Dear Family Campers, We look forward to having you and your child(ren) participate in Camp Phoenix, Saturday, May 2 from 8:30am to 5:00 pm. This will be a fun and worthwhile experience for your family. For each family member attending, please complete the enclosed forms (Registration Forms and Medical History) and return it by April 24, 2009. We must have all of these forms completely filled out for your family to attend camp. A $10.00 deposit is required to assure your reservation and should be sent in with these forms. The deposit will be refunded to you when your family arrives at camp. A list of what your family should and should not bring to camp is also enclosed. Please bring pictures of your loved one to share during grief activities. On Saturday, May 2, please plan to arrive at Karyae Park (which is where Camp Phoenix is held) by 8:30 p.m. Directions are enclosed for your convenience. This is a family event, so plan to attend with your child. The camp will end at 5:00 pm. Please call the New Hope Counseling Center at (704) 861-8405 or email me if you have any questions or need further information. Sincerely, Adrian Thornburg, MA, LPC Camp Phoenix Coordinator thornbua@gmh.org CAMP PHOENIX CHILD REGISTRATION Camper’s Name: _________________________________________________________ Date of Birth: ______________ Age: __________ T-shirt Size ___________________ School: ___________________________________ Grade: ______________________ Referred by: Self, TV, Hospice Flyer, School Counselor, other_____________________ PARENT INFORMATION *The participation of at least one parent or legal guardian at camp is required. Parent/Guardian: _________________________________________________________ Address: ________________________________________________________________ Home Phone: ____________________ Cell: ____________________ Do both parents live in the home? Yes Work Phone: ________________________ Email: ___________________________ No If not, please provide the following contact information: Parent/Guardian Name: ____________________________________________________ Mailing Address: _________________________________________________________ Home Phone: ____________________ Work Phone: ________________________ Cell: ____________________ Email: ________________________ Name & Relationship of deceased person to child _____________________________ Was deceased a Gaston Hospice patient? Yes No Give name: ___________________ Did camper live with the deceased? Yes No Date of death: ___________________ Age at death: ____________________________ Type of Death: ( )Accident ( )Long term illness ( )Short term illness ( )Traumatic (Murder/Suicide) Was camper present at death: Yes No Since the Death, what changes have you seen? (Check items) () School Problems () Nightmares () Friends (fighting/withdrawal) () Increase in fears () Expresses desire to die/kill self () Emotional struggles (crying/confusion/guilt/bedwetting) () Physical Symptoms (sleeping more/less, appetite, physical complaints) () none () Other symptoms __________________________________________________ List other current stressors or significant losses for the child over the last 2 years (ex: Divorce, loss of a pet, move, etc.) ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ Has your child/teen been in any support groups or counseling? _________ If yes, please explain: ________________________________________________________________________ Additional Information, Interests or Special Abilities: _______________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________ I grant permission for photographs/slide show, written evaluation comments, or interviews with my child to be used for educational purposes and/or to promote future camps. I release Gaston Hospice and the Gaston County YMCA and its affiliates from any claim or liability for that use. Yes No ________________________ Parent/Guardian Signature ________ Date ________________________ Parent/Guardian Signature _________ Date Children’s Medical Information MEDICAL INFORMATION Primary Care Phyisican: ________________________________________________ Phone number: _________________________________________________________ List any physical or mental concerns your child may have. ________________________ Are there any activities that should be restricted? ________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ List any allergies that we should know about (ex: Food, Hay Fever, Insect Stings, Medications, Asthma, Latex, etc.): Date of last immunizations: ______________________ Tetanus: __________________ AUTHORIZATION FOR TREATMENT: I hereby give permission to camp personnel to release medical history information, to contact the primary care physician, and/or to provide or arrange related transportation for my child in case of emergency to the nearest medical facility. In the event I am unable to give permission or be reached in an emergency, I hereby give permission to camp personnel to secure and administer treatment, including hospitalization for my child. I understand that no accident or medical insurance is provided and agree that I will be financially responsible for medical treatment received. Signature of Parent or Guardian__________________________________________ Date __________________________________________________________________ I give my permission for my child, __________________________, to participate in the team building and ropes course activities as provided by the staff of the YMCA of Gaston County while attending Camp Phoenix at Karyea Park YMCA Outdoor Facility. YES NO I understand that the New Hope Counseling Center for Grief and Loss, Gaston Hospice, Inc., Caromont Health, Camp Phoenix, Gaston YMCA, camp staff/volunteers will not be held liable in case of personal accident and/or injury, illness, or property loss or damage. Parent/Guardian Signature _____________________________ Date ____________ Informed Consent for Camp Phoenix Gaston Hospice *The goal for children attending Camp Phoenix is to leave with a better understanding of what grief is and how to use their personal coping skills. *Camp Phoenix is a structured environment that will assist with grieving emotions that present themselves in children when a close family member dies. Although there will be fun, games, and music at the camp, there will also be counseling groups structured for campers to explore their own personal emotions and the grieving process. Most people chose counseling with hopes of feeling better. However, as with any powerful intervention, there are both benefits and risks associated with counseling. Risks might include experiencing uncomfortable feelings like sadness, anxiety, anger, guilt, or frustration. It is not uncommon for children/adolescents/adults to report feeling worse after the first few sessions. It is our goal to support the entire family as they sort through these feelings and guide them toward more self-direction in their life (an identified benefit of