Mary’s Shelter Gulf Coast - OUR ATTITUDES As residents of Mary’s Shelter, we will seek to maintain the following attitudes with other residents and staff during our stay here. 1. Honor and Respect o God o Others o Self o Home 2. Truth and Integrity o In everything I do and say 3. Responsibility o It is what I do, not what someone else does. o It is what I say, not what someone else says. o It is my choice, not someone else’s choice. o I control my thoughts, my words, and my actions. o I am responsible. 4. Understanding and acceptance o Every person needs to be understood and accepted as God’s creation. o Sometimes the things people do are wrong and not acceptable. 5. Cooperation and Team Work o Everyone must work as a team for the home to function properly. 6. Thoughtfulness o Be thoughtful of each other in word and deed. 7. Love and Commitment o Practice love toward God, others, and self. o Be committed to making home a pleasant place (Clean, safe, joyful, fun, restful, peaceful, etc.) 8. Meaningful Communication o Find out what a person means – this is not necessarily what we think they mean from the words they said or actions perceived... o Listen 9. Right to be heard o What each person has to say is important. 10. Willingness to accept guidance and instructions o We must be willing to receive guidance and instructions and make any changes necessary for our own good and the good of our family and our home. I agree to strive to maintain these attitudes during my stay at Mary’s Shelter Gulf Coast. (Copy given to resident upon intake) Resident Signature Date Staff Signature Date Mary’s Shelter Gulf Coast Revised 04/01/09