirit. More organized games and sports with rules are played. Boys develop teamwork, team loyalty. Sexes are fully separated but with less antagonism. Most play interests, especially of boys, are with same sex. Gang life is small, secretive, unstable, of age-sex mates, resists supervision. Likes scouting, camping. Comradeship is more important than competition. Friendships are intense. Rank of classmates is better comprehended. PHYSICAL Generally, growth is steady, slow. Boys gain on an average 1.9" height and 5.9 pounds. Girls average 2.3" height, 6.5 pounds. Girls may experience a change, be more choosy, like fewer sweets. Rounded stomach of earlier years being lost. Girls may have a weight spurt. Most show signs of nearing puberty. Both sexes have changes in body structure, gaining a looser, softer look and losing angular look. Permanent teeth now number about 14 to 16. Greater gross musculature and rapidity of muscle growth are noted. Body control and motor skills are well managed. Eyes are adult-sized and completely developed in function. Fixation mechanism is at best. General development: Sleep needed is now down to about 9 ½ hrs. Health is steadily improving. Stamina level is higher. Appetite is very good. Spans of attention may be short, but are numerous and varied. Active vocabulary is 5400 words. Speech patterns are improved. Child is alert, casual, relaxed, poised, active. Activity often comes in spurts. Less strenuous exercise, quieter activity, may be preferred. 4 of 5 EMOTIONAL Emotions are given spontaneous, immediate expression showing real-feelings. Fears may increase, especially of being alone. Normal feelings of guilt, anxiety develop. Concern about lies increases. Affection for parents remains noticeable. Self-acceptance may reach peak. There is more sympathy, thoughtfulness for others. Anger is expressed quickly, by selected methods. Anger may come through empathy. Anger is more apt to result in crying, as is disappointment or hurt feeling. Jealousy increases ever others' possessions or physical attributes, attention given to others, siblings. Humor is expanding to include more puns, clowning, silliness. Tensional outlets include increased motor activity, dropping things. New emotional patterns develop. There are peaks of intensity: rage on short notice, bursts of laughter, variable moods, impulsive behavior. Happiness is prominent, with some times of unaccustomed sadness. Dejection may occur from feelings of unpopularity. GRADE SIX SOCIAL Generally, routine is rejected. Self-control increases, social pressures are internalized. Selfcenteredness changes to gradual capacity to feel for others. It becomes important to establish masculine, feminine, identity. Relations with adults: Child is critical of adults, refrains from communication with them, is quieter around strangers, may hero worship those not present. Girls comply more to adult standards. Family life is important and is enjoyed. Relatives are important Quarreling is frequent with siblings. Relations with peers: Organized clubs, teams, competitive groups are popular. Conformity is important. Meeting, mingling, and competition are fun. Similar outdoor activities are a basis. Friendships are made with those with desired qualities, often of same temperament. Rules may now he codified. More favorable attitudes begin to develop toward opposite sex, but social divergence is still complete, with some antagonism. Boys' social life takes on activity oriented flavor. Boys admire competence in group games, ability to keep a game going, and daring; more active than girls. PHYSICAL Sudden growth spurt may occur. Bone size has a definite increase. Girls physiologically about a year ahead of boys. Both sexes may show signs of approaching adolescence. Boys are fairly uniform. About one-quarter of them start rapid height growth. Some experience a "fat period " Girls may have height and weight growth. Secondary sex characteristics begin to appear as pelvis broadens, breasts begin development, some pubic hair appears. Some reach menarche. Permanent teeth still emerging (cuspids, bicuspids, second molars). Muscle growth increasing. Boys may be ahead of girls in endurance, strength. Ocular skills are good. Visual mechanism has a general loosening. Focusing ability improves. Nearsightedness is less likely. General development: Sleep is heavy. Appetite is large, but fluctuating. Health is good, but more tendency to colds, respiratory diseases. Reading skill may be about equal to an adult’s. Poise is uncommon. Activity and energy expenditure incessant. Restlessness and wriggling are typical. Somatic complaints may increase. EMOTIONAL Self-acceptance may reach peak. Child is positive enthusiastic. Responses are less impulsive and immediate. Attitude more tolerant, good-natured. More empathy, self-insight, self control. Demonstration of affection for parents is restricted. Fears of the dark, animals, crowds, and high places may increase. Worries exist over school work, exams. Anger is more controllable often expressed verbally: Crying may occur, but is usually restrained. Jealousy is infrequent as competitiveness lessens, except for jealousy of siblings. Hurt feelings are often concealed. Capacity for humor is increased. A ribbing can be better taken. Double meanings and sex jokes are popular. Tensional outlets are fewer. A mood of happiness is often sustained. Some sharp peaks of exuberance occur. Sadness is present on occasion. GRADE SEVEN SOCIAL Generally, child gets along better socially, has more tact with siblings, is fond-. er