counseling). *Client information is confidential in regards to other agencies or persons. However, North Carolina state law requires exceptions to this rule in the case of: a) suspected child abuse, b) suspected elder abuse, c) suspected domestic violence, d) stated intention to injure another person, e) imminent danger of harming oneself, f) subpoena from a court of law. In these situations, the appropriate agency or persons will be notified. Symptoms to Look for After Camp Sleep disturbances Fatigue (related to grief work) Headaches Anger Dreams Stomachaches Fear Preoccupation Withdrawal Relief Confusion Anxiety Sadness Verbal attacks Crying Extreme Quietness Nightmares What to Do? Continue with open communication with child. Let the child know that you are prepared to talk with them when they are ready. Don’t force the child to talk before he/she is ready. Call the counselors at Gaston Hospice with any concerns. We are available to any child or family who attends camp by calling 704-861-8405. I have read the above and understand the goals, benefits, and risks of Camp Phoenix. ______________________________ __________________________ Parent Signature Date ______________________________ __________________________ Witness Signature Date Parent Copy Informed Consent for Camp Phoenix Gaston Hospice *The goal for children attending Camp Phoenix is to leave with a better understanding of what grief is and how to use their personal coping skills. *Camp Phoenix is a structured environment that will assist with grieving emotions that present themselves in children when a close family member dies. Although there will be fun, games, and music at the camp, there will also be counseling groups structured for campers to explore their own personal emotions and the grieving process. Most people chose counseling with hopes of feeling better. However, as with any powerful intervention, there are both benefits and risks associated with counseling. Risks might include experiencing uncomfortable feelings like sadness, anxiety, anger, guilt, or frustration. It is not uncommon for children/adolescents/adults to report feeling worse after the first few sessions. It is our goal to support the entire family as they sort through these feelings and guide them toward more self-direction in their life (an identified benefit of counseling). *Client information is confidential in regards to other agencies or persons. However, North Carolina state law requires exceptions to this rule in the case of: a) suspected child abuse, b) suspected elder abuse, c) suspected domestic violence, d) stated intention to injure another person, e) imminent danger of harming oneself, f) subpoena from a court of law. In these situations, the appropriate agency or persons will be notified. Symptoms to Look for After Camp Sleep disturbances Fatigue (related to grief work) Headaches Anger Dreams Stomachaches Fear Preoccupation Withdrawal Relief Confusion Anxiety Sadness Verbal attacks Crying Extreme Quietness Nightmares What to Do? Continue with open communication with child. Let the child know that you are prepared to talk with them when they are ready. Don’t force the child to talk before he/she is ready. Call the counselors at Gaston Hospice with any concerns. We are available to any child or family who attends camp by calling 704-861-8405. Camp Phoenix Adult Registration Name: _______________________________________________________________ T-shirt Size: _________________ Address: _______________________________City/State_____________Zip_______ Home Phone: __________________________Work Phone: _____________________ Email: _________________________________ Name and Relationship of deceased loved one: __________________________________________________________________ If spouse, please circle: Married Separated Divorced Other significant losses in your life: _____________________________________ Changes I have seen in myself since the death: 1) 2) 3) 4) Who is a part of your current support system? _____________________________ Are you currently involved in a grief support program? YES NO If yes, name of program and where it is held: ______________________________ What do you expect to get from this camp experience? ______________________ My greatest concern is _____________________________________________________ Permission I grant permission for photographs/slide show written evaluation comments, or interviews of me to be used for educational purposes and/or promote future camps. Furthermore, I release the Gaston Hospice and the Gaston County YMCA from any claim or liability for that use. __________________________________ Signature ______________________________ Date Adult Medical Information Camp Phoenix Name: ________________________________________________________________ First Last DOB: ________________ Age: _____________ List any physical concerns you may have. ________________________ Are there any activities that should be restricted? ________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ Any health problems, allergies, medications: ________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________ IN CASE OF EMERGENCY, THE CAMP SHOULD NOTIFY Name: ________________________ Phone: _____________________________ Relationship: _________________________________________________ Secondary party to notify in case we cannot reach the person listed above: Name: ________________________ Phone: _____________________________ Relationship: _________________________________________________ Primary Physician: __________________________ Phone: __________________ Name of Practice: ___________________________________________________ AUTHORIZATION FOR TREATMENT: I hereby give permission to the camp medical personnel to release medical history information, to contact the primary care physician, and/or to provide or arrange related transportation in case of emergency to the nearest medical facility. I hereby give permission to the camp medical personnel to secure and administer treatment, including hospitalization for me. I understand that no accident or medical insurance is provided and agree that I will be financially responsible for medical treatment received. Signature __________________________________________ Date ____________ Camp Phoenix Directions to Karyea Park YMCA Outdoor Family Center Gastonia, NC Location: 4227 South Linwood Rd., Gastonia, NC 28052. From Downtown Gastonia, take Franklin Blvd-US 74 to South Linwood Road approximately 5 miles. The Outdoor Center will be on your left before Camp Rotary Road. You can MapQuest this at www.google.com using your home address. What to Bring to Camp Tennis Shoes must be worn at camp at all times. (You may want to bring an extra pair) Dress for the weather/Rain Gear Pictures of deceased love one for a project that can be cut, taped or glued Camera (optional) Picnic Basket of food to feed your family for Lunch DO NOT BRING RADIOS, CD PLAYERS, HAND HELD VIDEO GAMES, CELL PHONES, SANDALS OR FLIPFLOPS