Sexual Harassment Myths or Facts? Read each statement. Circle “T” for TRUE if you think the statement is generally or usually true. Circle “F” for FALSE if you think the statement is generally or usually false. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------T F 1. Sexual harassment is a problem in the workplace. T F 2. Males are not victims of sexual harassment in the workplace. T F 3. If a female dresses or behaves in a sexy way, she is asking to be sexually harassed. T F 4. Sexual harassment does not occur between people of the same sex. T F 5. Sexual harassment means bothering someone in a sexual way. T F 6. Quid Pro Quo involves granting an employment benefit in exchange for sexual favors or making sex a condition of one’s employment. T F 7. Teasing and flirting are no big deal. They make work more fun. T F 8. Most females enjoy getting sexual attention at work. T F 9. Women/men who work in nontraditional jobs are more likely to be sexually harassed. T F 10. Sexual harassment is behavior that is not only unwelcome, but in most cases repeated. T F 11. A “hostile environment” is one where conduct of a sexual nature (visual, verbal, or physical) is so repetitious that it unreasonably interferes with an employee’s work performance or creates an intimidating, hostile or offensive working environment. T F 12. If the recipient doesn’t like the sexual attention, but the person acting speaking means it only as flirting or joking, then it is not sexual sexual harassment. T F 13. The goal of sexual harassment is not sexual pleasure, but gaining power over another. Sexual Harassment Myths or Facts? ANSWER KEY 1. Sexual harassment is a problem in the workplace. True: Studies show that 50-90% of working women have experienced sexual harassment. (See Question #2 for information about men in the workplace.) 2. Males are not victims of sexual harassment in the workplace. False: About 10-30% of men say they have been sexually harassed in the workplace. 3. If a female dresses or behaves in a sexy way , she is asking to be sexually harassed. False: This is blaming a victim. Dressing or behaving in sexually provocative way doesn’t cause sexual harassment, although it may increase the possibility that one may become a victim. On the other hand, NOT dressing or behaving in a sexually provocative way doesn’t PREVENT harassment. 4. Sexual harassment does not occur between people of the same sex. False: Harassment can occur between males or between females. It is estimated that male-to-male sexual harassment accounts for 20% of all male sexual harassment complaints. Three percent of sexual harassment complaints by women involve female-to-female harassment. The law does not differentiate between opposite-sex harassment or same-sex harassment. 5. Sexual harassment means bothering someone in a sexual way. True: Reinforce the common everyday definition given of sexual harassment. 6. Quid Pro Quo involves granting an employment benefit in exchange for sexual favors or making sex a condition of one’s employment. True: Reinforce the legal definition of Quid Pro Quo. 7. Teasing and flirting are no big deal. They make work more fun. False: Reinforce the fact that sexual harassment is defined by the victim, not the harasser. What may be teasing to one person may be sexual harassment to another. It is wise to keep teasing and flirting out of the workplace setting. Sexual Harassment Myths or Facts? ANSWER KEY 8. Most females enjoy getting sexual attention at work. False: Most women are angry, annoyed; and embarrassed by sexual attention at work. They report feeling put down and negated when their sexually is noticed instead of their character, skills, or professional attributes. 9. Women/men who work in nontraditional jobs are more likely to be sexually harassed. True: Women in nontraditional jobs (those that are usually held by men) ten to be victims of sexual harassment more often then women in traditional jobs. Possible reasons may be 1) power issues and 2) greater vulnerability because of minority status. It is also true that men in nontraditional jobs may experience more sexual harassment. 10. Sexual harassment is behavior that is not only unwelcome, but in most cases repeated. True: Again, reinforce the common definition. 11. A “hostile environment” is one where conduct of sexual nature (visual, verbal, or physical) is so often repeated tat it unreasonably interferes with an employee’s work performance or creates an intimidating, hostile or offensive working environment. True: Again, reinforce the legal definition. 12. If the recipient doesn’t like the sexual attention, but the person speaking or acting means it only as flirting or joking, then it is not sexual harassment. False: If a person perceives sexual attention as sexual harassment, then it is sexual harassment, remember that the law is concerned with the IMPACT of the behavior, not the intent behind it. Sometimes the intent is genuinely innocent, and a behavior is misunderstood as harassment. In most of these cases, the behavior stops when the victim explains how he/she feels about it. 13. The goal of sexual harassment is not sexual pleasure, but gaining power over another. True: Reinforce the common definition of sexual harassment and the issue of power being the motive behind sexual harassment, rather then sexual pleasure.