Hampshire Shared Lives Scheme Policy and Procedure 8 Shared Lives Guidance Family, Friends, Culture and Community People in Shared Lives arrangements have the opportunity to live an ordinary life in their community. This includes being able to maintain and develop personal and family relationships, pursue their own cultural and religious customs and be active members of their local community in ways that they wish. How will this happen? Before starting any Shared Lives arrangements Shared Lives Carers receive general information and training about people’s rights and how to support people in their daily lives. Shared Lives Carers will also be given information about the person’s particular needs and wishes and a copy of their Service User Plan. This will tell them about existing relevant friendships and relationships , whether any support is required to maintain or develop them and, if so, how this should be provided. For example this could be support with: Making or receiving phone calls Remembering or making arrangements for meeting up with someone Remembering birthdays and/or shopping for cards or presents Attending social and/or cultural and/or religious events Friends and relatives will normally be welcome to telephone and/or visit and a Shared Lives Carer will respect choices and privacy in relation to these contacts but, as happens with most families, everyone will also be expected to act reasonably and with consideration for other people in the household. (There may be information about house rules and individual responsibilities in the Placement Agreement and/or the individual Service User Guide.) If there are particular people whom the person does not wish to see or have contact with, then the Shared Lives Carer will support informed choices. In Shared Lives a person will be able to continue to live life in keeping with their own cultural and religious customs. The following areas will be covered when we are considering these particular needs and preferences in order to match with Shared Lives Carers who can support appropriately: June 2014 Communication Food and drink, including preparation and other dietary or fasting needs Personal care Clothing Daily routines Opportunities for worship Important rituals and festivals Contacts within the communities Whether support is needed from someone of the same sex (regardless of personal care or not) Hampshire Shared Lives Scheme Policy and Procedure 8 Cultural and religious customs will be respected and responded to by: Making sure we understand the issues, including having access to guidance from family or other members of the same or similar cultural or faith community when necessary Making sure that Shared Lives Carers are properly informed about these Including information about customs and beliefs and preferences in the Service User Plan, and about how the Shared Lives Carers will support these. The service will recognise a person’s right to lead the kind of life they want. This includes having the same opportunities to join in local, social and community activities as anyone else in the community, to take part in valued and fulfilling activities (including paid employment) and to develop new skills and/or continue with education or training. Shared Lives Carers will also be given information about any particular needs and wishes and a copy of the Service User Plan. This will tell them about any existing relevant interests, activities and relationships, as well as any hopes and wishes for the future. If support is required to maintain or develop any of these, the service User Plan will explain how this is to be achieved. For example Carers might provide support with: June 2014 Including the person in activities and events that they take part in themselves Finding out about people or groups in the community that have similar interests Making contact with those people or groups Trying new activities Remembering or making arrangements for meeting up with people or groups Attending educational and/or social and/or cultural and/or religious events Being politically active and voting Getting or keeping a job Enabling the development of new skills and/or practising them at home or elsewhere Pursuing a person’s rights with people or organisations that harass or discriminate.