of social doings. Relations with adults: Child is critical of adults, less insistent, more reasonable, more companion-. able; is quiet around strangers. Teacher is liked, but child is more critical of his abilities. Girls comply more to adult standards. Child gets along better with parents, argues less, demands less. He begins to reject identification with parents, as part of desire for indeppendence Another model, usually of same sex, is found. There is often hero-worship. Relations with peers: Main interest is with those of same sex, but heterosexual relationships occur. Mixed parties may or may not succeed. Interest shifts often between boys -and girls. Girls begin to have more interest in boys than is reciprocated. Group loyalties are well developed. The spirit of the game has meaning. There may be membership in a club. Small groups are preferred. Organized, games are enjoyed. There is a lot of movement among peers, with boys having several friends. Boys admire competence in group games, daring, boldness. PHYSICAL Girls have most rapid growth In height and weight; often reach a peak in the growth spurt, putting them about a year ahead of the boys. Height spurt is first, average girl attaining 95 percent of mature, height. Breast development is fuller. Menarche often occurs by end of the year; may be irregular. Boys have a wider range of differences in growth rate. Definite traces of beginning puberty appear. Voices often change and begin to deepen. For both sexes at about 12 ½, fat on legs, arms, will decrease. Body fat increases in girls, decreases in boys. Muscle development is very good. Tools may be used at a high level. Vision has best fixation and focus. General development: Sleep is again less heavy. Health is good, but may not be consistent. Fatigue may come easily. There is increased control for sitting quiet, but some opportunity for movement is still needed. Appetite is good. Active vocabulary has reached about 7200 words. Through practice, team games are perfected. 5 of 5 Reprinted from THE INSTRUCTOR, August//September 1966 EMOTIONAL Self-acceptance may be less positive than during the previous year. Negativistic behavior of both boys and girls may increase over 12-year level-boys, more so than girls. Girls acquire increased self love, which may manifest itself in increased demands for clothes and possessions. There is a concern with physique and sexuality and how others react. Worries: A major worry is in the area of achievement and passing in school. Worries related to personal characteristics are most often seen in guilt feelings. Worries about health are not unusual. In respect to having a sense of humor, boys rate themselves down somewhat compared to their 12-year level. Girls rate themselves higher than boys for having a sense of humor. Girls tend to identify with women teachers and other female adults. Mother is devaluated. More time may be spent in daydreaming and fantasy. The Instructor Publications, Inc. Used by permission GRADE EIGHT SOCIAL Social adjustment will become more complex and troublesome. Relations with adults: Period of greatest conflict between parent and child begins. Girls challenge home authority slightly more than boys. Ambivalent behavior is typical. The adolescent is ready to accept interest and attention from parents; then he want to he independent Relations with peers: Friendship fluctuates more for the 13-year-old than for the 12-year-old. Girls' friendships tend to fluctuate more than boys' friendships. Girls rank first, as a social interest, finding a place in the peer group. Boys rank first, as a social interest, having a best friend of the same sex. Interests and activities: Cultural conflicts are becoming more obvious. girls still like social activities more than boys. Boys still rank sports important. Girls show greater interest than boys in academic studies. Reading interest for boys ranks: (1) Adventure. (2) Romance, (3) Animal Stories. Girls prefer: (1) Romance, (2) Adventure, (3) Animal Stories. Boys begin hero worship. Girls show interest in dating and dancing while boys' interest lags. Many boys and girls experiment with minor delinquency. Watching TV tends to reach a peak in number of hours per week. Shyness at 13 may be more of a problem than it was in preadolescent years. Fighting as an expected behavior may still be relatively high for boys. Reprinted from THE INSTRUCTOR, August/September 1966, The Instructor Publications, Inc. Used by permission. PHYSICAL At age 13, girls experience a rapid growth spurt; boys, somewhat less rapid. Girls are still taller and heavier than boys. Muscles increase in size and strength. Genitals increase in size rapidly for both sexes. The secondary sex characteristics begin to appear. Contours of boys' bodies are angular while girls' bodies are more rounded. Pubic hair begins to appear around genitals; hair in armpits; fuzzy hair an the face and body; growth of breasts of girls, and change of voice of boys. Average age for menarche is 13 1/2 years, although first menstrual periods are quite irregular. Approximately 20 baby teeth have been lost. Underweight is less common than overweight. Incidence of disease is very low compared to earlier childhood. Facial acne can be a problem; more boys than girls tend to have it. General development: Sleep is again less heavy. Health is generally good, but adequate rest is appropriate. Alternating rest with physical activity continues to be important. Although his appetite is tremendous, the adolescent needs help in planning a diet for nutritional needs.